Current Events > Do you think rape victims can still be considered virgins?

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Bandit_Keith
04/28/18 4:18:23 PM
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Someone prior to being sexually assualted are still virgins? - Results (44 votes)
Yes.
15.91% (7 votes)
7
No.
84.09% (37 votes)
37
Obviously I'm talking victims that were virgins at the time of their attack. Children or adult. It's not really something they'd have to count as their first time, right?
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Gafemage
04/28/18 4:19:43 PM
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SomeonesAlt
04/28/18 4:19:56 PM
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Kitt
04/28/18 4:19:58 PM
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Topic locked in 3...2...1...
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Kanaya413
04/28/18 4:20:05 PM
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I am one myself and consider myself a virgin
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-Unowninator-
04/28/18 4:20:11 PM
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Gafemage posted...
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Vicious_Dios
04/28/18 4:20:54 PM
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I voted. <_<

But:

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Offworlder1
04/28/18 4:21:00 PM
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This topic is going to be closed sooner rather then later.
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ArchiePeck
04/28/18 4:21:10 PM
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I would say no, from a straightforward semantic point of view. But I also don't see why this would be an issue for anyone else?
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iron jojo
04/28/18 4:21:44 PM
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Technically physically no, but I really feel that emotionally they get to decide.
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thecoolgu
04/28/18 4:21:52 PM
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That is an objectively stupid question.
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Lost_All_Senses
04/28/18 4:21:53 PM
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I feel like it's up to the victim and how they feel about it. I would never dispute them cause Im not an asshole
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thrashmetal14
04/28/18 4:22:07 PM
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I would still consider them virgins yeah
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DrProfessor
04/28/18 4:22:42 PM
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By definition, no. But not through any fault of their own.
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Hexenherz
04/28/18 4:22:44 PM
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Wow I really didn't anticipate the poll going that way.
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ultimate reaver
04/28/18 4:23:20 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
I feel like it's up to the victim and how they feel about it. I would never dispute them cause Im not an asshole

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Bandit_Keith
04/28/18 4:24:38 PM
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To those wondering, I asked because I was sexually assaulted as a kid, but I still say that I'm a virgin. So do you think I'm wrong in saying so? Whether or not I've had sex rarely comes up, but when it does, do you think I'm being dishonest when I say I'm a virgin ?
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Ivynn
04/28/18 4:25:05 PM
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-Unowninator- posted...
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DrProfessor
04/28/18 4:25:25 PM
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Hexenherz posted...
Wow I really didn't anticipate the poll going that way.
Why? Rape is involuntary sex. A virgin is one who hasnt had sex.

Again its sad, and unfair, but if were dealing in facts...
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DrProfessor
04/28/18 4:26:35 PM
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Bandit_Keith posted...
To those wondering, I asked because I was sexually assaulted as a kid, but I still say that I'm a virgin. So do you think I'm wrong in saying so? Whether or not I've had sex rarely comes up, but when it does, do you think I'm being dishonest when I say I'm a virgin ?
I think you have the right to say what makes you comfortable. And in your own time, you can clarify the situation.
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OwlRammer
04/28/18 4:38:50 PM
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iron jojo posted...
Technically physically no, but I really feel that emotionally they get to decide.

Lost_All_Senses posted...
I feel like it's up to the victim and how they feel about it. I would never dispute them cause Im not an asshole

im going with these
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Skye Reynolds
04/28/18 4:45:35 PM
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The results of this poll are really sad. If you haven't openly given yourself in sex, you should rightly still be considered a virgin.
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Panthera
04/28/18 4:51:04 PM
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Skye Reynolds posted...
The results of this poll are really sad. If you haven't openly given yourself in sex, you should rightly still be considered a virgin.


It's only sad if you view virginity itself as special. In my eyes, if you've had sex you're not a virgin. Forced to have sex still means you had sex. I don't care if someone is a virgin or not though, so I have no reason to try to come up with an excuse to consider a rape a victim a virgin, since it's not like I'm judging them by thinking they aren't
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GiftedACIII
04/28/18 4:51:23 PM
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This is a topic
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Kanaya413
04/28/18 4:54:04 PM
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Bandit_Keith posted...
To those wondering, I asked because I was sexually assaulted as a kid, but I still say that I'm a virgin. So do you think I'm wrong in saying so? Whether or not I've had sex rarely comes up, but when it does, do you think I'm being dishonest when I say I'm a virgin ?

You're not dishonest
Theres a big difference between consensual sex and rape after all

I don't think its an odd question either I've thought about it a lot myself
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BloodyNate
04/28/18 4:56:13 PM
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Virginity is a social construct, meaning that its definition is fluid, and thus if one reasonably wants to consider themselves a virgin they can.

Kanaya413 posted...
I am one myself and consider myself a virgin


I'm sorry you had to endure that, my friend, nobody deserves that trauma.
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Eevee-Trainer
04/28/18 4:57:16 PM
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Ivynn posted...
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UnfairRepresent
04/28/18 4:58:03 PM
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SomeonesAlt posted...
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Medz1286
04/28/18 5:03:30 PM
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Terrible for someone to have their virginity stolen from them.
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Gafemage
04/28/18 5:05:45 PM
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Bandit_Keith posted...
To those wondering, I asked because I was sexually assaulted as a kid, but I still say that I'm a virgin. So do you think I'm wrong in saying so? Whether or not I've had sex rarely comes up, but when it does, do you think I'm being dishonest when I say I'm a virgin ?

Given how this board normally treats the topic of rape/sexual assault/etc. (the immediate reaction to the #MeToo movement was particularly telling), I assumed the intent of this topic was much more malicious, and if what youre saying is true, then I apologize.

On that note, I think this post is pretty accurate:
BloodyNate posted...
Virginity is a social construct, meaning that its definition is fluid, and thus if one reasonably wants to consider themselves a virgin they can.

From a technical standpoint, you may not be physically a virgin, but that doesnt mean you nor your personhood have any less value; theres a difference between being engaged in the physical act of sex & making love, and whenever you have sex consensually for the first time, youd be perfectly in the right to consider that your true first time.
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Loghain
04/28/18 5:28:58 PM
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What the Christ is this topic
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