Poll of the Day > I just got dumped by my gf of 3 ywars

(+) Yeah! (+)

sorry yo. sucks.

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Aculo posted...

did your fake divorce ever go through? did she take all the fake kids and the fake house?

Her and her big fake lesbian boss took me for all I was fake worth.

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DirtBasedSoap posted...

yeah its weird. I interpreted everything wrong because I was having anxiety attack after anxiety attack once she told me, but its a break. I am entirely codependent on her, its like my entire identity is wrapped into the relationship. Ive always attached myself to someone else and made my happiness connected to them. I feel like my brain is wired so badly

so you're on a break then.

good luck with your internal battles

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DirtBasedSoap posted...

my life was a depressing shit hole before I met her and now Im back to where I was 3 years ago

protip: she didn't cure your depression. You need to work on yourself before giving yourself to someone. Probably mentioned already, but I am only skimming

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Noop_Noop posted...

Her and her big fake lesbian boss took me for all I was fake worth.

That's fake awful, ok?

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these fucking anxiety attacks

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DirtBasedSoap posted...

these fucking anxiety attacks

Christ, man up.

lol

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at this point man, yeah. reel it in a bit. it's a break/breakup (not really sure which), not fucking cancer. everybody goes through this. everybody. it's ok to be upset and sad, but fucking take it down a notch with the melodrama, ok?

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no need to be an ass. everyone handles things differently. I dont want to be like this yet here I am.

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DirtBasedSoap posted...

no need to be an ass. everyone handles things differently. I dont want to be like this yet here I am.

i know, but get a grip man. your situation isn't special. feel sad, feel bad, that's natural. but these teenage melodrama spats are really unnecessary. you're doing yourself no good, ok?

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?? When did i say my situation is special? I have generalized anxiety disorder so Im legit having anxiety attacks. Im sorry you think mental health issues are teenage melodrama spats

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DirtBasedSoap posted...

?? When did i say my situation is special? I have generalized anxiety disorder so Im legit having anxiety attacks. Im sorry you think mental health issues are teenage melodrama spats

Yeah I'm sorry people are saying that.

Can't say I'm surprised unfortunately, I've experienced my fair share of people absolutely not taking mental health issues seriously.

I know it doesn't mean anything, but I know that anxiety sucks ass and I'm hoping these attacks pass sooner rather than later.

ChaosAzeroth posted...

I'm hoping these attacks pass sooner rather than later.

no dude just get a grip durr

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DirtBasedSoap posted...

?? When did i say my situation is special?

you didn't directly, but the way you're acting is making it seem like no one else could possibly understand, when literally everyone here can, ok?

i went through it when i was 19, and again when i was 23. i'm clinically diagnosed with depression, and yet here i am with a wife of 11 years, ok?

i understand you're in pain, but fucking get a grip and deal with it. you will find no releif in these tantrums you're throwing, ok?

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yeah dude youre just trying to troll. Blocked

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DirtBasedSoap posted...

no dude just get a grip durr

I was sending well wishes but okay man.

I'm out.

ChaosAzeroth posted...

I was sending well wishes but okay man.

I'm out.

I was joking >_>

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DirtBasedSoap posted...

I was joking >_>

Sorry my dude I thought you were doing the whole lashing out while in a dark place thing.

I'm tired and I'm slow and it has just not been a good week for either of us I'm afraid.

My apologies.

Noop_Noop posted...

Same thing happened during my fake divorce topics so much so that it actually ended up effecting narrative plans I had.

Those were some of the best fake topics ever.

Also Ziggi is right, TC. No need to keep bumping a nearly 5 day old topic just looking for pity and sympathy. Maybe you should be focusing on fixing yourself instead of wasting time here, ok?

You sure like to play the victim card a lot.

You guys are both insecure and unwilling to dive outside your comfort zones because you're both afraid to confront your Self.

And you'll hate me for pointing that out because the ego hates being wrong.

But dude honestly you shit talk all the time on this board, maybe the truth is you judge others so hard because you judge yourself so hard.

You made fun of me for smoking all the time and then bragged about eating edibles a couple of weeks ago with this same girl and now you're wallowing.

Sending positive vibes your way, brah. I know I'm not your favorite poster, but when you learn to let go, truth is you just learn to want to love and help everyone.

If that's not you right now, you're not there yet. You don't need help, you have to build confidence to get past the state of victimhood. (Like not having your driver's license yet.)

You're experiencing a confidence wake-up call.

I believe in you.

Jonesville posted...

Those were some of the best fake topics ever.

Also Ziggi is right, TC. No need to keep bumping a nearly 5 day old topic just looking for pity and sympathy. Maybe you should be focusing on fixing yourself instead of wasting time here, ok?

that was during one of the last golden ages on potd where the mass alt hysteria and fresh princephobia hadn't fully taken hold yet and the board was better than it has ever been since.

people used to tell stories here. good and entertaining stories. now its all 90% shitposts and the other 10% is political.

the magic is gone. i take my part of the blame for killing it, but man, those were good times.

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Jonesville posted...

Those were some of the best fake topics ever.

Seriously one of the most entertaining things that happened here. PotD around 2012 was awesome. PotD around 2007 was awesome. Ziggi is awesome.

It's kinda lame now, less long-running topics, drama, less knowing each other, a ton of inside jokes...hey when was even the last account suicide that even happened around here?

Lokarin posted...

it's rough being in a 112 year relationship

Did you read that as "gf or 3 wars" too?

LaggnFragnLarry posted...

ill hook you up with some tinder babes

Ah yes, nothing better to wash down that dumping than a nice round of VD!

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Noop_Noop posted...

that was during one of the last golden ages on potd where the mass alt hysteria and fresh princephobia hadn't fully taken hold yet and the board was better than it has ever been since.

people used to tell stories here. good and entertaining stories. now its all 90% shitposts and the other 10% is political.

the magic is gone. i take my part of the blame for killing it, but man, those were good times.

Absolutely agree. I want to say the last 5 years have been a pretty steady decline. I definitely havent helped make it any better recently but will always remember some of those good years.

kinda funny how you told me I needed to be medicated, yet here we are

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I am medicated. Takes one to know one.

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lol

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omg I cant even imagine living in 2020 without being medicated

sounds like an absolute nightmare

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Mead posted...

omg I cant even imagine living in 2020 without being medicated

sounds like an absolute nightmare

right?

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lexapro is legit bro

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_AdjI_ posted...

Without context, I feel like "better" can pretty comfortably be interpreted as "more good." Genocide and dictatorship generally being considered to be bad, it therefore seems reasonable to me to presume that "better" would means less genocidal/dictatorial. Some clarification would be reasonable, but clarification is at odds with making mildly witty one-liners, so I feel justified in leaving it out.

But what if it could be construed as an encouragement to be more good at those bad things?!


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Mead posted...

omg I cant even imagine living in 2020 without being medicated

sounds like an absolute nightmare

Does herbal medication count?

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I cannot sleep or eat anymore.

ive lost 7lbs in 6 days

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Metalsonic66 posted...

Does herbal medication count?

yes

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DirtBasedSoap posted...

I cannot sleep or eat anymore.

ive lost 7lbs in 6 days

Why don't you stfu and take solid advice from the people who you're crying to for attention JFC

RedPixel posted...

You sure like to play the victim card a lot.

You guys are both insecure and unwilling to dive outside your comfort zones because you're both afraid to confront your Self.

And you'll hate me for pointing that out because the ego hates being wrong.

Sooner you confront it, sooner you'll feel better.

Or you can continue bitching and throwing pity parties and get nowhere.

https://youtu.be/u4cSt80Ovxw

Im fucking venting dude holy shit

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DirtBasedSoap posted...

Im fucking venting dude holy shit

Venting has only been shown to make people feel more comfortable venting on people, it doesn't actually help. Either take the advice you're given or just keep it to yourself.
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DirtBasedSoap posted...

Im fucking venting dude holy shit

Nope. You're not. You're throwing a temper tantrum and it's total beta male behavior to revert back to "woe is me, you're an asshole for calling me out on my hissy fit."

You got solid advice but you're happy at how much attention this topic got you in your time of despair and you realize it's all you have going for you at the moment so you cling to it.

Ditch the ego, exercise, and quit thinking about her. Make each new day better than the previous and you'll climb out of this stronger than you thought you ever could.

Or-- cry about it, and don't move on.

RedPixel posted...

you're happy at how much attention this topic got you in your time of despair and you realize it's all you have going for you

lmao dude youre so far off

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@Jen0125 @RCtheWSBC @Mead
defend me from these assholes

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Come join us in discord. It's a lot better over there.

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I cant see their posts, so that alone should tell you something about them

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DirtBasedSoap posted...

@Jen0125 @RCtheWSBC @Mead
defend me from these assholes

dont you have like... friends in real life who could help see you through this?

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yeah I do. This actually has made me realize how much support I truly have. But I also cant be with them 24/7

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DirtBasedSoap posted...

@Jen0125 @RCtheWSBC @Mead
defend me from these assholes

This is really sad post.

it was kind of a joke lol

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DirtBasedSoap posted...

yeah I do. This actually has made me realize how much support I truly have. But I also cant be with them 24/7

seems you are on potd 24/7 so maybe you could try to take a small slice of that time?

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Noop_Noop posted...

dont you have like... friends in real life who could help see you through this?

Theyre probably quarantining, and besides... one friend will only be able to listen to so much. You cant burn out a friend by telling them about your break up. You have to spread the grief among several friends(and anyone else willing to listen).

This accomplishes two things:

1) You dont burn any of them out as stated above.

and 2) you get a greater variety of advice increasing the chances that youll survive this quicker.

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DirtBasedSoap posted...

@Jen0125 @RCtheWSBC @Mead
defend me from these assholes

DirtBasedSoap posted...

I cannot sleep or eat anymore.

ive lost 7lbs in 6 days

Yup, assholes are your problem. For sure. People were in your self-pity topic trying to help you and you're trying to start up your high school Teen Girl Squad again like inner work is a bar fight that can win your fights against yourself.