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3khc 08/22/17 2:01:48 PM #1:	•Changing last names (hyphenating at most) •Having children •Combining finances I'm fine with keeping last name. Children is a big thing for me tho. Not combining finances is... understandable. How would you feel? --- ---- ----- <cite>3khc posted [p:885244885] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>•Changing last names (hyphenating at most) •Having children •Combining finances I'm fine with keeping last name. Children is a big thing for me tho. Not combining finances is... understandable. How would you feel?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solar_Crimson 08/22/17 2:02:30 PM #2:	I don't really have a problem with any of those. --- http://i.imgur.com/wKOoZkP.jpg http://i.imgur.com/mipFVFw.png http://backloggery.com/SolarCrimson <cite>Solar_Crimson posted [p:885244925] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>I don't really have a problem with any of those.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OrtegaTron 08/22/17 2:02:46 PM #3:	Whatever floats her boat I personally agree, but if you want kids, this is a problem Prenup --- The red flag is false hope <cite>OrtegaTron posted [p:885244944] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>Whatever floats her boat I personally agree, but if you want kids, this is a problem Prenup</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pinky0926 08/22/17 2:02:56 PM #4:	Points 1 and 3 are no big deal. Point 2 is a problem. if it's something you really want, how do you see this relationship in 10-15 years? --- CE's Resident Scotsman. http://i.imgur.com/ILz2ZbV.jpg <cite>pinky0926 posted [p:885244959] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>Points 1 and 3 are no big deal. Point 2 is a problem. if it's something you really want, how do you see this relationship in 10-15 years?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Canuklehead 08/22/17 2:03:03 PM #5:	lol, what's the point of getting married even? <cite>Canuklehead posted [p:885244971] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>lol, what's the point of getting married even?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dustin1280 08/22/17 2:03:46 PM #6:	My fiance is changing her last name to mine, though I didn't care about whether she did or not. We already decided we don't want children, they are a drain on our wallet and we like money. We have a combined account with the rule that whatever you put in goes towards house improvements/acquirements or vacation money. No limitation on how much goes in or out, nor do we keep track of who deposits how much into it. We also have a combined billing account. We each put in 50% of all of our bills with that one. The remaining money goes into our own separate accounts with the rule being, she can't bitch at me when I buy things she considers useless (video games, etc..) and vise versa for her. --- Smash DS Code: 4554-0120-5368 SB4 Name: Roz RIP: Orlando of the Axe Karma: 1642 --he delivered! <cite>Dustin1280 posted [p:885245012] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>My fiance is changing her last name to mine, though I didn't care about whether she did or not. We already decided we don't want children, they are a drain on our wallet and we like money. We have a combined account with the rule that whatever you put in goes towards house improvements/acquirements or vacation money. No limitation on how much goes in or out, nor do we keep track of who deposits how much into it. We also have a combined billing account. We each put in 50% of all of our bills with that one. The remaining money goes into our own separate accounts with the rule being, she can't bitch at me when I buy things she considers useless (video games, etc..) and vise versa for her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
myztikrice 08/22/17 2:04:28 PM #7:	Why are you still together if you both have different ideas about children --- "Why are you always smiling?" "'Cause it's all so f***in' hysterical." <cite>myztikrice posted [p:885245053] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>Why are you still together if you both have different ideas about children</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
OctilIery 08/22/17 2:04:29 PM #8:	Not changing the name is fine, the rest are deal breakers. <cite>OctilIery posted [p:885245055] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>Not changing the name is fine, the rest are deal breakers.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darkman124 08/22/17 2:04:36 PM #9:	i think it's also important to identify what she does want. --- And when the hourglass has run out, eternity asks you about only one thing: whether you have lived in despair or not. <cite>Darkman124 posted [p:885245059] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>i think it's also important to identify what she does want.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Old NoiseTank 08/22/17 2:04:48 PM #10:	2 is the deal breaker imo. 3 will not work out down the line. got to at least have one joint account for bills and such. 1 is fine, who the fuck would wanna change their last name. --- "You ought to take the cash cab. You'll actually make money by riding in it as long as you don't screw up three times." - mitchells2003 <cite>Old NoiseTank posted [p:885245067] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>2 is the deal breaker imo. 3 will not work out down the line. got to at least have one joint account for bills and such. 1 is fine, who the fuck would wanna change their last name.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Romulox28 08/22/17 2:06:15 PM #12:	tbh i would break up with my gf if she didnt want to have children. it's a huge dealbreaker and if you got married you'd have to compromise on what is probably the largest, most important aspect of your future. finances one scares me too because it's just going to lead to fights over money and you won't feel like a team, it'll be easier to hide irresponsible spending etc. this is probably another dealbreaker for me, or at the very least a major red flag. don't care about the last name one. my wife took my last name but i said i was cool with it either way --- A Green Butter Alt(TM) http://i.imgur.com/LhwwG.gif <cite>Romulox28 posted [p:885245146] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>tbh i would break up with my gf if she didnt want to have children. it's a huge dealbreaker and if you got married you'd have to compromise on what is probably the largest, most important aspect of your future. finances one scares me too because it's just going to lead to fights over money and you won't feel like a team, it'll be easier to hide irresponsible spending etc. this is probably another dealbreaker for me, or at the very least a major red flag. don't care about the last name one. my wife took my last name but i said i was cool with it either way</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blackstar110 08/22/17 2:07:58 PM #13:	Disagreement on kids is a dealbreaker. Finances are also significantly easier combined, but my wife and I do also maintain personal accounts that we pay out allowances to from the joint budget. --- -Shred <cite>Blackstar110 posted [p:885245255] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>Disagreement on kids is a dealbreaker. Finances are also significantly easier combined, but my wife and I do also maintain personal accounts that we pay out allowances to from the joint budget.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darklit_Minuet 08/22/17 2:08:40 PM #14:	Best of both worlds. No annoying kids running around draining your money, and if you get divorced down the line she doesn't get half your shit <cite>Darklit_Minuet posted [p:885245292] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>Best of both worlds. No annoying kids running around draining your money, and if you get divorced down the line she doesn't get half your shit</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Master_Bass 08/22/17 2:11:10 PM #15:	Those conditions aren't dealbreakers for me. I'd even prefer to keep some of our finances separate, but am not against pooling our money for bills and expenses. I can see how having no kids can be a dealbreaker, though. It's ok if she doesn't want kids, but your relationship won't work in the end if you do absolutely want them. --- Many Bothans died to bring you this post. <cite>Master_Bass posted [p:885245414] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>Those conditions aren't dealbreakers for me. I'd even prefer to keep some of our finances separate, but am not against pooling our money for bills and expenses. I can see how having no kids can be a dealbreaker, though. It's ok if she doesn't want kids, but your relationship won't work in the end if you do absolutely want them.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darklit_Minuet 08/22/17 2:28:06 PM #16:	Master_Bass posted... I can see how having no kids can be a dealbreaker, though. It's ok if she doesn't want kids, but your relationship won't work in the end if you do absolutely want them. Lmfao why would you though? <cite>Darklit_Minuet posted [p:885246408] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote><cite>Master_Bass posted...</cite> <quote>I can see how having no kids can be a dealbreaker, though. It's ok if she doesn't want kids, but your relationship won't work in the end if you do absolutely want them. </quote> Lmfao why would you though?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dustin1280 08/22/17 2:29:33 PM #17:	The kid thing IS a dealbreaker if you want them and she doesn't. It's one of the most important decisions you will make your entire life and having a partner that wants the opposite is a terrible idea. --- Smash DS Code: 4554-0120-5368 SB4 Name: Roz RIP: Orlando of the Axe Karma: 1642 --he delivered! <cite>Dustin1280 posted [p:885246481] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>The kid thing IS a dealbreaker if you want them and she doesn't. It's one of the most important decisions you will make your entire life and having a partner that wants the opposite is a terrible idea.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Nintendo Master 08/22/17 2:34:01 PM #18:	If you want kids and she doesn't, don't do it. --- He who laughs last thinks slowest. <cite>The Nintendo Master posted [p:885246742] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>If you want kids and she doesn't, don't do it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Knowledge_King 08/22/17 2:41:15 PM #19:	2 is a super dealbreaker. 1 is just a normal dealbreaker. 3 defeats the purpose of marriage tbh. --- http://www.warwithwords.com He Who Leads: Global Ebook Award Winner:https://www.amazon.com/dp/B01CE0TLLM <cite>Knowledge_King posted [p:885247183] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>2 is a super dealbreaker. 1 is just a normal dealbreaker. 3 defeats the purpose of marriage tbh.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RIPVyseCity 08/22/17 2:46:58 PM #20:	Been married 6 years and dont have joined bank account. She just transfers me $ whenever she gets paid <cite>RIPVyseCity posted [p:885247499] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>Been married 6 years and dont have joined bank account. She just transfers me $ whenever she gets paid</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dustin1280 08/22/17 2:47:30 PM #21:	RIPVyseCity posted... Been married 6 years and dont have joined bank account. She just transfers me $ whenever she gets paid That's the way to do it IMO --- Smash DS Code: 4554-0120-5368 SB4 Name: Roz RIP: Orlando of the Axe Karma: 1642 --he delivered! <cite>Dustin1280 posted [p:885247525] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote><cite>RIPVyseCity posted...</cite> <quote>Been married 6 years and dont have joined bank account. She just transfers me $ whenever she gets paid</quote> That's the way to do it IMO</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Kineth 08/22/17 2:48:23 PM #22:	What the hell does she even want to share with me? --- If you're not looking for any honest discussion, agreement, meeting halfway or middle ground, don't bother arguing with me. Selfish narcissists need not apply. <cite>Kineth posted [p:885247584] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>What the hell does she even want to share with me?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
YellowSUV 08/22/17 2:48:58 PM #23:	1 and 3 aren't a big deal, but if you can't agree on children you're going to have a bad time. --- We all live in a Yellow SUV! a Yellow SUV! <cite>YellowSUV posted [p:885247624] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>1 and 3 aren't a big deal, but if you can't agree on children you're going to have a bad time.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Murayomi 08/22/17 3:04:27 PM #26:	Canuklehead posted... lol, what's the point of getting married even? --- .0721 \| "Anxiety is the dizziness of freedom." <cite>Murayomi posted [p:885248530] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote><cite>Canuklehead posted...</cite> <quote>lol, what's the point of getting married even?</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Slaya4 08/22/17 3:12:50 PM #27:	1 and 2 are both deal breakers. I'm fine with not combining finances. However, we should have at least a "bank" we can put our money in and we can take out however much we want as long as it is paid back. Rules on whether there should be interest or not can be discussed, but we should have something combined, so we aren't digging into our personal pockets. --- Am I going too hard? <cite>Slaya4 posted [p:885249024] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>1 and 2 are both deal breakers. I'm fine with not combining finances. However, we should have at least a "bank" we can put our money in and we can take out however much we want as long as it is paid back. Rules on whether there should be interest or not can be discussed, but we should have something combined, so we aren't digging into our personal pockets.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NOM 08/22/17 3:18:38 PM #30:	Goddamn man, turn around and run the fuck away from that crazy bitch. --- this just here so I ain't a smelly sigless user <cite>NOM posted [p:885249418] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>Goddamn man, turn around and run the fuck away from that crazy bitch.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VandorLee 08/22/17 3:20:33 PM #31:	3khc posted... •Changing last names (hyphenating at most) •Having children •Combining finances -If you dont care to change the last name I wouldnt bother getting married. -If you dont want to EVENTUALLY have children then you arnt the one ill be marrying -If you never want to combine finances then i probably wouldnt either. Although i dont combine mine with my wifes we can look up each others accounts anytime so thats good enough for me. --- "God didn't create humans, no, it's humans who created God." Dr. Londes, Cowboy Bebop: "Brain Scratch" (#1.23) (1999) <cite>VandorLee posted [p:885249534] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>•Changing last names (hyphenating at most) •Having children •Combining finances</quote> -If you dont care to change the last name I wouldnt bother getting married. -If you dont want to EVENTUALLY have children then you arnt the one ill be marrying -If you never want to combine finances then i probably wouldnt either. Although i dont combine mine with my wifes we can look up each others accounts anytime so thats good enough for me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darklit_Minuet 08/22/17 3:29:21 PM #32:	I don't understand why people keep calling #2 a dealbreaker when it's the best thing ever <cite>Darklit_Minuet posted [p:885250041] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>I don't understand why people keep calling #2 a dealbreaker when it's the best thing ever</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dustin1280 08/22/17 3:30:16 PM #33:	Darklit_Minuet posted... I don't understand why people keep calling #2 a dealbreaker when it's the best thing ever It's only a dealbreaker if you want the opposite. --- Smash DS Code: 4554-0120-5368 SB4 Name: Roz RIP: Orlando of the Axe Karma: 1642 --he delivered! <cite>Dustin1280 posted [p:885250089] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darklit_Minuet posted...</cite> <quote>I don't understand why people keep calling #2 a dealbreaker when it's the best thing ever</quote> It's only a dealbreaker if you want the opposite.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VandorLee 08/22/17 3:30:46 PM #34:	Darklit_Minuet posted... I don't understand why people keep calling #2 a dealbreaker when it's the best thing ever MOST guys want to EVENTUALLY have kids. Just not now. Its marriage material, just again, not good right now. --- "God didn't create humans, no, it's humans who created God." Dr. Londes, Cowboy Bebop: "Brain Scratch" (#1.23) (1999) <cite>VandorLee posted [p:885250110] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darklit_Minuet posted...</cite> <quote>I don't understand why people keep calling #2 a dealbreaker when it's the best thing ever</quote> MOST guys want to EVENTUALLY have kids. Just not now. Its marriage material, just again, not good right now.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
De Evolution 08/22/17 3:32:14 PM #35:	3khc posted... •Changing last names (hyphenating at most) Dump her. She doesn't respect you or your leadership nor does she even admire you enough to take your name. She sounds like a selfish feminist. She wants a wedding, not a marriage. --- Let go your earthly tether. Enter the void. Empty, and become wind. <cite>De Evolution posted [p:885250189] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>•Changing last names (hyphenating at most) </quote> Dump her. She doesn't respect you or your leadership nor does she even admire you enough to take your name. She sounds like a selfish feminist. She wants a wedding, not a marriage.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Naysaspace 08/22/17 3:33:17 PM #36:	If you are st the point where marriage is a realistic option, kids should have been discussed years ago. <cite>Naysaspace posted [p:885250243] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>If you are st the point where marriage is a realistic option, kids should have been discussed years ago.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dustin1280 08/22/17 3:39:04 PM #37:	De Evolution posted... 3khc posted... •Changing last names (hyphenating at most) Dump her. She doesn't respect you or your leadership nor does she even admire you enough to take your name. She sounds like a selfish feminist. She wants a wedding, not a marriage. What a trash world view. --- Smash DS Code: 4554-0120-5368 SB4 Name: Roz RIP: Orlando of the Axe Karma: 1642 --he delivered! <cite>Dustin1280 posted [p:885250616] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote><cite>De Evolution posted...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>•Changing last names (hyphenating at most) </quote> Dump her. She doesn't respect you or your leadership nor does she even admire you enough to take your name. She sounds like a selfish feminist. She wants a wedding, not a marriage.</quote> What a trash world view.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jabodie 08/22/17 3:41:39 PM #38:	At that point though, what's really the point of getting married? Tax breaks? --- <insert sig here> <cite>Jabodie posted [p:885250786] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>At that point though, what's really the point of getting married? Tax breaks?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
De Evolution 08/22/17 3:43:09 PM #39:	Dustin1280 posted... De Evolution posted... 3khc posted... •Changing last names (hyphenating at most) Dump her. She doesn't respect you or your leadership nor does she even admire you enough to take your name. She sounds like a selfish feminist. She wants a wedding, not a marriage. What a trash world view. The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't even feel pity for the men who get divorced by these harpies who never even took their name in the first place. --- Let go your earthly tether. Enter the void. Empty, and become wind. <cite>De Evolution posted [p:885250881] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote><cite>Dustin1280 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>De Evolution posted...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>•Changing last names (hyphenating at most) </quote> Dump her. She doesn't respect you or your leadership nor does she even admire you enough to take your name. She sounds like a selfish feminist. She wants a wedding, not a marriage.</quote> What a trash world view.</quote> The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't even feel pity for the men who get divorced by these harpies who never even took their name in the first place.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dustin1280 08/22/17 3:44:04 PM #40:	Jabodie posted... At that point though, what's really the point of getting married? Tax breaks? Tax breaks family insurance rates NOT being refused by a doctor at a hospital in the case of an emergency women like the idea of a wedding and generally it's something they have been thinking about since they were kids (not always) --- Smash DS Code: 4554-0120-5368 SB4 Name: Roz RIP: Orlando of the Axe Karma: 1642 --he delivered! <cite>Dustin1280 posted [p:885250933] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jabodie posted...</cite> <quote>At that point though, what's really the point of getting married? Tax breaks?</quote> Tax breaks family insurance rates NOT being refused by a doctor at a hospital in the case of an emergency women like the idea of a wedding and generally it's something they have been thinking about since they were kids (not always)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jabodie 08/22/17 3:48:51 PM #41:	Dustin1280 posted... NOT being refused by a doctor at a hospital in the case of an emergency This seems like the best reason out of those. Without kids, the extra money from tax breaks and family insurance rates seems unnecessary imo. --- <insert sig here> <cite>Jabodie posted [p:885251221] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote><cite>Dustin1280 posted...</cite> <quote>NOT being refused by a doctor at a hospital in the case of an emergency</quote> This seems like the best reason out of those. Without kids, the extra money from tax breaks and family insurance rates seems unnecessary imo.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cleo_II 08/22/17 3:49:27 PM #42:	Funny. #1 would have been a deal breaker for my husband but not the rest (I do want kids and our finances are merged though). In any case, with #2, if you're at opposite ends then it just won't work out long term. Sorry to say. <cite>Cleo_II posted [p:885251262] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>Funny. #1 would have been a deal breaker for my husband but not the rest (I do want kids and our finances are merged though). In any case, with #2, if you're at opposite ends then it just won't work out long term. Sorry to say.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Naysaspace 08/22/17 3:50:20 PM #43:	Dustin1280 posted... Jabodie posted... At that point though, what's really the point of getting married? Tax breaks? Tax breaks family insurance rates NOT being refused by a doctor at a hospital in the case of an emergency women like the idea of a wedding and generally it's something they have been thinking about since they were kids (not always) Tax breaks is a myth. They all come with commonlaw. Not official marriage. Maybe USA is weird idk <cite>Naysaspace posted [p:885251321] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote><cite>Dustin1280 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Jabodie posted...</cite> <quote>At that point though, what's really the point of getting married? Tax breaks?</quote> Tax breaks family insurance rates NOT being refused by a doctor at a hospital in the case of an emergency women like the idea of a wedding and generally it's something they have been thinking about since they were kids (not always)</quote> Tax breaks is a myth. They all come with commonlaw. Not official marriage. Maybe USA is weird idk</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
VandorLee 08/22/17 3:53:33 PM #44:	True, and id say funny story: I didnt want kids and i think my wife looked at me like "This IS a deal breaker but everything else checks out....Ive got an idea!" Eventually she "ends up" pregnant and Im immediately like "My baby needs her father!" Risky move but it worked out for my wife. --- "God didn't create humans, no, it's humans who created God." Dr. Londes, Cowboy Bebop: "Brain Scratch" (#1.23) (1999) <cite>VandorLee posted [p:885251528] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>True, and id say funny story: I didnt want kids and i think my wife looked at me like "This IS a deal breaker but everything else checks out....Ive got an idea!" Eventually she "ends up" pregnant and Im immediately like "My baby needs her father!" Risky move but it worked out for my wife.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The Deadpool 08/22/17 4:04:40 PM #46:	Jabodie posted... At that point though, what's really the point of getting married? Tax breaks? What's ever the point of getting married? Changing names? Really? 2 is the only one that matters. If one person wants kids and the other doesn't shit isn't gonna work out. Move on. The rest... Why would you even care? --- We are living in a world today where lemonade is made from artificial flavors and furniture polish is made from real lemons. <cite>The Deadpool posted [p:885252144] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jabodie posted...</cite> <quote>At that point though, what's really the point of getting married? Tax breaks?</quote> What's ever the point of getting married? Changing names? Really? 2 is the only one that matters. If one person wants kids and the other doesn't shit isn't gonna work out. Move on. The rest... Why would you even care?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darklit_Minuet 08/22/17 4:14:14 PM #47:	VandorLee posted... Darklit_Minuet posted... I don't understand why people keep calling #2 a dealbreaker when it's the best thing ever MOST guys want to EVENTUALLY have kids. Just not now. Its marriage material, just again, not good right now. Uh...why would most guys want that? <cite>Darklit_Minuet posted [p:885252727] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote><cite>VandorLee posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Darklit_Minuet posted...</cite> <quote>I don't understand why people keep calling #2 a dealbreaker when it's the best thing ever</quote> MOST guys want to EVENTUALLY have kids. Just not now. Its marriage material, just again, not good right now.</quote> Uh...why would most guys want that?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
donkeyjack 08/22/17 4:17:23 PM #48:	De Evolution posted... Dustin1280 posted... De Evolution posted... 3khc posted... •Changing last names (hyphenating at most) Dump her. She doesn't respect you or your leadership nor does she even admire you enough to take your name. She sounds like a selfish feminist. She wants a wedding, not a marriage. What a trash world view. The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't even feel pity for the men who get divorced by these harpies who never even took their name in the first place. What's the point of marrying a woman, if you had no control over her? Like it's counterproductive. --- The boywonder is the American idol/And every night I go to bed with the title/With infrared in the bible. http://imgur.com/tyElXOs http://imgur.com/Mxpx3aN <cite>donkeyjack posted [p:885252926] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote><cite>De Evolution posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Dustin1280 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>De Evolution posted...</cite> <quote><cite>3khc posted...</cite> <quote>•Changing last names (hyphenating at most) </quote> Dump her. She doesn't respect you or your leadership nor does she even admire you enough to take your name. She sounds like a selfish feminist. She wants a wedding, not a marriage.</quote> What a trash world view.</quote> The truth hurts doesn't it? I don't even feel pity for the men who get divorced by these harpies who never even took their name in the first place.</quote> What's the point of marrying a woman, if you had no control over her? Like it's counterproductive.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SageHarpuia 08/22/17 4:18:37 PM #49:	Ditch her. --- My name is Harpuia, one of the four Guardians of Master X and General of the Strong Air Battalion, The Rekku Army. <cite>SageHarpuia posted [p:885252989] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>Ditch her.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Patty_Fleur 08/22/17 4:21:39 PM #50:	I don't understand being married and not combining finances. --- Three can keep a secret, if two of them are dead. <cite>Patty_Fleur posted [p:885253172] in Girlfriend... [t:75697166]...</cite> <quote>I don't understand being married and not combining finances.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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