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Orlando_Jordan
11/27/19 3:55:11 PM
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*Finds someone 1 week later*
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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk
11/27/19 3:55:37 PM
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TC: I'm not bitter about women
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joe40001
11/27/19 3:56:00 PM
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Orlando_Jordan posted...
*Finds someone 1 week later*


Me: "I'm going to die alone"
The World: "Yep, you are"
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Orlando_Jordan
11/27/19 3:56:07 PM
#4:


RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted...
TC: I'm not bitter about women
*makes this topic*

Who said I'm bitter? This topic is true AF.
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malenz
11/27/19 3:56:39 PM
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joe40001 posted...
Me: "I'm going to die alone"
The World: "Yep, you are"

so true
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Vol2tex
11/27/19 3:58:20 PM
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It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling.
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Orlando_Jordan
11/27/19 4:00:04 PM
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Vol2tex posted...
It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling.

These girls have a guy for 6+ months, are single for a mere week, complaining about how they're going to die alone, and jump right into another 6 month relationship.
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ArchiePeck
11/27/19 4:01:22 PM
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LMAO at TC
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SrRd_RacinG
11/27/19 4:01:31 PM
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He is right. They are usually very short-lived and there's not much growth or satisfaction.
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joe40001
11/27/19 4:02:27 PM
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Vol2tex posted...
It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling.

Basically though you can't complain about not having perfect relationships when there are lots of us who have to make due without any affection, companionship, or intimacy whatsoever.

Sure I have to go my whole adult life not knowing what it's like to cuddle with somebody who likes me, but you have it rough because you don't like how your bf does dishes or whatever.
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Mistere Man
11/27/19 4:05:20 PM
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Hey anyone that is lonely always has me.

They just never want to stoop to that level sadly as

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Trickfinger
11/27/19 4:05:42 PM
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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted...
TC: I'm not bitter about women
*makes this topic*
lmao

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gunplagirl
11/27/19 4:05:44 PM
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Just because they can get a new person to date doesn't change the fact that they might die alone. Just because you're in a relationship doesn't mean it's a good one or going to last at all, isn't it estimated that the average relationship only lasts 3 months? Plus rushing in can lead to all kinds of relationship issues arising from a fundamental lack of connection and communication.

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cmiller4642
11/27/19 4:06:01 PM
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Incel topic?
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Vol2tex
11/27/19 4:06:12 PM
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joe40001 posted...
Vol2tex posted...
It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling.

Basically though you can't complain about not having perfect relationships when there are lots of us who have to make due without any affection, companionship, or intimacy whatsoever.

Sure I have to go my whole adult life not knowing what it's like to cuddle with somebody who likes me, but you have it rough because you don't like how your bf does dishes or whatever.


Well this girl said that one guy was intimate with her for a while but didn't want to date her, yet still wanted her to be exclusive and for her not to have sex with anyone else.
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joe40001
11/27/19 4:23:27 PM
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Vol2tex posted...
joe40001 posted...
Vol2tex posted...
It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling.

Basically though you can't complain about not having perfect relationships when there are lots of us who have to make due without any affection, companionship, or intimacy whatsoever.

Sure I have to go my whole adult life not knowing what it's like to cuddle with somebody who likes me, but you have it rough because you don't like how your bf does dishes or whatever.


Well this girl said that one guy was intimate with her for a while but didn't want to date her, yet still wanted her to be exclusive and for her not to have sex with anyone else.

So what? She could say no and go get somebody else.
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Vol2tex
11/27/19 4:25:06 PM
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joe40001 posted...
Vol2tex posted...
joe40001 posted...
Vol2tex posted...
It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling.

Basically though you can't complain about not having perfect relationships when there are lots of us who have to make due without any affection, companionship, or intimacy whatsoever.

Sure I have to go my whole adult life not knowing what it's like to cuddle with somebody who likes me, but you have it rough because you don't like how your bf does dishes or whatever.


Well this girl said that one guy was intimate with her for a while but didn't want to date her, yet still wanted her to be exclusive and for her not to have sex with anyone else.

So what? She could say no and go get somebody else.


She stopped seeing him but started seeing him again because she thinks he changed
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joe40001
11/27/19 4:25:53 PM
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Vol2tex posted...
joe40001 posted...
Vol2tex posted...
joe40001 posted...
Vol2tex posted...
It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling.

Basically though you can't complain about not having perfect relationships when there are lots of us who have to make due without any affection, companionship, or intimacy whatsoever.

Sure I have to go my whole adult life not knowing what it's like to cuddle with somebody who likes me, but you have it rough because you don't like how your bf does dishes or whatever.


Well this girl said that one guy was intimate with her for a while but didn't want to date her, yet still wanted her to be exclusive and for her not to have sex with anyone else.

So what? She could say no and go get somebody else.


She stopped seeing him but started seeing him again because she thinks he changed

What does a girl being dumb has to do with anything though?
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smoke_break
11/27/19 4:29:03 PM
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I think with women the problem is more finding a good guy than a guy period, unlike dudes when they can't find a woman at all that is interested in them. With that said both are legitimate problems in their own right.

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Gakk86
11/27/19 4:29:15 PM
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TC, you've already won the "Most Likely to go on a Misogyny-Fueled Rampage" award, you can stop making these topics. The award doesn't stack.
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Vol2tex
11/27/19 4:29:29 PM
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joe40001 posted...
Vol2tex posted...
joe40001 posted...
Vol2tex posted...
joe40001 posted...
Vol2tex posted...
It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling.

Basically though you can't complain about not having perfect relationships when there are lots of us who have to make due without any affection, companionship, or intimacy whatsoever.

Sure I have to go my whole adult life not knowing what it's like to cuddle with somebody who likes me, but you have it rough because you don't like how your bf does dishes or whatever.


Well this girl said that one guy was intimate with her for a while but didn't want to date her, yet still wanted her to be exclusive and for her not to have sex with anyone else.

So what? She could say no and go get somebody else.


She stopped seeing him but started seeing him again because she thinks he changed

What does a girl being dumb has to do with anything though?


The point overall was that many of these guys are like that. So she sees a guy, he's a jerk, goes on to the next guy, that guy is a jerk, etc...none of these guys seemed to her worth dating or having sex with for a long period of time.
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joe40001
11/27/19 4:34:47 PM
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Vol2tex posted...
joe40001 posted...
Vol2tex posted...
joe40001 posted...
Vol2tex posted...
joe40001 posted...
Vol2tex posted...
It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling.

Basically though you can't complain about not having perfect relationships when there are lots of us who have to make due without any affection, companionship, or intimacy whatsoever.

Sure I have to go my whole adult life not knowing what it's like to cuddle with somebody who likes me, but you have it rough because you don't like how your bf does dishes or whatever.


Well this girl said that one guy was intimate with her for a while but didn't want to date her, yet still wanted her to be exclusive and for her not to have sex with anyone else.

So what? She could say no and go get somebody else.


She stopped seeing him but started seeing him again because she thinks he changed

What does a girl being dumb has to do with anything though?


The point overall was that many of these guys are like that. So she sees a guy, he's a jerk, goes on to the next guy, that guy is a jerk, etc...none of these guys seemed to her worth dating or having sex with for a long period of time.

First of all, it's according to her that they are jerks. But more than that having a bounty of relationships and not finding the perfect one is still a million times better than having to be alone forever.

I'm still confused what your 2nd hand story about how 1 girl interprets her romantic life has to do with people who spend their whole life alone. Are you saying she has it worse or something?
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KogaSteelfang
11/27/19 4:38:28 PM
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I don't think I've met any like that. Most of the ones I see struggling with relationships are the ones who feel that they always have to be in one, so end up jumping into situations that aren't good just to have somebody.

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cerealbox760
11/27/19 4:42:53 PM
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Studies have shown that millennial women on average have more partners millenial men. TC is somewhat correct.
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MacadamianNut3
11/27/19 4:44:37 PM
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We live in a society

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coh
11/27/19 4:44:49 PM
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Vol2tex posted...
It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling.
Girls are too obsessed with the idea of finding "Mr Right"
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TheDreadedWave
11/27/19 4:46:33 PM
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Orlando_Jordan posted...



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Infost
11/27/19 4:47:06 PM
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The issue is that what one says as exaggerated self-depreciation in representation of their frustration, is actually literally true for other people.

joe40001 posted...
Vol2tex posted...
It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling.

Basically though you can't complain about not having perfect relationships when there are lots of us who have to make due without any affection, companionship, or intimacy whatsoever.

Sure I have to go my whole adult life not knowing what it's like to cuddle with somebody who likes me, but you have it rough because you don't like how your bf does dishes or whatever.

To be fair, people are allowed to complain about anything, but they should be considerate and not complain to people who are worse off than them.
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GoodOlJr
11/27/19 4:48:28 PM
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joe40001 posted...
Me: "I'm going to die alone"
The World: "Yep, you are"


How does it feel being right about everything

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joe40001
11/27/19 4:49:49 PM
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Infost posted...
The issue is that what one says as exaggerated self-depreciation in representation of their frustration, is actually literally true for other people.

joe40001 posted...
Vol2tex posted...
It's not about having any guy, it's about having the right guy. A girl yesterday told me that these guys seem fine until a while later when you realize they have a lot of issues and are controlling.

Basically though you can't complain about not having perfect relationships when there are lots of us who have to make due without any affection, companionship, or intimacy whatsoever.

Sure I have to go my whole adult life not knowing what it's like to cuddle with somebody who likes me, but you have it rough because you don't like how your bf does dishes or whatever.

To be fair, people are allowed to complain about anything, but they should be considerate and not complain to people who are worse off than them.

There's an argument to be made that you shouldn't complain at all when you have it much better than others, but whatever.

Also long as we both agree we aren't saying "but the person who has many relationships but can't find the perfect one is the real victim here" it's fine.
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joe40001
11/27/19 4:50:43 PM
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GoodOlJr posted...
joe40001 posted...
Me: "I'm going to die alone"
The World: "Yep, you are"


How does it feel being right about everything

I'd prefer to have a girlfriend, but it's better than nothing I guess
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Vol2tex
11/27/19 4:54:31 PM
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She's not the only one to say this, several women I know have stated the same thing about the guys they see only wanting sex or being jerks (many of them seem controlling). I know we are only getting one side of the story though, but these experiences are why they feel that they will "be alone".

You can say that they are exaggerating because they could meet a great guy at some point in the future and have a better chance finding a guy to be with long-term than guys do finding women.
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joe40001
11/27/19 4:58:04 PM
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Vol2tex posted...
She's not the only one to say this, several women I know have stated the same thing about the guys they see only wanting sex or being jerks (many of them seem controlling). I know we are only getting one side of the story though, but these experiences are why they feel that they will "be alone".

You can say that they are exaggerating because they could meet a great guy at some point in the future and have a better chance finding a guy to be with long-term than guys do finding women.

Sure, they will by definition not be happy with people until they are. But that's 1. not an objective measurement of the quality of the people. 2. Nowhere nowhere near as bad as being forced to be alone forever.
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Tyranthraxus
11/27/19 4:58:30 PM
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RdVEHfJqAvUPIbk posted...
TC: I'm not bitter about women
*makes this topic*
This

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AirFresh
11/27/19 4:59:17 PM
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Nah, this happens all the time on my facebook

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KogaSteelfang
11/27/19 4:59:17 PM
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Vol2tex posted...
She's not the only one to say this, several women I know have stated the same thing about the guys they see only wanting sex or being jerks (many of them seem controlling). I know we are only getting one side of the story though, but these experiences are why they feel that they will "be alone".

You can say that they are exaggerating because they could meet a great guy at some point in the future and have a better chance finding a guy to be with long-term than guys do finding women.
I think the difference is that they would be choosing to be alone in that situation. It's due to them preferring to be alone rather than with a jerk. While some guys literally have no choice except to be alone.

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Akagami_Shanks
11/27/19 4:59:21 PM
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Vol2tex posted...
She's not the only one to say this, several women I know have stated the same thing about the guys they see only wanting sex or being jerks (many of them seem controlling). I know we are only getting one side of the story though, but these experiences are why they feel that they will "be alone".

You can say that they are exaggerating because they could meet a great guy at some point in the future and have a better chance finding a guy to be with long-term than guys do finding women.
not gonna read all the other posts for context as i've seen you posted ITT before but I'm just gonna jump in to your last few sentences and say

if someone friendzones people who are nice to them because they aren't a 9 or 10 out of 10, then maybe they deserve to be alone.

"I wish i could find more guys/girls like you" is probably one of the worst excuses in the book and is insanely cowardly.

I do have sympathy though for people who legitimately can't find anyone. But for the people with just insanely high standards going "Booo i'm going to die alone I can't find anyone why does no one love me" and they've been in like 10 relationships in the last few years is just being a drama queen

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Vol2tex
11/27/19 5:01:04 PM
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KogaSteelfang posted...
Vol2tex posted...
She's not the only one to say this, several women I know have stated the same thing about the guys they see only wanting sex or being jerks (many of them seem controlling). I know we are only getting one side of the story though, but these experiences are why they feel that they will "be alone".

You can say that they are exaggerating because they could meet a great guy at some point in the future and have a better chance finding a guy to be with long-term than guys do finding women.
I think the difference is that they would be choosing to be alone in that situation. It's due to them preferring to be alone rather than with a jerk. While some guys literally have no choice except to be alone.


True, but then you see guys on here turning down "whales" who hit on them.
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KogaSteelfang
11/27/19 5:04:50 PM
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Vol2tex posted...
True, but then you see guys on here turning down "whales" who hit on them.
Sure, some do. I'd be glad to attempt having a relationship for once though. When I say I'm going to die alone, it's because that's an actual factual possibility that is most likely going to happen. It's because of standards, or being picky. It's simply because I'm not good enough.

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Vol2tex
11/27/19 5:06:41 PM
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Akagami_Shanks posted...
Vol2tex posted...
She's not the only one to say this, several women I know have stated the same thing about the guys they see only wanting sex or being jerks (many of them seem controlling). I know we are only getting one side of the story though, but these experiences are why they feel that they will "be alone".

You can say that they are exaggerating because they could meet a great guy at some point in the future and have a better chance finding a guy to be with long-term than guys do finding women.
not gonna read all the other posts for context as i've seen you posted ITT before but I'm just gonna jump in to your last few sentences and say

if someone friendzones people who are nice to them because they aren't a 9 or 10 out of 10, then maybe they deserve to be alone.

"I wish i could find more guys/girls like you" is probably one of the worst excuses in the book and is insanely cowardly.

I do have sympathy though for people who legitimately can't find anyone. But for the people with just insanely high standards going "Booo i'm going to die alone I can't find anyone why does no one love me" and they've been in like 10 relationships in the last few years is just being a drama queen


In those cases, you're right, but I can see their point if the guy actually sounds like a jerk. Some of these guys also look at their phones and monitor their communications (one girl told me to just email her amd not text her, apparently the guy checked her phone) and tell them what activities they can and can't do, meanwhile the guy is sleeping with other women.

Would you want to stay with a person like that?
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joe40001
11/27/19 5:13:45 PM
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Vol2tex posted...
Akagami_Shanks posted...
Vol2tex posted...
She's not the only one to say this, several women I know have stated the same thing about the guys they see only wanting sex or being jerks (many of them seem controlling). I know we are only getting one side of the story though, but these experiences are why they feel that they will "be alone".

You can say that they are exaggerating because they could meet a great guy at some point in the future and have a better chance finding a guy to be with long-term than guys do finding women.
not gonna read all the other posts for context as i've seen you posted ITT before but I'm just gonna jump in to your last few sentences and say

if someone friendzones people who are nice to them because they aren't a 9 or 10 out of 10, then maybe they deserve to be alone.

"I wish i could find more guys/girls like you" is probably one of the worst excuses in the book and is insanely cowardly.

I do have sympathy though for people who legitimately can't find anyone. But for the people with just insanely high standards going "Booo i'm going to die alone I can't find anyone why does no one love me" and they've been in like 10 relationships in the last few years is just being a drama queen


In those cases, you're right, but I can see their point if the guy actually sounds like a jerk. Some of these guys also look at their phones and monitor their communications (one girl told me to just email her amd not text her, apparently the guy checked her phone) and tell them what activities they can and can't do, meanwhile the guy is sleeping with other women.

Would you want to stay with a person like that?

They aren't hostages. I don't understand why we are supposed to give them sympathy when they choose to be with weird shitty guys.
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Unite
11/27/19 5:16:35 PM
#44:


Orlando_Jordan posted...
*Finds someone 1 week later*


Difference is those women are getting dm from chads
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Vol2tex
11/27/19 5:31:01 PM
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It's not as simple as that though. My own boss at work, when she was in her late teens, was with this guy who was extremely controlling (not letting her go anywhere without him, monitoring all her communication) and she was unhappy, yet she stayed with him for 5 years. These guys appear great in some respects but treat the women poorly and then apologize for their behavior, yet start behaving that way again. To some extent, they feel worried about leaving the guy, in terms of the guy trying to harm them. There's a variety of factors surrounding why they stay with these guys but I don't think it is productive to say that they can always simply leave.
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joe40001
11/27/19 5:37:01 PM
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Vol2tex posted...
It's not as simple as that though. My own boss at work, when she was in her late teens, was with this guy who was extremely controlling (not letting her go anywhere without him, monitoring all her communication) and she was unhappy, yet she stayed with him for 5 years. These guys appear great in some respects but treat the women poorly and then apologize for their behavior, yet start behaving that way again. To some extent, they feel worried about leaving the guy, in terms of the guy trying to harm them. There's a variety of factors surrounding why they stay with these guys but I don't think it is productive to say that they can always simply leave.

They aren't hostages, they can always leave. If they legitimately fear for their safety leaving 1. They really shouldn't date guys like that in the first place, but whatever 2. Tell people about it, find a safe way to break it off where people know you are going to break it off and you have people around you who can help you feel safe.

I'm sorry but you aren't going to get me to cosign to the idea that these people who choose shitty guys, choose not to leave them, are actually stuck and helpless victims.

Maybe they shouldn't go for the "bad boy" so damn much. They should take some accountability for the type of people they date. But regardless they can always leave so idk why they need you white knighting them.

People who constantly choose to stay in relationships with shitty people aren't the people who have it rough, the people who have it rough are the ones who go their entire life not knowing what it's like to have physical/emotional intimacy.
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EvenSpoonier
11/27/19 5:56:07 PM
#48:


cmiller4642 posted...
Incel topic?
Yup. Incel topic.

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Vol2tex
11/27/19 5:56:48 PM
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I'm referring as well to psychological reasons why they stay, and the guys are not "bad boys" when they first start dating. After they've already been dating for a while, the guy then starts showing his true colors. By that point, they're already invested in the relationship and like certain aspects about the guy.

I used to share your viewpoint when I was younger, but I've listened to 100s of women in person and online the past few years talking about their relationships and I realized that these situations are not just black and white. Not to imply that the women themselves are saints either.

What does annoy me though is this hispanic girl who keeps dating hispanic guys who treat her poorly and repeatedly cheat on her, yet she outright told me that she wouldn't date a black guy. A person like that has poor logic.
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deanshow
11/27/19 5:58:07 PM
#50:


joe40001 posted...
Basically though you can't complain about not having perfect relationships when there are lots of us who have to make due without any affection, companionship, or intimacy whatsoever.

Sure I have to go my whole adult life not knowing what it's like to cuddle with somebody who likes me, but you have it rough because you don't like how your bf does dishes or whatever.
Your arguement is shitty

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joe40001
11/27/19 6:03:00 PM
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Vol2tex posted...
I'm referring as well to psychological reasons why they stay, and the guys are not "bad boys" when they first start dating. After they've already been dating for a while, the guy then starts showing his true colors. By that point, they're already invested in the relationship and like certain aspects about the guy.

They aren't hostages, they can still leave.

If a person finds themselves in a bad relationship for a long time why do you seem to think they shouldn't take any accountability for that? They aren't hostages, they can leave.

Why don't you think they are at all responsible? Why aren't they accountable for their relationship actions and choices?
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MelzezDoor
11/27/19 6:05:46 PM
#52:


Vol2tex posted...
I'm referring as well to psychological reasons why they stay, and the guys are not "bad boys" when they first start dating. After they've already been dating for a while, the guy then starts showing his true colors. By that point, they're already invested in the relationship and like certain aspects about the guy.

I used to share your viewpoint when I was younger, but I've listened to 100s of women in person and online the past few years talking about their relationships and I realized that these situations are not just black and white. Not to imply that the women themselves are saints either.

What does annoy me though is this hispanic girl who keeps dating hispanic guys who treat her poorly and repeatedly cheat on her, yet she outright told me that she wouldn't date a black guy. A person like that has poor logic.

I'd think the logic to avoid the choice that would have her family disown her is decent. That is to say, not great.
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Vol2tex
11/27/19 6:10:31 PM
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MelzezDoor posted...
Vol2tex posted...
I'm referring as well to psychological reasons why they stay, and the guys are not "bad boys" when they first start dating. After they've already been dating for a while, the guy then starts showing his true colors. By that point, they're already invested in the relationship and like certain aspects about the guy.

I used to share your viewpoint when I was younger, but I've listened to 100s of women in person and online the past few years talking about their relationships and I realized that these situations are not just black and white. Not to imply that the women themselves are saints either.

What does annoy me though is this hispanic girl who keeps dating hispanic guys who treat her poorly and repeatedly cheat on her, yet she outright told me that she wouldn't date a black guy. A person like that has poor logic.

I'd think the logic to avoid the choice that would have her family disown her is decent. That is to say, not great.


That part is unclear but I didn't get the sense that her family would disown her. She was telling me that her (hispanic) friends were dissuading her when a black guy showed interest in her, but she herself also didn't sound to be into the idea of dating a black guy.
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