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mooreandrew58 05/20/19 6:55:31 PM #52:	Moonjay posted... I've always leaned toward shotgun in the mouth and aimed at the brain, hypothetically. As someone who supports gun rights I wouldnt just on the principal I wouldnt want my death being apart of a statistic used to argue against it. If i want painless guess I'll go jump off something really high while extremely fucked up on something. Either way I wouldnt do it though I always start thinking about future things id possibly miss out on. Remeber once I heavily contemplated it but said let me beat final fantasy 9 first. By the time I was done I no longer wanted to lol. Real fitting the end of the final boss involved their will to keep living --- Cid- "looks like that overgrown lobster just got served!" Bartz-"with cheese biscuts AND mashed potatoes!" <cite>mooreandrew58 posted [p:922154102] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>Moonjay posted...</cite> <quote>I've always leaned toward shotgun in the mouth and aimed at the brain, hypothetically.</quote> As someone who supports gun rights I wouldnt just on the principal I wouldnt want my death being apart of a statistic used to argue against it. If i want painless guess I'll go jump off something really high while extremely fucked up on something. Either way I wouldnt do it though I always start thinking about future things id possibly miss out on. Remeber once I heavily contemplated it but said let me beat final fantasy 9 first. By the time I was done I no longer wanted to lol. Real fitting the end of the final boss involved their will to keep living</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bugmeat 05/20/19 7:34:08 PM #53:	Yellow posted... There is one easy cheap accessible and guaranteed way to die immediately and painlessly pretty much anywhere you want. (In the states) Asphyxiation with helium? --- John Mellencamp said it best "Life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone." <cite>Bugmeat posted [p:922155553] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>Yellow posted...</cite> <quote> There is one easy cheap accessible and guaranteed way to die immediately and painlessly pretty much anywhere you want. (In the states)</quote> Asphyxiation with helium? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
darcandkharg31 05/20/19 7:36:26 PM #54:	Bugmeat posted... Asphyxiation with helium? Drinking ten redbull and hypnoxing till your heart explodes --- This is my signature, there are many others like it, but this one is mine. If you take 110% of what I say seriously then you're gonna have a bad time. <cite>darcandkharg31 posted [p:922155645] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>Bugmeat posted...</cite> <quote>Asphyxiation with helium? </quote> Drinking ten redbull and hypnoxing till your heart explodes</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Trialia 05/21/19 12:13:37 AM #55:	Can we not use this thread to discuss methods of suicide? I tried it 3 times as a teen, with 3 different methods, and failed every time, so I don't care to listen to more ways I could have effed myself up. --- Trialia ~ unfaithful-mirror.net PSN: Trialia_X, Xaedere (100%) \| XBL: trialia, Noquelle (100%) <cite>Trialia posted [p:922166793] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote>Can we not use this thread to discuss methods of suicide? I tried it 3 times as a teen, with 3 different methods, and failed every time, so I don't care to listen to more ways I could have effed myself up.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
fishy071 05/21/19 1:40:25 AM #56:	No. I wish I were never born. I want to go back in time to erase myself from the timeline. --- "You don't need a reason to help people." (Zidane Tribal of FFIX) <cite>fishy071 posted [p:922169168] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote>No. I wish I were never born. I want to go back in time to erase myself from the timeline.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
zebatov 05/21/19 5:14:00 AM #57:	I didn't ask to be here. But hey. Let's let someone else choose for me. On everything. --- I'm right, as expected. <cite>zebatov posted [p:922172539] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote>I didn't ask to be here. But hey. Let's let someone else choose for me. On everything.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Trialia 05/21/19 5:15:28 AM #58:	zebatov posted... I didn't ask to be here. None of us asked to exist, if that's what you're saying. But we all asked to be here, by registering. --- Trialia ~ unfaithful-mirror.net PSN: Trialia_X, Xaedere (100%) \| XBL: trialia, Noquelle (100%) <cite>Trialia posted [p:922172557] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>zebatov posted...</cite> <quote>I didn't ask to be here.</quote> None of us asked to exist, if that's what you're saying. But we all asked to be here, by registering.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
zebatov 05/21/19 5:16:32 AM #59:	Trialia posted... zebatov posted... I didn't ask to be here. None of us asked to exist, if that's what you're saying. But we all asked to be here, by registering. So you understood what I meant but decided to respond anyways. Literally none of us asked to register. Liberals: Everyone needs to exist! Also liberals: We hate that you've become the better person by becoming right-wing! --- I'm right, as expected. <cite>zebatov posted [p:922172565] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>Trialia posted...</cite> <quote><cite>zebatov posted...</cite> <quote>I didn't ask to be here.</quote> None of us asked to exist, if that's what you're saying. But we all asked to be here, by registering.</quote> So you understood what I meant but decided to respond anyways. Literally none of us asked to register. Liberals: Everyone needs to exist! Also liberals: We hate that you've become the better person by becoming right-wing!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Moonjay 05/21/19 8:56:33 AM #60:	LOL better person. --- `Twas brillig, and the slithy toves did gyre and gimble in the wabe; All mimsy were the borogoves, and the mome raths outgrabe. <cite>Moonjay posted [p:922176345] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote>LOL better person.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kyuubi4269 05/21/19 9:18:38 AM #61:	zebatov posted... Also liberals: We hate that you've become the better person by becoming right-wing! lol way to make the right look like bias loons. --- Doctor Foxx posted... The demonizing of soy has a lot to do with xenophobic ideas. <cite>Kyuubi4269 posted [p:922176920] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>zebatov posted...</cite> <quote>Also liberals: We hate that you've become the better person by becoming right-wing!</quote> lol way to make the right look like bias loons.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
zebatov 05/21/19 12:06:46 PM #62:	Impossible. --- I'm right, as expected. <cite>zebatov posted [p:922182149] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote>Impossible.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/21/19 12:26:48 PM #63:	Some of the posts in this topic are worrying to say the least. Those who don't enjoy existing to be more specific. Some folk certainly don't know how lucky they are. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:922182934] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote>Some of the posts in this topic are worrying to say the least. Those who don't enjoy existing to be more specific. Some folk certainly don't know how lucky they are.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
slacker03150 05/21/19 12:49:50 PM #64:	I hate existing, but once you start, you can't just stop. And death is not a stop to existence, there will be memories of you, the body will need to be taken care of, depending on how you do it you could wind up as a middle school urban legend or a cautionary tale. If you are really unlucky you will survive in a way that makes you dependent on others for the rest of your life. mooreandrew58 posted... As someone who supports gun rights I wouldnt just on the principal I wouldnt want my death being apart of a statistic used to argue against it. If i want painless guess I'll go jump off something really high while extremely fucked up on something. Either way I wouldnt do it though I always start thinking about future things id possibly miss out on. I wouldn't suggest jump off something, hard to control, you could hit someone and kill them, you could hit something going down and lose enough momentum that you just break every bone in your body instead, even if you succeed there is a mess that will haunt first responders and have to be cleaned up. I always like the idea of hanging personally. Cheap, easy, not too traumatic to see for the finders, fairly quiet so you don't alert anyone nearby too quickly and if the initial snap fails you can still die from asphyxiation. Although if you want it to be traumatic a longer drop or use of piano wire could turn it from a hanging to a decapitation. Though after a long hard struggle with depression I have decided on my next attempt being a kind of survival test. The specific test varies depending on what I have been doing lately, but it usually involves doing something stupid like trying to make it to another continent on a homemade raft or trying to walk from chile to portugal or south africa which would involve getting past central american drug lords and through russian security forces while trying to walk across an ice bridge in an alaskan winter. There is no port up there and the nearest port doesn't have enough ice to walk across. What with global warming, I'm not sure how long that one will be possible. You would probably have to cross most borders illegally, but from what I have seen while looking it up the russian ones would probably be the most dangerous. --- I am awesome and so are you. Lenny gone but not forgotten. - 12/10/2015 <cite>slacker03150 posted [p:922183812] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote>I hate existing, but once you start, you can't just stop. And death is not a stop to existence, there will be memories of you, the body will need to be taken care of, depending on how you do it you could wind up as a middle school urban legend or a cautionary tale. If you are really unlucky you will survive in a way that makes you dependent on others for the rest of your life. <cite>mooreandrew58 posted...</cite> <quote>As someone who supports gun rights I wouldnt just on the principal I wouldnt want my death being apart of a statistic used to argue against it. If i want painless guess I'll go jump off something really high while extremely fucked up on something. Either way I wouldnt do it though I always start thinking about future things id possibly miss out on. </quote> I wouldn't suggest jump off something, hard to control, you could hit someone and kill them, you could hit something going down and lose enough momentum that you just break every bone in your body instead, even if you succeed there is a mess that will haunt first responders and have to be cleaned up. I always like the idea of hanging personally. Cheap, easy, not too traumatic to see for the finders, fairly quiet so you don't alert anyone nearby too quickly and if the initial snap fails you can still die from asphyxiation. Although if you want it to be traumatic a longer drop or use of piano wire could turn it from a hanging to a decapitation. Though after a long hard struggle with depression I have decided on my next attempt being a kind of survival test. The specific test varies depending on what I have been doing lately, but it usually involves doing something stupid like trying to make it to another continent on a homemade raft or trying to walk from chile to portugal or south africa which would involve getting past central american drug lords and through russian security forces while trying to walk across an ice bridge in an alaskan winter. There is no port up there and the nearest port doesn't have enough ice to walk across. What with global warming, I'm not sure how long that one will be possible. You would probably have to cross most borders illegally, but from what I have seen while looking it up the russian ones would probably be the most dangerous.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/21/19 1:23:15 PM #65:	slacker03150 posted... And death is not a stop to existence It is to me. Once the brain dies that's it. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:922185106] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>slacker03150 posted...</cite> <quote>And death is not a stop to existence</quote> It is to me. Once the brain dies that's it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dancer62 05/21/19 1:35:45 PM #66:	slacker03150 posted... walk across an ice bridge in an alaskan winter. There is no port up there and the nearest port doesn't have enough ice to walk across. What with global warming, I'm not sure how long that one will be possible.. Haven't you heard that even the most politically motivated of the kindergarten scientists are no longer calling it "global warming", but rather "climate change" because current predictions are of a Maunder mini-ice-age beginning in a few years (depending on sunspot activity) and lasting for 30 years. Invest in mittens and mukluks! --- If ballet was easy, it would be pointe-less <cite>dancer62 posted [p:922185596] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>slacker03150 posted...</cite> <quote>walk across an ice bridge in an alaskan winter. There is no port up there and the nearest port doesn't have enough ice to walk across. What with global warming, I'm not sure how long that one will be possible..</quote> Haven't you heard that even the most politically motivated of the kindergarten scientists are no longer calling it "global warming", but rather "climate change" because current predictions are of a Maunder mini-ice-age beginning in a few years (depending on sunspot activity) and lasting for 30 years. Invest in mittens and mukluks!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kyuubi4269 05/21/19 1:37:22 PM #67:	wwinterj25 posted... Some of the posts in this topic are worrying to say the least. Those who don't enjoy existing to be more specific. Some folk certainly don't know how lucky they are. You're not lucky just because you're alive. --- Doctor Foxx posted... The demonizing of soy has a lot to do with xenophobic ideas. <cite>Kyuubi4269 posted [p:922185660] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Some of the posts in this topic are worrying to say the least. Those who don't enjoy existing to be more specific. Some folk certainly don't know how lucky they are.</quote> You're not lucky just because you're alive.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/21/19 1:39:04 PM #68:	Kyuubi4269 posted... You're not lucky just because you're alive. No need to project your views onto me fella. You have life so you are indeed lucky. If you're living a shitty life then that's your call to change that and you'll always have the chance to do so for as long as you're alive. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:922185740] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>Kyuubi4269 posted...</cite> <quote>You're not lucky just because you're alive.</quote> No need to project your views onto me fella. You have life so you are indeed lucky. If you're living a shitty life then that's your call to change that and you'll always have the chance to do so for as long as you're alive.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 05/21/19 2:56:22 PM #69:	wwinterj25 posted... Kyuubi4269 posted... You're not lucky just because you're alive. No need to project your views onto me fella. You have life so you are indeed lucky. If you're living a shitty life then that's your call to change that and you'll always have the chance to do so for as long as you're alive. Not always. Depending on your predicament, you could be stuck in a shitty life... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:922188855] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kyuubi4269 posted...</cite> <quote>You're not lucky just because you're alive.</quote> No need to project your views onto me fella. You have life so you are indeed lucky. If you're living a shitty life then that's your call to change that and you'll always have the chance to do so for as long as you're alive.</quote> Not always. Depending on your predicament, you could be stuck in a shitty life...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Moonjay 05/21/19 3:05:35 PM #71:	slacker03150 posted... I always like the idea of hanging personally. Cheap, easy, not too traumatic to see for the finders, fairly quiet so you don't alert anyone nearby too quickly and if the initial snap fails you can still die from asphyxiation. Although if you want it to be traumatic a longer drop or use of piano wire could turn it from a hanging to a decapitation. Hanging is a terrible way to die. People who survive it say they regretted it and felt absolute panic the second they started strangling. It's certainly not a less traumatic way to find someone either. A random guy hung himself next to my car a few years ago. The woman he had just broken up with was staying in the nearby apartments and he killed himself there so she would find him. Woke up to her screaming and carrying on. She was very much not okay. Tried to distract her from staring at his corpse but she couldn't look away. Not a great day. --- `Twas brillig, and the slithy toves did gyre and gimble in the wabe; All mimsy were the borogoves, and the mome raths outgrabe. <cite>Moonjay posted [p:922189203] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>slacker03150 posted...</cite> <quote>I always like the idea of hanging personally. Cheap, easy, not too traumatic to see for the finders, fairly quiet so you don't alert anyone nearby too quickly and if the initial snap fails you can still die from asphyxiation. Although if you want it to be traumatic a longer drop or use of piano wire could turn it from a hanging to a decapitation. </quote> Hanging is a terrible way to die. People who survive it say they regretted it and felt absolute panic the second they started strangling. It's certainly not a less traumatic way to find someone either. A random guy hung himself next to my car a few years ago. The woman he had just broken up with was staying in the nearby apartments and he killed himself there so she would find him. Woke up to her screaming and carrying on. She was very much not okay. Tried to distract her from staring at his corpse but she couldn't look away. Not a great day.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kyuubi4269 05/21/19 3:18:41 PM #72:	wwinterj25 posted... Kyuubi4269 posted... You're not lucky just because you're alive. No need to project your views onto me fella. You have life so you are indeed lucky. If you're living a shitty life then that's your call to change that and you'll always have the chance to do so for as long as you're alive. Firstly, 100% of all people ever have lived, it's not lucky to win 1/1 odds. Secondly, you're living on benefits mooching off family drinking away your anxiety, are you saying you're choosing to be that? --- Doctor Foxx posted... The demonizing of soy has a lot to do with xenophobic ideas. <cite>Kyuubi4269 posted [p:922189732] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Kyuubi4269 posted...</cite> <quote>You're not lucky just because you're alive.</quote> No need to project your views onto me fella. You have life so you are indeed lucky. If you're living a shitty life then that's your call to change that and you'll always have the chance to do so for as long as you're alive.</quote> Firstly, 100% of all people ever have lived, it's not lucky to win 1/1 odds. Secondly, you're living on benefits mooching off family drinking away your anxiety, are you saying you're choosing to be that?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mooreandrew58 05/21/19 3:25:48 PM #73:	slacker03150 posted... I hate existing, but once you start, you can't just stop. And death is not a stop to existence, there will be memories of you, the body will need to be taken care of, depending on how you do it you could wind up as a middle school urban legend or a cautionary tale. If you are really unlucky you will survive in a way that makes you dependent on others for the rest of your life. mooreandrew58 posted... As someone who supports gun rights I wouldnt just on the principal I wouldnt want my death being apart of a statistic used to argue against it. If i want painless guess I'll go jump off something really high while extremely fucked up on something. Either way I wouldnt do it though I always start thinking about future things id possibly miss out on. I wouldn't suggest jump off something, hard to control, you could hit someone and kill them, you could hit something going down and lose enough momentum that you just break every bone in your body instead, even if you succeed there is a mess that will haunt first responders and have to be cleaned up. I always like the idea of hanging personally. Cheap, easy, not too traumatic to see for the finders, fairly quiet so you don't alert anyone nearby too quickly and if the initial snap fails you can still die from asphyxiation. Although if you want it to be traumatic a longer drop or use of piano wire could turn it from a hanging to a decapitation. Though after a long hard struggle with depression I have decided on my next attempt being a kind of survival test. The specific test varies depending on what I have been doing lately, but it usually involves doing something stupid like trying to make it to another continent on a homemade raft or trying to walk from chile to portugal or south africa which would involve getting past central american drug lords and through russian security forces while trying to walk across an ice bridge in an alaskan winter. There is no port up there and the nearest port doesn't have enough ice to walk across. What with global warming, I'm not sure how long that one will be possible. You would probably have to cross most borders illegally, but from what I have seen while looking it up the russian ones would probably be the most dangerous. If I did the jump thing it would likely be into water. It'll still kill you from high up enough. Though I always figured id rather OD on something but the older I get the worse that sounds. Either way I aint gonna do it. At least not as long as one of the following is still alive mother brother and best friend. --- Cid- "looks like that overgrown lobster just got served!" Bartz-"with cheese biscuts AND mashed potatoes!" <cite>mooreandrew58 posted [p:922190010] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>slacker03150 posted...</cite> <quote>I hate existing, but once you start, you can't just stop. And death is not a stop to existence, there will be memories of you, the body will need to be taken care of, depending on how you do it you could wind up as a middle school urban legend or a cautionary tale. If you are really unlucky you will survive in a way that makes you dependent on others for the rest of your life. <cite>mooreandrew58 posted...</cite> <quote>As someone who supports gun rights I wouldnt just on the principal I wouldnt want my death being apart of a statistic used to argue against it. If i want painless guess I'll go jump off something really high while extremely fucked up on something. Either way I wouldnt do it though I always start thinking about future things id possibly miss out on. </quote> I wouldn't suggest jump off something, hard to control, you could hit someone and kill them, you could hit something going down and lose enough momentum that you just break every bone in your body instead, even if you succeed there is a mess that will haunt first responders and have to be cleaned up. I always like the idea of hanging personally. Cheap, easy, not too traumatic to see for the finders, fairly quiet so you don't alert anyone nearby too quickly and if the initial snap fails you can still die from asphyxiation. Although if you want it to be traumatic a longer drop or use of piano wire could turn it from a hanging to a decapitation. Though after a long hard struggle with depression I have decided on my next attempt being a kind of survival test. The specific test varies depending on what I have been doing lately, but it usually involves doing something stupid like trying to make it to another continent on a homemade raft or trying to walk from chile to portugal or south africa which would involve getting past central american drug lords and through russian security forces while trying to walk across an ice bridge in an alaskan winter. There is no port up there and the nearest port doesn't have enough ice to walk across. What with global warming, I'm not sure how long that one will be possible. You would probably have to cross most borders illegally, but from what I have seen while looking it up the russian ones would probably be the most dangerous.</quote> If I did the jump thing it would likely be into water. It'll still kill you from high up enough. Though I always figured id rather OD on something but the older I get the worse that sounds. Either way I aint gonna do it. At least not as long as one of the following is still alive mother brother and best friend.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
slacker03150 05/21/19 3:37:20 PM #74:	Moonjay posted... A random guy hung himself next to my car a few years ago. The woman he had just broken up with was staying in the nearby apartments and he killed himself there so she would find him. Woke up to her screaming and carrying on. She was very much not okay. Tried to distract her from staring at his corpse but she couldn't look away. Not a great day. To be fair in a situation like that, I'm pretty sure finding him dead in anyway would be pretty traumatic for her. But at least she doesn't have to clean up blood or see his brains all over her door or something. Moonjay posted... Hanging is a terrible way to die. People who survive it say they regretted it and felt absolute panic the second they started strangling. Most suicide hangings are either a suspended hanging or a partial suspension and it can take anywhere from 5-20 seconds to lose consciousness and 4-5 minutes for all muscle activity to stop. A drop hanging aims to snap the neck but I don't think going into the specific details of how to do it correctly here is appropriate. If done correctly you will either die instantly or be stunned during the time it takes the suspension to work. wwinterj25 posted... It is to me. Once the brain dies that's it. I'm not suggesting an afterlife, I'm suggesting your death will affect other people. In my view if you could stop existing it would be along the lines of it's a wonderful life. No one remembers you and no one cares you are gone. But the work you did is also not there. While just being dead means you lived, you existed and you made people sad by dying and whatever shit you did before death lingers on so fuck all those assholes who step in front of a train or bus. --- I am awesome and so are you. Lenny gone but not forgotten. - 12/10/2015 <cite>slacker03150 posted [p:922190476] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>Moonjay posted...</cite> <quote>A random guy hung himself next to my car a few years ago. The woman he had just broken up with was staying in the nearby apartments and he killed himself there so she would find him. Woke up to her screaming and carrying on. She was very much not okay. Tried to distract her from staring at his corpse but she couldn't look away. Not a great day.</quote> To be fair in a situation like that, I'm pretty sure finding him dead in anyway would be pretty traumatic for her. But at least she doesn't have to clean up blood or see his brains all over her door or something. <cite>Moonjay posted...</cite> <quote>Hanging is a terrible way to die. People who survive it say they regretted it and felt absolute panic the second they started strangling. </quote> Most suicide hangings are either a suspended hanging or a partial suspension and it can take anywhere from 5-20 seconds to lose consciousness and 4-5 minutes for all muscle activity to stop. A drop hanging aims to snap the neck but I don't think going into the specific details of how to do it correctly here is appropriate. If done correctly you will either die instantly or be stunned during the time it takes the suspension to work. <cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>It is to me. Once the brain dies that's it. </quote> I'm not suggesting an afterlife, I'm suggesting your death will affect other people. In my view if you could stop existing it would be along the lines of it's a wonderful life. No one remembers you and no one cares you are gone. But the work you did is also not there. While just being dead means you lived, you existed and you made people sad by dying and whatever shit you did before death lingers on so fuck all those assholes who step in front of a train or bus.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/21/19 5:43:39 PM #75:	LinkPizza posted... Not always. Depending on your predicament, you could be stuck in a shitty life... Yes always. For if you have life you have the ability to change your life. No such thing as being stuck in a situation when you can get out of it. Kyuubi4269 posted... Firstly, 100% of all people ever have lived, it's not lucky to win 1/1 odds. Lucky to still exist is the main point here as you know the topic is asking if you enjoy existing or not. Kyuubi4269 posted... Secondly, you're living on benefits mooching off family drinking away your anxiety, are you saying you're choosing to be that? I would love to know where you've got all this from. Only one of these things here is correct. Still in answer to your question I'm happy with my life for the most part and anything I'm not happy with I still have a chance to fix until the day I die or others do so. This doesn't mean I'm not lucky to still have life as I certainly am. As I said before your own personal problems are just that. I just hope you get the help you certainly need. slacker03150 posted... I'm not suggesting an afterlife I wasn't implying you were. Once I die I don't care about anything that comes after it as I simply won't know of it. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:922195765] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>Not always. Depending on your predicament, you could be stuck in a shitty life...</quote> Yes always. For if you have life you have the ability to change your life. No such thing as being stuck in a situation when you can get out of it. <cite>Kyuubi4269 posted...</cite> <quote>Firstly, 100% of all people ever have lived, it's not lucky to win 1/1 odds.</quote> Lucky to still exist is the main point here as you know the topic is asking if you enjoy existing or not. <cite>Kyuubi4269 posted...</cite> <quote>Secondly, you're living on benefits mooching off family drinking away your anxiety, are you saying you're choosing to be that?</quote> I would love to know where you've got all this from. Only one of these things here is correct. Still in answer to your question I'm happy with my life for the most part and anything I'm not happy with I still have a chance to fix until the day I die or others do so. This doesn't mean I'm not lucky to still have life as I certainly am. As I said before your own personal problems are just that. I just hope you get the help you certainly need. <cite>slacker03150 posted...</cite> <quote>I'm not suggesting an afterlife</quote> I wasn't implying you were. Once I die I don't care about anything that comes after it as I simply won't know of it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 05/21/19 5:52:08 PM #76:	wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... Not always. Depending on your predicament, you could be stuck in a shitty life... Yes always. For if you have life you have the ability to change your life. No such thing as being stuck in a situation when you can get out of it. No. I cant agree with that at all. People can easily be stuck in a shitty situation that they cant get out of. Especially if the people in you life only use you and hurt you to keep you there. And if you have someone youre trying to protect, they can be used against you to keep you there. People get stuck in shitty situations all the time. Some people are lucky enough to get out. Some arent. The ones that cant get out sometimes just keep living a shitty life until they die. Some take their own life instead... You can think people can always change their life if they want. But thats not true. My mom sees it all the time on her job. --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:922196085] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>Not always. Depending on your predicament, you could be stuck in a shitty life...</quote> Yes always. For if you have life you have the ability to change your life. No such thing as being stuck in a situation when you can get out of it.</quote> No. I cant agree with that at all. People can easily be stuck in a shitty situation that they cant get out of. Especially if the people in you life only use you and hurt you to keep you there. And if you have someone youre trying to protect, they can be used against you to keep you there. People get stuck in shitty situations all the time. Some people are lucky enough to get out. Some arent. The ones that cant get out sometimes just keep living a shitty life until they die. Some take their own life instead... You can think people can always change their life if they want. But thats not true. My mom sees it all the time on her job.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mooreandrew58 05/21/19 5:55:39 PM #77:	LinkPizza posted... wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... Not always. Depending on your predicament, you could be stuck in a shitty life... Yes always. For if you have life you have the ability to change your life. No such thing as being stuck in a situation when you can get out of it. No. I cant agree with that at all. People can easily be stuck in a shitty situation that they cant get out of. Especially if the people in you life only use you and hurt you to keep you there. And if you have someone youre trying to protect, they can be used against you to keep you there. People get stuck in shitty situations all the time. Some people are lucky enough to get out. Some arent. The ones that cant get out sometimes just keep living a shitty life until they die. Some take their own life instead... You can think people can always change their life if they want. But thats not true. My mom sees it all the time on her job. Yeah was gonna say people stuck under a tyrannical dictator are pretty well stuck. Thats an extreme but it exists --- Cid- "looks like that overgrown lobster just got served!" Bartz-"with cheese biscuts AND mashed potatoes!" <cite>mooreandrew58 posted [p:922196217] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>Not always. Depending on your predicament, you could be stuck in a shitty life...</quote> Yes always. For if you have life you have the ability to change your life. No such thing as being stuck in a situation when you can get out of it.</quote> No. I cant agree with that at all. People can easily be stuck in a shitty situation that they cant get out of. Especially if the people in you life only use you and hurt you to keep you there. And if you have someone youre trying to protect, they can be used against you to keep you there. People get stuck in shitty situations all the time. Some people are lucky enough to get out. Some arent. The ones that cant get out sometimes just keep living a shitty life until they die. Some take their own life instead... You can think people can always change their life if they want. But thats not true. My mom sees it all the time on her job.</quote> Yeah was gonna say people stuck under a tyrannical dictator are pretty well stuck. Thats an extreme but it exists</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChaosAzeroth 05/21/19 5:59:12 PM #78:	wwinterj25 posted... Yes always. For if you have life you have the ability to change your life. No such thing as being stuck in a situation when you can get out of it. I didn't ask to be in constant pain, unable to really function. I have to rely on others for SO MUCH. I can't work, can't do so many things, can't get treatment, can't get a new place, etc. I can't make the new place approve us any faster, or technically at all. Literally cannot improve my life. Period. Full stop. Positive thinking isn't going to unbreak my body or my mind, isn't going to make to where I can get income, isn't going to put me in a position of being able to fix the issues going on in my life. Please tell me how I can fix having chronic conditions and mental illness. I've literally been talking to people about looking for resources here and one of the people who actually was looking into things was like 'omg you really are screwed aren't you'. Most people tell me to look into things (generically) or suggest a few things that I'm not eligible for or have extra conditions compared to other states. We literally were told once trying to get help with something via a service for that sort of help that we 'should have come to them when we had money'. So... we should have come to you when we didn't actually need the help? Okay then... <cite>ChaosAzeroth posted [p:922196355] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Yes always. For if you have life you have the ability to change your life. No such thing as being stuck in a situation when you can get out of it. </quote> I didn't ask to be in constant pain, unable to really function. I have to rely on others for SO MUCH. I can't work, can't do so many things, can't get treatment, can't get a new place, etc. I can't make the new place approve us any faster, or technically at all. Literally cannot improve my life. Period. Full stop. Positive thinking isn't going to unbreak my body or my mind, isn't going to make to where I can get income, isn't going to put me in a position of being able to fix the issues going on in my life. Please tell me how I can fix having chronic conditions and mental illness. I've literally been talking to people about looking for resources here and one of the people who actually was looking into things was like 'omg you really are screwed aren't you'. Most people tell me to look into things (generically) or suggest a few things that I'm not eligible for or have extra conditions compared to other states. We literally were told once trying to get help with something via a service for that sort of help that we 'should have come to them when we had money'. So... we should have come to you when we didn't actually need the help? Okay then...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/21/19 5:59:32 PM #79:	LinkPizza posted... People can easily be stuck in a shitty situation that they cant get out of. Can't or won't? LinkPizza posted... Especially if the people in you life only use you and hurt you to keep you there. And if you have someone youre trying to protect, they can be used against you to keep you there. If people abuse you in your life you cut them out of your life. If you want to protect someone you remove them from the situation too. The only things that are not changeable in life is incurable illnesses but that's a death sentence as far as I'm concerned as those are as good as death. LinkPizza posted... You can think people can always change their life if they want. But thats not true. We will have to agree to disagree then. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:922196372] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>People can easily be stuck in a shitty situation that they cant get out of.</quote> Can't or won't? <cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>Especially if the people in you life only use you and hurt you to keep you there. And if you have someone youre trying to protect, they can be used against you to keep you there.</quote> If people abuse you in your life you cut them out of your life. If you want to protect someone you remove them from the situation too. The only things that are not changeable in life is incurable illnesses but that's a death sentence as far as I'm concerned as those are as good as death. <cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>You can think people can always change their life if they want. But thats not true.</quote> We will have to agree to disagree then.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 05/21/19 6:05:26 PM #80:	wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... People can easily be stuck in a shitty situation that they cant get out of. Can't or won't? Both. Some cant, some wont, some cant and wont. But there are definitely some who cant. wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... Especially if the people in you life only use you and hurt you to keep you there. And if you have someone youre trying to protect, they can be used against you to keep you there. If people abuse you in your life you cut them out of your life. If you want to protect someone you remove them from the situation too. The only things that are not changeable in life is incurable illnesses but that's a death sentence as far as I'm concerned as those are as good as death. They always cant, though. Thats the issue. In some cases, you want to protect a child. But you know that if you leave, the child might be stuck with them. Like maybe you know theyll get custody because of your history. Or something. So, in case like that, you stay to protect the child. Stuff like that happens. Its not always as simple as cutting them Out of your life, especially when other lives are involved... wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... You can think people can always change their life if they want. But thats not true. We will have to agree to disagree then. I guess so... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:922196593] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>People can easily be stuck in a shitty situation that they cant get out of.</quote> Can't or won't?</quote> Both. Some cant, some wont, some cant and wont. But there are definitely some who cant. <cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>Especially if the people in you life only use you and hurt you to keep you there. And if you have someone youre trying to protect, they can be used against you to keep you there.</quote> If people abuse you in your life you cut them out of your life. If you want to protect someone you remove them from the situation too. The only things that are not changeable in life is incurable illnesses but that's a death sentence as far as I'm concerned as those are as good as death.</quote> They always cant, though. Thats the issue. In some cases, you want to protect a child. But you know that if you leave, the child might be stuck with them. Like maybe you know theyll get custody because of your history. Or something. So, in case like that, you stay to protect the child. Stuff like that happens. Its not always as simple as cutting them Out of your life, especially when other lives are involved... <cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>You can think people can always change their life if they want. But thats not true.</quote> We will have to agree to disagree then.</quote> I guess so...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Moonjay 05/21/19 6:09:51 PM #81:	I guess there's no such thing as incurable diseases. Or starvation with no access to food. Or for an extreme example, being chained up in someone's basement for years. Everyone should just be more positive, that'll fix it. --- `Twas brillig, and the slithy toves did gyre and gimble in the wabe; All mimsy were the borogoves, and the mome raths outgrabe. <cite>Moonjay posted [p:922196776] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote>I guess there's no such thing as incurable diseases. Or starvation with no access to food. Or for an extreme example, being chained up in someone's basement for years. Everyone should just be more positive, that'll fix it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/21/19 6:13:22 PM #82:	LinkPizza posted... They always cant, though. Thats the issue. In some cases, you want to protect a child. But you know that if you leave, the child might be stuck with them. Like maybe you know theyll get custody because of your history. Or something. So, in case like that, you stay to protect the child. Stuff like that happens. Its not always as simple as cutting them Out of your life, especially when other lives are involved... I can go through many situations and give a possible solution. Your mum probably does the same thing. The only things that can't be changed are major illnesses and disabilities as far as I'm concerned. My sister being diagnosed with incurable at the age of 25 for example couldn't change that and thus she dies from it at 26. Life situations however you always have a choice. In your example staying with someone who isn't good for the child just to help protect them isn't the best call. My dad did that with my mum when she had my older sister. It didn't work out well and to cut a long story short he got custody of all 4 of us. Insight is a funny thing though so it's easy for me to say possible solutions or things that can be done better but some thing are probably more easy to say than to do. That much I will agree with. Moonjay posted... I guess there's no such thing as incurable diseases. I guess you missed the part where I acknowledged that. It's ok though old age gets to us all. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:922196909] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>They always cant, though. Thats the issue. In some cases, you want to protect a child. But you know that if you leave, the child might be stuck with them. Like maybe you know theyll get custody because of your history. Or something. So, in case like that, you stay to protect the child. Stuff like that happens. Its not always as simple as cutting them Out of your life, especially when other lives are involved...</quote> I can go through many situations and give a possible solution. Your mum probably does the same thing. The only things that can't be changed are major illnesses and disabilities as far as I'm concerned. My sister being diagnosed with incurable at the age of 25 for example couldn't change that and thus she dies from it at 26. Life situations however you always have a choice. In your example staying with someone who isn't good for the child just to help protect them isn't the best call. My dad did that with my mum when she had my older sister. It didn't work out well and to cut a long story short he got custody of all 4 of us. Insight is a funny thing though so it's easy for me to say possible solutions or things that can be done better but some thing are probably more easy to say than to do. That much I will agree with. <cite>Moonjay posted...</cite> <quote>I guess there's no such thing as incurable diseases.</quote> I guess you missed the part where I acknowledged that. It's ok though old age gets to us all.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChaosAzeroth 05/21/19 6:15:55 PM #83:	wwinterj25 posted... I have corrected myself that mental disabilities or the like that can't be changed of course can't be changed. I was referring to normal functioning people and talking in a general term so I elaborated on that here. Although maybe there is things you do do to help with that situation. As for a mental illnesses? Many things can help with those. It all depends how bad you have them and what they are. Okay fair, sorry that I seem to have missed that. I rely on others, medical care is too high and yet also don't qualify for many available assistance programs. There's literally 4 extra steps on disability, my state brags about it's high denial rate, and when I did apply they magically never sent out the paperwork for me to fill out. 6 calls from myself, 6 from my designated official proxy, nothing. Always assured they'd send it. I got the rejection for not filling out the paperwork...That I never got in the first place. I don't want to be like this, I try and can manage to be positive. But I can't always keep my head up when things are super bleak. I'm not a green lantern, I don't have immeasurable will. wwinterj25 posted... In your example staying with someone who isn't good for the child just to help protect them isn't the best call. I'm literally living proof of that tbh. <cite>ChaosAzeroth posted [p:922197001] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>I have corrected myself that mental disabilities or the like that can't be changed of course can't be changed. I was referring to normal functioning people and talking in a general term so I elaborated on that here. Although maybe there is things you do do to help with that situation. As for a mental illnesses? Many things can help with those. It all depends how bad you have them and what they are.</quote> Okay fair, sorry that I seem to have missed that. I rely on others, medical care is too high and yet also don't qualify for many available assistance programs. There's literally 4 extra steps on disability, my state brags about it's high denial rate, and when I did apply they magically never sent out the paperwork for me to fill out. 6 calls from myself, 6 from my designated official proxy, nothing. Always assured they'd send it. I got the rejection for not filling out the paperwork...That I never got in the first place. I don't want to be like this, I try and can manage to be positive. But I can't always keep my head up when things are super bleak. I'm not a green lantern, I don't have immeasurable will. <cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>In your example staying with someone who isn't good for the child just to help protect them isn't the best call.</quote> I'm literally living proof of that tbh.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Moonjay 05/21/19 6:17:13 PM #85:	I did indeed miss that part, oh no. --- `Twas brillig, and the slithy toves did gyre and gimble in the wabe; All mimsy were the borogoves, and the mome raths outgrabe. <cite>Moonjay posted [p:922197056] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote>I did indeed miss that part, oh no.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/21/19 6:19:45 PM #86:	ChaosAzeroth posted... I don't want to be like this, I try and can manage to be positive. But I can't always keep my head up when things are super bleak. I'm not a green lantern, I don't have immeasurable will. It certainly seems difficult by the sound of things. I can only hope you find ways to deal with your situation as best as you possibly can. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:922197137] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>ChaosAzeroth posted...</cite> <quote>I don't want to be like this, I try and can manage to be positive. But I can't always keep my head up when things are super bleak. I'm not a green lantern, I don't have immeasurable will.</quote> It certainly seems difficult by the sound of things. I can only hope you find ways to deal with your situation as best as you possibly can.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChaosAzeroth 05/21/19 6:24:25 PM #87:	wwinterj25 posted... It certainly seems difficult by the sound of things. I can only hope you find ways to deal with your situation as best as you possibly can. Thanks. :3 For the most part, I guess that's what I'm doing. That's why I said it depends when answering the post question before. Sometimes, no, in all honesty I don't enjoy existing. But I do my best every day to find reasons to. Even if they're small, or 'stupid' in the eyes of some people. There's really not a stupid reason to keep living IMO, any port in a storm sometimes. I can be very negative at times, I'm not a saint. Especially with/about myself tbh. But it's something I'm working on, and honestly I've made a lot of progress in making the best of what I've got. Sometimes enjoying existing takes practice I think, as weird as that sounds. Just gotta keep at it, do your best in what you do, and hope for the best. <cite>ChaosAzeroth posted [p:922197325] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>It certainly seems difficult by the sound of things. I can only hope you find ways to deal with your situation as best as you possibly can.</quote> Thanks. :3 For the most part, I guess that's what I'm doing. That's why I said it depends when answering the post question before. Sometimes, no, in all honesty I don't enjoy existing. But I do my best every day to find reasons to. Even if they're small, or 'stupid' in the eyes of some people. There's really not a stupid reason to keep living IMO, any port in a storm sometimes. I can be very negative at times, I'm not a saint. Especially with/about myself tbh. But it's something I'm working on, and honestly I've made a lot of progress in making the best of what I've got. Sometimes enjoying existing takes practice I think, as weird as that sounds. Just gotta keep at it, do your best in what you do, and hope for the best.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/21/19 6:29:45 PM #88:	ChaosAzeroth posted... But I do my best every day to find reasons to. Even if they're small, or 'stupid' in the eyes of some people. There's really not a stupid reason to keep living IMO, any port in a storm sometimes. The little things can certainly make a big difference. Slight changes to my lifestyle for example has helped a lot. I still have improvements to make and probably always will to be honest. ChaosAzeroth posted... Sometimes enjoying existing takes practice I think, as weird as that sounds. Just gotta keep at it, do your best in what you do, and hope for the best. Mindfulness and walks/hiking has helped me the most. Just enjoying what life has to offer rather than thinking too much about things I don't have or things that are out of my control. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:922197536] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>ChaosAzeroth posted...</cite> <quote> But I do my best every day to find reasons to. Even if they're small, or 'stupid' in the eyes of some people. There's really not a stupid reason to keep living IMO, any port in a storm sometimes.</quote> The little things can certainly make a big difference. Slight changes to my lifestyle for example has helped a lot. I still have improvements to make and probably always will to be honest. <cite>ChaosAzeroth posted...</cite> <quote>Sometimes enjoying existing takes practice I think, as weird as that sounds. Just gotta keep at it, do your best in what you do, and hope for the best.</quote> Mindfulness and walks/hiking has helped me the most. Just enjoying what life has to offer rather than thinking too much about things I don't have or things that are out of my control.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ChaosAzeroth 05/21/19 6:50:55 PM #89:	wwinterj25 posted... I still have improvements to make and probably always will to be honest. I think that's how it is with everyone, since no one is perfect they always have room to improve. Ability to do so will vary based on what it is and the ability or lack thereof of the person. But we always have room to. wwinterj25 posted... Just enjoying what life has to offer rather than thinking too much about things I don't have or things that are out of my control. I have so few wants that when people ask what I want for my birthday or something I end up frustrating them because it's hard to think of things. x3 I'm used to not getting things. I'm fine with that for the most part. Anxiety makes some of that difficult lol. But working on it, can only do my best. A problem being that right now some of the things outside of my control are very bad for my mental and physical health. Not just mine, but people I care about. Can only hope that we get approved sooner rather than later, but at least later if nothing else. <cite>ChaosAzeroth posted [p:922198361] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>I still have improvements to make and probably always will to be honest. </quote> I think that's how it is with everyone, since no one is perfect they always have room to improve. Ability to do so will vary based on what it is and the ability or lack thereof of the person. But we always have room to. <cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Just enjoying what life has to offer rather than thinking too much about things I don't have or things that are out of my control.</quote> I have so few wants that when people ask what I want for my birthday or something I end up frustrating them because it's hard to think of things. x3 I'm used to not getting things. I'm fine with that for the most part. Anxiety makes some of that difficult lol. But working on it, can only do my best. A problem being that right now some of the things outside of my control are very bad for my mental and physical health. Not just mine, but people I care about. Can only hope that we get approved sooner rather than later, but at least later if nothing else.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 05/21/19 7:00:19 PM #90:	wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... They always cant, though. Thats the issue. In some cases, you want to protect a child. But you know that if you leave, the child might be stuck with them. Like maybe you know theyll get custody because of your history. Or something. So, in case like that, you stay to protect the child. Stuff like that happens. Its not always as simple as cutting them Out of your life, especially when other lives are involved... I can go through many situations and give a possible solution. Your mum probably does the same thing. The only things that can't be changed are major illnesses and disabilities as far as I'm concerned. My sister being diagnosed with incurable at the age of 25 for example couldn't change that and thus she dies from it at 26. Life situations however you always have a choice. In your example staying with someone who isn't good for the child just to help protect them isn't the best call. My dad did that with my mum when she had my older sister. It didn't work out well and to cut a long story short he got custody of all 4 of us. Insight is a funny thing though so it's easy for me to say possible solutions or things that can be done better but some thing are probably more easy to say than to do. That much I will agree with. Its hard for some people. Some of them stay just to protect the child. If they know the child is going to be abused and possibly die if they leave, then the bet situation is to stay to protect them. Leaving just makes you feel guilty (even more so if you do hear they died) and your situation may not even get better depending on where you live. Especially if that person comes after you. But it all depends on their personal situation. Every situation is different. Some dont offer many different routes of escape. Or you escape to another shitty situation thats slightly better, but still overall shitty. --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:922198697] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>They always cant, though. Thats the issue. In some cases, you want to protect a child. But you know that if you leave, the child might be stuck with them. Like maybe you know theyll get custody because of your history. Or something. So, in case like that, you stay to protect the child. Stuff like that happens. Its not always as simple as cutting them Out of your life, especially when other lives are involved...</quote> I can go through many situations and give a possible solution. Your mum probably does the same thing. The only things that can't be changed are major illnesses and disabilities as far as I'm concerned. My sister being diagnosed with incurable at the age of 25 for example couldn't change that and thus she dies from it at 26. Life situations however you always have a choice. In your example staying with someone who isn't good for the child just to help protect them isn't the best call. My dad did that with my mum when she had my older sister. It didn't work out well and to cut a long story short he got custody of all 4 of us. Insight is a funny thing though so it's easy for me to say possible solutions or things that can be done better but some thing are probably more easy to say than to do. That much I will agree with.</quote> Its hard for some people. Some of them stay just to protect the child. If they know the child is going to be abused and possibly die if they leave, then the bet situation is to stay to protect them. Leaving just makes you feel guilty (even more so if you do hear they died) and your situation may not even get better depending on where you live. Especially if that person comes after you. But it all depends on their personal situation. Every situation is different. Some dont offer many different routes of escape. Or you escape to another shitty situation thats slightly better, but still overall shitty.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nade Duck 05/21/19 7:03:07 PM #91:	i could live without it. --- https://imgur.com/ElACjJD "Most of the time, I have a whole lot more sperm inside me than most women do." - adjl <cite>Nade Duck posted [p:922198814] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote>i could live without it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/22/19 7:00:41 PM #92:	LinkPizza posted... Its hard for some people. Hard doesn't mean impossible. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:922242374] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>Its hard for some people. </quote> Hard doesn't mean impossible.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 05/22/19 7:53:25 PM #93:	wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... Its hard for some people. Hard doesn't mean impossible. For some, it is impossible. For others, they might not know what to do to get in a better situation. So, for them, its impossible. --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:922244544] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>Its hard for some people. </quote> Hard doesn't mean impossible.</quote> For some, it is impossible. For others, they might not know what to do to get in a better situation. So, for them, its impossible.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/23/19 12:59:14 PM #94:	LinkPizza posted... For some, it is impossible. For others, they might not know what to do to get in a better situation. So, for them, its impossible. Again I disagree. Although that's hardly a surprised based on your responses. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:922271754] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>For some, it is impossible. For others, they might not know what to do to get in a better situation. So, for them, its impossible.</quote> Again I disagree. Although that's hardly a surprised based on your responses.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Valiant_Kaiser 05/23/19 1:01:57 PM #95:	No. I only do it because it's in my nature to not want to die. <cite>Valiant_Kaiser posted [p:922271871] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote>No. I only do it because it's in my nature to not want to die.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 05/23/19 1:02:06 PM #96:	wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... For some, it is impossible. For others, they might not know what to do to get in a better situation. So, for them, its impossible. Again I disagree. Although that's hardly a surprised based on your responses. And I disagree with you as Ive known people stuck in their situation in the past. And know that trying hard isnt the only thing you need to get out of certain situations... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:922271877] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>For some, it is impossible. For others, they might not know what to do to get in a better situation. So, for them, its impossible.</quote> Again I disagree. Although that's hardly a surprised based on your responses.</quote> And I disagree with you as Ive known people stuck in their situation in the past. And know that trying hard isnt the only thing you need to get out of certain situations...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/23/19 1:06:42 PM #97:	LinkPizza posted... And I disagree with you Clearly. However it's sad that some folk feel that they are in a impossible situation. I guess you can't get some folk to see that they are wrong though. In a less extreme situation it's like some posters here who cry that they are stuck in a rut but refuse to do anything to change it because reasons. Ah well I suppose I don't care that much unless it directly effects me in most cases. All I know is death is the only impossible situation that I can't avoid. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:922272082] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>And I disagree with you </quote> Clearly. However it's sad that some folk feel that they are in a impossible situation. I guess you can't get some folk to see that they are wrong though. In a less extreme situation it's like some posters here who cry that they are stuck in a rut but refuse to do anything to change it because reasons. Ah well I suppose I don't care that much unless it directly effects me in most cases. All I know is death is the only impossible situation that I can't avoid.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 05/23/19 1:09:00 PM #98:	wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... And I disagree with you Clearly. However it's sad that some folk feel that they are in a impossible situation. I guess you can't get some folk to see that they are wrong though. In a less extreme situation it's like some posters here who cry that they are stuck in a rut but refuse to do anything to change it because reasons. Ah well I suppose I don't care that much unless it directly effects me in most cases. All I know is death is the only impossible situation that I can't avoid. And that may be true for you. But other have other situations they are stuck in and cant get out of. Thats fine if you dont believe, though... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:922272189] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>And I disagree with you </quote> Clearly. However it's sad that some folk feel that they are in a impossible situation. I guess you can't get some folk to see that they are wrong though. In a less extreme situation it's like some posters here who cry that they are stuck in a rut but refuse to do anything to change it because reasons. Ah well I suppose I don't care that much unless it directly effects me in most cases. All I know is death is the only impossible situation that I can't avoid.</quote> And that may be true for you. But other have other situations they are stuck in and cant get out of. Thats fine if you dont believe, though...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/23/19 1:09:55 PM #99:	LinkPizza posted... But other have other situations they are stuck in and cant get out of. Yes we all are doing to die. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:922272226] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>But other have other situations they are stuck in and cant get out of. </quote> Yes we all are doing to die.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 05/23/19 1:13:17 PM #100:	wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... But other have other situations they are stuck in and cant get out of. Yes we all are doing to die. Yep. Thats true... But not the only situation people cant get away from... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:922272384] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>But other have other situations they are stuck in and cant get out of. </quote> Yes we all are doing to die.</quote> Yep. Thats true... But not the only situation people cant get away from...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/23/19 1:18:15 PM #101:	LinkPizza posted... But not the only situation people cant get away from... Save for whatever I've already acknowledge(illnesses, mental disabilities and condition you are born with) that's a no from me. However I understand everyone is entitled to their opinion and a self made prison is what some folk will be forever stuck in until they die. It's a waste of life but unfortunately I can't control people. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:922272575] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>But not the only situation people cant get away from...</quote> Save for whatever I've already acknowledge(illnesses, mental disabilities and condition you are born with) that's a no from me. However I understand everyone is entitled to their opinion and a self made prison is what some folk will be forever stuck in until they die. It's a waste of life but unfortunately I can't control people.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 05/23/19 1:25:18 PM #102:	wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... But not the only situation people cant get away from... Save for whatever I've already acknowledge(illnesses, mental disabilities and condition you are born with) that's a no from me. However I understand everyone is entitled to their opinion and a self made prison is what some folk will be forever stuck in until they die. It's a waste of life but unfortunately I can't control people. And some people are also stuck in situations where nothing they do will help them at all... If they can even do anything... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:922272876] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>But not the only situation people cant get away from...</quote> Save for whatever I've already acknowledge(illnesses, mental disabilities and condition you are born with) that's a no from me. However I understand everyone is entitled to their opinion and a self made prison is what some folk will be forever stuck in until they die. It's a waste of life but unfortunately I can't control people.</quote> And some people are also stuck in situations where nothing they do will help them at all... If they can even do anything...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
zebatov 05/23/19 1:27:45 PM #103:	Moonjay posted... slacker03150 posted... I always like the idea of hanging personally. Cheap, easy, not too traumatic to see for the finders, fairly quiet so you don't alert anyone nearby too quickly and if the initial snap fails you can still die from asphyxiation. Although if you want it to be traumatic a longer drop or use of piano wire could turn it from a hanging to a decapitation. Hanging is a terrible way to die. People who survive it say they regretted it and felt absolute panic the second they started strangling. It's certainly not a less traumatic way to find someone either. A random guy hung himself next to my car a few years ago. The woman he had just broken up with was staying in the nearby apartments and he killed himself there so she would find him. Woke up to her screaming and carrying on. She was very much not okay. Tried to distract her from staring at his corpse but she couldn't look away. Not a great day. My friend did, and they guy who found him, his friend and roommate, has been in therapy ever since. They even had to cut the tree down. It was just last October. I saw him at the bar the weekend before. --- I'm right, as expected. <cite>zebatov posted [p:922272987] in Do you enj... [t:77726304]...</cite> <quote><cite>Moonjay posted...</cite> <quote><cite>slacker03150 posted...</cite> <quote>I always like the idea of hanging personally. Cheap, easy, not too traumatic to see for the finders, fairly quiet so you don't alert anyone nearby too quickly and if the initial snap fails you can still die from asphyxiation. Although if you want it to be traumatic a longer drop or use of piano wire could turn it from a hanging to a decapitation. </quote> Hanging is a terrible way to die. People who survive it say they regretted it and felt absolute panic the second they started strangling. It's certainly not a less traumatic way to find someone either. A random guy hung himself next to my car a few years ago. The woman he had just broken up with was staying in the nearby apartments and he killed himself there so she would find him. Woke up to her screaming and carrying on. She was very much not okay. Tried to distract her from staring at his corpse but she couldn't look away. Not a great day.</quote> My friend did, and they guy who found him, his friend and roommate, has been in therapy ever since. They even had to cut the tree down. It was just last October. I saw him at the bar the weekend before.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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