Poll of the Day > once you turn like 22 you see cute girls on campus and think

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man what if I actually talked to her and she was like 18. that's too young I'd look like a creep. better not risk it
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I'm 4 years in still trying to find the courage to start a conversation
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acesxhigh posted...

I'm 4 years in still trying to find the courage to start a conversation

im24andihatemyself
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I probably will too
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Dat logarithmic scale.
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I'm 22 and I don't care how creepy I look.

When I went to college I saw a total of maybe 5 pretty girls. Everyone else was fat old or a man. My college sucks so much.

I did meet one pretty girl and we just had nothing to talk about. Sports fan.

Yellow posted...

When I went to college I saw a total of maybe 5 pretty girls. Everyone else was fat old or a man. My college sucks so much.

seeing attractive people running around everywhere just makes you feel lonely and ugly. I'd take your college over mine tbh
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acesxhigh posted...

I'm 4 years in still trying to find the courage to start a conversation

I think I figured out somewhat.

Its one of those things "im not that great at talking to girls but recently I discovered steps in the right direction"

Pick one or two girls you see every day and just say hi to them. Thats literally all you have to do, dont try to have a conversation with them until you are comfortable just saying hi like its nothing.

Then once you got that down, discover your own baby steps and slowly add things on to your "hi."

Also try to smile, smiling can defuse anyone, guys or girls and it makes you less awkward.

For an example with a non-romantic interest. Once I was with acquaintances and we were having a discussion about a show we all watched and one guy blatantly spoiled something and my reaction was WAY blown out of proportion in response, however my tone left things up evaluation. Thats when I realized when my reaction was stupid and this guy was a lot stronger then me and he could have ripped my dick off. But when my reaction to his "what was that?" was just a big cheesy smile, the situation was instantly defused.

You can apply smiles to defuse situations, such as realizing you said some thing stupid to a girl. Or laugh, when I tell bad jokes and girls give me that "are you serious look", I just laugh it off, as if I am laughing at their reaction and that was my intent along.

acesxhigh posted...

seeing attractive people running around everywhere just makes you feel lonely and ugly. I'd take your college over mine tbh

Tell you what let's trade.

What if I told you,

That issue gets more common as your age increases.
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eating4fun posted...

What if I told you,

That issue gets more common as your age increases.

All issues kind of do.

Yellow posted...

eating4fun posted...

What if I told you,

That issue gets more common as your age increases.

All issues kind of do.

as issues and so tissues
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18-22 is a small gap
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acesxhigh posted...

man what if I actually talked to her and she was like 18. that's too young I'd look like a creep. better not risk it

Instead you just look like a wimp =p
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DirtBasedSoap posted...

im23andihatemyself

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acesxhigh posted...

man what if I actually talked to her and she was like 18. that's too young I'd look like a creep. better not risk it

also this is a dumb mentality
that girl could literally drop out the next day and be in a porno being bonked by a 32 year old man with a 10 inch penis

acesxhigh posted...

man what if I actually talked to her and she was like 18. that's too young I'd look like a creep. better not risk it

Wow. I mean when I'm in a bar or whatever I talk to anyone no matter their age. It's not like I ask for I.D before I talk to them. I'm 30 too.

eating4fun posted...

What if I told you,

That issue gets more common as your age increases.

On the plus side though the older you get the less you care.
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16 and up you're fine

I aim for younger sluts
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