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Jabodie 08/22/17 4:24:16 PM #51: |
Patty_Fleur posted...
I don't understand being married and not combining finances. Well, it's always advised to have some level of separation. This way neither one of you can completely ruin your finances in a series of rash decisions during some kind of mid life crisis. --- <insert sig here> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Dustin1280 08/22/17 4:24:30 PM #52: |
Patty_Fleur posted...
I don't understand being married and not combining finances. We tried both combining finances and not doing so. Combining finances caused more problems because anytime someone wanted to buy something the other considered a waste of money, it was a headache. In the end we decided on this: Join account, we each transfer 50% of every bill we have into this account every month. Personal Accounts, any remaining money is our own to spend whenever we choose. We also split nights we go out down the middle unless one is treating the other. --- Smash DS Code: 4554-0120-5368 SB4 Name: Roz RIP: Orlando of the Axe Karma: 1642 --he delivered! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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3khc 08/22/17 4:30:06 PM #53: |
Just to clarify:
•Changing last names -She wants to keep her last name, but would maybe be open to combine with mine via hyphen. -If kids happen, they would also get the hyphen treatment. •Having children -She understands that I want them and feels bad. -Would be open to maybe one. She hates the idea of pregnancy and labor and watching kids. •Combining finances -Split bills 50/50, but keep separate bank accounts. --- ---- ----- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Darklit_Minuet 08/22/17 4:31:01 PM #54: |
3khc posted...
-She understands that I want them and feels bad. There seems to be an easy way around this - adopt and do most of the watching of the kid ... Copied to Clipboard!
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3khc 08/22/17 4:34:58 PM #55: |
Darklit_Minuet posted...
3khc posted...-She understands that I want them and feels bad. Since I was young, I dreamed of becoming a father. Wanted to watch my own kids to grow up. I like adoption, but it's not the same. --- ---- ----- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Darklit_Minuet 08/22/17 4:35:37 PM #56: |
Why is it not the same? If you adopt a young kid you can still watch it grow up
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3khc 08/22/17 4:39:45 PM #57: |
I want to see what my offspring look like.
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_Rinku_ 08/22/17 5:12:55 PM #58: |
3khc posted...
I want to see what my offspring look like. That's pretty selfish. Children are a deal-breaker. You can't compromise and have half a kid. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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xOmniCloudx 08/22/17 5:16:13 PM #59: |
Your wife sounds like me except I preferably don't want marriage. Maybe she's my match and not yours? If she's a blue eyed redhead and not American than I'm certain she's meant for me.
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LittleRoyal 08/22/17 5:20:52 PM #60: |
I'm changing my last name because I think it's very disrespectful to say I want to be part of your family but then not take your family name
I want children someday just not soon Idk much about my own finances but if me and my bf each had our own job and money at least we can't judge how someone is Spending and we just split house bills 50/50 but it seems lonely. Idk --- I-I really needed this~~ Time to stomp some faces!!! ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Ilishe 08/22/17 5:24:40 PM #61: |
That's three deal breakers. Two of them immense red flags too.
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pauIie 08/22/17 5:42:21 PM #62: |
Don't compromise on the kids if you really want them. That'll be a lifelong regret.
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chill02 08/22/17 5:45:46 PM #63: |
pauIie posted...
Don't compromise on the kids if you really want them. That'll be a lifelong regret. --- Ave, true to Caesar. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SageHarpuia 08/22/17 6:16:45 PM #64: |
That's pretty selfish. It's perfectly natural and reasonable to want your own child. --- My name is Harpuia, one of the four Guardians of Master X and General of the Strong Air Battalion, The Rekku Army. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Darkraiomb 08/22/17 7:23:13 PM #65: |
IMO, the REAL dealbreaker is getting married. :p
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itachi15243 08/22/17 7:25:15 PM #67: |
If she doesn't want to combine finances, make sure to get a prenuptial
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Lorenzo_2003 08/22/17 7:30:55 PM #68: |
Darklit_Minuet posted...
Master_Bass posted...I can see how having no kids can be a dealbreaker, though. It's ok if she doesn't want kids, but your relationship won't work in the end if you do absolutely want them. Lol, kids are awesome. Every species on the planet is designed to survive and procreate. What kind of edgy point are you trying to push? --- ... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Rinku_ 08/22/17 8:04:42 PM #69: |
Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Darklit_Minuet posted...Master_Bass posted...I can see how having no kids can be a dealbreaker, though. It's ok if she doesn't want kids, but your relationship won't work in the end if you do absolutely want them. You think kids are awesome. I think they're awful monsters. Everyone has different opinions, and that's fine. Also, lol @ "designed." Pandas easily refute that. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Zeus 08/22/17 8:06:20 PM #70: |
Not seeing much reason to marry there unless you need to be on the other's health plan. Also not taking your last name is a giant "fuck you" unless she's a celeb or something like a doctor.
Patty_Fleur posted... I don't understand being married and not combining finances. This, tbh. It's also impractical given how many joint possessions a married couple will wind up having. --- (\/)(\/)|-| In Zeus We Trust: All Others Pay Cash ... Copied to Clipboard!
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gatorsPENSbucs 08/22/17 8:08:11 PM #71: |
3khc posted...
•Changing last names (hyphenating at most) Nope Nope Sure She gone --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The Deadpool 08/22/17 9:39:54 PM #72: |
Lorenzo_2003 posted...
Every species on the planet is designed to survive and procreate. The one defining characteristic from humans is defying their animal impulses... --- We are living in a world today where lemonade is made from artificial flavors and furniture polish is made from real lemons. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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awesome999 08/22/17 9:45:24 PM #73: |
OrtegaTron posted...
Whatever floats her boat This Emphasis on the kids part There was a guy here who wanted kids and his girl didn't. Can someone @ him? --- When it's kids, it's "bullying" but if it were adults, it's stalking, harassment, assault, criminal threats and just general abuse. -Tmk ... Copied to Clipboard!
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FightingGames 08/22/17 9:46:36 PM #74: |
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wah_wah_wah 08/22/17 9:52:33 PM #75: |
SageHarpuia posted...
That's pretty selfish. Undeniably selfish though. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Xelltrix 08/22/17 9:53:28 PM #76: |
The last one makes no sense if you're getting married. Like, at all.
If you want kids and she doesn't, that's also not going to work out. The name thing is pretty much irrelevant so whatever. --- Reading this post may induce one or more of the following: Nausea / Butt-Hurt / Lulz / UM? Syndrome / Angst / Diarrhea ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Perascamin 08/22/17 9:55:40 PM #77: |
Why would you get married and not combine finances, exactly?
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xOmniCloudx 08/23/17 3:19:08 AM #78: |
Perascamin posted...
Why would you get married and not combine finances, exactly? If two people live together their finances are combined already since they're going to have to split them. It makes no sense to not have control over what you personally bring. Marriage doesn't change that, especially because divorce is a thing. If anything, marriage is pointless as a means of love with divorce. Marriage is just pointlessly symbology if not used as a business transaction since it's historically supposed to be done to benefit people. --- This is GameFAQs. People here take great pride in ignoring common sense. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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