Current Events > My girlfriend of 1 and a half months wants to get matching tattoos

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MFBKBass5
03/11/18 2:13:09 PM
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That's crazy, right? I mean. We're moving quite fast, but damn. Tattoos are permanent. I'm madly in love with her but even I know that matching tattoos is intense.

And part of me is also like...damn that's so hot that she wants to get a tattoo with me. Mmmmm
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ACHEEKSMALLOY
03/11/18 2:13:52 PM
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These are always a good idea
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MFBKBass5
03/11/18 2:15:05 PM
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ACHEEKSMALLOY posted...
These are always a good idea


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MuffinzwOrned
03/11/18 2:15:28 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
ACHEEKSMALLOY posted...
These are always a good idea

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mhbigboss
03/11/18 2:17:04 PM
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Are you getting married the week after?
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TheGoldenEel
03/11/18 2:17:37 PM
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Lol at this whole saga
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03/11/18 2:20:48 PM
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Weezy_Tha_Don
03/11/18 2:20:50 PM
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what would it be a tattoo of? like the date yall first started dating?
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robellr13
03/11/18 2:21:27 PM
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After one and half month, youre madly in love with her?

You dont know her well enough.
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ProfessorKukui
03/11/18 2:21:43 PM
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g'luck with the crazy.
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Vulgorn
03/11/18 2:21:51 PM
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Feel free to do it if you want to.
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MFBKBass5
03/11/18 2:24:43 PM
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Weezy_Tha_Don posted...
what would it be a tattoo of? like the date yall first started dating?


Nah nothing like that. Just something meaningful that we both like.
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Link HT
03/11/18 2:26:48 PM
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That's a terrible idea. You'd be trading in a rush of emotion now for (most likely) a lifetime of regret. Either that or expensive and painful removal.
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Weezy_Tha_Don
03/11/18 2:29:02 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
Weezy_Tha_Don posted...
what would it be a tattoo of? like the date yall first started dating?


Nah nothing like that. Just something meaningful that we both like.


I dont see the problem then

edit: other then if yall break up, then you might always be reminded of her through that tattoo
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MFBKBass5
03/11/18 2:31:16 PM
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Weezy_Tha_Don posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
Weezy_Tha_Don posted...
what would it be a tattoo of? like the date yall first started dating?


Nah nothing like that. Just something meaningful that we both like.


I dont see the problem then

edit: other then if yall break up, then you might always be reminded of her through that tattoo


Fair. That would definitely suck. I could always turn it into something else hahaha
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Stagmar
03/11/18 2:31:31 PM
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Run away as quickly as you can.
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fjb
03/11/18 2:31:53 PM
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I wouldn't get matching tattoos with my wife of 10 yrs
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joestarrr
03/11/18 2:32:10 PM
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eggcorn
03/11/18 2:33:47 PM
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just make sure it works as a standalone tattoo and who gives a fuck
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Hexenherz
03/11/18 2:35:04 PM
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If you do get it, don't get it somewhere visible (forearm, hand, neck, head, etc.).
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Capn Circus
03/11/18 2:35:32 PM
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Are you getting each others names? Maybe a heart with an arrow in it and then her name?

Lmfao hahaha
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MFBKBass5
03/11/18 2:36:13 PM
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Hexenherz posted...
If you do get it, don't get it somewhere visible (forearm, hand, neck, head, etc.).


Well yeah. My job doesnt let me have visible tattoos so thats a given anyways.
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Omnislasher
03/11/18 2:36:53 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
That's crazy, right?


yeah
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Hexenherz
03/11/18 2:37:07 PM
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MFBKBass5 posted...
Hexenherz posted...
If you do get it, don't get it somewhere visible (forearm, hand, neck, head, etc.).


Well yeah. My job doesnt let me have visible tattoos so thats a given anyways.


Don't "well yeah" me, you're the one talking about getting a matching tattoo because of a girl you've barely known for more than a month...
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Lost_All_Senses
03/11/18 2:41:33 PM
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Only if you can manipulate the choice into something you'd get normally on you anyway and looks good without her contribution.

Also you fell in love with the chick she wants you to think she is. You probably haven't been with her long enough to know the real her
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Soviet_Poland
03/11/18 2:43:57 PM
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Bad idea, but I'll elaborate.

If it's a standalone tattoo and you're the type that likes tattoos, it's not inherently bad. Even if the relationship went south, as long as you were the type of view these things as a reminder of who you were as a person and can accept that you as an individual are a culmination of your experiences, this is just a snapshot of a certain period. Now, I'd say most probably would be more akin to making it more personal and ruminating over the thing if things went south. It would probably serve as more a bad reminder.

If it's your names or something that's just plain stupid.

The bigger concern is the meaning of her wanting such a gesture. You guys are a month and a half in. If she takes a 'no' on this gracefully, it's no big deal. But if she resists, it's probably a sign that she's restless and requires 'grand' gestures all the time, or will otherwise grow bored. That's really hard to sustain and you're in for rough waters.

All speculation, of course. I could be totally wrong. You don't love her. You're infatuated/honeymooning. Maybe it develops into love, but other posters are right.
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Musourenka
03/11/18 2:44:49 PM
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Stagmar posted...
Run away as quickly as you can.

Quoted for truth.
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r4X0r
03/11/18 2:44:59 PM
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Plan B: Tell her you're Jewish and it's against your religion.
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deanshow
03/11/18 2:45:35 PM
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Vulgorn posted...
Feel free to do it if you want to.

Right you should be able to do whatever you want. Without other people judging
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Resolution
03/11/18 2:46:32 PM
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In about a month from now you two will get married, live together, and she'll already be pregnant with twins.
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Soviet_Poland
03/11/18 2:48:13 PM
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deanshow posted...
Without other people judging


People can give their analysis of the situation and it doesn't have to be inherently judgmental. I just think people ought to be informed and make a decision that weighs all considerations. I think there are circumstances in which getting the tattoo isn't a bad idea, so if that's what they want, great!

But I think there does need to be certain criteria met, or otherwise it is setting up disappointment or regret. Calling a spade a spade.
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littlebro07
03/11/18 2:48:19 PM
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Depends on the tattoo tbh

If it has your names, fuck no

If it's just like both of you getting a four leaf clover or something that's not really specific to your relationship then go for it
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Lost_All_Senses
03/11/18 2:49:10 PM
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r4X0r posted...
Plan B: Tell her you're Jewish and it's against your religion.


Also use Plan B for any situation concerning women. Ya'll know
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deanshow
03/11/18 2:49:22 PM
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Soviet_Poland posted...
deanshow posted...
Without other people judging


People can give their analysis of the situation and it doesn't have to be inherently judgmental. I just think people ought to be informed and make a decision that weighs all considerations. I think there are circumstances in which getting the tattoo isn't a bad idea, so if that's what they want, great!

But I think there does need to be certain criteria met, or otherwise it is setting up disappointment or regret. Calling a spade a spade.

I made that quote intentionally
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moose_knuckle
03/11/18 2:50:13 PM
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BlazeJordan648
03/11/18 2:50:31 PM
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Pick a tattoo you both like, but nothing that directly relates to each other. If you break up you still have a tattoo you're happy with
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Soviet_Poland
03/11/18 2:51:04 PM
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deanshow posted...
I made that quote intentionally


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VTBM
03/11/18 2:51:46 PM
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MuffinzwOrned posted...
MFBKBass5 posted...
ACHEEKSMALLOY posted...
These are always a good idea

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Pepys Monster
03/11/18 2:53:17 PM
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Do it, TC. I would.
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Juhanor
03/11/18 2:54:06 PM
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Resolution
03/11/18 2:55:22 PM
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Pepys Monster posted...
Do it, TC. I would.


lmao
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MFBKBass5
03/11/18 3:05:54 PM
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BlazeJordan648 posted...
Pick a tattoo you both like, but nothing that directly relates to each other. If you break up you still have a tattoo you're happy with


Exactly. Also, we wouldnt do this till later this year. Were talking like July or August
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daftpunk_mk5
03/11/18 3:07:18 PM
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No. Don't be a beta bitch and learn to say no.
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03/11/18 3:09:25 PM
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Banjo2553
03/11/18 3:26:29 PM
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eggcorn posted...
just make sure it works as a standalone tattoo and who gives a fuck

This.

Getting matching tattoos that don't work without a half or using your SO's name as a tattoo is always a bad idea.
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Metro2
03/11/18 3:39:55 PM
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You're tattoo is gonna be a wrinkly ugly thing the older you get.
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emblem boy
03/11/18 3:41:18 PM
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TheGoldenEel posted...
Lol at this whole saga

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DeanAuryn
03/11/18 3:43:04 PM
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Whats the problem there, TC?
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