Poll of the Day > I just got dumped by my gf of 3 ywars

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BUMPED2002
08/14/20 8:35:27 AM
#51:


Yeah it happens man. Pick up the pieces and move on. On the brightside, at least she didn't file for divorce.

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Lordkill
08/14/20 8:39:50 AM
#52:


DirtBasedSoap posted...
this is the worst Ive ever felt in my entire life
Just wait until you get horny.....

Unless you took plenty of video and I hope you did.

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rexcrk
08/14/20 9:25:24 AM
#53:


Did she give you an actual reason or was it one of those BS I dont want to be in a relationship right now and then youll see shes in a new relationship in like a month deals?

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MrMelodramatic
08/14/20 9:39:18 AM
#54:


Lordkill posted...
Just wait until you get horny.....

Unless you took plenty of video and I hope you did.
What

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RCtheWSBC
08/14/20 9:46:24 AM
#55:


I'm sorry, man :(
And you just moved to be closer to her. No one can catch a break this year, I swear.

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Jen0125
08/14/20 9:52:33 AM
#56:


Ughhh life is pain dude I stg

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LinkPizza
08/14/20 9:53:32 AM
#57:


Sorry to hear that...

RCtheWSBC posted...
And you just moved to be closer to her.

And this definitely makes it worse...
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SilentSeph
08/14/20 10:18:03 AM
#58:


Sorry to hear that man. Especially if it was out of the blue. Were there really no signs leading up to the breakup?

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Garlands_Soul
08/14/20 11:41:00 AM
#59:


Sorry to hear. I was dealing with the same thing just last month. Still sucks, but things can only get better. Hang in there.

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Jiggy101011
08/14/20 12:17:50 PM
#60:


Sorry to hear man, as others have said time heals most wounds and this will be one of them. In the moment its advice you dont care to hear but every day you will think about her and your relationship less and less until you get to the point where she hardly pops into your head.

If I can give any advice though, rebounds are fine but don't try and jump into another relationship too soon. Give your self the time to be single.

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AElaias
08/14/20 12:45:28 PM
#61:


My apologizes and condolences. Sometimes a lover may not be 100% compatible to us humans, even if we previously saw it. Sometimes the repelling stuff can be over petty things or bigger ones, she should've tried to fixed over time, if she was serious, so it would've set it up to 100% by now.

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DirtBasedSoap
08/14/20 12:48:04 PM
#62:


Jiggy101011 posted...
until you get to the point where she hardly pops into your head.
that sounds awful

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DrPrimemaster
08/14/20 1:26:41 PM
#63:


That sucks, really wish I could say something to fix you but I cant.

I can offer to pay for premium web services if you want that though.

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DirtBasedSoap
08/14/20 1:47:48 PM
#64:


rexcrk posted...
Did she give you an actual reason or was it one of those BS I dont want to be in a relationship right now and then youll see shes in a new relationship in like a month deals?
my lack of motivation in life is a big part of it
i dont see the point in fucking anything anymore

im afraid Im gonna do something really stupid but I feel like Im in a burning building with no escape

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Jiggy101011
08/14/20 1:49:46 PM
#65:


DirtBasedSoap posted...
that sounds awful

In 6 months from now it wont.

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wwinterj25
08/14/20 1:58:55 PM
#66:


DirtBasedSoap posted...
im afraid Im gonna do something really stupid

Don't do anything that can't be undone.


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ScritchOwl
08/14/20 2:48:57 PM
#67:


I am trying to invent a memory erasing hat. It has two liquid recepticles on the sides. You fill one side with vodka and the other other with a heavy stout. It has a straw linking the liquid rsservoirs to the wearers mouth. 3 refills and the last 24 hurs will be erased though it may have a side effect of sending your 12 hours into a future into witch you will be question aout your recent actions.

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Aculo
08/14/20 3:00:38 PM
#68:


now is a perfect time to go for a platinum in whatever game(s) you're playing right now, ok?

pro tip: drinking a lot while going for all the trophies will help you reach your goal. trust me, i'm a pro, ok?

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DirtBasedSoap
08/14/20 3:06:33 PM
#69:


Aculo posted...
now is a perfect time to go for a platinum in whatever game(s) you're playing right now, ok?
I love video games but nothing seems interesting to me right now

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Metalsonic66
08/14/20 3:11:08 PM
#70:


Katamari always cheers me up

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DirtBasedSoap
08/14/20 6:20:18 PM
#71:


someone come over and just beat the absolute shit out of me

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Sarcasthma
08/14/20 6:26:36 PM
#72:


DirtBasedSoap posted...
someone come over and just beat the absolute shit out of me
Well shit, we finally need Shenti and he's gone.

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Aculo
08/14/20 7:12:57 PM
#73:


tell me you at least got to pee in her butt before it ended. or she in yours?

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DirtBasedSoap
08/15/20 3:57:33 PM
#74:


I hate this so much

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SunWuKung420
08/15/20 4:03:16 PM
#75:


Try to find a positive in the situation, like how you can grow and change to prevent this in the future. Become a better version of yourself, dsb 2.0.

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DirtBasedSoap
08/15/20 4:21:05 PM
#76:


SunWuKung420 posted...
Try to find a positive in the situation, like how you can grow and change to prevent this in the future. Become a better version of yourself, dsb 2.0.
thats what my friends and family keep telling me but I already lacked motivation before this and this just completely took the wind out of my sails. I just dont think I have the strength to pull through this in a healthy way

i wish I were the type of guy who could just drink his feelings away but it only makes me feel worse

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DirtBasedSoap
08/15/20 4:21:41 PM
#77:


watching my friend who went through a breakup over a year ago still cry about it when he talks about it makes me not even want to try to heal

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SunWuKung420
08/15/20 4:27:02 PM
#78:


If I had given up every time I failed at something, I wouldn't be happily married and the glorious egg chef I am today.

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SunWuKung420
08/15/20 4:27:29 PM
#79:


Do what's best for you. Giving up isn't.

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Zeus
08/15/20 4:52:47 PM
#80:


DirtBasedSoap posted...
my lack of motivation in life is a big part of it

You should start a multi-million dollar company to prove her wrong.

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Mead
08/15/20 4:59:16 PM
#81:


DirtBasedSoap posted...
watching my friend who went through a breakup over a year ago still cry about it when he talks about it makes me not even want to try to heal

everyone is different

who knows in a few months maybe youll meet some incredible girl, I hear about people all the time going through devastating breakups but then a little time goes by and they end up finding someone that they have even stronger feelings for and they look back like it all happened for the best even though it was painful

take care of yourself and try to keep looking ahead, things wont always be so shit

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Revelation34
08/15/20 6:15:48 PM
#82:


SunWuKung420 posted...
Try to find a positive in the situation, like how you can grow and change to prevent this in the future. Become a better version of yourself, dsb 2.0.


Why are you saying it was his fault?
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DirtBasedSoap
08/15/20 8:13:04 PM
#83:


my life was a depressing shit hole before I met her and now Im back to where I was 3 years ago

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Mead
08/15/20 8:14:08 PM
#84:


did sunny seriously try to say cheer up you can end up just like me

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LaggnFragnLarry
08/15/20 8:15:05 PM
#85:


DirtBasedSoap posted...
someone come over and just beat the absolute shit out of me
i got this chic named slamber who can break your hips
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Zeus
08/15/20 8:19:18 PM
#86:


Revelation34 posted...
Why are you saying it was his fault?

Well, to Sunny's point, Dirt was the one who got dumped >_> And if she broke up with him over a perceived lack of motivation, it's possible that other women might break up with him over the same. In general, introspection is more productive than self-pity.

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SunWuKung420
08/15/20 8:23:12 PM
#87:


Revelation34 posted...
Why are you saying it was his fault?

I'm not but he has admitted some culpability. Keep up.

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Jen0125
08/15/20 8:26:28 PM
#88:


Mead posted...
did sunny seriously try to say cheer up you can end up just like me

Sounds like a nightmare

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Revelation34
08/15/20 8:27:39 PM
#89:


SunWuKung420 posted...


I'm not but he has admitted some culpability. Keep up.


Yes you are. You said he needs to change.
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SunWuKung420
08/15/20 8:36:56 PM
#90:


Revelation34 posted...
Yes you are. You said he needs to change.

He's not happy where he's at, clearly. So staying that way isn't useful and changing is good.

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SunWuKung420
08/15/20 8:37:48 PM
#91:


Jen0125 posted...
Mead posted...

did sunny seriously try to say cheer up you can end up just like me

Sounds like a nightmare

Being happy, NIGHTMARISH! is what I call it when mead comments on users he has blocked.

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wwinterj25
08/15/20 8:54:37 PM
#92:


SunWuKung420 posted...
If I had given up every time I failed at something, I wouldn't be happily married and the glorious egg chef I am today.

Zeus posted...
Well, to Sunny's point, Dirt was the one who got dumped >_> And if she broke up with him over a perceived lack of motivation, it's possible that other women might break up with him over the same. In general, introspection is more productive than self-pity.

https://youtu.be/5A0hhsYVO1Q?t=265

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YoukaiSlayer
08/16/20 1:53:10 AM
#93:


I mean, of course he is going to be wracking his brain wondering where he went wrong. That's just how it goes when something like this comes out of nowhere.

On the plus side it sounds like you were kind of miserable even with her so maybe this is the chance to shake up your life and find a way to be happy. Odds are better than zero that it works out in your favor so you might as well keep going. Don't make any big decisions while you are emotionally unstable though.

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hamsarris_
08/16/20 2:26:37 AM
#94:


Aye man, Ive been there. The girl I was with before I met my fiance fucked me up bad.

https://open.spotify.com/album/4baVGjGtGhgpb0oEqjSkLi?si=AZHyMpJ-TNqK2YLXBedD_Q

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DirtBasedSoap
08/16/20 3:33:10 PM
#95:


we had a really good talk last night. I didnt realize how much of myself I was blanketing with drugs and video games. Like if I wasnt working, my whole day would just revolve around her so I would just distract myself and not work on myself or my life because Im so focused on her and her focused on me. We arent growing at all, just having fun and not addressing our lives at all. idk if any of this is making sense because Im so bad at writing but i honestly think that in the long run, this will make our relationship so much stronger and valuable. Its crazy to me how i legit wanted to die two days ago and now Im more optimistic about my future than Ive ever been in my life

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Jen0125
08/16/20 3:57:50 PM
#96:


Did you guys get back together to work on it?

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Revelation34
08/16/20 3:57:56 PM
#97:


DirtBasedSoap posted...
we had a really good talk last night. I didnt realize how much of myself I was blanketing with drugs and video games. Like if I wasnt working, my whole day would just revolve around her so I would just distract myself and not work on myself or my life because Im so focused on her and her focused on me. We arent growing at all, just having fun and not addressing our lives at all. idk if any of this is making sense because Im so bad at writing but i honestly think that in the long run, this will make our relationship so much stronger and valuable. Its crazy to me how i legit wanted to die two days ago and now Im more optimistic about my future than Ive ever been in my life


Does that mean you're going to go through more y wars with her?
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Aculo
08/16/20 4:01:33 PM
#98:


i know you're devastated, but you really need to answer this question, ok?

Aculo posted...
tell me you at least got to pee in her butt before it ended. or she in yours?
EDIT: oh, nm, you're back together. still, answer the question, ok?

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DirtBasedSoap
08/16/20 4:08:57 PM
#99:


Jen0125 posted...
Did you guys get back together to work on it?
yeah but I live in California now and shes in New Mexico. She just went back home and were going to be spending a little bit of time apart to really work on ourselves. I mean fuck, Im 27, I dont even have my fucking drivers license, and barely make any money. Im a fucking loser right now with so many emotional issues that Ive been blanketing since I was like 15

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Jen0125
08/16/20 6:46:59 PM
#100:


DirtBasedSoap posted...
yeah but I live in California now and shes in New Mexico. She just went back home and were going to be spending a little bit of time apart to really work on ourselves. I mean fuck, Im 27, I dont even have my fucking drivers license, and barely make any money. Im a fucking loser right now with so many emotional issues that Ive been blanketing since I was like 15

Go to therapy and really try. It worked great for me.

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