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LittleRoyal 03/07/18 8:36:54 PM #1: |
This morning. Is now hanging out alone with a. Guy she met and has been spending time with alone
And she said she may flirt with him and stuff but she isnt sure if its too soon and if he will trust her as a gf. What should I even say? Shes asking me for advice but I kinda dont even agree with what shes doing in the first place. --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Prestoff 03/07/18 8:38:17 PM #2: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Shes asking me for advice but I kinda dont even agree with what shes doing in the first place. Try to express this in a non-confronting manner than. She SHOULD understand where you are coming from if you really are close friends. --- It's what all true warriors strive for! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sativa_Rose 03/07/18 8:38:17 PM #3: |
She should just go with the flow and let the guy set the pace
btw I am probably not even qualified to give relationship advice but that is my .02 --- I may not go down in history, but I will go down on your sister. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ssj3vegeta_ 03/07/18 8:38:26 PM #4: |
let her have dat rebound sex
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joestarrr 03/07/18 8:38:48 PM #5: |
Prestoff posted...
LittleRoyal posted...Shes asking me for advice but I kinda dont even agree with what shes doing in the first place. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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El Mexicano Texano 03/07/18 8:38:53 PM #6: |
Age of everyone involved and how long did she date her exbf?
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PoopPotato 03/07/18 8:41:46 PM #7: |
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Awesome 03/07/18 9:05:08 PM #8: |
Sounds like shes going to bang him and doesnt want you to think shes a slut
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DoomtheGrav 03/07/18 9:05:52 PM #9: |
Awesome posted...
Sounds like shes going to bang him and doesnt want you to think shes a slut Fact --- set the controls for the heart of the sun ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ExtremeLuchador 03/07/18 9:07:39 PM #10: |
Stop being emotional support for her.
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Ultima Dragon 03/07/18 9:07:58 PM #11: |
Awesome posted...
Sounds like shes going to bang him and doesnt want you to think shes a slut This, and she was probably already seeing or.. "seeing," this other guy before she broke up with her bf. That's how girls do. Always have another guy in place before moving on. --- "It's Canada, their idea of rioting is a half-muttered swear word." - deathbeforelife ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Leanaunfurled 03/07/18 9:08:13 PM #12: |
If the guy legitimately isn't a rebound for her, let her do her thing and move on. Just happened to me. >_>
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bulletproofvita 03/07/18 9:09:24 PM #13: |
Ultima Dragon posted...
Awesome posted...Sounds like shes going to bang him and doesnt want you to think shes a slut In this case most definitely. --- XboxLive: bulletproofvita ... Copied to Clipboard!
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KiwiTerraRizing 03/07/18 9:10:07 PM #14: |
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Sativa_Rose 03/07/18 9:33:03 PM #15: |
Awesome posted...
Sounds like shes going to bang him and doesnt want you to think shes a slut lol if true --- I may not go down in history, but I will go down on your sister. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 03/07/18 10:08:49 PM #16: |
El Mexicano Texano posted...
Age of everyone involved and how long did she date her exbf? Im 21, shes 20 turning 21 this semester. Her ex is 21, new guy is idk I think she said 24+ I guess he worked for his dad before coming to college. She dated her ex uhh. I wanna say 5 ish months? Well. She is dating him this weekend even though she said she would hang out with me and some guy I know so now I gotta cancel cuz I dont wanna hang with him alone and...well my other friends will misinterpret it I think. She isnt my best friend in college (that girl is super awesome but shes single now and taking time to herself, she is so cute and were similar and she isnt in town this weekend) Anyway! Leanaunfurled posted... If the guy legitimately isn't a rebound for her, let her do her thing and move on. Just happened to me. >_> Idk if its a rebound! I heard about rebounds but idk exactly what counts I think she finds the guy really attractive and he is definitely interested in her and I KNOW that he wouldnt mind getting her a bit drunk since he can buy alcohol, and shes drink to seem cool but hes a super low tolerance because thats happened before at a party but not alone so idk. I worry about that potential situation but also Idk if she kinda wants that situation either. But I dont want to say that to her --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DoctorVader 03/07/18 10:17:03 PM #17: |
That's not a rebound. That's the next guy. Likely why she broke up with the bf.
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ASithLord7 03/07/18 10:17:56 PM #18: |
LittleRoyal posted...
dont even agree with what shes doing ????????????????????? --- http://i.imgur.com/VZeCB.gif RebelElite791 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Leanaunfurled 03/07/18 10:43:18 PM #19: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Idk if its a rebound! Rebound is someone to specifically fill the space the previous guy left behind, and are often used in direct comparisons to the one they're rebounding from. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 03/08/18 12:40:35 AM #20: |
ASithLord7 posted...
LittleRoyal posted...dont even agree with what shes doing I feel like she emotionally cheated then chose the hotter guy. I mean maybe they connect a lot more too but the new guy is def hotter. Leanaunfurled posted... LittleRoyal posted...Idk if its a rebound! Ohhh. Idk if Id call it rebounding then I think she more chose this way --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Leanaunfurled 03/08/18 5:10:12 AM #21: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Ohhh. Idk if Id call it rebounding then I think she more chose this way I'd just let her do her thing then. Maybe it's a mistake, maybe it isn't. But people *can* move on like that and have it be legitimate. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sativa_Rose 03/08/18 5:36:26 AM #22: |
LittleRoyal posted...
Well. She is dating him this weekend even though she said she would hang out with me and some guy I know so now I gotta cancel cuz I dont wanna hang with him alone and...well my other friends will misinterpret it I think. Why are you even hanging out with the guy then? --- I may not go down in history, but I will go down on your sister. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ilishe 03/08/18 6:05:31 AM #23: |
5 months?
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Link HT 03/08/18 6:25:53 AM #24: |
DoctorVader posted...
That's not a rebound. That's the next guy. Likely why she broke up with the bf. This, it's just how girls operate in general. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Youngster_Joey_ 03/08/18 6:32:09 AM #25: |
The guy probably knows what's up and just looking for an easy lay tbqh
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LittleRoyal 03/08/18 8:01:42 AM #26: |
Sativa_Rose posted...
LittleRoyal posted...Well. She is dating him this weekend even though she said she would hang out with me and some guy I know so now I gotta cancel cuz I dont wanna hang with him alone and...well my other friends will misinterpret it I think. Hes cool. I just dont want to give him wrong ideas OR have some talk about how its platonic and look like a total idiot especially if he isnt into me. Leanaunfurled posted... LittleRoyal posted...Ohhh. Idk if Id call it rebounding then I think she more chose this way Yeah~ okay thanks! I wouldnt been so nosy about it anyway but she asked me first for the record --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cjsdowg 03/08/18 8:12:41 AM #27: |
Tell her.. You do you, don't worry about anyone else.
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Heineken14 03/08/18 8:19:14 AM #28: |
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Alexanaxela 03/08/18 8:22:54 AM #29: |
bulletproofvita posted...
Ultima Dragon posted...Awesome posted...Sounds like shes going to bang him and doesnt want you to think shes a slut --- Tomorrow will be the most beautiful day of Raymond K. Hessel's life. His breakfast will taste better than any meal you and I have ever tasted. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGrindery 03/08/18 8:29:12 AM #30: |
Encourage her to date the rebound guy.
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ClockworkHare 03/08/18 8:45:58 AM #31: |
If she's in her 20's and wants to fuck around, let her fuck around. And if she later regrets dumping the ex because she gets used like tissue by the new guy, oh well. Learning experiences are part of dating.
My friends paint themselves into corners all the time by hastily trading old partners for new ones they later regret. The "falls" are valuable lessons in teaching them better priorities. Stepping in to rescue or scold them doesn't teach them a damn thing. To me, being truly supportive of my friends is not interfering with them making their own relationship choices. After all, the typical break up is not a death sentence like bleeding hearts whine about. It's just another story you can tell when you're old. --- Bite me like one of your French rolls. http://www.imageupload.co.uk/images/2017/06/05/flcnpawn.png http://www.imageupload.co.uk/images/2017/06/05/84543589.gif ... Copied to Clipboard!
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LittleRoyal 03/08/18 3:12:46 PM #32: |
Everyone seems to say I should just support her choice!
Which is fine and Ill do that Now Im just mad about her ruining my plans! --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGrindery 03/08/18 3:13:20 PM #33: |
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LittleRoyal 03/08/18 3:13:54 PM #34: |
I read what you said whyd you quote yourself?
Im not sitting here laughing at her she is still my friend. --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TheGrindery 03/08/18 3:15:05 PM #35: |
To remind you that it's sometimes fun to watch a trainwreck in slow motion.
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LittleRoyal 03/08/18 3:20:36 PM #36: |
Shes my friend, dude
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Leanaunfurled 03/08/18 4:05:23 PM #37: |
Who says it's necessarily a trainwreck? That's pessimistic.
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TheGrindery 03/08/18 4:46:08 PM #38: |
Turning a rebound into a lasting relationship is possible....but so is surviving your parachute not opening.
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LittleRoyal 03/08/18 4:57:37 PM #39: |
The reasons I think it cant be a rebound are because shes the one who broke off the relationship so I dont think he is one
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TheGrindery 03/08/18 4:58:44 PM #40: |
Doesn't matter who ends it. There's an adjustment phase.
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Leanaunfurled 03/08/18 6:16:37 PM #41: |
TheGrindery posted...
Doesn't matter who ends it. There's an adjustment phase. An adjustment in behavior maybe, but that's it. This doesn't sound like a rebound and it not being a rebound is 100% possible. --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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