Current Events > PSA: The truth about KogaSteelfang.

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Wtf is this topic lol. Ever get checked for bpd or npd? You used to post a ton on potd and seem more narcissistic but who knows

Seek a professional dude..

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DezDroppedFreak posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

Goats posted...

It sounds like he was trying to give you some helpful advice and the message just got crossed. Leave gamer alone, he's been through enough in the past two months skarmory.

I get that, I really do. But have I not also been through a lot? Why is it acceptable for people to attack me over a misunderstanding, and have me lose people I was friends with, but I'm crossing a line by asking for his opinion?

This is not healthy dude.

What's not healthy is having half the people I know and were close with turn on me because think I said horrible when I didn't.
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tremain07 posted...

Brig_Jackson posted...

You seriously need to shut the fuck up and get the fuck off of this website.

Get some god damn air and stop putting yourself down. Youre dragging everyone else down in the shithole. Well guess what? We dont want to go there!

You take the steps to get yourself out, or you fucking leave us alone. Jesus H Christ

Or you can take your victim complex and get out of the topic you hypocrite. Go brag about your wonderful life somewhere else since it's so great

Where the fuck is the victim complex in here???
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tremain07 posted...

First you say you've never had friends now you say you did. Koga, You are a liar and You're probably been making this shit up for god knows how long. I'm disappointed I thought you finally understood, that you would see as I did, but you're a fake, a conman, a trumpist. This stupid world really is nothing but lies

This has been my mood all week
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KogaSteelfang posted...

DezDroppedFreak posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

Goats posted...

It sounds like he was trying to give you some helpful advice and the message just got crossed. Leave gamer alone, he's been through enough in the past two months skarmory.

I get that, I really do. But have I not also been through a lot? Why is it acceptable for people to attack me over a misunderstanding, and have me lose people I was friends with, but I'm crossing a line by asking for his opinion?

This is not healthy dude.

What's not healthy is having half the people I know and were close with turn on me because think I said horrible when I didn't.

Its
A
Game
Site

Its not that serious mate
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ThatMuttGuy posted...

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This was sent to Gamer

That comment about a 20 year old lamenting about first having sex wasn't aimed at him. Further down you can clearly see I didn't know his age. It was directed at several topics that had been on CE with people aged 19-21 complaining that they didn't lose it until then,

Like I've been telling you, it was a misunderstanding. Like I said above, the comment about getting it without trying was in regards to his girlfriend at the time who he said pursued him until he caved, and the several one night stands he'd had before that.
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Brig_Jackson posted...

tremain07 posted...

Brig_Jackson posted...

You seriously need to shut the fuck up and get the fuck off of this website.

Get some god damn air and stop putting yourself down. Youre dragging everyone else down in the shithole. Well guess what? We dont want to go there!

You take the steps to get yourself out, or you fucking leave us alone. Jesus H Christ

Or you can take your victim complex and get out of the topic you hypocrite. Go brag about your wonderful life somewhere else since it's so great

Where the fuck is the victim complex in here???

You act like this is actually affecting you or CE when it's not even a fucking blip on the radar, get out of here with that nonsense victimization.

Kanaya413 posted...

tremain07 posted...

First you say you've never had friends now you say you did. Koga, You are a liar and You're probably been making this shit up for god knows how long. I'm disappointed I thought you finally understood, that you would see as I did, but you're a fake, a conman, a trumpist. This stupid world really is nothing but lies

This has been my mood all week

Reality is a cruel ugly truth.
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Anyway i don't know what was actually said but i see myself in your first post

If you can afford it, maybe check into the hospital. They may be able to help
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@ tremain reality sucks cock lol
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You complain that no one cares about you.

Yet what have you done to be a person worth caring about?

A hint: walking around with a chip on your shoulder and this idiotic victim complex aren't helping. Constantly throwing tantrums and going "woe is me" isn't helping.

Sitting here blaming others for your problems and doing nothing about them is the way a child would act. Sure, you've been through a lot of shit. So have I, Gamer, and God knows how many others on this cesspool. What makes some of us different is that we didn't sit there and sulk. We grew up and did something about it.

Whether that be moving out of a toxic home, ditching a bunch of toxic people, or seeking therapy: our problems may not be our fault, but they might as well be if we let them be a problem.

A fun fact: any relationship you get into will be destined to fail with you as you are right now. This is because you need to actually get your shit together before you can pursue a relationship. Relationships magically fix absolutely nothing, they just provide another stressor. Do they provide happiness? Sure. But you have to actually work at it, and no one wants to be in a relationship with someone who acts like you.

You are entitled to no one's care, affection, or respect. No one is. These things are all earned. You need to make yourself worth them.

I speak for pretty much anyone here who has an opinion worth respecting - we know that underneath your mass of issues, baggage, and complexes lies a decent, kind person. I don't think anyone genuinely hates you here.

But holy fuck. Acting like you're the victim of every little thing, acting with absolutely no self-awareness? Wallowing in your depression instead of trying to solve the issues contributing to it? Constantly throwing "woe is me" fits like this very topic that border on attention whoring? Or twisting the words of your friends against them, thus making them feel guilty for contributing to your issues?

No one likes any of that.

These are why people are turning their back on you. Because you've started acting annoying, self absorbed, and doing absolutely anything to contribute to your self destruction.

You only have two options here.

You can try to fix these flaws by finally stamping out your problems, or you can continue acting as you have been these past months.

You're already seeing where the latter is taking you.

Everyone here - even the people you allege that hate you - care about you. I've seen some admit it outright. But feeding your self destruction is not something they want *because* they care. Thus they pretty much present the ultimatum of shaping up or bugging off.

I'll say it again. They don't hate you. But the way you act will certainly drive them too.
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@tremain07

Ugh look how much drama this shit has ensued. People are affected by things. It just so happens that this dude is a narcissist.

If you dont care, then why dont you get out.
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For the record I say none of that to be a dick. I'm just saying a hard truth. Better than sugarcoating things.
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@tremain07 I did have friends, for a little while. Then I lost them and they all hate me now because they think I'm some kind of rape sympathizer. How is that supposed to not bother me?
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KogaSteelfang posted...

@tremain07 I did have friends, for a little while. Then I lost them and they all hate me now because they think I'm some kind of rape sympathizer. How is that supposed to not bother me?

Who the fuck called you a rape sympathizer? See, this is why people say you lie. Because you do.

Brig_Jackson posted...

@tremain07

Ugh look how much drama this shit has ensued. People are affected by things. It just so happens that this dude is a narcissist.

If you dont care, then why dont you get out.

Right back at you, if you don't care why the hell are you yelling at me or giving a shit about what the fuck I have to say or do? I could die at the end of this poit and not a single goddamn thing would matter NOT A SINGLE GOD DAMN THING!!!
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I'll come back later
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tremain07 posted...

First you say you've never had friends now you say you did. Koga, You are a liar and You're probably been making this shit up for god knows how long. I'm disappointed I thought you finally understood, that you would see as I did, but you're a fake, a conman, a trumpist. This stupid world really is nothing but lies

Dude, for Christ's sake, you've been posting really angry "You don't care! The world doesn't care!" comments for a while now. I talked shit at you in another topic, but this is a real trend and I'm worried.

Please don't pedal this fatalistic bullshit to everyone - in time things can get better for you and everyone else here, and these experiences will define how you treat others and interact with the world. Take this shit and think about how you want to be treated, and treat them in kind.
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KogaSteelfang posted...

I did have friends, for a little while. Then I lost them and they all hate me now because they think I'm some kind of rape sympathizer. How is that supposed to not bother me?

Literally no one has said that
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Eevee-Trainer posted...

You complain that no one cares about you.

Yet what have you done to be a person worth caring about?

A hint: walking around with a chip on your shoulder and this idiotic victim complex aren't helping. Constantly throwing tantrums and going "woe is me" isn't helping.

Sitting here blaming others for your problems and doing nothing about them is the way a child would act. Sure, you've been through a lot of shit. So have I, Gamer, and God knows how many others on this cesspool. What makes some of us different is that we didn't sit there and sulk. We grew up and did something about it.

Whether that be moving out of a toxic home, ditching a bunch of toxic people, or seeking therapy: our problems may not be our fault, but they might as well be if we let them be a problem.

A fun fact: any relationship you get into will be destined to fail with you as you are right now. This is because you need to actually get your shit together before you can pursue a relationship. Relationships magically fix absolutely nothing, they just provide another stressor. Do they provide happiness? Sure. But you have to actually work at it, and no one wants to be in a relationship with someone who acts like you.

You are entitled to no one's care, affection, or respect. No one is. These things are all earned. You need to make yourself worth them.

I speak for pretty much anyone here who has an opinion worth respecting - we know that underneath your mass of issues, baggage, and complexes lies a decent, kind person. I don't think anyone genuinely hates you here.

But holy fuck. Acting like you're the victim of every little thing, acting with absolutely no self-awareness? Wallowing in your depression instead of trying to solve the issues contributing to it? Constantly throwing "woe is me" fits like this very topic that border on attention whoring? Or twisting the words of your friends against them, thus making them feel guilty for contributing to your issues?

No one likes any of that.

These are why people are turning their back on you. Because you've started acting annoying, self absorbed, and doing absolutely anything to contribute to your self destruction.

You only have two options here.

You can try to fix these flaws by finally stamping out your problems, or you can continue acting as you have been these past months.

You're already seeing where the latter is taking you.

Everyone here - even the people you allege that hate you - care about you. I've seen some admit it outright. But feeding your self destruction is not something they want *because* they care. Thus they pretty much present the ultimatum of shaping up or bugging off.

I'll say it again. They don't hate you. But the way you act will certainly drive them too.

I'm in a similar situation and I will try to take your post to heart. Thank you
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ThatMuttGuy posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

@tremain07 I did have friends, for a little while. Then I lost them and they all hate me now because they think I'm some kind of rape sympathizer. How is that supposed to not bother me?

Who the fuck called you a rape sympathizer? See, this is why people say you lie. Because you do.

What else would you call it when I'm accused of telling him he was lucky to have been raped? Also, in case you didn't see it before, the comment about a 20 year old lamenting his first time WAS NOT aimed at gamer. I do see that I worded it poorly though and where the mixup happened, but it's not what I said.

Then when I find out the reason everyone is hating on me now, I'm not allowed to explain myself?
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KogaSteelfang posted...

ThatMuttGuy posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

@tremain07 I did have friends, for a little while. Then I lost them and they all hate me now because they think I'm some kind of rape sympathizer. How is that supposed to not bother me?

Who the fuck called you a rape sympathizer? See, this is why people say you lie. Because you do.

What else would you call it when I'm accused of telling him he was lucky to have been raped? Also, in case you didn't see it before, the comment about a 20 year old lamenting his first time WAS NOT aimed at gamer. I do see that I worded it poorly though and where the mixup happened, but it's not what I said.

Then when I find out the reason everyone is hating on me now, I'm not allowed to explain myself?

Recently i was also accused of doing something terrible by a group of people
I was not even given a,chance to explain myself
So instead i just cut them all out. If someone is going to spread lies about you, why bother talking with them?
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Anyone whose spent more than a minute talking with me should know I would never say something like that to him. The fact that I was accused and judged guilty before I even knew what was going is nuts.
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@Goats posted...

Gamefaqs is the wrong type of place you should be posting about this. All you are going to do is draw trolls. Get help, man, and not from here. Everyone here is either going through their own shit or is just going shit all over you for admitting you aren't perfect groudon.

Oh, no, there was no line crossed there was no confusion. He just blatantly fabricates shit, even right back to you. I've defended him on and off site as someone who just needs help and tried to be kind but there's no point anymore with this guy.

I never once told him not to try, that he'd be alone forever, wasn't worth it, etc. He would tell me I said that and there multiple instances of me saying exactly that and several times I had to correct him that I never fucking said that.
I never bragged about having a bunch of sex, I said the exact opposite so he wouldn't feel worse because I did nothing but try to help give him advice on how to get his life together and fix his situation. Overcome his social anxiety, home life issues, etc.

He also made comments about my sexual abuse as a child and effectively using that against me as done kind of evidence that I get laid a lot? I told him personal things about it and had to explain to a grown so man that non consensual sex isn't fucking good for anyone, ever. That's why it's non fucking consensual.

He's done this to everyone who's attempted to help him.

This is just an example of the any times I had to correct him saying that I told him bad things.

Seriously fuck off Koga and get some help professional help, sincerely, and not in a derogatory way. Just get help. There's resources available that I also tried to help tell you about but you wouldn't listen to that either.

All you can do is play victim constantly and complain about not getting laid.

Oh and here's me telling him how worthless he is and how he'll be alone forever:
And here's me bragging about all that sex I'm having every night:
Which the font there is off because I was replying with paragraphs to him on pastebin to avoid there character limit here because I would literally sit there for hours when he reached out to type out long, detailed messages giving him advice and how he can improve himself.
There's entire pages of my PM history just links to pastebin posts that are above the character limit I could even post in a regular topic here. Yeah that's clearly what someone who is just trying to cut someone down would do.

Not even going to post the rest of his crazy shit out of the shred of respect I have left for this guy.
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Who should I believe? Someone who twist my words and says I said shit I didn't or Gamer, who I think is a good friend and one of the genuinely nicest people I've met?

Is this like the gamefaqs version of a masochist roleplay

Kanaya413 posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

ThatMuttGuy posted...

KogaSteelfang posted...

@tremain07 I did have friends, for a little while. Then I lost them and they all hate me now because they think I'm some kind of rape sympathizer. How is that supposed to not bother me?

Who the fuck called you a rape sympathizer? See, this is why people say you lie. Because you do.

What else would you call it when I'm accused of telling him he was lucky to have been raped? Also, in case you didn't see it before, the comment about a 20 year old lamenting his first time WAS NOT aimed at gamer. I do see that I worded it poorly though and where the mixup happened, but it's not what I said.

Then when I find out the reason everyone is hating on me now, I'm not allowed to explain myself?

Recently i was also accused of doing something terrible by a group of people
I was not even given a,chance to explain myself
So instead i just cut them all out. If someone is going to spread lies about you, why bother talking with them?

I did, when I left the discord and promised I wouldn't bother them again. I had to break that promise when their behavior changed towards me anyway, and it turns out it's because of something I said a long time ago that was completely misunderstood. Yes, I realize the misunderstanding was my fault, but I've been dragged into this when I did nothing wrong.

Most of all, I want gamer to know the truth.
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Kanaya413 posted...

Recently i was also accused of doing something terrible by a group of people

Seems like a growing trend on here.
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Axiom posted...

Is this like the gamefaqs version of a masochist roleplay

who knows what this is
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stop dude and get this, help

Well there we have it then, straight from the source, thanks gamer99z for finally responding. And I'm sorry I've been so horrible to you. Now everyone can see me for what I really am then.
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Gamer99z posted...

@Goats posted...

Gamefaqs is the wrong type of place you should be posting about this. All you are going to do is draw trolls. Get help, man, and not from here. Everyone here is either going through their own shit or is just going shit all over you for admitting you aren't perfect groudon.

Oh, no, there was no line crossed there was no confusion. He just blatantly fabricates shit, even right back to you. I've defended him on and off site as someone who just needs help and tried to be kind but there's no point anymore with this guy.

I never once told him not to try, that he'd be alone forever, wasn't worth it, etc. He would tell me I said that and there multiple instances of me saying exactly that and several times I had to correct him that I never fucking said that.
I never bragged about having a bunch of sex, I said the exact opposite so he wouldn't feel worse because I did nothing but try to help give him advice on how to get his life together and fix his situation. Overcome his social anxiety, home life issues, etc.

He also made comments about my sexual abuse as a child and effectively using that against me as done kind of evidence that I get laid a lot? I told him personal things about it and had to explain to a grown so man that non consensual sex isn't fucking good for anyone, ever. That's why it's non fucking consensual.

He's done this to everyone who's attempted to help him.

This is just an example of the any times I had to correct him saying that I told him bad things.

Seriously fuck off Koga and get some help professional help, sincerely, and not in a derogatory way. Just get help. There's resources available that I also tried to help tell you about but you wouldn't listen to that either.

All you can do is play victim constantly and complain about not getting laid.

Oh and here's me telling him how worthless he is and how he'll be alone forever:
And here's me bragging about all that sex I'm having every night:
Which the font there is off because I was replying with paragraphs to him on pastebin to avoid there character limit here because I would literally sit there for hours when he reached out to type out long, detailed messages giving him advice and how he can improve himself.
There's entire pages of my PM history just links to pastebin posts that are above the character limit I could even post in a regular topic here. Yeah that's clearly what someone who is just trying to cut someone down would do.

Not even going to post the rest of his crazy shit out of the shred of respect I have left for this guy.

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Another day, another drama

#NoDrama
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Goats posted...

TheCrimsonAngel posted...

Kanaya413 posted...

Recently i was also accused of doing something terrible by a group of people

Seems like a growing trend on here.

Happened to me before it was cool glaceon

I, too, have been accused of things.

Goats posted...

TheCrimsonAngel posted...

Kanaya413 posted...

Recently i was also accused of doing something terrible by a group of people

Seems like a growing trend on here.

Happened to me before it was cool glaceon

Wasn't on gamefaqs lads
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Also @goats i love your Pokemon gimmick
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What the fuck is this?
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no dude. there's nothing wrong with you. it's this crazy world we live in
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i love your Pokemon gimmick

*hurls brick*
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What I realized when helping a friend of mine who hate her life, is that fixing a bad attitude is really, really hard, as a person who had the opportunity to let those bad thoughts cemets, becomes enraptured in them and it becomes near impossible to break. Thankfully, she has something good to look forward and had some good in life, so she didn't fully embrace the bullshit. Also, I am helping her. Women often get lucky like that, having people come in to fix their problems.

Men don't have that benefit.

If you want to be happy, nobody going to drop into your life, see the good in you and try to help. You need to find your own happy, or just do what you're doing now, airing your life so CE trolls can rip you apart. I am not going to press it though. One of my roommates was in a bit of a similar spot, self loathing and mad he couldn't be laid. He wasn't a good person deep down, and really just wanted to get his rocks offs like other could, while having not nearly as good of a personality to attract a women.

Maybe you're like him, especially if you blame the world for your problems.

All I know, is that if you don't change, you're going to die miserable, unhappy, alone and forgotten. That isn't something I want for anybody.

Conflict posted...

Okay Koga

You're ignoring my advice and my questions

You're ignoring giant walls of text by people who care about you

You're lying about what other people say to/about you and say they're harsher than they really are

You're trying to make a public scene on CE of all places

And you're doing what LittleRoyal did earlier, constantly victimizing yourself rather than just addressing what you did wrong and apologize for it coming off that way

Do you not see why this would frustrate other people?

No, don't read this shit and get even further down on yourself because I said you're frustrating other people. FFS man. Act productive. Use it as a learning experience. It's not the end of the world.

I did apologize, I sent him an apology earlier and I apologized above too. Whatever was said, it was never meant to be hurtful, even though I apparently caused him a lot of pain.

Now that he's shown up, said his peace, and everyone knows to stop showing me any kind of sympathy, I'll close it now. I just honestly didn't realize how horrible I'd been to him.
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Shut the fuck up tc
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Get real friends Koga, not the fake friends you obviously had.
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