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PiOverlord
05/30/18 8:44:06 PM
#1:


80/80

Never had a chance with her, just felt strong passion towards her. It is 20 days later after my 2nd year of College ended, and I still feel this strong feeling, a pit, a heavy heart, whatever, over the feelings I obviously still have.

She thought the lowest of me, so why can't I allow myself to just accept that she thought I was a loser, and I shouldn't feel this way about her? I'll probably never see her for the rest of my life, but I can't get over her. Maybe if I was actually in a relationship with her, it would make sense to be this hung up over feeling heart-broken, but all I had with her was a friendship.
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ThickDaddy
05/30/18 8:57:36 PM
#2:


Did you ever express your feelings towards her or did you keep it a secret? If it's the latter then you could be feeling regret from not giving yourself a shot with her.
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PiOverlord
05/30/18 8:58:41 PM
#3:


ThickDaddy posted...
Did you ever express your feelings towards her or did you keep it a secret? If it's the latter then you could be feeling regret from not giving yourself a shot with her.

It was the former. First girl I ever expressed my feelings for.
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ThickDaddy
05/30/18 9:04:09 PM
#4:


You just gotta distract yourself from thinking about her so much. Focus on self improvement so that you can get the next girl that comes along. Your lingering feelings will fade with time.
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TheWorstPoster
05/30/18 9:15:19 PM
#5:


Just ignore them.

Girls are overrated. Would do nothing but spend your money and cheat on you with a complete asshole, and lie about the whole thing.

Just forget about them, and spend the rest of your life single, and free.
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Sarcasthma
05/30/18 9:18:15 PM
#6:


TheWorstPoster posted...
Just ignore them.

Girls are overrated. Would do nothing but spend your money and cheat on you with a complete asshole, and lie about the whole thing.

Just forget about them, and spend the rest of your life single, and free.

lol, Im picking up some strong incel vibes
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Chewster
05/30/18 9:23:14 PM
#7:


ICOYAR, you don't have any money and you are a complete asshole. Maybe you aren't a big liar per se, but you sure as hell don't acknowledge any harsh truths about yourself, so that's almost like lying.
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Zeus
05/30/18 9:30:03 PM
#8:


PiOverlord posted...
80/80

Never had a chance with her, just felt strong passion towards her. It is 20 days later after my 2nd year of College ended, and I still feel this strong feeling, a pit, a heavy heart, whatever, over the feelings I obviously still have.

She thought the lowest of me, so why can't I allow myself to just accept that she thought I was a loser, and I shouldn't feel this way about her? I'll probably never see her for the rest of my life, but I can't get over her. Maybe if I was actually in a relationship with her, it would make sense to be this hung up over feeling heart-broken, but all I had with her was a friendship.


Is this a copypasta? Looks like a copypasta, but not getting any results from search.
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Flappers
05/30/18 9:47:58 PM
#9:


TheWorstPoster posted...
Girls are overrated.

I am a girl and I approve this message.
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TheWorstPoster
05/30/18 9:48:32 PM
#10:


Flappers posted...
TheWorstPoster posted...
Girls are overrated.

I am a girl and I approve this message.


I highly doubt that
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Jen0125
05/30/18 9:48:54 PM
#11:


Flappers posted...
TheWorstPoster posted...
Girls are overrated.

I am a girl and I approve this message.


PM incooooming
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Chewster
05/30/18 9:49:24 PM
#12:


Flappers posted...
TheWorstPoster posted...
Girls are overrated.

I am a girl and I approve this message.


You're going to regret what you just got yourself into
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nesrtkfan
05/30/18 9:53:58 PM
#13:


you are feeling this way because of pheromones. Since you were in college you probably heard about the new studies that pheromones play in the evolution of social behavior throughout human history (see Guns, Germs and Steel), but in case you didn't its basically her body that got you hooked and essentially your brain got into the entire fantasy by releasing chemicals in your body that overwhelmed you to the point that made you believe you could be the man for her.

If you don't mingle with more females where you'll be exposed to more of these pheromones you will take a long time to get over her
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HelIWithoutSin
05/30/18 9:59:08 PM
#14:


TheWorstPoster posted...
Just ignore them.

Girls are overrated. Would do nothing but spend your money and cheat on you with a complete asshole, and lie about the whole thing.

Just forget about them, and spend the rest of your life single, and free.


Remember when you were engaged to that Indonesian girl for several years and during that time you cheated on her with Claudia, and that girl whose homework you did for an entire semester, and countless female visitors to this board?
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wwinterj25
05/30/18 10:44:10 PM
#15:


PiOverlord posted...
but all I had with her was a friendship.


Yet she thought/thinks you're a loser?

TheWorstPoster posted...
Girls are overrated. Would do nothing but spend your money and cheat on you with a complete asshole, and lie about the whole thing.

How do you know this? You've never been in a real relationship.

TheWorstPoster posted...
Just forget about them, and spend the rest of your life single, and free.


... and miserable and jaded.
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EclairReturns
05/30/18 11:33:01 PM
#17:


PiOverlord posted...
expressed my feelings for


I really don't think it's smart for you to do this if you're just friends. Not even if you're dating, unless it's getting serious.
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PiOverlord
05/31/18 12:20:08 AM
#19:


We were friends, but I obviously was more for the friendship than she was. She moved on from me, found a new friend group, but that just left me with overwhelming feelings, and the mindset that I had to do something if I ever hoped to get back in her life. Told her I liked her, was hoping that maybe she would see that I obviously do care about her since I have difficulty outwardly expressing how I feel, so I was afraid maybe she thought I just didn't care that much about what she had to say. Later on, I tried winning her over with a dumb gift, and tried asking her out, but that backfired pretty badly.

She was not the first girl I ever started liking of course, but she was the first girl that this level of passion just consumed me.
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Fierce_Deity_08
05/31/18 12:53:22 AM
#20:


Flappers posted...
TheWorstPoster posted...
Girls are overrated.

I am a girl and I approve this message.


Me too, we are definitely overrated in the biggest way.
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Zeus
06/01/18 2:31:39 PM
#21:


EclairReturns posted...
PiOverlord posted...
expressed my feelings for


I really don't think it's smart for you to do this if you're just friends. Not even if you're dating, unless it's getting serious.


Reminds of one of my old college classmates who told that there was a weird guy in one of her classes -- one she'd smiled at and been polite towards, but they had barely ever talked -- who just upped and proposed to her out of the blue. Even if she didn't already have a boyfriend (which the guy really ought to have known), it's just a WTF move with no chance of actually working.
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CarefreeDude
06/01/18 3:00:04 PM
#22:


Personally I think women are pretty great.
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PiOverlord
06/01/18 3:40:37 PM
#23:


Zeus posted...
EclairReturns posted...
PiOverlord posted...
expressed my feelings for


I really don't think it's smart for you to do this if you're just friends. Not even if you're dating, unless it's getting serious.


Reminds of one of my old college classmates who told that there was a weird guy in one of her classes -- one she'd smiled at and been polite towards, but they had barely ever talked -- who just upped and proposed to her out of the blue. Even if she didn't already have a boyfriend (which the guy really ought to have known), it's just a WTF move with no chance of actually working.

I mean, all I did was tell a girl I liked her, not that I loved her and wanted to marry her right then and there...
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Smarkil
06/01/18 3:41:40 PM
#24:


Jen0125 posted...
Flappers posted...
TheWorstPoster posted...
Girls are overrated.

I am a girl and I approve this message.


PM incooooming


I wonder if she walks around barefoot
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VixYW
06/01/18 3:52:08 PM
#25:


Ugh, it happens every time and the feeling sucks. Even when it goes away, it leaves something like a mental scar behind that is a pain in the ass to deal with. Sometimes I hate myself for ever falling for people, it never works out and I never know why. I got really close once but got friendzoned.

Unfortunately the best advice I can give is to tough yourself and get used to the feeling. Or find someone that will accept you, tho if you could do that right away you would probably have done it already...
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ASlaveObeys
06/01/18 4:35:52 PM
#26:


So she didn't say you were scum just that she wasn't into you?
That's not the same thing, sir.
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PiOverlord
06/01/18 4:40:40 PM
#27:


ASlaveObeys posted...
So she didn't say you were scum just that she wasn't into you?
That's not the same thing, sir.

except she kind of did.
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ASlaveObeys
06/01/18 4:56:51 PM
#28:


elaborate
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Flappers
06/03/18 7:54:27 PM
#29:


Smarkil posted...
Jen0125 posted...
Flappers posted...
TheWorstPoster posted...
Girls are overrated.

I am a girl and I approve this message.


PM incooooming


I wonder if she walks around barefoot

I do. Even outside in the rocks.
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PaddysPub
06/03/18 7:59:04 PM
#30:


wwinterj25 posted...
How do you know this? You've never been in a real relationship.

loool
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Bacon_Pancakes
06/03/18 8:20:41 PM
#31:


There are other girls out there. You're still in college.
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dedbus
06/03/18 8:24:05 PM
#32:


It's called the friend zone for a reason dude.
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thedeerzord
06/03/18 8:31:45 PM
#33:


VixYW posted...
Unfortunately the best advice I can give is to tough yourself and get used to the feeling. Or find someone that will accept you, tho if you could do that right away you would probably have done it already...

Pretty much this.

Just harden yourself and be tough about it.
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CarefreeDude
06/04/18 1:17:31 PM
#34:


Flappers posted...
Smarkil posted...
Jen0125 posted...
Flappers posted...
TheWorstPoster posted...
Girls are overrated.

I am a girl and I approve this message.


PM incooooming


I wonder if she walks around barefoot

I do. Even outside in the rocks.


That sounds unpleasant.
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PiOverlord
06/04/18 1:33:56 PM
#35:


thedeerzord posted...
VixYW posted...
Unfortunately the best advice I can give is to tough yourself and get used to the feeling. Or find someone that will accept you, tho if you could do that right away you would probably have done it already...

Pretty much this.

Just harden yourself and be tough about it.

I just get so nervous when I am around someone I like. Try too hard not to seem weird, but I guess no matter how hard you try, your true nature will come out eventually.
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Revelation34
06/04/18 1:38:17 PM
#36:


EclairReturns posted...
Not even if you're dating, unless it's getting serious.


You date people without having feelings for them?

PiOverlord posted...

except she kind of did.


How?
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PiOverlord
06/04/18 1:40:42 PM
#37:


Revelation34 posted...
EclairReturns posted...
Not even if you're dating, unless it's getting serious.


You date people without having feelings for them?

PiOverlord posted...

except she kind of did.


How?

When I tried to ask her out, I found out later she had a few choice words to describe me and how she felt from a guy she basically told to reject me on her behalf.
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Revelation34
06/04/18 1:43:03 PM
#38:


PiOverlord posted...
When I tried to ask her out, I found out later she had a few choice words to describe me and how she felt from a guy she basically told to reject me on her behalf.


What did she say?
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GeoMaggs
06/04/18 1:57:18 PM
#39:


Wait, you heard this from a guy and not from her?

Dude cock-blocked you, and is not boning her, while she's thinking of what it could have been like with you.
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EclairReturns
06/04/18 2:05:03 PM
#40:


Revelation34 posted...
You date people without having feelings for them?


No, you do not express those feelings unless it's getting serious, I meant.
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PiOverlord
06/04/18 3:02:37 PM
#41:


GeoMaggs posted...
Wait, you heard this from a guy and not from her?

Dude cock-blocked you, and is not boning her, while she's thinking of what it could have been like with you.

Nah, trust me on this one, it was pretty obvious after the fact.
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TheWorstPoster
06/04/18 6:51:59 PM
#42:


PiOverlord posted...
Revelation34 posted...
EclairReturns posted...
Not even if you're dating, unless it's getting serious.


You date people without having feelings for them?

PiOverlord posted...

except she kind of did.


How?

When I tried to ask her out, I found out later she had a few choice words to describe me and how she felt from a guy she basically told to reject me on her behalf.


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Flappers
06/04/18 8:35:33 PM
#43:


CarefreeDude posted...
Flappers posted...
Smarkil posted...
Jen0125 posted...
Flappers posted...
TheWorstPoster posted...
Girls are overrated.

I am a girl and I approve this message.


PM incooooming


I wonder if she walks around barefoot

I do. Even outside in the rocks.


That sounds unpleasant.

Why do you think I keep all that thick skin on the soles of my feet? I don't feel a thing!
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TheWorstPoster
06/04/18 8:45:48 PM
#44:


Flappers posted...
CarefreeDude posted...
Flappers posted...
Smarkil posted...
Jen0125 posted...
Flappers posted...
TheWorstPoster posted...
Girls are overrated.

I am a girl and I approve this message.


PM incooooming


I wonder if she walks around barefoot

I do. Even outside in the rocks.


That sounds unpleasant.

Why do you think I keep all that thick skin on the soles of my feet? I don't feel a thing!


Until you step on broken glass that is.

Also, literally none of us thought that at all.
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ClarkDuke
06/04/18 8:59:27 PM
#45:


TheWorstPoster posted...
Just ignore them.

Girls are overrated. Would do nothing but spend your money and cheat on you with a complete asshole, and lie about the whole thing.

Just forget about them, and spend the rest of your life single, and free.

You have no money, the taxpayer does, ok?
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SpeeDLeemon
06/04/18 9:36:32 PM
#46:


PiOverlord posted...
ThickDaddy posted...
Did you ever express your feelings towards her or did you keep it a secret? If it's the latter then you could be feeling regret from not giving yourself a shot with her.

It was the former. First girl I ever expressed my feelings for.

rejection sucks the first time and the next times after that
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TheWorstPoster
06/06/18 10:22:38 AM
#47:


ClarkDuke posted...
TheWorstPoster posted...
Just ignore them.

Girls are overrated. Would do nothing but spend your money and cheat on you with a complete asshole, and lie about the whole thing.

Just forget about them, and spend the rest of your life single, and free.

You have no money, the taxpayer does, ok?


Still a waste of money
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Yellow
06/06/18 12:42:26 PM
#48:


CarefreeDude posted...
That sounds unpleasant.

The natives did it. I take the trash out in the snow barefoot. without any milk
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CarefreeDude
06/06/18 2:01:19 PM
#49:


Yellow posted...
CarefreeDude posted...
That sounds unpleasant.

The natives did it. I take the trash out in the snow barefoot. without any milk


I'm sure they had breastmilk
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