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pinky0926 06/22/20 6:43:19 PM #252: |
Looked gf posted...
This lol You guys dont see a problem at all with the premise that if a women from your industry contacts you about a professional conference type thing and hangs out in your company therefore it means you should assume shes wanting you in a romantic/sexual way? That's a whole kettle of fish in itself. --- CE's Resident Scotsman. https://imgur.com/ILz2ZbV ... Copied to Clipboard!
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nemu 06/22/20 6:43:42 PM #253: |
Nah, fuck the inherent power dynamics shit. If the power balance is not being used in an outright manipulative way, it's just an absolute bunk argument. Power can be used to manipulate and dominate someone against their will, but you cannot just claim the existence in itself means anything. That's especially true for someone who is not her boss and has fuck all in power over her.
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BeantownHero 06/22/20 6:45:08 PM #254: |
nemu posted...
Nah, fuck the inherent power dynamics shit. If the power balance is not being used in an outright manipulative way, it's just an absolute bunk argument. Holy shit, man... --- nothing is a greater tell of an awful human than using "social justice warrior" as a pejorative. without exception.- Bomani Jones ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SoundNetwork 06/22/20 6:47:30 PM #255: |
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Unite 06/22/20 6:47:32 PM #256: |
what strange this happens to come out just before is last of us 2 review
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Dark_SilverX 06/22/20 6:47:36 PM #257: |
Y'all forgetting about Poke Nappy Boi.
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Anteaterking 06/22/20 6:52:34 PM #258: |
EnragedSlith posted...
remember I once kissed a girl after spending like two hours talking with her over coffee. She was smiley and kind of shy, and I remember thinking the date was going really well. Right but what were the power dynamics of the situation? You're in public, you're not meeting under false pretenses, you haven't tried to liquor her up ahead of time, and (unless you left this out) you have no power or prestige over her. I don't think anyone would care about that accusation, even if they believed it was true. When you are in Joe's position, you KNOW that there's a power dynamic at play. You're using the promise of connections, etc. to get this person in the situation and there are particular actions that I feel like can't just be seen a different way from his viewpoint (trying to keep her away from her phone, trying to cast aspersions on her friend, etc.) --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Anteaterking 06/22/20 6:53:53 PM #259: |
Mistere Man posted...
Didnt she text him and others before, and dont you need the persons number to do that? She direct messaged him on Twitter from the pictures. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mistere Man 06/22/20 6:55:19 PM #260: |
Anteaterking posted...
She direct messaged him on Twitter from the pictures.Oh of course, and Thank you! --- Water+Fall=Radiation. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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looked 06/22/20 7:04:55 PM #261: |
pinky0926 posted...
Ruing someones life just based on an accusation is going too far in the other direction though. There has to be a middle ground where the accusations are taken seriously, but the accused doesnt immediately have the life ruined regardless of the outcome. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lost_All_Senses 06/22/20 7:11:48 PM #262: |
Damn. I got busy and this got far more interesting. I still stand by everything I said. People wanting Joe to burn just for being a youtuber they don't like still going in.
Also, of course he has lawyers. You don't get to any sort of fame without people trying to sue you. We usually only hear about very few cases. Nobody is a winner in this. Hope the truth comes out, whatever that truth may be. --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lost_All_Senses 06/22/20 7:13:03 PM #263: |
looked posted...
There has to be a middle ground I been fighting this battle here for years man. Strap in for a long journey if you're trying to go that route. And I just mean a middle ground in general, not just about the Metoo movement. You get more attention online from being dramatic one way or the other. --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Looked gf 06/22/20 7:14:50 PM #264: |
pinky0926 posted...
You guys dont see a problem at all with the premise that if a women from your industry contacts you about a professional conference type thing and hangs out in your company therefore it means you should assume shes wanting you in a romantic/sexual way? That's a whole kettle of fish in itself. Wdym? Obviously you shouldn't assume that --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Bass_X0 06/22/20 7:17:14 PM #265: |
everyone is a weirdo when having their hook-up attempts being discussed by strangers on the internet.
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Lost_All_Senses 06/22/20 7:18:43 PM #266: |
Bass_X0 posted...
everyone is a weirdo when having their hook-up attempts being discussed by strangers on the internet. But you can't take the high ground when you're reasonable. How else am I suppose to make up for my insecurities if not by being easily convinced everyone else is garbage? --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Propane4Sale 06/22/20 7:30:31 PM #267: |
Lost_All_Senses posted...
Damn. I got busy and this got far more interesting. I still stand by everything I said. People wanting Joe to burn just for being a youtuber they don't like still going in. She opened a can of worms doing this so she better hope she has a damn good case against his. Unite posted... what strange this happens to come out just before is last of us 2 review I was looking forward to that meltdown and now it's likely it ain't happening for a while. --- Strickland Propane & Propane Accessories "Taste the Heat, not the Meat!" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BeyondWalls 06/22/20 8:32:18 PM #268: |
Bass_X0 posted...
everyone is a weirdo when having their hook-up attempts being discussed by strangers on the internet.Yeah... I'm pretty sure most people haven't thrown a girl up against the wall and later demanded she go home with them because she owes them. Maybe that's just me though. --- END OF LINE ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ColdOne666 06/22/20 8:46:47 PM #269: |
looked posted...
Ruing someones life just based on an accusation is going too far in the other direction though. There has to be a middle ground where the accusations are taken seriously, but the accused doesnt immediately have the life ruined regardless of the outcome. --- Aussie Aussie Aussie OI OI OI! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Blue_Inigo 06/22/20 9:06:11 PM #270: |
BeyondWalls posted...
Yeah... I'm pretty sure most people haven't thrown a girl up against the wall and later demanded she go home with them because she owes them. Maybe that's just me though.Whaaat? I thought everyone did that and told her that her friend would rape her! --- "This is your last dance." ... Copied to Clipboard!
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chrono625 06/22/20 9:17:34 PM #271: |
Angry joe was a fucking zero growing up who never got any attention from anyone, especially women.
now that he has some internet clout his fucking ego ballooned and thinks he has the RIGHT to whatever he wants just cause hes got some money and fans. thats what a megalomaniac does. now on topic, this isnt a #metoo moment. This is some guy trying way too fucking hard to impress an easily impressionable woman to get with them. this girl has a BF and the first moment she wound up alone with him in his hotel she should have realized what he wanted and ended it once they were safely in public. She rolled with it for 7 hours before trying to leave. --- https://imgur.com/Rqk1DYV - Super Bowl XXI/XXV/XLII/XLVI Champions - NY Giants Eli Manning SB tracker: 2/2 Superbowls 2/2 SBMVP's ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BeyondWalls 06/22/20 9:21:11 PM #272: |
Blue_Inigo posted...
Whaaat? I thought everyone did that and told her that her friend would rape her!Isn't that the end to every romantic movie? They're on the front porch at night after a date. The moonlight is reflecting in her eyes. And the guy leans in and whispers, "your friend is going to rape you." --- END OF LINE ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LeadPipeCinche 06/22/20 9:24:37 PM #273: |
Couldn't happen to a nicer guy.
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Gobstoppers12 06/22/20 9:32:59 PM #274: |
LeadPipeCinche posted...
Couldn't happen to a nicer guy.He's not going anywhere. --- I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EnragedSlith 06/22/20 10:46:15 PM #275: |
pinky0926 posted...
I think the conversation (in general, not simply this case) is coloured by the sheer, overwhelming problem that has existed for so long with no meaningful change: women get sexually assaulted all the time and almost never have any legal or social recourse for it. If guys think that some metoo stories on twitter is creating an unprecedented situation where someone could lie and ruin another person reputation, they come across a bit ignorant of the reality: even when women tell the truth, historically the only reputation that gets ruined is their own. Im not really talking about a situation where theyre lying or exaggerating, though. Ive had sex with women where I was uncomfortable just because it was easier than saying no. Maybe some of them would think that had been a nice evening. If I was the sort of person who would be traumatized by that, would I be wrong for my perspective? So I think theres a need for real conversations about these incidents. Because sometimes theyre disgusting and damning like in the Avellone situation, and sometimes they seem like an embarrassing misunderstanding that got handled poorly. I dont disagree with what youre saying, though. Anteaterking posted... Right but what were the power dynamics of the situation? You're in public, you're not meeting under false pretenses, you haven't tried to liquor her up ahead of time, and (unless you left this out) you have no power or prestige over her. I don't think anyone would care about that accusation, even if they believed it was true. I think Joes stance at the time was feeling used because of those connections. I imagine he thought she was interested in him, and then took her fumbling attempts at distraction as admittance that she was only there to advance her career. It was embarrassing, immature, and way out of line, yes, but I dont see how him getting angry is traumatizing enough to publicize an awkward experience. --- I can't leave without my buddy, Superfly. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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mach25687 06/23/20 12:00:34 AM #276: |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zIUkBMbei8
Joe talks about it a little in his new video. --- Best damn game about Ninja http://www.i-mockery.com/minimocks/ninjagolf/ninjagolf-flashgame.php ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BeyondWalls 06/23/20 12:08:28 AM #277: |
mach25687 posted...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6zIUkBMbei8Ah yes. My lawyers told me not to say anything. The mantra of innocent men everywhere. --- END OF LINE ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lorenzo_2003 06/23/20 12:18:56 AM #278: |
BeyondWalls posted...
Ah yes. My lawyers told me not to say anything. The mantra of innocent men everywhere. Its what smart people do. Considering what can be used against you, regardless of content or intent, youd have to be incredibly naive, ignorant or arrogant to speak without legal counsel. On a somewhat related note, please take some time to watch this lengthy but insightful video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=d-7o9xYp7eE --- ... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cjsdowg 06/23/20 1:31:33 AM #279: |
BeyondWalls posted...
Ah yes. My lawyers told me not to say anything. The mantra of innocent men everywhere. I just want to double what Lorenzo said. To think people waiting for their lawyer to start speaking is a sign of a guilt is a horrible. --- Bender: Well, everybody, I just saved a turtle. What have you done with your lives? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Gobstoppers12 06/23/20 1:40:44 AM #280: |
cjsdowg posted...
I just want to double what Lorenzo said. To think people waiting for their lawyer to start speaking is a sign of a guilt is a horrible.Letting the lawyers do the relevant fact-finding, laying out all the information, and formulate all the options and pertinent details ahead of time is 100% the smartest thing to do. There is nothing about hiring a lawyer that implies guilt. It's just the thing you're supposed to do the second anybody accuses you of anything (and especially if they're trying to use that information to get you fired or punished by your job, which this girl is seemingly doing--she said she had "already contacted youtube" and that they've already taken some unspecified action.) --- I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AceMos 06/23/20 2:12:12 AM #281: |
do to the fact things are on going i will just say this
DO NOT ENGAGE IN SEXUAL ACTIVITY WITH YOUR FANS EVER also becareful if you invite a fan or group of fans to dinner or something not saying dont do this but make it very clear with eye witnesses and heck even video footage that its just a friendly dinner and stress if they or one of there friends make any one uncomfortable to speak up --- 3 things 1. i am female 2. i havea msucle probelm its hard for me to typ well 3.*does her janpuu dance* ... Copied to Clipboard!
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St0rmFury 06/23/20 2:15:55 AM #282: |
Background dude is warned.
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Bass_X0 06/23/20 3:11:07 AM #283: |
DO NOT ENGAGE IN SEXUAL ACTIVITY WITH YOUR FANS EVER Its a practice thats been going on as long as groupies have existed. --- "Well, it's not a bad game. It's made by Capcom, so how could it?" ~ AVGN ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AceMos 06/23/20 3:15:10 AM #284: |
Bass_X0 posted...
Its a practice thats been going on as long as groupies have existed.yes i know and its STUPID --- 3 things 1. i am female 2. i havea msucle probelm its hard for me to typ well 3.*does her janpuu dance* ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Propane4Sale 06/23/20 8:00:19 AM #285: |
BeyondWalls posted...
Ah yes. My lawyers told me not to say anything. The mantra of innocent men everywhere. Don't be a moron. This is standard for ANY legal matter. St0rmFury posted... Background dude is warned. LOLOLOLOLOL --- Strickland Propane & Propane Accessories "Taste the Heat, not the Meat!" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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mach25687 06/23/20 8:36:23 AM #286: |
You know what suck more if this real or keep going. I feel like Capcom would pull the plug on his Official street fighter board game since they wouldn't want to be associated with him. Which is his most passionate thing he wants to do. I say this with how they're handling the whole fighting games players situation that just happen.
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Propane4Sale 06/23/20 8:42:54 AM #287: |
mach25687 posted...
You know what suck more if this real or keep going. I feel like Capcom would pull the plug on his Official street fighter board game since they wouldn't want to be associated with him. Which is his most passionate thing he wants to do. I say this with how they're handling the whole fighting games players situation that just happen. I think that's been in the making for years now so honestly I would feel pretty bad for the guy if Capcom lawyers caught wind of this and claimed his project 100% for themselves. --- Strickland Propane & Propane Accessories "Taste the Heat, not the Meat!" ... Copied to Clipboard!
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mach25687 06/23/20 9:06:41 AM #288: |
Propane4Sale posted...
I think that's been in the making for years now so honestly I would feel pretty bad for the guy if Capcom lawyers caught wind of this and claimed his project 100% for themselves.I can see Capcom doing that or just telling to stop trying to make it. I think he put with kickbacker a good couple of hundred thousands dollars into it. --- Best damn game about Ninja http://www.i-mockery.com/minimocks/ninjagolf/ninjagolf-flashgame.php ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LightHawKnight 06/23/20 9:26:39 AM #289: |
I really hate social media and people trying to ruin someone's life without waiting for the evidence first.
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mach25687 06/23/20 9:41:16 AM #290: |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3Z3NV5cHs5g
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BeyondWalls 06/23/20 11:50:07 AM #291: |
Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Its what smart people do. cjsdowg posted... To think people waiting for their lawyer to start speaking is a sign of a guilt is a horrible. Propane4Sale posted... Don't be a moron. This is standard for ANY legal matter. @Propane4Sale @cjsdowg @Lorenzo_2003 Nope. This is how an innocent man acts... https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/78794953 Notice how Justin Bieber shut down that shit quick with facts. That's how an innocent man handles these situations. Compare that with Joe's response of, "I'm going to sue you!" Because keep in mind, Joe isn't being accused of a crime. Nobody is saying he raped anyone. It's not like Joe is lawyering up to prevent prosecution. He's lawyering up to win a civil case so he can shut this chick up. At least in theory. I think the truth is there is no lawyer (no lawyer has made any statement and Joe hasn't referred any questions to an attorney.) I think the lawyer stuff is a complete smokescreen because Joe knows he's guilty and there's literally nothing else he can say. This chick has two witnesses going to bat for her and so far no one who was there that day has come rushing to Joe's defense. Maybe I'm wrong. We'll see. --- END OF LINE ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lorenzo_2003 06/23/20 11:58:56 AM #292: |
@BeyondWalls
You really should watch the video I linked. It is free, expert advice that can help you in criminal and civil matters. At the very least, it can help you to not sound naive and uninformed. --- ... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BeyondWalls 06/23/20 12:02:37 PM #293: |
Lorenzo_2003 posted...
@BeyondWalls --- END OF LINE ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Gobstoppers12 06/23/20 12:18:21 PM #294: |
BeyondWalls should really have quit while he had some credibility left.
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Dathrowed1 06/23/20 12:27:58 PM #295: |
Gobstoppers12 posted...
BeyondWalls should really have quit while he had some credibility left.Seriously, how many innocent people are in jail right now? --- sig ... Copied to Clipboard!
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mach25687 06/23/20 12:32:38 PM #296: |
Wonder how long will it take for his lawyers to make a statement?
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Solid Snake07 06/23/20 12:38:36 PM #297: |
Jabodie posted...
Just reading it, the story doesn't strike me as outlandish. Here's some cliff notes: Okay....so he came on to a girl way too hard and when she rejected him he was a dick? I'm not gonna defend his behavior, if half of that is true he was being an ass. But is making an ass of yourself sexual assault now? --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BeyondWalls 06/23/20 12:40:39 PM #298: |
Dathrowed1 posted...
Seriously, how many innocent people are in jail right now?Once again, Joe is not being accused of a crime. mach25687 posted... Wonder how long will it take for his lawyers to make a statement?If there were lawyers actually involved then they would have made a statement already or Joe would have directed questions to his attorneys. What Joe most likely did was reach out to his business lawyers who handle his copyright issues and contracts and asked what they could do to quietly shut this down. Joe is looking to bury this, not fight a court case. That's why his statement was tacked on to a news video and not a separate video in itself. --- END OF LINE ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Northlane 06/23/20 1:04:36 PM #299: |
What a long ass read just to learn this girl is upset Joe hit on her while she has a boyfriend
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mach25687 06/23/20 1:19:58 PM #300: |
Well look like Del is probably going to be on twitch more than the other three.
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Turtlebread 06/23/20 1:23:43 PM #301: |
Northlane posted...
What a long ass read just to learn this girl is upset Joe hit on her while she has a boyfriend Why is this topic even 6 pages long --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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