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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:31:56 AM
#1:


Hi.

If you are Christian of any kind, Agnostic, Atheist or Jewish and secretly or not that secretly looking for a wife - or a good platonic friend - keep on reading- otherwise skip it haha! ;D

If you are a hard drug user, regular tobacco smoker -or - into non monogamy or hookups - or on the borderline slutty side- you should probably skip it as well, because it doesnt align with me and I'll most likely be repulsed by it.

The reason this is MASSIVELY long and contains a lot of sincere thoughts and sharing which probably will turn 95% of you off is because it is supposed to REPULSE all who have no patience for getting to know someone- no understanding or acceptance for other peoples choices... and no interest in peoples depth.

I am looking for husband or a friend, not a random fan,
I dont have a time for a small talk...
If you're looking for the same - this heart to heart read will be worth your time.

This is me doing a a natural selection without even one dialog with you- it is an experiment and I have to say it is going very well- just the way I wanted.
Anybody who would be a waste of time falls off at the start and thats how I roll.

Women of a value- especially the attractive ones need that radical selection, because you guys know very well that most of you is conditioned to be permanently horny,
swiping left or right and sending me something lame or unoriginal such as:
hi. Sexy/beautiful/Gorgeous or hi/ heyyyyyy
All those messages make the good guys really hard to find... so if you are a human of a value write me a good, long email and show me your essence.

DO NOT MESSAGE or email ME UNLESS
you read my profile.
It is very kind of you to complement me on the loojs but completely unnecessary and it doesnt matter anything to me, I prefer true interest in person over any forms of superficial admiration.
Likes and messages here are pointless because, while men might receive a few messages or likes a day, women receive hundreds a day or more... and in a search I am doing - you need to stand out.
So again, please read my profile and only then reach out-
I WILL KNOW if you haven't read it fully.

Lastly, understand that - it is easy to get an attention for a female and so YES- (below & above) - This is me -
basically trying to turn you off : )

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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:32:51 AM
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I am the surreal soul warming version of a fun
'teenage granny' ;)
Recently I imagined myself meeting someone special, a great friend, a partner or a future husband... who knows.. Let's see where this experiment goes...
I love everyone, care for everyone, defend innocent, ...especially animals and kids. There is too much essence to me, so it is impossible to simmer it down to some dating profile intro paragraph.
but, well..

Friends describe me as caring, warm, helpful, cheerful, loyal, weird, funny, and often tell me that I'm wise or just an old soul.

I used to live in Poland, several years in US east and west coast and as of now I live in Helsinki..
I study Business IT in Helsinki, Finland
(it is not my passion I was just curious - scripting languages etc.)
This is a very beautiful, easy place, but sadly I feel isolated here and completely out of place. And I am not one of the humans who use alcohol drugs and random sex as a temporary fix of a loneliness.

I AM going to vent about the place so don't take it as being unfortunate. I just don't fit here and it is not a place for me.

People here dont get me, neither they appeal to me morally or behaviorally-wise... In a nutshell it is a country of alcoholics, smokers, drug addicts and frequent hard drug users and sure I still adore them, but the dating scene here revolves solely around tinder and random hookups with strangers- and thats not for me. This appeals here to most people, not only young singles, but married and older as well- people seem not the most trustworthy here, neither we share any major values.

I am not judging- those who do that chose it for themselves-
IT'S YOU'R LIFE - I choose something else and you can imagine how hard is to find what I truly want- here.
And I want an honest love with my type of a human. And I am not desperate - desperate settle down for whatever husband- I want what is best for me.
And I do my best to sort out through all the trashy characters out there.

Men are overly spoiled here, and both men and women treat tinder hookups with strangers, as some form of an exciting hobby. So called afterwork activities...
yeah.
Women here have no self respect and throw themselves at men, even on a lonely bus ride home... because suddenly they feel the urge. And men here assume all women are like that... I imagine most people here have at least 3 genital diseases, tragic and funny, but I honestly don't think it is just my vivid imagination.
I kind of just want to stay away from them.
You smile to a guy or treat him with simple kindness and he will think you want to split your legs for him in 30 min. somewhere, or will assume you are in love and will ghosts you.

The raging alcoholic and the sex addicts are everywhere and that includes women, peeing - or worse- in the middle of a sidewalk, wasted. Rarely someone deals with their sad emotions in a healthy way - majority wants to desperately escape it in every way possible.
It's the "Finnish culture" and I've seen enough.

Of course, occasionally there are few rare cases, here and there, but unfortunately I have not been lucky to date any.
I am certain, that I am not meant to be here any more.
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:33:56 AM
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In the last 10 years I had a short marriage to a guy who was actually great besides his horrible relapse / drug and alcohol addiction. HOPELESS CASE. Had to get out of that toxicity..
After that I dated only 2 guys for quite a long time. One Irish (sweet human)
and the other American (biggest life lesson/or call it a love mistake ) for 5+ years. Well, there are really no mistakes in life only happy accidents they say... ;)

I was engaged with the Us guy, he cheated on me and despite forgiveness and trying to fix it the trust was never fully back - Deep down I didnt want to marry him, I suffered from all of it too much and my feelings died the natural death over time. Sad but its good to move on after that, took me a chunk of time, but better late than never.

That basically summarizes my entire "hardcore level" of promiscuousness in the full span of living here - 10 years.

I have been happy being single, although I want a real deal- and Ive been getting ready for it...
Ive been waiting a life time for that.
I really hope and want to meet someone with whom I can share my life, experience it.. be close to... create... and more...

SO now that you have a glimpse of my frustration-
it will be easier to understand my genuine intention to meet and bond with my kind of people, with the same morals,
hopefully- on every level - and really- from anywhere.

I believe people with the same values as mine DO exist.
I have few of them as friends, and so Im throwing myself out there to find you.
Because I want to find you and I really want to hug you.

I traveled a LOT in my life, because I was constantly searching for the home and the one for me, because I've always felt deep down that "home" is nowhere near the place I am from.

I'm a bit tired of searching, but well, probably nothing good will come out of isolating myself or limiting myself to a geographical location...
SO bam, here I AM! ;)

( I have certain places I saw during the years of my travels or even research- which are close to my heart and to which I will be changing my location on this site - frequently- probably every few days. This is why my location changes often, Im physically here- but often mentally somewhere else. Ideally, I'd change my zip code to New Zealand- the mountains, the sea.. but I can't do that, because this app is banned there. xD
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:34:15 AM
#4:


Anyway, I am not in a crazy rush, but I don't do my search in Finland, only abroad, because I dont want to limit possibility of happiness to one location which has no surprises..
For a weirdo like me the World is way too small.

I've opened this profile on a whim on one morning...
That day something struck me, I was summarizing on the back of my head all my years of being here, everywhere on Earth and in Finland...
and realized that deep down I am actually slightly heartbroken, because of being so out of place... and that was it - I decided to sit and write something, hoping that someone, somewhere, -sooner or later will hear me... perhaps will resonate with my message, or see similar goals or complementing characteristics...

Will this happen?
I dont know.
Worth a try.

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There might be a lot of typos, as you keep reading, so my deepest apologies to those equally annoyed by that,
however, please note that I'm not fluent in English, at least not yet, so basically good luck with reading it lol
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:35:03 AM
#5:


If you like what I wrote below, please reach out to me directly on my other platforms,... about that later -
SHOW YOURSELF TO ME please !!!

ALSO- I'm not going to be checking my likes here or selecting anyone, at best maybe I'll visit this profile once a week to update my location or correct my horrendous typos.

I have a life dear people and unfortunately I have a limited time for this and replying.
Its either hell yes or hell no... so keep in mind I reply mostly to messages with a hell yes vibe or the essence.

Shockingly this profile has generated massive amount of responses, so please when you write a message make it juicy good, because based on that I will or I will not respond. Thank you.

Also and again, please READ ALL first before you say hi.
and please don't say just "hi", or hi ___ whats your plan for the weekend would you like to get to know me hey, heyyy, hello, etc.. those will be lost among thousands of identical messages.

Thank you for reading, I respect that you put your time into this.... ( the actual reading starts below)

The picture below:
This is Mobis- a cute lab that used to live with me and my Filemon.

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ASPIRATIONS
Current goal
Spiritual growth is my probably one of my day to day self-care plans and a goal ( and by spiritual, I don't mean on a religious level ). I am already good enough, I am not tryin to fix myself - I've gone through that already- so this is not why I have this spiritual self knowledge cravings phase. I think I just want to learn enough to be a really good wife, partner, and a parent...human.

OTHER GOALS:
It would be nice to make genuine friend or two, and optimistically- to find a person who is my home.

I suffer from dreadful unbelonging in Finland- and about that...

Ideally, regardless the love luck, I am planning on relocating from Finland to a completely new place and creating a new life. Love motivates me the most in life so making friend somewhere or falling in love with someone matching me would probably make it happen sooner rather than later.
I don't know exactly where, I want to live- and when- I have some ideas in my head... There are some places I love more than the rest.

I could even do a solo van life for a year to find out where is the best place for me - in my heart though it would be a cute town, or a farm near a big city, near the mountains or the sea or some nice nature, I want a LOT of nature around- peaceful areas, mountains, sea, lakes, rivers, forests, valleys, hills, whatever - and oh gosh ANIMALS, not too far from the city because I like the city too ...ideally it will have 4 seasons or a weather thats not too hot... not a fan of sticky hot. English language areas would be perfect, but I speak few languages so I guess I could learn another one too...
The more the place matches of any of those - the better.

I am an introverted extrovert, and love peaceful life so I would enjoy that as much as human contact.

Lastly- my most heartwarming goal is to find someone dear- enjoy each other and start a family, perhaps in a few years, with someone with whom we will click really well ! Gosh, how I wish for that.........
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EffectAndCause
06/09/19 7:35:33 AM
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:35:54 AM
#7:


Hm.

I am emotionally and mentally ready for a lock down.
I would prefer to bond with a man with no children or exs on his tail, if you know what I mean. No drama. I dont mind if you were divorced before years back. Recently would be a problem- you need a solid break first.

It took me a lot to get here.. where I am right now.
I have been through a lot in life and a lot of things were not my choice. You might think my profile is long- and revealing all- but you couldn't be more wrong- my story is way to complex and rich, impossible to comprehend for many...

I spent a lot of years thinking about what type of a guy I want to end up with.. I know now what and what kind of character in a partner or a friend I want, and so I am putting my message out there, maybe someone will read it and like it.

Please be as sincere as it gets and speak your heart straight up- getting to know someone sometimes takes too much time, not everyone is an open book -like me,
and when you postpone opening up and soulful sincerity - then you might end up falling in love or dedicating your life & time to building friendship with someone completely wrong for you...

Know who you are and who and what you want as well, who would complement your existence and vice versa.

To become close with someone - you need to establish friendship and trust- and to become friends you need to open up- and it doesn't matter if you open up over the years or months ( if you have that kind of time ) or in a matter of days or hours - whichever way it is delivered- opening up doesnt mean I want to marry you- nor that I am desperate for a connection - neither it means I want you to open up with the same pace as me.
It only means - this is me - bare - saving your time - accept it/ roll with it/be curious to follow up about it/ love it/ - or NEXT. Cmon dude. We won't live forever.

Yes sure- opening up- This might be shocking to some people- because they are slow- and I really open up with all my life experiences and emotional views or junk really fast - especially when I like or feel confident about someone
( for a relationship or friendship)
and unfortunately some aren't ready to hear out my truth and ghost me.
I think thats really low.

Some dont like the fact that I am a networker- and socialize.
I know a lot of people on a decent or even deeper level- my instagram is an example of it. Does it mean I am shady talking openly with people- no. It means I am transparent and I dont care what you think seeing me being kind to X different people a day- whether they are male or female.
Does it mean that I date them , hook up with them or hit on them- no- its the opposite- and again-
It means that my level of honesty is strongly based on transparency and I rather be myself in front of everybodys eyes than behind their back.
And how can we become friends if you dont accept me for who I am and act so judgmental? We cant and we wont.

Some of those who visit my instagram tend to be judgmental- or they keep stalking my conversations with my IG friends or people Ive known for 8 or more years- or stalk on my comments, likes or stories, but dont connect with me.
Well if you do that- that only means that you are a creeper.

If I had a hope for a simple mutual understanding with another human- but they ghosted me after answering their question or sharing your story- something is off here.
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:36:09 AM
#8:


Some of men here have no courage to say a follow up word - negative nor positive-
Just Poof! Youre ghosted- well - that sometimes hurts- but mostly it just shows the lack of decency and social intelligence that comes hand in hand with an emotional intelligence.

-BUT there are billions people out there and maybe someone will get me.
Also, my profile should resonate with you, your heart and soul - not with your best bud, mom or a grandma. They are different people- If you are easily swayed by others' opinion and have no solid ground of your own understanding and feeling- I can tell right now- you we won't work out even as friends.

I wont diminish myself for NO one.

I cant be anything but an open book- I'm upfront about things Ive experienced- or feel at the moment.
I cant change the experiences I lived through, does it make me less qualified for a relationship- quite the opposite.
Experiences equal the expansion of mind and understanding.
I can't erase things that happened to me- or pretend that stuff I suffered or learned from didnt exist - it is my whole sweet package buddy- it is what made me who I am today and who I am proud of.
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:37:13 AM
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And I wouldn't change anything, even the near death SCA experience I had years back. which was one of the worst things I had gone through but it taught me the most.
Yes I'm one of those... I am a an intuitive and a sensitive person and apparently- yes- a human CAN die from a heartbreak. Especially the one who loves purely.

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About long range dreams - long lasting love and creating family in a few years from now is my sweet dream, but I wouldn't want to pressure any big life decisions on anyone or myself...

It has to feel right.

Recognizing someone who feels good- sometimes doesn't take much time at all- I need to recognize you and
you need to recognize me too- and that's basically all there is to it- except , also- it can't be one sided.

I often think about it and... couple or a few years would be ideal to start a new chapter of life with someone dear, not because they aren't ready yet or are scared... but because it would be nice to enjoy each other for a bit as well before the starting a family...

so I guess if you like that idea, give me a fist bump right now.
or better... keep on reading.

When I saw some parts of Oregon, it was a love at first sight. And I do believe in love at first sight.

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TALENT
I could probably beat you at
glueing chips to my hips or taking a photo of a goat in the boat...or a naked poker!

jk. I am rather VERY reserved with that stuff and I don't even know how to play poker,
though heard that I'm good at recognizing "poker faces" and fake people.

Hmm,,,,let's see... a stare contest would be probably my win!

I am not usually competing with a guy in a relationship, I am more of an inspirer, or an equal player..

but..I love water sports and kissing...so
I'd probably beat you at paddle board balancing or something goofy in the water..
and most definitely I could seriously break a Guinness record of the length of enjoyable passionate kissing ...
I heard the latest score was 58 hours,
HA! I 'm sure I could do better.

I could definitely beat you at creating long sincere dating profile, and not replying to people who attempt to waste my time because they didnt even read it. Ha ha

Natural intuitive social interaction skills
and excellent communication with ALL people and animals is something almost everyone compliments me on, so maybe that too...
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:37:31 AM
#11:


An additional skill from my perspective, would be looking at everything and everyone through the spectrum of love because, you know,.... I do acid.
naah, kidding - I've never done acid in my life.
I'm an innocent clean *baby* on many levels, seriously, and I actually like it and I appreciate the people who stay away from drugs... as much as those who don't do random hookups... or tinder.
However I am not going to judge you negatively- if you tried drugs or use tinder- or drink alcohol- I think anything in moderation could be harmless, alright - still, if it is frequent-perhaps it is not aligned with me, but it is your choice and I respect that.

Any questions, ASK!

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MY TRAITS
The first thing people notice about me
First of all...

If I ever come out of the house... haha

Eyes.
I probably stare too long.
I was once fired because of that.

Then:
Being very quiet listening because 50% of the time I really dont feel like talking...

& Very straight- forward , sometimes deep or goofy/ always sincere/ curious/ positive attitude - thats when I am talking.

Both confuse people- depending what they experience first.

Deep serious / funny side and sometimes no filter is best to summarize me - yes, stranger.. Here is that anticipated for entire minute story of my life....
;)

What's yours?

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NEEDS
I value
Sincerity, loyalty, integrity,
genuine kindness and intentions,
emotional openness, empathy and respect...
These are super important to me.

I value all people, but especially people who are dedicated to emotional and spiritual and mental self improvement...
Who know how to soulfully open up and despite being successful or passionate about their career dont blabber about money, or their job as it was their personality or identity, I admire when there is much more to people than just their job. - in that note when you send me an email please speak from a heart and keep in mind that no matter how passionate about your career you are- youre not interviewing for a job, so show me some soul and essence outside of your career zone.

Those who are not focused solely on money and tangible things in life are the people I respect a LOT... there is nothing wrong with making money- but if thats all you are- ... next!
( An extremely intelligent human without a decent level of emotional and social intelligence is absolutely useless in a relationship.
I think these kind of people buy those dolls, nowadays, whether plastic or alive....)

I also value people who put their sweet time to teach me something that I want to learn- or something I have to, but don't really want to or know how... or are not super confident about.
Sometimes I like a friendly encouragement to overcome the mundane tasks, I usually do those lil pushes for others in a heartbeat, but not for myself, and I don't have anyone to help me with that... I like to be inspired by someone not just inspire them. Usually this is one sided...
Maybe I'll find someone and we could kick each other's butts lol...with love.. haha

Even though I'm assertive and fairly organized, my imagination runs all over the place and I like to be inspired by someone or something, and I like to look up to someone every day... I usually find positive qualities in everyone.. and search for mentors in people who are smarter.
Maybe most of the time I feel like I know nothing, even though I hear it's absolutely not true, but still..
I value a lot the gifts of shared knowledge, true genuine good intentions, and thoughtfulness.

Quality time with people and discovering person's depth matter a LOT to me.

Connection to nature animals and art is something I VALUE and MUST have in life.

Most of my friends are artists or scientists... and a few hippies on sanctuary farms... :D
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Hexenherz
06/09/19 7:38:23 AM
#12:


Conflict posted...
I saw 8 posts and it didn't cross my mind that 7 of them would be this bio

Yeah I started scrolling down and I was confused after the third or fourth one whether or not they are all one profile? >_>
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:38:28 AM
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HOBBIES
I should spend less time
watching self-help youtube channels and listening to self help audio-books.... ;) I am running out of time to live haha!

I SHOULD spend MORE time doing things I love and ideally a person I will love (once I find him of course) ... :D

About that- random yet very important info in the middle of all of it- it is important to me that my kids will be baptized and celebrate Xmass as a tradition, if father is Jewish he needs to be fine with me not converting- but the kids can celebrate Hanukkah with his family too. I am used to mixed family traditions... but ONLY Jewish and Christian.
I don't know why once you answer the question whether you saw got - it assumes you are a fan.
Certainly, I am NOT Game of Thrones fan.
Read that again and again and stop using it as a conversation starter.
Not obsessed not excited about it at all- I don't mind watching it tho, I haven't seen the new season.
I like that it is a costume show, but I rarely I have a time for things like this anyway.

WHAT I THINK ABOUT RELIGION and why I respect traditions bu I don't believe that one religion is better than the other:
On this picture the elephant portrays the concept of God or the unknown source of mystical power. And blind people around it portray us- all the people- us, the fools who perceive only a small piece of the same source, convincing themselves is the whole picture, idealizing it imaging it their own way. This is all about how out limited knowledge leads us to believe it is the whole truth. When it is not.
On that note- I'm sending my respect to all people especially, atheists and agnostics with solid morals ;) <3

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MOMENTS
When I die, I will
One day I like to imagine myself as an energy that will transform into a beautiful living tree or something else...

On another day I imagine that when I will die, I will still live somewhere pretty as a gorgeous delicate free spirit, and I will eat tacos, lasagna, pizza, burritos, fresh fruit from all over the world and all sorts of yummy stuff, at least 77 times a day and on Sundays,
I will ditch the angel down covers, and I will sleep covered with a lot of warm and fluffy puppies and kittens.
Oh, I will never be worried about ANYTHING in life!

(..except you people getting yourselves in to trouble on some wackadoodle dating sites ;)

*** I don't follow any religion... in a sense I don't practice it.
I was raised Catholic, but have been celebrating pretty much all Christian and Jewish holidays with family or friends, for the last 15 years. I respect the traditions of all cultures and religions and morals people take out of their religious upbringing and I get along with people regardless of their beliefs or opinions.
That doesn't mean I wouldn't want to have common traditions with my future husband for example.
Regarding friends- you can pray to a cookie monster and I will get you ;)

This my kitty Filemon. I got him in NYC 12 years ago. He is a khao manee mix with van kedisi, hypoallergenic, fascinated with water and other animals... He travels everywhere with me- he even has a passport- seriously, he's flown many times, sailed on the seas, loves the beach, the mountains, good food, all the nice kitten ladies, you know...,
bird watching... He adores everybody, especially Mobis my Labrador friend that used to live with us, haha.

Please don't get intimidated by my cool cat.
Thanks. :D
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:38:45 AM
#14:


This is all one profile guys. It continues.
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treewojima
06/09/19 7:39:19 AM
#16:


gimme them digits
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BloodPuppetX
06/09/19 7:39:26 AM
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tl;dr
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Oh? Who are you, Mr. Bunny? This world is like the real world, but evil has twisted it.
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EffectAndCause
06/09/19 7:39:34 AM
#18:


She fuckin better be hot at this point, though I almost certainly expect short pink hair.
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clearaflagrantj
06/09/19 7:40:54 AM
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We need pics.
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:40:58 AM
#20:


Conflict posted...
How old is this woman


35, but she looks younger. She's pretty and looks very conventional but of well-off stock, like a horse girl - but definitely has the exact intense crazy eye stare you would expect.

anyway:
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SECRETS
The most private thing I'm willing to admit
This is an odd question and I'm not going to read it again.

Instead, I'll just write my thoughts and pour my soul out in the section below
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I am mostly interested in connecting with people on a deep level.
It is not a secret, although, if someone is on a shallow, I tend to be discouraged to get to know them and welcome them into my life. Also I don't think I want to put 3-10 years getting to know someone's depth... If you are ready to dive deep and open up keep on reading...

I've gotten into self-growth few yers back, meditation, reading... and psychology to get over the depression, which at that time I was experiencing because being in a completely wrong relationship, and I suppose to heal the remains of my childhood as well.
In my opinion every adult's problems tend to start in childhood... even the most precious one.
I like when people are aware of their conditioning, or past traumas AND themselves.

Changes are possible, so I've been making the time for self discovery, healing and I'd recommend self-improvement to anyone! I appreciate when people who get into this.
Every one of us has a place to develop, we might not be aware of what it is till that day when it comes up to the surface... and once it does- that should be enough of a reason to work on it and on becoming best version of self, in my opinion...

In terms of personality typology, I've done Myers Briggs test a few times in my life and my results were: enfp, enfj & infp and even isfp, so try to figure that out... HA!
Yeah, you won't!
( Since the web site 16 personality types . com kept changing and shortening their questions over time into vague, as the Big5 test.)

If you are not familiar with any of that you should know that I enjoy company of people who are kind, sincere, empathetic, compassionate, artistic, altruistic, intuitive, paying attention to a big picture....rather than obsessing about tiny details.
I think I am sort of and observer and in the middle regarding those details and seeing big picture.

I enjoy being around introverts as much as extroverts.
It makes absolutely no difference to me, I understand both types, if not all of them...
Let's just say, I have zero problem putting myself in someone's shoes and I let people BE whatever they want to be and I see the good literally in every single person I have ever met.
Even if I don't wish to be around specific person, or if someone is a complete a*hole, I understand often where the bad sides of them are coming from & I hold no grudges.
They are just going through a different stage of evolving and I don't need to be there or see that...

I most definitely have a full blown appreciation for all weirdos, artists and kind, sensitive spiritual people - who especially those who can speak their heart out... and those who adore animals and nature.
BE kind!

***ALSO**** If you are an artist, regardless if you like me or not, you can reach out to me- I will definitely "support" your art- it might be virtually, vibrationally and socially, but hey, it counts!!

See my personality test result below , also I get asked a lot about my sign, so if astrology means anything to anyone I am Gemini with Leo ascendant// bday may 21st 1984. I don't follow astrology so please know you won't charm me with astro compatibilities - the info is for you- knock yourself out.
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:41:26 AM
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And I like popcorn and chocolate.
Aloe vera & palm tree plants.
Eggs and a huge mug of a good tea in the morning. :)

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DATING
What I'm actually looking for
I actually dislike the term "looking for" and the entire realm of internet dating.

I rather get myself out there and be visible in my truest form- not "caving" as I have been for the past few years, and let the love find me, instead of searching for it.

I am not looking for a second half because I am not a half either. I want a soul-mate partner who gets me like I get him and with whom we will be best friends, speaking our hearts with no filter.
I also want to find "my tribe"- a friend or friends from anywhere in this world, my lost twins say hi to me.

I don't think I ever dated like the "regular people "do...
To me a perfect date is just hanging out, walking or whatever, and I've never even called them dates, not putting too much pressure on the process of it... I like spending time together.. lil trips... Ideal date would be a hot coco by a fireplace with crackling sounds and plenty of stuff to talk or laugh about and maybe then also reasons to kiss and say nothing at all.

Although I'd definitely go on a date with a person who is in touch with what they think or feel.

To elaborate on it- I prefer to be around people who speak up over those who don't know how to talk about how they feel about something...

I like when people can address important things in polite thoughtful way... I speak with love and I like that about people too.
However I don't necessarily treat people like gentle petals,
I will say what I need to say just without being rude.

SINCE DATING & relationships here in Finland mostly start from a drunken hookups I don't date locally. Neither I drink. Certainly not willing to hookup with a random dude or someone I have no feelings for,
not even with the guy I like before I know him,
all that - not my jam,
so I feel that I must push myself out there, somewhere... because realistically, who am I going to meet here... ( laughing!)

Don't get me wrong- I am NOT complaining or unfortunate- Finland is an amazing safe country to live in- with a beautiful nature and social democratic system, we have no homeless, no hunger, even students get a salary for being students, and living here is MAD easy- but the odds of finding someone for life are close to ZERO. The people are cold and it is VERY HARD to make one friend. Family here is not a priority.
Parents have no idea how to parent the child's emotions and they grow up to be socially cold and distant, but it is normal here.
Seems to me that a lot of people nowadays - everywhere not just here- don't know what love is.
Everything is a transaction, nothing is genuinely given, nothing is about just giving and loving.
They build the walls preventing them feeling emotionally good or bad, and what it does it not only keeps the pain out but also keeps the pain in- so there are a lot of really sad internally people trying to find love and twist it into a transaction strategy in a relationship.
This kind of conditioning seems wrong and worthless to me.

I've worked on my character all my life, through lots of ups and downs, and it would be nice to have it appreciated, but unfortunately here the qualities I have are completely overlooked. Total frog land... ;) ha
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:41:58 AM
#22:


Since I am interested in finding my soulmate- a partner to get along with who doesn't smoke, is not addicted to anything destructive to him or potentially to the relationship or family, who has the same values, pretty eyes to stare into and a lovely smile etc..... I felt I had to get some idea of what kind of guys are out in the world.... I'm constantly asking myself:
Will anyone appreciate me somewhere... OR am I doomed FA' EVAAAAAAAH.....

- exposing myself to the world will be my new black I guess.
lol

Like I mentioned before- I'd be VERY happy If I found a friend too- in a genuine and empathetic person, but not necessarily with 100% of similar interests & passions (below). I like to learn from friends new things, know what they are into and why.

I don't care if you are shy, rich, if you think you are cool or uncool, if you wear two different shoes, whether you have figured out life in your opinion or not, even if you feel completely spaced out or you're feeling as if you were actually from Mars- whatever-
If you think we would connect well- I encourage you to write to me something sincere.

Be gentle to yourself, we are only humans.
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Hexenherz
06/09/19 7:42:08 AM
#23:


I am seriously going to need some sort of photographic evidence proving this is actually one profile.
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:42:44 AM
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Oh,
Someone asked me how I rate attractiveness...
I think I rate it as a summary of everything about a human.
I am a sucker for an honest pair of eyes and a kind smile, and of course the character.

Im not a fan of gym obsessed tattooed guys, neither I oppose this if that is your passion.
I don't have tattoos myself,... its art nonetheless,
however I dont perceive tattoos, piercings and all these stylish beards or designer clothes as anything hot in particular, it is just something you prefer, not me, and that's ok too- not a plus, nor a minus.

The same goes for the clothes. I dont put much attention to what people wear. I have a style Id say, but not paying attention to designer tags. Quality not always means expensive- I do enjoy quality products as we all do- tho I don't associate them with a price tag- well made stuff is just well made stuff.
My grandma knits well.

Actually lot of physical or appearance things dont really matter to me... I like specific body shape sometimes I pay attention more to that, but I try not to judge people negatively or positively. Body shape changes- mine does- my exs did, always.
Once you love or like someone as a friend their looks are really not that important as their personality.

I think I am more complicated when it comes to furniture than an outfit.
I like when person has a taste in something that I like too.
I like new things, or handmade things, that are well made, modern yet resemble vintage... Well what else would I like-That's my teenage granny style! :)

In terms of smoking/ drinking /drugs:
I dont like cigarettes and smoke of any sort hurts me inside out, I also dont like when people around me drink alcohol regularly. Ideally not at all.
Currently most of my US friends almost never drink, smoke or do drugs except occasional weed..

In terms of weed if you dont mix it with tobacco I can deal with someone smoking sometimes. Otherwise I cant stand smoking and smokers around me, I am highly disgusted by tobacco, whether it is smoking it , chewing it or vapor...
This heightened sensitivity to it repulses me so much that I would never kiss a smoker and when I talk to one I have to stand far away becauseI can literally smell and taste in my mouth their smokers rotten lungs breath. This is something huge. Please don't be a smoker.

As I mentioned some of my friends smoke pure weed, and that's ok, but I wouldnt want to be with someone who has to smoke regularly...on the weekends is ok....but again ideally not at all.
Eat brownies or use CBD oil if you have anxiety or stress.

Hard drugs are a definite NO.
Stay away from me!
Im too strawberry vanilla for your taste!!! ;)

About the appearances and physical attractiveness again... You dont have to be ripped or muscular... skinny, average is perfectly ok as well, of course I like when a guy takes care of himself the best he can- so he is healthy and feels great and is mentally + physically + emotionally evolving , if you know what I mean.

I find people not aware of themselves and not interested in self improving - boring and I will definitely outgrow them in time and there will be clashes.
I want to grow equally with someone- especially a partner for life.
Supporting each others growth is important.

Most of my friends and people I am close with grow simultaneously... we also pull each other to the higher level sometimes, but generally no one is a mental or emotional blob and can evolve alone and share the knowledge with the rest - to inspire them.
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:43:07 AM
#26:


Please let me know who you are, what goes through your head reading this and remember that my heart is big enough and is always open to those who own their story :) no matter where you are at there is not such a thing as a lost cause.

I believe that if we all chose to be straight up honest, open and kind with each other - maybe and most probably it would be much easier to find what we are looking for especially if looking for a good friend or a life partner!

WHO KNOWS..................................

***ABOUT my interests- they are very broad, but the hugest and the closest to my heart are painting, drawing and music, everything animals and nature...outdoors..hiking..some sports & activities...

I like renovating stuff and I like little handy manual projects, whatever needs am improvement. I think maybe at some point I will get into sculpture..

Sports are bicycling, swimming, rowing, anything on the water... snowboard not a pro but I like it-, building a snowman counts I hope, I like anything in the snow - except skiing - I tried it twice and almost killed myself.
I like hot yoga, I think it's mind blowing- not a fan of the regular cold yoga. I also like sauna, Finland is famous for that.

I watch some sports live when there is an occasion or a good company- I like basketball a lot, and few other sports, athletics also, and I wish I could understand baseball a bit better, I like to watch it...

Us football scares me a bit, because is too aggressive..
I can literally feel their concussions. It's like watching a horror. haha

I go to the gym- that is not my passion, except maybe resistance cycling when there ( I bicycle to the gym so I can bicycle at the gym lol)
I do full workout tho because exercise is just something I like to do to keep the high happy hormones levels in the body..
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clearaflagrantj
06/09/19 7:43:38 AM
#27:


You know despite how fucking batshit insane this lady is I guarantee she received dozens of messages a day from guys that are eager to date her
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:43:56 AM
#28:


I LOVE CONCERTS... I wear ear plugs though.
Hearing live music of any sort of music or beautiful sound lifts my spirits enormously!

I would love a guy or who knows how to play an instrument, guitar or piano, or who enjoys some activities that Im into...
or be willing to... however it is not a rigorous requirement .

I am learning how to play uke, but my hands are so small I don't even know if I'll be able to get somewhere with it..

I am fascinated by musical instruments and music making apps... podcasts...audiobooks.. animals, stars, self improvements...... talking to really old or wise people or lil kids... Well, I love talking to all people actually, especially the genuine gentle souls.

Socializing (I don't mean parties) and creating deep meaningful human connections are my huge passion too,
but the other 50% of the time I am passionately enjoying being alone, so in a summary it looks like I'm passionate 100% of the time ;)

so...
friends...

or a future husband...

Where are you ? ? ? ?

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HERE: let me help you.

I'm on instagram: -----------------
photo journey of 10 last years :--------------
and random thoughts: ---------------------
If you don't have instagram, you can reach out to me by email: -------------------------------

Thoughtfulness and heartfelt emails are most appreciated.
Please think of me as a friend and write something more than "how are you" , because I enjoy getting to know all the genuine humans so you is best if show me that side... If the message is not too engaging or honest I will skip it. I dont have time for flatness and chit-chat .

I have about XYZ long emails to read still...
I'm replying ONLY to heartfelt genuine emails one by one... of people who read it all the way towards the end.
..I like emails that are not a waste of your, or my time and that will allow me to sense who you really are... how /what you think and what are your values... life story, dreams...reality..etc
Reading all messages will take time though, so hang in there, bear with me please.... ;)

PLEASE DO NOT send me messages here or as comments on my instagram- be private- unless you're replying to my comment, or a question.
I will most likely never open messages or see your likes here unless a miracle happens...Thanks.
Please dont bother sending me short messages either I most likely will never reply..unless you pop up to the front magically.,

Keep in mind that when I will feel it makes sense to put my time into replying -
I will write most definitely .
Lastly:
Please include a link to your photos on OKC profile.
(click on the main photo and copy the link of your photo album). This link will take me to your profile.
If you don't have photos on your profile additionally include one with the link in your email.
THANK YOU : ) : )

BELOW is a photo of my cat Filman at the airport in Copenhagen & the newspaper says "it's a Man's world".
We were moving from NYC to Finland // 2009.
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treewojima
06/09/19 7:44:06 AM
#29:


it keeps going

why won't it stop
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:44:19 AM
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TO those who checked my instagram- it might seem that I AM very adventurous,
but Id say it could be the opposite- I think that Im very curious about the world, but still a total homebody with an occasional spontaneous nature traveler side to it.
Thats about it.

Truly risk taking adventurous people or adrenaline junkies dont really impress me... I have a few lovely "friends" like that, they sometimes scare me though.

I do makes spontaneous decisions and I dont love routine, I appreciate it but I like decisions on a whim sometimes without much planning... I was going to ikea the other day and I ended up in a Zoo and a botanical garden. Yeah, thats me right there... staring at orangutan while I intended to by a chair.

I love traveling, observing and photography and pretty much all my travels/ adventures are all about discovering peace and beauty of nature, people or places, or a constant search for " the home feeling" in a form of a place or a person,
not so much about rising my blood pressure... altho it does happen sometimes out of the blue.
In that sense I am not scared of losing the ground under my feet, I go with it.

Besides some light activity and maintaining my love for the world I don't do anything for the "high"
( I don't smoke, I don't drink, I don't do drugs, I don't sleep around, neither I am hooked on social media's instant gratification. )

Sure, to some that might sound slightly delusional, but I am truly producing my own high state in my own head and it hasn't gotten me into any trouble...yet.
At best it's infectious.

Alright, I gotta finish it, Filman ( my cat) is getting sad waiting for his turn and a dinner....

Lastly, Id like to thank you if you managed to patiently read all that.
Aww Thank you buddy!
Youre sweet and deserve a pancake
and a warm virtual huuuug!

ASK QUESTIONS if this was not enough.

: )
Enjoy your day!

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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:45:00 AM
#31:


THAT'S IT. Done. Finito. Holy shit just copy and pasting that was a chore.
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SSJCAT
06/09/19 7:45:41 AM
#32:


show filman, pinky
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:45:54 AM
#33:


clearaflagrantj posted...
You know despite how fucking batshit insane this lady is I guarantee she received dozens of messages a day from guys that are eager to date her


She's actually a straight up hottie. Here I'll get some pics, one sec
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:47:44 AM
#34:


dyV6ePg
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GiftedACIII
06/09/19 7:48:15 AM
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She shouldve used this effort to write a novel instead or plot twist this is the description of a character from her novel and shes testing the reactions.
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treewojima
06/09/19 7:50:32 AM
#37:


pinky0926 posted...
dyV6ePg


I feel like she's staring into my soul... and then trying to steal it
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:51:13 AM
#38:


U4W5L8O
nbHGuFG

Look at that cat. It's saying "fucking save me bro".
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Dat_Cracka_Jax
06/09/19 7:51:49 AM
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Romulox28
06/09/19 7:52:16 AM
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Id fuck her
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06/09/19 7:53:27 AM
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pinky0926
06/09/19 7:54:29 AM
#42:


Romulox28 posted...
Id fuck her


Think about the morning after though. That's it man, thats you for life.
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Romulox28
06/09/19 8:00:29 AM
#43:


pinky0926 posted...
Romulox28 posted...
Id fuck her


Think about the morning after though. That's it man, thats you for life.

Idk man, something about a girl capable of writing a 250 page schizo post really gets me going
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CyricZ
06/09/19 8:05:52 AM
#44:


Something tells me plenty of men will ignore all that and message her anyway.
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Hexenherz
06/09/19 8:06:10 AM
#45:


What service is that on?
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EffectAndCause
06/09/19 8:10:12 AM
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Shes hot enough to be weird.

Girls on dating apps are allowed to be weird if theyre hot.
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Turbam
06/09/19 8:16:26 AM
#48:


@completeboy
I think I finally found a girl who would be perfect for you!
What do you think @Haddes911?
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teepan95
06/09/19 8:19:26 AM
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Dat_Cracka_Jax posted...
She is physically attractive

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Sphyx
06/09/19 8:46:46 AM
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I think i may actually be able to see the madness in her eyes.
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