Poll of the Day > so apparently Youtuber Projared cheated on his wife...

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SilentSeph posted...

I'm still a little confused about his tumblr. So he was publicly sharing nudes and porn and other stuff for a couple years? Did that ever raise any concerns for his fans and the other people involved in this story?

Apparently people did bring it up, but there was a bunch of people who came in to defend him going "It's just body positivity!" or "We're adults nothing wrong with adult jokes!"

And then the story broke just for people to respond "my comment didn't age well".

Bulbasaur posted...

i mean

ross is a good guy though

Ross is an amazing human being.
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BlackScythe0 posted...

SilentSeph posted...

I'm still a little confused about his tumblr. So he was publicly sharing nudes and porn and other stuff for a couple years? Did that ever raise any concerns for his fans and the other people involved in this story?

Apparently people did bring it up, but there was a bunch of people who came in to defend him going "It's just body positivity!" or "We're adults nothing wrong with adult jokes!"

And then the story broke just for people to respond "my comment didn't age well".

Lol, some fanbases are truly ride or die.
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his "wife" opened up the relationship in 2017
her text leaked showing that she was already having sex with other people in late oct 2017

Jareds a cuck
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Turns out everyone in this situation was a terrible human being. Awesome.

BlackScythe0 posted...

Turns out everyone in this situation was a terrible human being. Awesome.

How so? I haven't been following the fallout.

Oh wait are you referring to what Robo posted?
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Far-Queue posted...

BlackScythe0 posted...

Turns out everyone in this situation was a terrible human being. Awesome.

How so? I haven't been following the fallout.

Oh wait are you referring to what Robo posted?

From what I heard, although I haven't researched it myself (so take it with a grain of salt), ProJared and his wife had an open marriage where they agreed to date and have sex with other people while staying married, and his wife also had sex with other people, but made that tweet about how ProJared cheated on her anyway.

So ProJared's wife isn't as big of a victim as she was portraying herself as.
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Far-Queue posted...

BlackScythe0 posted...

Turns out everyone in this situation was a terrible human being. Awesome.

How so? I haven't been following the fallout.

Oh wait are you referring to what Robo posted?

The last two days a bunch of information broke that made it clear the 3 main players here (Jared, his wife, and the side ho) were all dysfunctional people. The wife appears to have not been the victim she portrayed herself as.

Either way to what I know only one is accused to perving on minors.

Cheating in a open marriage?
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poor ross.
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Nade Duck posted...

poor ross.

I do believe this to legitimately be the only take away from this situation.

What a load of drama lol
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Far-Queue posted...

What a load of drama lol

Yeah but these people thrive on it so it's no surprise.
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the second an adult calls themselves a cosplayer warning bells should be going off
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RoboXgp89 posted...

the second an adult calls themselves a cosplayer warning bells should be going off

y'mean like people who put on sports jerseys before going to a game? same principal
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YouTubers are not important

FinalFantasyVII posted...

YouTubers are not important

Public figures are not important
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Public =/= Internet

FinalFantasyVII posted...

Public =/= Internet

Boomer alert
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Lokarin posted...

RoboXgp89 posted...

the second an adult calls themselves a cosplayer warning bells should be going off

y'mean like people who put on sports jerseys before going to a game? same principal

have you ever seen eye's wide shut? or the shining?
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RoboXgp89 posted...

Lokarin posted...

RoboXgp89 posted...

the second an adult calls themselves a cosplayer warning bells should be going off

y'mean like people who put on sports jerseys before going to a game? same principal

have you ever seen eye's wide shut? or the shining?

Did anyone say they were a cosplayer in The Shining?
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Why did she try to make herself look like the victim though?
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Nade Duck posted...

poor ross.

He's handling it incredibly well.
He still has a career though.
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FinalFantasyVII posted...

YouTubers are not important

Some of have such dark lives that Lets Players are the only thing that lets us feel a semblance of what it's like to have friends.

pretty much
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FinalFantasyVII posted...

Public =/= Internet

The only difference between movies/tv and internet is how they get their pay checks.

wwinterj25 posted...

Cheating in a open marriage?

To be fair, that's absolutely a thing. Generally speaking, polyamorous or open relationships tend to have very strictly defined guidelines or rules set up in advance specifically to avoid hard feelings and people breaking up when they realize they're happier with their side piece than they are with their current main partner, and in some ways breaking those rules is actually seen as almost being worse than normal cheating. For example, having a long-term steady relationship with one specific person and keeping that a secret from your main partner is absolutely considered cheating in a lot of those circles. As would be continuing to see a specific person if your main partner basically says "I'm not comfortable with you seeing that person." Basically, it shows a profound lack of trust and respect for your partner, which is sort of the entire point of a relationship at all.

That also doesn't even get into more complicated issues, like whether or not both partners in a relationship actually want to be in an open relationship in the first place, or are just humoring the partner who really wants it because they're desperately (if likely futilely) trying to preserve the relationship in some way out of fear of abandonment. Or if one partner pushes for an open relationship but then gets bitter because the other person seems to be getting way more side than they are.

Open relationships tend to be a mess in general because of that sort of knotty morality.


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ParanoidObsessive posted...

wwinterj25 posted...

Cheating in a open marriage?

To be fair, that's absolutely a thing. Generally speaking, polyamorous or open relationships tend to have very strictly defined guidelines or rules set up in advance specifically to avoid hard feelings and people breaking up when they realize they're happier with their side piece than they are with their current main partner, and in some ways breaking those rules is actually seen as almost being worse than normal cheating. For example, having a long-term steady relationship with one specific person and keeping that a secret from your main partner is absolutely considered cheating in a lot of those circles. As would be continuing to see a specific person if your main partner basically says "I'm not comfortable with you seeing that person." Basically, it shows a profound lack of trust and respect for your partner, which is sort of the entire point of a relationship at all.

That also doesn't even get into more complicated issues, like whether or not both partners in a relationship actually want to be in an open relationship in the first place, or are just humoring the partner who really wants it because they're desperately (if likely futilely) trying to preserve the relationship in some way out of fear of abandonment. Or if one partner pushes for an open relationship but then gets bitter because the other person seems to be getting way more side than they are.

Open relationships tend to be a mess in general because of that sort of knotty morality.

i never thought id say this, but america needs more jesus

Lokarin posted...

RoboXgp89 posted...

the second an adult calls themselves a cosplayer warning bells should be going off

y'mean like people who put on sports jerseys before going to a game? same principal

This is a profoundly stupid comparison

ZeroKelvin posted...

Lokarin posted...

RoboXgp89 posted...

the second an adult calls themselves a cosplayer warning bells should be going off

y'mean like people who put on sports jerseys before going to a game? same principal

This is a profoundly stupid comparison

It's accurate, perhaps target nerds for aspects unique to them.
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ParanoidObsessive posted...

To be fair, that's absolutely a thing. Generally speaking, polyamorous or open relationships tend to have very strictly defined guidelines or rules set up in advance specifically to avoid hard feelings and people breaking up when they realize they're happier with their side piece than they are with their current main partner, and in some ways breaking those rules is actually seen as almost being worse than normal cheating.

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Open relationships tend to be a mess in general because of that sort of knotty morality.

Honestly, the instant that your partner suggest an open relationship, it's time to leave since the odds are VERY high that they're already cheating on you and simply want to make it "official."

I mean, unless it's your thing, but I'd leave to a certain group of people to enjoy being actual cucks.
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