Current Events > Fuck CE texting your crush is like RPG turn based Boss Battle with music!

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Just minding my own busy kinda nervous because relationship in text form is moving forward when SUDDENLY

RANDOM TEXT
BATTLE BEGIN!

This is the music that appears https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QY1Vetd7OCs

Then I read it trying to decipher girl code emojis and words and what she actually meant by saying something different.
Then the turn based menu appears and I have like 4 options, reply now attack, defend and reply later, magic attack use key emojis in order, summon attack bring up a question that will surely get a 2nd text back from her because of huge reply needed.

Then when I sent it then this music plays and I do a dance https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-YCN-a0NsNk

But then I'm hit with more and more random battles for the rest of the day.
This is the scariest JRPG I have ever played in my life uwu

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With you thinking like this there's absolutely no way you don't completely weird the girl out and make her cancel the first date on you, if you even make it that far

TheLastHero posted...

With you thinking like this there's absolutely no way you don't completely weird the girl out and make her cancel the first date on you, if you even make it that far

lol its all in my mind tho.

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TheLastHero posted...

With you thinking like this there's absolutely no way you don't completely weird the girl out and make her cancel the first date on you, if you even make it that far

lol

The sad truth is if you're having to struggle and think this hard to keep her interested in the conversation, she's not into you. Something I have to remind myself whenever I realize I'm having to "try hard" to get a girl to respond.

If she's into you, she will be just as determined to impress you, and therefore the conversation will flow effortlessly, as you will both have a lot of things you want to say to each other. So it wont be you saying all the interesting stuff while she's just all like "lol" "yeah" "haha" "" etc.

PerfectGirlButt posted...

The sad truth is if you're having to struggle and think this hard to keep her interested in the conversation, she's not into you. Something I have to remind myself whenever I realize I'm having to "try hard" to get a girl to respond.

If she's into you, she will be just as determined to impress you, and therefore the conversation will flow effortlessly, as you will both have a lot of things you want to say to each other. So it wont be you saying all the interesting stuff while she's just all like "lol" "yeah" "haha" "" etc.

Yeah but I'm dealing with a shy nervous weeb girl and she texts back full paragraphs which is great considering how nervous she is

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Have a phone call

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AwesomeOSauce posted...

Yeah but I'm dealing with a shy nervous weeb girl and she texts back full paragraphs which is great considering how nervous she is

Ah cool. If she's texting full paragraphs that's a very good sign. If anything you should be feeling like "damn I cant keep this hoe off of me" instead of second guessing yourself like the OP makes it sound.

PerfectGirlButt posted...

Ah cool. If she's texting full paragraphs that's a very good sign. If anything you should be feeling like "damn I cant keep this hoe off of me" instead of second guessing yourself like the OP makes it sound.

I guess but still nervous of sending wrong text and maybe ruining somethhing. You know how it is your mind always makes you rethink everything.

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PerfectGirlButt posted...

The sad truth is if you're having to struggle and think this hard to keep her interested in the conversation, she's not into you. Something I have to remind myself whenever I realize I'm having to "try hard" to get a girl to respond.

If she's into you, she will be just as determined to impress you, and therefore the conversation will flow effortlessly, as you will both have a lot of things you want to say to each other. So it wont be you saying all the interesting stuff while she's just all like "lol" "yeah" "haha" "" etc.

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AwesomeOSauce posted...

I guess but still nervous of sending wrong text and maybe ruining somethhing. You know how it is your mind always makes you rethink everything.

If she's responding to you the way you say she is, you -- for lack of a better phrase -- have the upper hand. In other words you can afford to make "mistakes."

It kind of sounds like you have the same irrational fear that I get when I'm texting a girl. We have (once again, for lack of a better term), been "abused." Not actual abuse, of course, but we have had our mind molded, based on our past interactions with women, to believe that if a woman stops talking to us, it must mean we did something wrong.

The truth is when a girl stops talking to you, it rarely ever means you did anything wrong. It means she was never into you, and she has probably been looking for a chance to end the convo for a while. So she waits until you say something boring enough for her to excuse herself from replying so she doesnt look like a total bitch.

It sounds like you're not in a situation where that will be a thing. My only advice is make sure YOU are the one to end the conversation. And do so at a point when she still seems very interested.

PerfectGirlButt posted...

If she's responding to you the way you say she is, you -- for lack of a better phrase -- have the upper hand. In other words you can afford to make "mistakes."

It kind of sounds like you have the same irrational fear that I get when I'm texting a girl. We have (once again, for lack of a better term), been "abused." Not actual abuse, of course, but we have had our mind molded, based on our past interactions with women, to believe that if a woman stops talking to us, it must mean we did something wrong.

The truth is when a girl stops talking to you, it rarely ever means you did anything wrong. It means she was never into you, and she has probably been looking for a chance to end the convo for a while. So she waits until you say something boring enough for her to excuse herself from replying so she doesnt look like a total bitch.

It sounds like you're not in a situation where that will be a thing. My only advice is make sure YOU are the one to end the conversation. And do so at a point when she still seems very interested.

Yeah a few days ago I got nervous I messed something up cause she took a while to reply. So I messaged something like "hey just let me know if I'm annoying you I kinda don't take hints easily"

And then she replied with like 2 huge messages like "OMG no way no you are not being annoying..." with smileys and stuff.

But I still freak out because what if she just said that to be nice so I just overthink what I sent after I sent it.

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AwesomeOSauce posted...

Yeah a few days ago I got nervous I messed something up cause she took a while to reply. So I messaged something like "hey just let me know if I'm annoying you I kinda don't take hints easily"

And then she replied with like 2 huge messages like "OMG no way no you are not being annoying..." with smileys and stuff.

But I still freak out because what if she just said that to be nice so I just overthink what I sent after I sent it.

Normal human psychology, I suppose. Sounds like you're doing great, though, so there's an encouraging thought for you.

AwesomeOSauce posted...

This is the scariest JRPG I have ever played in my life uwu

Go gain some goddamn levels

aka, actually interact with other people and learn how they communicate and become effective at it, which you're doing, so good on you
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Aeriis posted...

I liked this topic a lot tbh

Give advice pls

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AwesomeOSauce posted...

Give advice pls

Get better RPG Boss music.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWtpAzbEnc8

Just run if your walkie talkie starts making static noises when you go to meet her.

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Time to hit her with the old "please respond" razzle dazzle

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Sounds like you might got this one in the bag TC. Ask her out already.

TheLastHero posted...

With you thinking like this there's absolutely no way you don't completely weird the girl out and make her cancel the first date on you, if you even make it that far

lol took the words out of my mouth

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Just tell her that dragon Ball is overrated and my hero academia is the second coming of Jesus. She'll be all over you.

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Nah

I've won boss battles in RPGs before

If she's really as introverted and weebish as you say, describing something felt like a boss battle might actually be endearing to her - just not your interactions with her. See if you can describe something else that happened to you with that analogy!