Poll of the Day > I just deleted my Tinder profile.

(+) Yeah! (+)

I'm done with people blowing me off and removing me and wasting my time and making me like them before playing me and shit. Fuck everyone, I'm embracing being alone and becoming a super villain with a cape probably and everything.
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There you go, man. Do what you like.
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RCtheWSBC posted...

There you go, man. Do what you like.

What I like is fucking loose woman but they don't like fucking me so I'm adjusting realistically.
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welp <__<
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I'm in a bad mood. :/
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You've gone through a lot lately, so I understand.
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BTW this is me:


Tell me I'm ugly, unattractive, and unfunny so I know I have nothing going for me. I just want to be hateful at this point and respect no one.
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Don't go the incel route, dude. You're better than that.
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RCtheWSBC posted...

Don't go the incel route, dude. You're better than that.

Man, I'm not THAT far gone. But online dating is definitely not for me. The last post was like an exaggerated version of the replies I got.
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It took me many moons to get back into online dating. Take the break, spend time doing things that you genuinely enjoy for the sake of your fulfillment.
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RCtheWSBC posted...

It took me many moons to get back into online dating. Take the break, spend time doing things that you genuinely enjoy for the sake of your fulfillment.

Dude, it's more than that. I'm dealing with a more 9 out of 10 "I'll say I'll see you there and then just not" situation. I already do the 'do what you enjoy' shit. I'll gladly keep doing that, I just don't like people anymore because guys or girls they're all asshole for no stated reason.
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Your biggest mistake is being honest.

I have women from Tinder hounding me right now as I type away. I've lied my ass off to all of them about various things, mainly because I give zero fucks. If one of them stops talking to me then who gives a shit? I have 3 more on the line I can hit up. Hell, it will be a RELIEF as i'll have less lies to keep in order.

So basically: You're on the right track. Stop caring and become self-centered and egocentric and suddenly they start showing up. You'll find out real fast that being a dick who ignores women's messages for hours on end is pretty god damn fun.
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^do not listen to this guy
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Tropic_Sunset posted...

BTW this is me:


Tell me I'm ugly, unattractive, and unfunny so I know I have nothing going for me. I just want to be hateful at this point and respect no one.

You actually seem like a good looking dude from that pic.

vhiran posted...

Your biggest mistake is being honest.

You know some folk would see it as a mistake but if by some miracle a gal is every interested in me I'd rather her know I'm not bullshitting her so then nothing can come back and bite me on the ass. I suppose it doesn't really matter if you're just looking for a one night thing though.
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Nah Tropic_Sunset, I thought you were a chick. I mean, I am hetero but you are fine. 9-10/10 Imo, just work on your confidence
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Online dating is a shit show for any guy who doesn't have money or is at least a 8/10. Don't waste your time. Its a heaven for any girl with self confidence issues tons of attention, even if its negative attention.

I know what you mean Tropic Sunset it's really annoying trying online dating you won't ever get any responses unless you're freaking beautiful, all you got to do to get 5million messages is be a woman with a profile picture of a deadfish

Get off online dating. The real way a guy gets a date in this society is by literally doing random things and going to random places.

Most couples don't meet intentionally. They just happen to find each other while going about normal life. The m:f ratio on dating sites is something like 5:1. The more random stuff you do exposes you to more people.

That doesn't mean you shouldn't be a supervillain. I'd prefer you became a supervillain.
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Lil69Leo posted...

Online dating is a shit show for any guy who doesn't have money or is at least a 8/10. Don't waste your time. Its a heaven for any girl with self confidence issues tons of attention, even if its negative attention.

He seems dashing though. No idea what women want. Maybe it's because his skin color? The "no white boys" crowd of women are very hateful.
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Tropic_Sunset posted...

I'm done with people blowing me off and removing me and wasting my time and making me like them before playing me and shit. Fuck everyone, I'm embracing being alone and becoming a super villain with a cape probably and everything.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Of9kHpCv1ts
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Do something with your hair.
Shave.
Wear tighter jeans.
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Man, I can't believe how good straight men are so good at telling what's attractive for women.

RCtheWSBC posted...

^do not listen to this guy

It would be very, very naive to assume that most women on tinder aren't doing the exact same shit I am. Turnabout is fair play and how you stay ahead in the game.
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Yellow posted...

Get off online dating.

Waaay ahead of you.

Yellow posted...

That doesn't mean you shouldn't be a supervillain. I'd prefer you became a supervillain.

It's a lot of work but we'll see what happens.
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Tinder sucks balls
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vhiran posted...

Do something with your hair.
Shave.
Wear tighter jeans.

No, don't do anything. Just act as if, as you are right now, you're too good for them. It doesn't take long for them to believe you.

This. If you act confident or high status, they'll think you're confident and/or high status, and somebody competant and successful is desirable.
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vhiran posted...

Do something with your hair.
Shave.
Wear tighter jeans.

No, don't do anything. Just act as if, as you are right now, you're too good for them. It doesn't take long for them to believe you.

Kyuubi4269 posted...

vhiran posted...

Do something with your hair.
Shave.
Wear tighter jeans.

No, don't do anything. Just act as if, as you are right now, you're too good for them. It doesn't take long for them to believe you.

This. If you act confident or high status, they'll think you're confident and/or high status, and somebody competant and successful is desirable.

I walked 30 blocks in like 45 or so minutes in order to do keep my word and got unceremoniously blown off. I am too good for them.
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Tropic_Sunset posted...

I walked 30 blocks in like 45 or so minutes in order to do keep my word and got unceremoniously blown off. I am too good for them.

You walked like a fucking peasant.

What's high status about that? I mean driving a car to pick up girls is high school entry level shit, when you're sweating down your ass crack speedwalking to meet them you look desperate and poor.
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Kyuubi4269 posted...

Tropic_Sunset posted...

I walked 30 blocks in like 45 or so minutes in order to do keep my word and got unceremoniously blown off. I am too good for them.

You walked like a fucking peasant.

What's high status about that? I mean driving a car to pick up girls is high school entry level shit, when you're sweating down your ass crack speedwalking to meet them you look desperate and poor.

If I say I'm going to do something, I fucking do it.

I also didn't mention that bit to them, just that I was going to be a bit late.

Also, not speedwalking. Just walking.
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Tropic_Sunset posted...

If I say I'm going to do something, I fucking do it.

Say something you can do then, be assertive.

Tropic_Sunset posted...

I also didn't mention that bit to them, just that I was going to be a bit late.

You shouldn't be late.
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Kyuubi4269 posted...

Say something you can do then, be assertive.

I...did?

Kyuubi4269 posted...

You shouldn't be late.

Hey, shit happens.
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Tropic_Sunset posted...

Kyuubi4269 posted...

Say something you can do then, be assertive.

I...did?

Kyuubi4269 posted...

You shouldn't be late.

Hey, shit happens.

You account for "shit".

You were late, you lost interest of someone who's effectively a complete stranger, you lost it before it even started.

Since you lost it to what you consider unfortunate circumstances then you should be able to brush it off and try to make another effort later but without such issues coming up.
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Kyuubi4269 posted...

You account for "shit".

You were late, you lost interest of someone who's effectively a complete stranger, you lost it before it even started.

Since you lost it to what you consider unfortunate circumstances then you should be able to brush it off and try to make another effort later but without such issues coming up.

Oh, I see. I'll be sure to extend the same heavy handed, dehumanizing standards to everyone else from now on. Being late is worse than not even showing up at all, without any notice! I sure am in the wrong here.

But I think I'll take your advice. Here's something I can assert, end this frustratingly one sided conversation by opting out. Here's something else I can do: stop treating people with the same respect and basic dignity I expect to be offered to me, regardless of how well I know them. You really set me straight, thanks for that.
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Tropic_Sunset posted...

Kyuubi4269 posted...

You account for "shit".

You were late, you lost interest of someone who's effectively a complete stranger, you lost it before it even started.

Since you lost it to what you consider unfortunate circumstances then you should be able to brush it off and try to make another effort later but without such issues coming up.

Oh, I see. I'll be sure to extend the same heavy handed, dehumanizing standards to everyone else from now on. Being late is worse than not even showing up at all, without any notice! I sure am in the wrong here.

But I think I'll take your advice. Here's something I can assert, end this frustratingly one sided conversation by opting out. Here's something else I can do: stop treating people with the same respect and basic dignity I expect to be offered to me, regardless of how well I know them. You really set me straight, thanks for that.

Yes and no.

You expect too much respect and dignity from strangers and that's self-destructive. Once you've actually established face-to-face communication, then you can earn respect and act dignified.

And this isn't a conversation. You have failed at your task and I am telling you what you did wrong and what you need to do. There's no back and forth here, you're just being given sorely needed advice for your failure on a hookup site.
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RCtheWSBC posted...

welp <__<

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Get your bangs out of your face
Start exercising and tone your arms
Wear better fitting jeans

Most importantly
Stop being bitter and resentful
Don't take tinder seriously, use it as a stepping stone for conversing and then go out and meet real people and date them instead of tinder girls

mastermix3000 posted...

RCtheWSBC posted...

welp <__<

I hope you both know I was being very tongue in cheek there. I feel like I need to be a bit bitter right now.
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All I've gotten out of Tinder is sex but I'd rather just date someone.

Too many fuckboys of the female variety on here.
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Tropic_Sunset posted...

I'm done with people blowing me off and removing me and wasting my time and making me like them before playing me and shit. Fuck everyone, I'm embracing being alone and becoming a super villain with a cape probably and everything.

Why not post that look on Tinder and use it as your Tinder profile?

Tropic_Sunset posted...

Tell me I'm ugly, unattractive, and unfunny so I know I have nothing going for me. I just want to be hateful at this point and respect no one.

While *maybe* you could have photographed better, I'm surprised even that didn't get you any half-decent responses. I've certainly seen Tinder sluts go for worse.

Tropic_Sunset posted...

RCtheWSBC posted...

It took me many moons to get back into online dating. Take the break, spend time doing things that you genuinely enjoy for the sake of your fulfillment.

Dude, it's more than that. I'm dealing with a more 9 out of 10 "I'll say I'll see you there and then just not" situation. I already do the 'do what you enjoy' shit. I'll gladly keep doing that, I just don't like people anymore because guys or girls they're all asshole for no stated reason.

The joys of dealing with very young women. The 18-22 segment is flaky enough without online dating.

Tropic_Sunset posted...

I walked 30 blocks in like 45 or so minutes in order to do keep my word and got unceremoniously blown off. I am too good for them.

Do cars, buses, subways, and even bikes not exist in your area?
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Nicodaemos posted...

All I've gotten out of Tinder is sex but I'd rather just date someone.

Too many fuckboys of the female variety on here.

I also find this to be true, but play stupid games, win stupid prizes.
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Girls like funny guys.
Make jokes. Laughs are good for bonding.
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LeetCheet posted...

Girls like funny guys.
Make jokes. Laughs are good for bonding.

Bro you tryna say I'm not funny?
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I don't feel like reading 4 pages of self-deprecation and uplifting rebuttals so this may have already have been said but: hit the gym. You posted a pic, yea you're an average looking dude like most of us. The only way to improve that is dress better and tone yourself at the gym. Once you tone up a bit/build a little muscle (do not get stupidly ripped, its gross and attracts the wrong woman. Although if you're looking for loose and fickle then maybe you consider it the right woman) then I recommend you try the "sides/back buzzed with longer hair on top" look bc I think you could rock it once you tone your face up a bit (not an insult, and I sincerely only mean a bit. maybe a month or two of working out as long as you're dedicated).
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Online dating is a scam for men. Sorry you had to learn the hard way
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airsoft246 posted...

I don't feel like reading 4 pages of self-deprecation and uplifting rebuttals so this may have already have been said

I have a better idea. Change your preferences to be 50 posts a page.

I added more but prefer not to be modded.
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airsoft246 posted...

I don't feel like reading 4 pages of self-deprecation and uplifting rebuttals so this may have already have been said but: hit the gym. You posted a pic, yea you're an average looking dude like most of us. The only way to improve that is dress better and tone yourself at the gym. Once you tone up a bit/build a little muscle (do not get stupidly ripped, its gross and attracts the wrong woman. Although if you're looking for loose and fickle then maybe you consider it the right woman) then I recommend you try the "sides/back buzzed with longer hair on top" look bc I think you could rock it once you tone your face up a bit (not an insult, and I sincerely only mean a bit. maybe a month or two of working out as long as you're dedicated).

Not even that (plus change your page preferences >_>). Just some different photos would probably help.
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Zeus posted...

Not even that (plus change your page preferences >_>). Just some different photos would probably help.

I literally only gave one photo that was in my profile. You calling me ugly boy?

Because I told you to and wouldn't take it personally
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Zeus posted...

airsoft246 posted...

I don't feel like reading 4 pages of self-deprecation and uplifting rebuttals so this may have already have been said but: hit the gym. You posted a pic, yea you're an average looking dude like most of us. The only way to improve that is dress better and tone yourself at the gym. Once you tone up a bit/build a little muscle (do not get stupidly ripped, its gross and attracts the wrong woman. Although if you're looking for loose and fickle then maybe you consider it the right woman) then I recommend you try the "sides/back buzzed with longer hair on top" look bc I think you could rock it once you tone your face up a bit (not an insult, and I sincerely only mean a bit. maybe a month or two of working out as long as you're dedicated).

Not even that (plus change your page preferences >_>). Just some different photos would probably help.

Had nothing to do with having to click pages, it had to do with reading repetitive comments. And idk, truly not trying to be a dick but the gym would help. Actually I was wrong on fashion style, hes fine there if not pretty basic (all this is commenting on one pic Ive seen so its not absolute). But the bangs only in middle of forehead look needs to go, comb it to the left and itll look better. Also, again not insulting, you look like youve never been in a gym and something should be done about that. Never been in a gym does not equate to fat/gross looking, it just means your arms look like youve never made an attempt to improve them.

Also, I havent been going to the gym regularly since early college and Im 25 now, yet I still look like I go to the gym because the hard work back then still shows now (albeit reduced of course, I definitely dont look the exact same). Itll help a lot man, get that going. Find someone to go with to keep you motivated. Tough but obvious truth: you will not fuck in shape attractive women if you are not in shape, very funny, or have a decent job/income. Which is why Tinder sucks, its very hard to portray any of those things in a smooth way on a pro pic/bio, especially since everyone knows that only the best pictures of you in existence are being put up. Happened to my buddy, deleted Tinder bc hes really average looking (especially in pictures) and never got matched but in person he has a powerful swagger to him that gets him attractive girls. Gotta know your strengths and improve everything else to equate as much as possible.
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airsoft246 posted...

Had nothing to do with having to click pages, it had to do with reading repetitive comments. And idk, truly not trying to be a dick but the gym would help. Actually I was wrong on fashion style, hes fine there if not pretty basic (all this is commenting on one pic Ive seen so its not absolute). But the bangs only in middle of forehead look needs to go, come it to the left and itll look better. Also, again not insulting, you look like youve never been in a gym and something should be done about that. Never been in a gym does not equate to fat/gross looking, it just means your arms look like youve never made an attempt to improve them.

Nothing about this says "don't become a supervillain".
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Kyuubi4269 posted...

There's no back and forth here, you're just being given sorely needed advice for your failure on a hookup site.

It's not for me then. Fuck that.

Zeus posted...

Why not post that look on Tinder and use it as your Tinder profile?

I did, really.

Zeus posted...

While *maybe* you could have photographed better, I'm surprised even that didn't get you any half-decent responses. I've certainly seen Tinder sluts go for worse.

Uhhh...thanks? I like that photo and think I'm ugly based on reactions. Not looking for sympathy, I've come to terms with being unattractive.

Zeus posted...

The joys of dealing with very young women. The 18-22 segment is flaky enough without online dating.

Yup. Fuck 'em. They aren't worth my consideration, I'll never make that mistake again.

Zeus posted...

Do cars, buses, subways, and even bikes not exist in your area?

They do, but not as an alternative. I should probably get a bike though.
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