Poll of the Day > (Serious topic) I have a problem with a woman...

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I LOVE Go.. well through my journey with it I found a few high ranking players and other important people in the world of Go. One of which is the president of a country's Go Association(not saying which to protect her). Well ever since we started talking she has messaged me everyday and wants me to call her to wake her up in the mornings. She gets sad if I don't. She constantly sends me *hugs* messages and all that.

I asked her flat out if she wanted me as a boyfriend and she said yes, that I was her best friend. She is cute, but not my type. I told her it wouldn't work between us but it didn't stop her. I even started being a pervert and an ass with her in hopes it would make her lose interest but it hasn't worked

I don't want to block her because she is a great gateway to other people in the world of Go
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@LinkPizza

So, she wants a relationship and you dont?
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Tell her to Go away..haha....sorry i dont have anything of value to say
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Curious, do you mean Pokemon Go?

Sounds like it's bordering on obsession here buddy that situation can make it very hard to get her to stop. It's a very bad sign when she is treating you like a serious boyfriend that must call her constantly when you are clearly not.

Archmage007 posted...

Curious, do you mean Pokemon Go?

No. Hes made a few topics. And some people thought that at first, as well...
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Archmage007 posted...

Curious, do you mean Pokemon Go?

I would assume he means the classic game Go. It may not be popular in America but it has quite the following in other countries.

There are somethings you can do. You can firmly tell her. And maybe shell eventually get the hint. You could also have sex with her and then ghost her. But seeing as shes pretty high up in the community, youll probably see her often. So, ghosting wouldnt work as well, plus it would make things weird. And she might think you like her.

I dont think the assholery or perversions will work. Especially if it hasnt. Some girls like it or are ok with it. And she seems fine with it...

You could pretend to be gay. But that comes with a bunch of other problems...

You could say you already have a significant other, but she might want to meet them. Or if she knows youre single, that wont work. And if you start dating someone, you could pretend you were with them. But that might not work. Though, if you really do start dating someone, that would hopefully cause her to stop talking to you. Which could be problematic since shes someone important...
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First, tell her your message board name is Hypnox and what that stands for, then tell her you have been posting about this on message boards but didn't mention her name, just that she is the president of a country's Go association, but you didn't say which country.

If she doesn't freak out and want nothing to do with you, marry her.
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It is the ancient game of Go.

She is a bit obsessive. She is sorta like that one girl from wedding crashers before she let is all know it was a joke.

She knows I am single and straight.

Cant have sex with her as I never been to her country but she has been here as that's how I met her.
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She JUST sent me this...

http://imgur.com/gallery/HPpcfJV
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Poor woman.
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I have no idea what to say from this side of the conversation.
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Hmm
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Well, if she is in a different country, then there is nothing to worry about, I would think...
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LinkPizza posted...

Well, if she is in a different country, then there is nothing to worry about, I would think...

Except she messages me multiple times a day and I cant block her and we have a high likely chance of running into each other at go events
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hypnox posted...

LinkPizza posted...

Well, if she is in a different country, then there is nothing to worry about, I would think...

Except she messages me multiple times a day and I cant block her and we have a high likely chance of running into each other at go events

Yeah. But you can still just stay best friends, as she puts it. Shes a little clingy, but maybe she doesnt have a lot of friends. So, stay friends. But dont go any further than that... That should work...
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Maybe try to help her meet someone else to take her mind off of you? From the sounds of it though, you should really sit down with her and talk about your relationship though. Pining after someone who doesn't want you is emotionally unhealthy.
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hypnox posted...

Cant have sex with her as I never been to her country but she has been here as that's how I met her.

So you've met her in person? I'd still have fin with her. Apparently a bit of strange is good.
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wwinterj25 posted...

hypnox posted...

Cant have sex with her as I never been to her country but she has been here as that's how I met her.

So you've met her in person? I'd still have fin with her. Apparently a bit of strange is good.

If he does push the relationship at all she likely becomes more clingy, a bit of strange is good but the woman could be obsessive. Expecting him to call her daily is a pretty big red flag right there. The fact he can't dissuade her from seeking more attention from him by saying it wouldn't work or acting off is also a red flag.

What it sounds like so far is a bad made for TV movie about a woman that slowly becomes more obsessive over a guy until it ends up in murder.

Trust me sleeping with the woman will only put her more into your life and have her even more eager to seek your attention and boyfriend/girlfriend status.

Tell her youre a hypnosexual.

Tell her you're into scat. Send her pics of your poop and detailed messages about wanting to poop inside her vag, watch her push it out, then rub it all over her body and eat it.
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