Poll of the Day > my wife wants an open relationship... sort of...

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SoftClock
01/17/21 12:47:47 AM
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she wants to open up on her side only tho, she said she is not fulfilled enough and needs more and that we can either try this or it's divorce....

i don't really want to do this... but i don't want a divorce... guess anything's worth a try once...

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HornedLion
01/17/21 12:48:53 AM
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Uh... idk you... but you deserve better than this.

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LuciferSage
01/17/21 12:50:56 AM
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is your wife hot?

just asking for...reasons.

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Kanatteru
01/17/21 12:51:16 AM
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it's not open if it's not open for you. i know it sucks but i think it's time to let this one go

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Greenfox111
01/17/21 12:53:07 AM
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its not all bad man, my wife's boyfriend bought me a new gaming PC for christmas

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IronBornCorps
01/17/21 12:58:21 AM
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I'm in an open relationship. I'm asexual and my partner isn't. It was hard sometimes watching him go out on so many dates(pre-covid)

Then I realized we still spend time together and other things. I just felt less pressured to live up to my partners sexual expectations.

It's not for everyone though, and I think you should find the terms agreeable.
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OhhhJa
01/17/21 1:00:13 AM
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I feel like the OP is possibly making this up but never enter into a one sided open relationship lol
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darcandkharg31
01/17/21 1:05:26 AM
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OhhhJa posted...
I feel like the OP is possibly making this up
Like a meme or something

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Mead
01/17/21 1:06:45 AM
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This seems like a true conundrum that a totally real person is facing

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sodium-chloride
01/17/21 1:13:33 AM
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as fake as my 11 inch DONG
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darcandkharg31
01/17/21 1:16:24 AM
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sodium-chloride posted...
as fake as my 11 inch DONG
congratz on the big dong there my dude

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TheOkHornedRat
01/17/21 1:19:24 AM
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The ol' 3 karma cuckold

Yep, that's real

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BlackScythe0
01/17/21 1:25:01 AM
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Ain't a man if you willingly let some other dudes lay down pipe on your wife.
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AWinterJ
01/17/21 1:25:01 AM
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SoftClock posted...
my wife wants

You don't have a wife. This topic is bullshit.

IronBornCorps posted...
I'm in an open relationship.

Shocking.

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jsb0714
01/17/21 1:30:20 AM
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SoftClock posted...
she wants to open up on her side only tho, she said she is not fulfilled enough and needs more and that we can either try this or it's divorce....

i don't really want to do this... but i don't want a divorce... guess anything's worth a try once...
Are you always this easily manipulated?
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argonautweakend
01/17/21 1:31:23 AM
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softcock
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darcandkharg31
01/17/21 1:33:34 AM
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FatalAccident
01/17/21 1:34:11 AM
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lmao who are u dude

this cannot be da real

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IronBornCorps
01/17/21 1:34:26 AM
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AWinterJ posted...
Shocking.

I know right?
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DJquackquack
01/17/21 2:12:51 AM
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Ha! Man Id be hitting up that lawyer so fast itd make her head spin.

Id sooner be single forever than endure that garbage.
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Raddest_Chad
01/17/21 2:15:34 AM
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FatalAccident posted...
lmao who are u dude

this cannot be da real
I kinda agree... it's a new account. Either it's a joke or it's a regular user to embarrassed to reveal their true identity (which would be fair, tbh)

If, miraculously, it's not a joke... dump the cow. she's already moved on and probably just sees this as a "cake and eat too" easy solution. staying with anyone that asks for an open relationship is essentially having your ass wiped with your dignity then being force-fed it. cuck city.
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CloudThunder
01/17/21 2:43:56 AM
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so youd just be open to letting this happen?divorce her and stay out of relationships,youd be doing yourself a huge favor.

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FatalAccident
01/17/21 2:47:37 AM
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Raddest_Chad posted...
or it's a regular user to embarrassed to reveal their true identity (which would be fair, tbh)
yeah thats true man

if thats the case then sorry to hear but I agree you gotta let her go, like wtf.

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Nightwind
01/17/21 2:50:13 AM
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Yha, that's not an "open relationship" that's .... just not right.

Odds are, she's already cheating, get evidence, do the divorce, keep your stuff.

If she wanted to keep the relationship for appearances only and let you both be open, that might be something to keep, course then you have the worry of pregnancy or infection...

Look, it's okay that she's not feeling fufilled and wants to fix that, it's not okay that she says you can't.

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ReggieTheReckless
01/17/21 2:51:37 AM
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fuckkk that

it's over

It sucks and I'm sorry, but it's over

may your divorce proceed smooth and easily

edit: and yeah private detective if you suspect cheating or w/e
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LinkPizza
01/17/21 3:04:46 AM
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SoftClock posted...
she wants to open up on her side only tho, she said she is not fulfilled enough and needs more and that we can either try this or it's divorce....

i don't really want to do this... but i don't want a divorce... guess anything's worth a try once...

Nope. Get the divorce... I personally wouldn't enter an open relationship at all. But I 100% would leave anyone who wants to open only their side. Get the divorce now and save yourself the trouble of getting one later so you can move on faster to someone better...

Nightwind posted...
Look, it's okay that she's not feeling fufilled and wants to fix that, it's not okay that she says you can't.

Especially if she fucks everyone else and gives none to TC...
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CarefreeDude
01/17/21 3:18:00 AM
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Therapy

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Kimbos_Egg
01/17/21 3:51:28 AM
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oh this happened

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Dark_SilverX
01/17/21 4:17:35 AM
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sit in the chair with your Nintendo Switch and watch

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dedbus
01/17/21 10:26:20 AM
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Wives are wont to want. The best you can do is set them straight. Like how are you going to raise kids if you can't get your wife under control.
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SunWuKung420
01/17/21 12:45:42 PM
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TheOkHornedRat posted...
The ol' 3 karma cuckold

Yep, that's real
Said somebody's new troll account.

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Mead
01/17/21 12:48:04 PM
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dedbus posted...
Wives are wont to want. The best you can do is set them straight. Like how are you going to raise kids if you can't get your wife under control.



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JOExHIGASHI
01/17/21 12:55:05 PM
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Cuckolding isn't for everyone

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TheOkHornedRat
01/17/21 1:11:43 PM
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SunWuKung420 posted...
Said somebody's new troll account.

im not a troll account just because i rip on you sunny. half the fucking board does that.

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SunWuKung420
01/17/21 1:46:28 PM
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What account did you use before making your current account?

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TheOkHornedRat
01/17/21 1:58:51 PM
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i mostly lurked, and my "main" has been closed for a long time. so probably not a name that youd recognize.
this is my only active account. im an alt in that i used to go by a different name for years, but i dont anymore.
people will have to just take what i say and do at face value, which will be fine for most people because if they aren't you i generally at least try to get along

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Mead
01/17/21 2:01:15 PM
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TheOkHornedRat posted...
so probably not a name that youd recognize.

No harm in saying it

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SunWuKung420
01/17/21 2:09:31 PM
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https://i.imgur.com/CkABWOL.gifv

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DirtBasedSoap
01/17/21 2:20:18 PM
#39:


Mead posted...
No harm in saying it
onironin

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Final Fantasy2389
01/17/21 2:24:14 PM
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If we're going to assume this is real, I'd get the divorce.

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grimhilde00
01/17/21 2:42:31 PM
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CarefreeDude posted...
Therapy

This and

Kanatteru posted...
it's not open if it's not open for you. i know it sucks but i think it's time to let this one go

this

She gets to fuck around but still wants to control you? No. It's either open on all sides and all sides agree (which already comes with having to tread that territory carefully) or no. If you give it a chance, you might just gradually normalize the shitty behavior and become numb. Or she'll divorce you once she has someone else solid.

You, anyone, deserve better than that.

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SunWuKung420
01/17/21 2:48:06 PM
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Did you ask her what she needs more of to be fulfilled?

@SoftClock

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Revelation34
01/17/21 2:56:48 PM
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TheOkHornedRat posted...
i mostly lurked, and my "main" has been closed for a long time. so probably not a name that youd recognize.
this is my only active account. im an alt in that i used to go by a different name for years, but i dont anymore.
people will have to just take what i say and do at face value, which will be fine for most people because if they aren't you i generally at least try to get along


Ok, Helly.
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TheOkHornedRat
01/17/21 3:06:39 PM
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DirtBasedSoap posted...
onironin

ya got me again

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TheOkHornedRat
01/17/21 3:07:28 PM
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Revelation34 posted...
Ok, Helly.

you got me too

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SunWuKung420
01/17/21 3:13:12 PM
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Probably schmen being bored in New Zealand. Lulz

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TheOkHornedRat
01/17/21 3:14:04 PM
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SunWuKung420 posted...
Probably schmen

shit they got me 3x in one topic

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argonautweakend
01/17/21 3:46:04 PM
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I've never been sure exactly why a lurker would someday out of the blue make a new account to join in on our drama. It isn't that interesting, at least from my perspective of being a regular here. Half the board does rip on Sunny, but that still doesn't explain why a random lurker nobody apparently would remember needs to make an account just to join in on it.

Every new account that gets made and then proceeds to post here is suspect because every time we get a new that account pops up, it's almost never somebody who just wants to post about stuff or be a normal person. It's almost always somebody to join in on the drama. But it just seems weird, even for a lurker, who might be privy to this stuff by way of lurking, to randomly out of the blue make a new account just to post and join in.

Those are my observations on the matter, because it really isn't much different 95% of the time we see an account created within the last few months who proceeds to come here as if they were apart of things the whole time.
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Yellow
01/17/21 3:48:56 PM
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That's either a meme or your wife is an extortionist and a terrible person.

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TheOkHornedRat
01/17/21 4:00:50 PM
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argonautweakend posted...
I've never been sure exactly why a lurker would someday out of the blue make a new account to join in on our drama. It isn't that interesting, at least from my perspective of being a regular here. Half the board does rip on Sunny, but that still doesn't explain why a random lurker nobody apparently would remember needs to make an account just to join in on it.

Every new account that gets made and then proceeds to post here is suspect because every time we get a new that account pops up, it's almost never somebody who just wants to post about stuff or be a normal person. It's almost always somebody to join in on the drama. But it just seems weird, even for a lurker, who might be privy to this stuff by way of lurking, to randomly out of the blue make a new account just to post and join in.

Those are my observations on the matter, because it really isn't much different 95% of the time we see an account created within the last few months who proceeds to come here as if they were apart of things the whole time.

So, answering the 3 main questions I see here:

1. I'm waiting on a new assignment at work. Things are usually slow in the new year till about mid February. I pop in and post for a month or so at the beginning of every year for just that reason (maybe that'll help narrow it down)

2. I didnt say nobody would remember me, just probably not anyone in this topic.

3. Besides ripping on sunny (if you call that drama) I haven't been inserting myself into any drama really... not intentionally anyways.

I dont wanna spoil the mystery of my secret identity. I tell ya what though, im gonna say this: if someone does actually guess who I am I wont hit them with my usual "ya got me" schtick. I'll make it clear that they are correct and congratulate them in a more serious fashion on sleuthing it out.

If nobody has figured it out by the time new assignments come in, I'll expose my identity to you all, you'll be just as disappointed as you would if i exposed my wiener to you

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