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EclairReturns
01/06/21 1:17:06 AM
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colleague is faring better than you, career-wise?

I must have these answers.
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Mead
01/06/21 1:19:00 AM
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I recognize that its an understandable but irrational fear and that in reality someone succeeding usually doesnt mean theres less success out there for everyone else

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FatalAccident
01/06/21 1:26:31 AM
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Bit of a cliche but just do better yourself.

Generally speaking anything is possible, so start with what your own career goals are then work backwards from there. Theres no real magic to it, just figure out where you wanna be and make a realistic and time based plan to get yourself there.

Its almost irrelevant what your colleagues are doing unless youre both vying for the exact same position or something.

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Metalsonic66
01/06/21 1:26:31 AM
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Thought this was gonna be about weiner sizes TBH

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EclairReturns
01/06/21 1:28:53 AM
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FatalAccident posted...
your own career goals


I've never been able to figure what those are. I don't know what to do anymore.
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darcandkharg31
01/06/21 1:30:16 AM
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Stop giving a fuck, all you ever do is worry about how others are doing and what your family thinks of you for not bringing in 6 figures and how you think you should be doing more or some shit.

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EclairReturns
01/06/21 1:34:27 AM
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FatalAccident posted...
exact same position


It was a position that I had once considered as a possibility, but subsequently dismissed after deciding that I was incapable of doing it.
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Raddest_Chad
01/06/21 1:41:05 AM
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I don't know anyone successful that didn't work hard enough to deserve every bit of what they have. When people do better than me because they put in the effort, I applaud their victory.
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Kyuubi4269
01/06/21 2:19:09 AM
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EclairReturns posted...


I've never been able to figure what those are. I don't know what to do anymore.

How can you be inferior to anybody if you're not in the same race? Animals can beat humans in all kinds of contests but you don't see the world's strongest man crying that a Gorilla can outlift him.

Stop caring about stuff you don't care enough about to try to do.
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FatalAccident
01/06/21 2:45:42 AM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
Stop caring about stuff you don't care enough about to try to do.
This is true.

Its easier said than done but honestly if youre not working hard enough to get where you wanna go then you shouldnt feel inferior, its not that youre not good enough. Its just that you havent tried.

EclairReturns posted...
I've never been able to figure what those are. I don't know what to do anymore.
Start off with what you want out of your life, do you want a big house? Go on yearly trips abroad? How much money do you need to get all of that? Do you need to aim for a higher paying job? Can you think of a high paying job that you would enjoy?

Have a think about what you really want out of life and honestly you may very well determine youre just not a career minded person and thats okay too, maybe you dont need a high paying job to get what you want out of life. So long as you can find joy in other things and be fulfilled you can just clock in and out every day, nothing wrong with that. Not everybody can be or has to be a high flyer at work. Just have to work on not feeling inferior about other peoples successes - which I know is hard but definitely doable.

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ReturnOfFa
01/06/21 2:47:38 AM
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Take a power poo in front of them.

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Zeus
01/06/21 3:19:27 AM
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You don't need to feel inferior, you can just be jealous of their success. Unless they are objectively better than you, at which point you should be trying to figure out how to up your game.

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SunWuKung420
01/06/21 7:41:28 AM
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Lead your best life while not measuring yourself against others.

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Kyuubi4269
01/06/21 9:47:11 AM
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SunWuKung420 posted...
Live your best life while not measuring yourself against others.

You are someone who should feel inferior tho
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GastroFan
01/06/21 9:58:21 AM
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It depends on your definition of "success". You can be 'successful' moneywise but not when it comes to things such as family relationships, etc. or vice versa. Success is very much subjective rather than objective.
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EvilMegas
01/06/21 10:10:45 AM
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You really should see a therapist for your multitude of self esteem issues instead of asking PotD.

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Kanatteru
01/06/21 10:20:36 AM
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EvilMegas posted...
You really should see a therapist for your multitude of self esteem issues instead of asking PotD.

he doesnt want help, he just wants to complain. a therapist cant help him with that

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Kanatteru
01/06/21 10:21:35 AM
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like maybe that sounds mean but its a trend for him to make these topics, not respond to most people offering advice, and then close it

this was never about helping

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EvilMegas
01/06/21 10:25:19 AM
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I know it's his thing. But this has been going on for a while. It's super unhealthy.

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darcandkharg31
01/06/21 10:38:32 AM
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EvilMegas posted...
You really should see a therapist for your multitude of self esteem issues instead of asking PotD.
He did see a therapist, he just ignored everything she told him to do

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Fierce_Deity_08
01/06/21 11:03:54 AM
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I have an inferiority complex even without friends and colleagues. I live with my mother, nearly 40, no job, state provided healthcare and food stamps. Should I get wood in today? Maybe I will.

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AWinterJ
01/06/21 12:18:01 PM
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Compare yourself to those who are doing worse in life. If you always compare yourself to those who do better you'll never be happy as someone always will be doing better than you.

darcandkharg31 posted...
Stop giving a fuck, all you ever do is worry about how others are doing and what your family thinks of you for not bringing in 6 figures and how you think you should be doing more or some shit.

This is actually the best advice here. Just be yourself as that's all you can be. You'll be a lot more happy in life knowing it's okay to be you. Not that you'll listen to any of the advice given here.

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TheOkHornedRat
01/06/21 1:42:48 PM
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heres the real shit eclair:

your life is a joke, and you have no desire to change that fact. all you want to do is piss and moan and ask how to improve your situation.

"i must have these answers" you say over and over and over in every fucking topic, and then you proceed to completely ignore any advice you get.

nobody is ever going to fix you except for you and given the way you generally act i wouldn't hold my breath. this is the life you are choosing. enjoy.
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dedbus
01/06/21 3:47:56 PM
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Raddest_Chad posted...
I don't know anyone successful that didn't work hard enough to deserve every bit of what they have. When people do better than me because they put in the effort, I applaud their victory.
This, its a pretty inherent factor in the bro code and to take inspiration to do better yourself.
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blu
01/06/21 4:27:49 PM
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Place less of your self esteem on your career and realize youre a whole person with many complex parts and not just someone who runs the rat race.
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VeeVees
01/06/21 4:28:37 PM
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Just T pose in front of him.

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KogaSteelfang
01/06/21 4:32:11 PM
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If you find out, let me know. Still becoming super envious of most people I see.

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Kyuubi4269
01/06/21 4:33:08 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
If you find out, let me know. Still becoming super envious of most people I see.

Fuck off boyband face, you don't get to be self-conscious
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KogaSteelfang
01/06/21 4:34:01 PM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
Fuck off boyband face, you don't get to be self-conscious
Yikes. Sorry.

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EvilMegas
01/06/21 4:34:36 PM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
Fuck off boyband face, you don't get to be self-conscious
Lol getting mad because he's more attractive than you.

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Kyuubi4269
01/06/21 4:38:17 PM
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EvilMegas posted...

Lol getting mad because he's more attractive than you.

I'm mad because he's more attractive than you too.
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AWinterJ
01/06/21 4:39:14 PM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
Fuck off boyband face, you don't get to be self-conscious
Yes Koga is a very attractive man. I'm sorry you feel you're not.

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EvilMegas
01/06/21 4:40:51 PM
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Kyuubi4269 posted...
I'm mad because he's more attractive than you too.
Even if it were true, so? Lmao

You're a sad dude.

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KogaSteelfang
01/06/21 4:41:15 PM
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Just forget I ever posted, ok? I just wanted to make a passing comment. >_>

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EvilMegas
01/06/21 4:41:49 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
Just forget I ever posted, ok? I just wanted to make a passing comment. >_>
You're such a downer lol

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AWinterJ
01/06/21 4:41:55 PM
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EvilMegas posted...
Even if it were true, so? Lmao

You're a sad dude.
This is a very bizarre reason to get mad.

KogaSteelfang posted...
Just forget I ever posted, ok? I just wanted to make a passing comment. >_>

You're a good person. Don't be sorry for being attractive.

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TheOkHornedRat
01/06/21 4:43:56 PM
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Why're all ov th bri'-ish posters so angry n' an'agonistic all th 'oime?

fuckin crazy innit.
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AWinterJ
01/06/21 4:46:25 PM
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TheOkHornedRat posted...
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Who are you? I feel you need to relax and know we can all love each other.

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TheOkHornedRat
01/06/21 4:48:47 PM
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AWinterJ posted...
Who are you? I feel you need to relax and know we can all love each other.

wut ar' ya on about now mate?

you takin' the piss?
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AWinterJ
01/06/21 4:56:59 PM
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...the past gives you an identity and the future holds the promise of salvation, of fulfillment in whaterver form. Both are illusions.

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TheOkHornedRat
01/06/21 5:07:11 PM
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oi this blokes troyin' ta get well lairy wiv me

lissen here oive 'ad about as much as oi can take ov ya goddamn geezers. Oim gettin well knackered wiv ya bruv so ya best chill ya beans afore ya git oll barney.

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Judgmenl
01/06/21 5:07:32 PM
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You don't haha.

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AWinterJ
01/06/21 5:11:54 PM
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I feel @TheOkHornedRat need to open their mind.

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TheOkHornedRat
01/06/21 5:15:50 PM
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this blokes avin' a laff
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AWinterJ
01/06/21 5:17:29 PM
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A American imitating the British is always amusing. You've gave your game away. Thank you my friend.

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TheOkHornedRat
01/06/21 5:19:11 PM
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Oi, toss off, geezer
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Kyuubi4269
01/06/21 11:10:48 PM
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Lmao the correct term is "fuck". Oi fuck off, wanker.
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TheOkHornedRat
01/07/21 12:26:00 AM
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lissen here

yer in barney now.

ya daft tossers is tryin ta get me oll boverd

now get your poncy slappers in the boot of your lorries or im gonna batter ya

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AWinterJ
01/07/21 12:56:19 AM
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"yer in barney now."

Barney the dinosaur? Hey man I don't judge your kinks.

"now get your poncy slappers in the boot of your lorries"

Flippin eck.

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FatalAccident
01/07/21 12:57:58 AM
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winter and this mf going back and forth for 12 hrs straight really need to get a life

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