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JBaLLEN66 01/07/20 5:12:04 PM #1:	First, theres a difference between guy friends you knew about before you started dating and new ones with questionable history starting to pop up out of the blue. How do I know if shes cheating on me or not? Does this not show that you are serious about the relationship? Inputs? --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:932600209] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>First, theres a difference between guy friends you knew about before you started dating and new ones with questionable history starting to pop up out of the blue. How do I know if shes cheating on me or not? Does this not show that you are serious about the relationship? Inputs? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Purely 01/07/20 5:13:53 PM #2:	Something you need to accept in a relationship is that if she's hot, she's gonna have male friends. And yes, those male friends want to fuck her. However, she really doesnt have any intention of getting with them. She chose you. It's a hard thing to get around. <cite>Purely posted [p:932600281] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>Something you need to accept in a relationship is that if she's hot, she's gonna have male friends. And yes, those male friends want to fuck her. However, she really doesnt have any intention of getting with them. She chose you. It's a hard thing to get around. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 01/07/20 5:15:22 PM #3:	Purely posted... Something you need to accept in a relationship is that if she's hot, she's gonna have male friends. And yes, those male friends want to fuck her. However, she really doesnt have any intention of getting with them. She chose you. It's a hard thing to get around. I understand this, but how do you know if shes not cheating lol --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:932600362] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>Purely posted... </cite> <quote>Something you need to accept in a relationship is that if she's hot, she's gonna have male friends. And yes, those male friends want to fuck her. However, she really doesnt have any intention of getting with them. She chose you. It's a hard thing to get around.</quote> I understand this, but how do you know if shes not cheating lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
s0nicfan 01/07/20 5:15:39 PM #4:	Only a shitty person would dump their GF solely because she has guy friends. If you're actually concerned why not, you know, get to know her friends? Then if she resists the idea you'll at least have a reason to be concerned. --- "History Is Much Like An Endless Waltz. The Three Beats Of War, Peace And Revolution Continue On Forever." - Gundam Wing: Endless Waltz <cite>s0nicfan posted [p:932600378] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>Only a shitty person would dump their GF solely because she has guy friends. If you're actually concerned why not, you know, get to know her friends? Then if she resists the idea you'll at least have a reason to be concerned. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Malfunction 01/07/20 5:16:08 PM #5:	you should dump her as it sounds like you want to trap her in an abusive relationship <cite>Malfunction posted [p:932600407] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>you should dump her as it sounds like you want to trap her in an abusive relationship </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 01/07/20 5:30:41 PM #6:	s0nicfan posted... Only a shitty person would dump their GF solely because she has guy friends. If you're actually concerned why not, you know, get to know her friends? Then if she resists the idea you'll at least have a reason to be concerned. why do you need new guy friends though? Why are guys with history that I didnt hear about before suddenly being mentioned? In addition, I did meet her current make friends before we started dating. --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:932601061] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>s0nicfan posted... </cite> <quote>Only a shitty person would dump their GF solely because she has guy friends. If you're actually concerned why not, you know, get to know her friends? Then if she resists the idea you'll at least have a reason to be concerned.</quote> why do you need new guy friends though? Why are guys with history that I didnt hear about before suddenly being mentioned? In addition, I did meet her current make friends before we started dating. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
andel 01/07/20 5:32:16 PM #7:	most people have friends of the opposite sex. it all comes down to trust in the end regardless of the situation. if you dont trust her you shouldnt be with her to begin with --- I am thinking about just walking into the river now that Megaupload is gone and condoms are in porn.-Fubonis <cite>andel posted [p:932601139] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>most people have friends of the opposite sex. it all comes down to trust in the end regardless of the situation. if you dont trust her you shouldnt be with her to begin with </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smashingpmkns 01/07/20 5:32:18 PM #8:	Pretty insecure of you. If you can't trust her then you should do her a favor and break it off before you do some crazy shit. --- Clean Butt Crew <cite>Smashingpmkns posted [p:932601140] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>Pretty insecure of you. If you can't trust her then you should do her a favor and break it off before you do some crazy shit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
s0nicfan 01/07/20 5:33:00 PM #9:	JBaLLEN66 posted... why do you need new guy friends though? Why are guys with history that I didnt hear about before suddenly being mentioned? In addition, I did meet her current make friends before we started dating. People make new friends when they have a health social life. Unless you're trying to control your GF and keep her from having her own life, that's always going to happen. Again: if they're a part of her life, and she's a part of your life, then just get to know her new friends. They might even become your friends, too. --- "History Is Much Like An Endless Waltz. The Three Beats Of War, Peace And Revolution Continue On Forever." - Gundam Wing: Endless Waltz <cite>s0nicfan posted [p:932601175] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>JBaLLEN66 posted... </cite> <quote>why do you need new guy friends though? Why are guys with history that I didnt hear about before suddenly being mentioned? In addition, I did meet her current make friends before we started dating.</quote> People make new friends when they have a health social life. Unless you're trying to control your GF and keep her from having her own life, that's always going to happen. Again: if they're a part of her life, and she's a part of your life, then just get to know her new friends. They might even become your friends, too. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MabusIncarnate 01/07/20 5:37:01 PM #11:	No, it's not a legitimate reason. With that said, it's understandable if you do. Jealousy eating away at you, and being constantly thinking if shes being loyal or not will drive you nuts and will hold back the relationship. --- Ten million dollars on a losing campaign, Twenty million starving and writhing in pain. Vicious_Dios Original - https://i.imgtc.ws/Zl0aw6F.png <cite>MabusIncarnate posted [p:932601344] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>No, it's not a legitimate reason. With that said, it's understandable if you do. Jealousy eating away at you, and being constantly thinking if shes being loyal or not will drive you nuts and will hold back the relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
smoke_break 01/07/20 5:38:43 PM #12:	Depends on how close and the nature of their friendship. --- https://imgur.com/WTmIPt8 <cite>smoke_break posted [p:932601410] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>Depends on how close and the nature of their friendship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Keith_Valentine 01/07/20 5:40:05 PM #13:	Werent you making a topic the other day asking how to line up women behind your gf back, tc? <cite>Keith_Valentine posted [p:932601474] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>Werent you making a topic the other day asking how to line up women behind your gf back, tc? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
philsov 01/07/20 5:42:25 PM #14:	JBaLLEN66 posted... How do I know if shes cheating on me or not? Unless you've got a camera 24/7 on her and she's chained to your bed, this is always going to be a concern. Instead of going to work/school she could just as easily be going to some dude's place and getting dicked down. Or invite boys over while you're not around. Or sext all the boys on insta/snapchat without the need for tinder or other dating exclusive app. Cheating is so easy nowadays. If she's bringing fuckboys around she's either incredibly smart or incredibly stupid. Or not cheating. --- Remember that I won't rest, 'til we share the same tense Just know, to me, you're better late than never again. <cite>philsov posted [p:932601567] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>JBaLLEN66 posted...</cite> <quote>How do I know if shes cheating on me or not?</quote> Unless you've got a camera 24/7 on her and she's chained to your bed, this is always going to be a concern. Instead of going to work/school she could just as easily be going to some dude's place and getting dicked down. Or invite boys over while you're not around. Or sext all the boys on insta/snapchat without the need for tinder or other dating exclusive app. Cheating is so easy nowadays. If she's bringing fuckboys around she's either incredibly smart or incredibly stupid. Or not cheating.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KillerKhan420 01/07/20 5:42:53 PM #15:	Does she have the megalock on her telephone? Are you and her out and about and her face is constantly in the screen? If so I'd not even be with someone like that in the first place. If you ain't comfortable it's not going to work. If you were talking to women way more attractive than her what do you think she would do? Especially if you had the mega lock on your phone and instead of paying any attention to her you are constantly checking your phone? --- "I know how the business works because I'm a wrestling fan"-hulkhogan1 <cite>KillerKhan420 posted [p:932601581] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>Does she have the megalock on her telephone? Are you and her out and about and her face is constantly in the screen? If so I'd not even be with someone like that in the first place. If you ain't comfortable it's not going to work. If you were talking to women way more attractive than her what do you think she would do? Especially if you had the mega lock on your phone and instead of paying any attention to her you are constantly checking your phone? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LeadPipeCinche 01/07/20 5:47:02 PM #16:	JBaLLEN66 posted... I understand this, but how do you know if shes not cheating lol Smell her vagina before she showers after she gets home. <cite>LeadPipeCinche posted [p:932601758] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>JBaLLEN66 posted... </cite> <quote>I understand this, but how do you know if shes not cheating lol</quote> Smell her vagina before she showers after she gets home. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
R_Jackal 01/07/20 5:47:06 PM #17:	Two options. Deal with your insecurity about it, either find a way to get over it yourself or bring it up. Or, just dump her outright because once a relationship hits the point of cheating accusations or suspicions it's all usually down hill from there. <cite>R_Jackal posted [p:932601759] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>Two options. Deal with your insecurity about it, either find a way to get over it yourself or bring it up. Or, just dump her outright because once a relationship hits the point of cheating accusations or suspicions it's all usually down hill from there. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Reis 01/07/20 5:48:12 PM #18:	Keith_Valentine posted... Werent you making a topic the other day asking how to line up women behind your gf back, tc? TC is a piece of garbo so his hypocrisy isn't shocking <cite>Reis posted [p:932601812] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>Keith_Valentine posted... </cite> <quote>Werent you making a topic the other day asking how to line up women behind your gf back, tc?</quote>TC is a piece of garbo so his hypocrisy isn't shocking </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Keith_Valentine 01/07/20 5:55:06 PM #19:	Reis posted... TC is a piece of garbo so his hypocrisy isn't shocking https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/78309730 Boom. <cite>Keith_Valentine posted [p:932602122] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>Reis posted... </cite> <quote>TC is a piece of garbo so his hypocrisy isn't shocking</quote> https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/boards/400-current-events/78309730 Boom. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 01/07/20 5:59:54 PM #20:	R_Jackal posted... Two options. Deal with your insecurity about it, either find a way to get over it yourself or bring it up. Or, just dump her outright because once a relationship hits the point of cheating accusations or suspicions it's all usually down hill from there. This. Preferably the first thing. If she gets defensive when you bring up your insecurities and open up, maybe she ain't the one for you. The right one will try to work with you. Not do everything you want, but work with you and try to figure out a compromise. If her response is basically "Well, I don't really give a shit about how it makes you feel", just move on. Just be open to compromise as well when you ask someone else to do it. --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:932602346] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>R_Jackal posted... </cite> <quote>Two options. Deal with your insecurity about it, either find a way to get over it yourself or bring it up. Or, just dump her outright because once a relationship hits the point of cheating accusations or suspicions it's all usually down hill from there.</quote> This. Preferably the first thing. If she gets defensive when you bring up your insecurities and open up, maybe she ain't the one for you. The right one will try to work with you. Not do everything you want, but work with you and try to figure out a compromise. If her response is basically "Well, I don't really give a shit about how it makes you feel", just move on. Just be open to compromise as well when you ask someone else to do it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 01/07/20 6:08:03 PM #21:	Lost_All_Senses posted... This. Preferably the first thing. If she gets defensive when you bring up your insecurities and open up, maybe she ain't the one for you. The right one will try to work with you. Not do everything you want, but work with you and try to figure out a compromise. If her response is basically "Well, I don't really give a shit about how it makes you feel", just move on. Just be open to compromise as well when you ask someone else to do it. im not trying to dictate which friends she should have though --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:932602700] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>Lost_All_Senses posted... </cite> <quote>This. Preferably the first thing. If she gets defensive when you bring up your insecurities and open up, maybe she ain't the one for you. The right one will try to work with you. Not do everything you want, but work with you and try to figure out a compromise. If her response is basically "Well, I don't really give a shit about how it makes you feel", just move on. Just be open to compromise as well when you ask someone else to do it.</quote> im not trying to dictate which friends she should have though </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solar_Crimson 01/07/20 6:09:15 PM #22:	Keith_Valentine posted... Werent you making a topic the other day asking how to line up women behind your gf back, tc? Yes. TC, just break up with her. She's too good for you; you don't deserve her at all. --- Be wary of boarding the hype train, lest you end up on the ruse cruise... - nanobuilder (r/nintendo) http://backloggery.com/SolarCrimson <cite>Solar_Crimson posted [p:932602752] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>Keith_Valentine posted... </cite> <quote>Werent you making a topic the other day asking how to line up women behind your gf back, tc?</quote>Yes. TC, just break up with her. She's too good for you; you don't deserve her at all. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Lost_All_Senses 01/07/20 8:28:04 PM #24:	JBaLLEN66 posted... im not trying to dictate which friends she should have though Can I have one post today that isn't completely misinterpreted? I never said that. But, I think this is it for me on CE today. Just not worth it at this point. --- Name checks out "Stupidity is a spectrum, and we're all on it" - OfDustandBone <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:932609092] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>JBaLLEN66 posted... </cite> <quote>im not trying to dictate which friends she should have though</quote> Can I have one post today that isn't completely misinterpreted? I never said that. But, I think this is it for me on CE today. Just not worth it at this point. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Eat More Beef 01/07/20 8:50:25 PM #25:	So, you're nervous your girlfriend has dude friends and are thinking of breaking up with her, yet you make topics about how you can cheat on her? You need to break up with her now before you kill her cause you are not in a healty state to have a real relationship. --- I wrote a horror short story collection. You can check it out, and other free short stories at http://www.aarondeck.com <cite>Eat More Beef posted [p:932610168] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>So, you're nervous your girlfriend has dude friends and are thinking of breaking up with her, yet you make topics about how you can cheat on her? You need to break up with her now before you kill her cause you are not in a healty state to have a real relationship. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BroodRyu 01/07/20 8:52:13 PM #26:	The more you post TC the more of a terrible person you appear to be. <cite>BroodRyu posted [p:932610269] in Is dumping... [t:78312992]...</cite> <quote>The more you post TC the more of a terrible person you appear to be. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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