Current Events > Being single isnt so bad.

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I see a lot of people complaining about being single and wanting a girlfriend and being mad at girls for having all of these guys chasing them...

but really, it's not that big of a deal. Sex isn't that great and when you're in a relationship with a girl, she only gives it to you on her terms. Some girls think that they are cool because they have 100 guy friends, but that just means they are not only immature, but also pretty insecure. They are still in that high school mentality and have low self esteem and that's the only way they have to improve it. Also, I've noticed a lot of them are on drugs, which means a lot of them have issues. Funny thing is, they think that their guy friends actually care about them which very few of them actually do.

Some guys are like, "oh i love showing off my girflriend" after they get a hot one, but when I hear that it reminds me of an iceberg -- you see him with the hot girl, but what you don't see is all the guys he is competing with. And even if there isn't that, there is all of the arguing and fighting and her constantly complaining and trying to pick fights with you and put you down because she has nothing better to do.

But being single isn't so bad. It's no drama, you can do what you want, go where you want, talk to whoever you want, play video games all day and night if you want. Not a big deal. I used to be one of those guys that just wanted to have sex with girls and go on dates --- but now that I've done all that, I think playing video games is more entertaining. Just my two cents.

But you need a relationship to actually experience this and I feel like a lot of guys would prefer to be chained in to a relationship than be alone lol

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JBaLLEN66 posted...

But you need a relationship to actually experience this and I feel like a lot of guys would prefer to be chained in to a relationship than be alone lol

Yeah, I hear ya. I think most guys just are curious to know what it's like. But once you get it out of your system, it's really not that big of a deal. Honestly, just get all the pussy you can.

I've noticed that on those dating sites, if you act like you really don't care either way, girls are attracted to that.

Rypt posted...

I think playing video games is more entertaining

Or counter point: find you someone who also likes video games
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sktgamer_13dude posted...

Or counter point: find you someone who also likes video games

Lol no such thing. Most gamer girls only act like they are into games because they know they can get attention easily that way.

People get so bitter and broken after a relationship. I don't ever want to experience that.

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Rypt posted...

Yeah, I hear ya. I think most guys just are curious to know what it's like. But once you get it out of your system, it's really not that big of a deal. Honestly, just get all the pussy you can.

Exactly, it's not all that's hyped up to be and like you said when you see other couples you aren't seeing all the bull **** going on in the background. My ex would always host parties and the guests didn't know that we had been fighting previously and hadn't talked all day lol. Before my friend broke up with his ex, he had moved in with her and eventually he decided he couldn't take it anymore and left. I asked him why and he basically told me all of the bull **** he was going thru living there and I was like dang man.

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Veggeta X posted...

People get so bitter and broken after a relationship. I don't ever want to experience that.

That's only after you break up with whoever it is you lost your virginity to.

ImAMarvel posted...

I know you're objectively right but I want to be in a relationship so I can know what it feels like and also so I can get laid. >_>

how old are you, if you dont mind me asking

Rypt posted...

Yeah, I hear ya. I think most guys just are curious to know what it's like.

Yes, absolutely. We want to know what it's like to be able to find a partner, be loved, and have some intimacy.

Rypt posted...

But once you get it out of your system, it's really not that big of a deal.

This implies that it is a big deal until you get it out of the system. Which is exactly what it feels like. Like a massive and important part of life is not accessable by you.

Rypt posted...

Honestly, just get all the pussy you can.

Uh huh, such an easy task for someone who can't attract someone...

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JBaLLEN66 posted...

Exactly, it's not all that's hyped up to be and like you said when you see other couples you aren't seeing all the bull **** going on in the background. My ex would always host parties and the guests didn't know that we had been fighting previously and hadn't talked all day lol. Before my friend broke up with his ex, he had moved in with her and eventually he decided he couldn't take it anymore and left. I asked him why and he basically told me all of the bull **** he was going thru living there and I was like dang man.

Lol yeah definitely date for a few months, at least, before you move in. You gotta know what you are getting yourself into.

ImAMarvel posted...

I know you're objectively right but I want to be in a relationship so I can know what it feels like and also so I can get laid. >_>

eventually she uses sex as a tool of manipulation against you. For example, she will have all dang day to have sex and she will wait til the most inconvenient time to initiate,(when you are about to leave or in the middle of the night when you have work at 8am). You decline it and here comes the passive aggression wars.

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KogaSteelfang posted...

Yes, absolutely. We want to know what it's like to be able to find a partner, be loved, and have some intimacy.

This implies that it is a big deal until you get it out of the system. Which is exactly what it feels like. Like a massive and important part of life is not accessable by you.

Uh huh, such an easy task for someone who can't attract someone...

Eh, you're taking it too seriously. I will tell you this, sex isn't like in the porn movies. I can go into detail if someone wants to know.

Rypt posted...

Lol no such thing. Most gamer girls only act like they are into games because they know they can get attention easily that way.

I mean, two of my coworkers are both girls and both actually legitimate game.

Im starting to think this is an incel topic.
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Rypt posted...

Lol yeah definitely date for a few months, at least, before you move in. You gotta know what you are getting yourself into.

they were dating for 2 years before moving in lol

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JBaLLEN66 posted...

eventually she uses sex as a tool of manipulation against you. For example, she will have all dang day to have sex and she will wait til the most inconvenient time to initiate,(when you are about to leave or in the middle of the night when you have work at 8am). You decline it and here comes the passive aggression wars.

Lol yeah, and if you try to initiate it, she says you aren't being romantic or that she's too tired.

JBaLLEN66 posted...

they were dating for 2 years before moving in lol

Well then that's his fault, he should have known

sktgamer_13dude posted...

I mean, two of my coworkers are both girls and both actually legitimate game.

Im starting to think this is an incel topic.

how old are they

Age doesnt matter lmao

Ones been in a long term relationship for like 5-6 years too.

Again, Im starting to think this is an incel topic.
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ImAMarvel posted...

Not relevant, but I'm 27.

Damn dude, I feel for you. Have you ever thought about joining the military? That's the easy way to get laid. One of the few positive reasons to join. Or just try the dating sites, but act like you don't care on your profile.

sktgamer_13dude posted...

Age doesnt matter lmao

Ones been in a long term relationship for like 5-6 years too.

Again, Im starting to think this is an incel topic.

If she's 25 or under I can believe she is into games. After that age though, they start wanting attention and quality time.

Rypt posted...

Well then that's his fault, he should have known

yeah, but sometimes we just make dumb decisions for the you know what. I knew moving in with my ex would have been a terrible idea and thank god I never did, but those good nights after good sex I was like maybe it won't be a bad idea after all.

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sktgamer_13dude posted...

Age doesnt matter lmao

Ones been in a long term relationship for like 5-6 years too.

Again, Im starting to think this is an incel topic.

incels have never been in relationships

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JBaLLEN66 posted...

yeah, but sometimes we just make dumb decisions for the you know what. I knew moving in with my ex would have been a terrible idea and thank god I never did, but those good nights after good sex I was like maybe it won't be a bad idea after all.

was she hot at least

Rypt posted...

Eh, you're taking it too seriously. I will tell you this, sex isn't like in the porn movies. I can go into detail if someone wants to know.

I don't expect it to be. I fully expect it to be underwhelming and one of those "this is what the fuss was about?" type moment.

The issue is all the stuff leading up to that. The emotional turmoil of continually being unwanted. Knowing you don't have a chance, and that it means you're not good enough and feeling like less of a man. When you just want to know that someone might want to be with you... yet there's no one.

I think there's a difference between 'single' and 'alone'. I think we may be discussing different but similar points.

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You can blame societal norms for that. The single lifestyle, at least for man isnt nearly as advertised or praised as it is for woman. So alot of guys generally feel pressured to seek out companionship just to fit in. Rather then become happy.

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Rypt posted...

was she hot at least

looked liked princess jasmine

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Rypt posted...

Lol no such thing.

You say this. But then you say...

Rypt posted...

Most gamer girls

...something that completely contradicts the preceding sentence.

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KogaSteelfang posted...

I don't expect it to be. I fully expect it to be underwhelming and one of those "this is what the fuss was about?" type moment.

The issue is all the stuff leading up to that. The emotional turmoil of continually being unwanted. Knowing you don't have a chance, and that it means you're not good enough and feeling like less of a man. When you just want to know that someone might want to be with you... yet there's no one.

I think there's a difference between 'single' and 'alone'. I think we may be discussing different but similar points.

idk what you look like, but if you are just an average normal dude, don't let a woman's validation base your value.

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KogaSteelfang posted...

I don't expect it to be. I fully expect it to be underwhelming and one of those "this is what the fuss was about?" type moment.

The issue is all the stuff leading up to that. The emotional turmoil of continually being unwanted. Knowing you don't have a chance, and that it means you're not good enough and feeling like less of a man. When you just want to know that someone might want to be with you... yet there's no one.

I think there's a difference between 'single' and 'alone'. I think we may be discussing different but similar points.

don't build it up too much man. crack heads and people at bars fuck each other all the time after just meeting. there are a lot of low lifes, some of which are women. they aren't worth stressing over.

Shadowplay posted...

You say this. But then you say...

...something that completely contradicts the preceding sentence.

you didnt tell me their age

JBaLLEN66 posted...

looked liked princess jasmine

lol i would move in with someone who looks like that. sounds interesting.

The best part of being single settles in during the holidays. Especially Valentine's, Thanksgiving, Xmas and New Years.

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Prismsblade posted...

You can blame societal norms for that. The single lifestyle, at least for man isnt nearly as advertised or praised as it is for woman. So alot of guys generally feel pressured to seek out companionship just to fit in. Rather then become happy.

yeah they put the pussy on a pedestal

Rypt posted...

If she's 25 or under I can believe she is into games. After that age though, they start wanting attention and quality time.

Yeah this is an incel topic.
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JBaLLEN66 posted...

idk what you look like, but if you are just an average normal dude, don't let a woman's validation base your value.

I tend to get compliments on how I look. I personally don't agree, but I've accepted that my opinion isn't the important one in this particular matter so I've tried to stop stressing over it.

I do have issues though, ones that reach beyond this discussion. They're rooted in being physically and mentally abused my whole life. I've never felt like I was good enough. This has just become one huge sore spot for me over the years as everyone says I shouldn't have any issues attracting someone... Yet here I am, 37 years old, alone and dateless, year after year. It's extremely frustrating.

Rypt posted...

don't build it up too much man. crack heads and people at bars fuck each other all the time after just meeting. there are a lot of low lifes, some of which are women. they aren't worth stressing over.

Eh, I wouldn't be interested in anything like that. I just want to be wanted.

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As someone who has been single my entire life, it gets old.

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join some dating sites and talk to girls and see what i mean. some of them are worth talking to... others, not so much

working at grocery stores can be good too, lots of ass there

KogaSteelfang posted...

I tend to get compliments on how I look. I personally don't agree, but I've accepted that my opinion isn't the important one in this particular matter so I've tried to stop stressing over it.

I do have issues though, ones that reach beyond this discussion. They're rooted in being physically and mentally abused my whole life. I've never felt like I was good enough. This has just become one huge sore spot for me over the years as everyone says I shouldn't have any issues attracting someone... Yet here I am, 37 years old, alone and dateless, year after year. It's extremely frustrating.

Eh, I wouldn't be interested in anything like that. I just want to be wanted.

then it's time to be honest with yourself. Why are girls rejecting you? What are your finances? What is your living situation? Would you date yourself willingly? Even an average guy can get a date if he doesn't act weird lol.

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JBaLLEN66 posted...

then it's time to be honest with yourself. Why are girls rejecting you? What are your finances? What is your living situation? Would you date yourself willingly?

I already know I'm not worth being with. I just don't understand how *everyone* knows, even before getting to know me.

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DuranOfForcena posted...

you didn't immediately get that from the OP being basically "girls aren't all they're cracked up to be because they are all drug addicted manipulative beta orbitees with low self esteem"? because i did.

Oh, OP screamed incel. Everything OP continues to post confirms it.
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KogaSteelfang posted...

I already know I'm not worth being with.

Why not?

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JBaLLEN66 posted...

then it's time to be honest with yourself. Why are girls rejecting you? What are your finances? What is your living situation? Would you date yourself willingly? Even an average guy can get a date if he doesn't act weird lol.

actually, you dont need any of that. sad but true, girls will still date guys with no job. just fucking talk to them.