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Twinmold 08/03/17 1:41:30 PM #404:	Lol, he deleted the post once he realized he messed up and didn't log into his alt to support his own argument. --- Get your facts first, then you can distort them as you please. - Mark Twain <cite>Twinmold posted [p:884116833] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote>Lol, he deleted the post once he realized he messed up and didn't log into his alt to support his own argument.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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electricbugs2 08/03/17 1:42:17 PM #406:	Twinmold posted... Lol, he deleted the post once he realized he messed up and didn't log into his alt to support his own argument. Lmao Kay buddy. --- "Cuz yung bucks be finnin n fruntin up a reap G know what it is"-Naysaspace <cite>electricbugs2 posted [p:884116886] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>Twinmold posted...</cite> <quote>Lol, he deleted the post once he realized he messed up and didn't log into his alt to support his own argument.</quote> Lmao Kay buddy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
That_Happened 08/03/17 1:47:24 PM #407:	CanuckCowboy posted... Like I said I wouldn't just flat out end the date but for you to say he's got something wrong with him because he chose to? If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him. --- http://fusionanomaly.net/magnoliabutitdidhappen.jpg <cite>That_Happened posted [p:884117149] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>CanuckCowboy posted...</cite> <quote>Like I said I wouldn't just flat out end the date but for you to say he's got something wrong with him because he chose to? </quote> If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
electricbugs2 08/03/17 1:49:15 PM #408:	That_Happened posted... CanuckCowboy posted... Like I said I wouldn't just flat out end the date but for you to say he's got something wrong with him because he chose to? If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him. No there isn't that's called "feelings". I know daddy taught you that big strong men can't have those but they do. What the woman did was unnecessary. Message your mom/friends check up his social media. Don't take a pic of his fucking plate. --- "Cuz yung bucks be finnin n fruntin up a reap G know what it is"-Naysaspace <cite>electricbugs2 posted [p:884117255] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote><cite>CanuckCowboy posted...</cite> <quote>Like I said I wouldn't just flat out end the date but for you to say he's got something wrong with him because he chose to? </quote> If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him.</quote> No there isn't that's called "feelings". I know daddy taught you that big strong men can't have those but they do. What the woman did was unnecessary. Message your mom/friends check up his social media. Don't take a pic of his fucking plate.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 08/03/17 1:49:34 PM #409:	That_Happened posted... CanuckCowboy posted... Like I said I wouldn't just flat out end the date but for you to say he's got something wrong with him because he chose to? If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him. Again there are multiple reasons he might have decided to say fuck it. And again you don't get to decide there's something wrong with someone just cause they took offense. You sound ridiculous. I know I'm repeating myself but it remains true. --- "I got a rollatruc, look." <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:884117275] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote><cite>CanuckCowboy posted...</cite> <quote>Like I said I wouldn't just flat out end the date but for you to say he's got something wrong with him because he chose to? </quote> If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him.</quote> Again there are multiple reasons he might have decided to say fuck it. And again you don't get to decide there's something wrong with someone just cause they took offense. You sound ridiculous. I know I'm repeating myself but it remains true.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Balrog0 08/03/17 1:49:43 PM #410:	That_Happened posted... If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him. I mean I agree with this, too, tbf --- He would make his mark, if not on this tree, then on that wall; if not with teeth and claws, then with penknife and razor. <cite>Balrog0 posted [p:884117281] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote>If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him. </quote> I mean I agree with this, too, tbf</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
That_Happened 08/03/17 1:49:57 PM #411:	DuranOfForcena posted... Terror-enforcer posted... The Catgirl Fondler posted... Amusingly, I bet if you swapped the genders in the story, some of the same people defending the woman and bashing the man would ...still be defending the woman and bashing the man . Most underrated post in this thread. So fucking true. I love when we do see reverse scenarios and see fools change their view so quickly. (Like you know @Leanaunfurled and the rest of the white knight gang would) basically the same thing i said. but i'm jaded (and allegedly misogynistic) for pointing it out apparently. If the roles were reversed! If the roles were reversed! (The roles are never reversed) See?? I knew it! --- http://fusionanomaly.net/magnoliabutitdidhappen.jpg <cite>That_Happened posted [p:884117293] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>DuranOfForcena posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Terror-enforcer posted...</cite> <quote><cite>The Catgirl Fondler posted...</cite> <quote>Amusingly, I bet if you swapped the genders in the story, some of the same people defending the woman and bashing the man would ...still be defending the woman and bashing the man .</quote> Most underrated post in this thread. So fucking true. I love when we do see reverse scenarios and see fools change their view so quickly. (Like you know @Leanaunfurled and the rest of the white knight gang would)</quote> basically the same thing i said. but i'm jaded (and allegedly misogynistic) for pointing it out apparently.</quote> If the roles were reversed! If the roles were reversed! (The roles are never reversed) See?? I knew it!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrDrMan 08/03/17 1:51:08 PM #412:	That_Happened posted... CanuckCowboy posted... Like I said I wouldn't just flat out end the date but for you to say he's got something wrong with him because he chose to? If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him. In what universe is being labeled a potential rapist not offensive? Be cautious but do it in a way that is appropriate and discreet. Chick was dumb. I wouldn't date her either. --- Pimpin aint easy Chiefs/Royals/Lakers 2015/2016 champs baby <cite>MrDrMan posted [p:884117354] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote><cite>CanuckCowboy posted...</cite> <quote>Like I said I wouldn't just flat out end the date but for you to say he's got something wrong with him because he chose to? </quote> If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him.</quote> In what universe is being labeled a potential rapist not offensive? Be cautious but do it in a way that is appropriate and discreet. Chick was dumb. I wouldn't date her either.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lorenzo_2003 08/03/17 1:51:13 PM #413:	Barenziah Boy Toy posted... Esrac posted... "Just gonna take a quick pic of your license plate in case you rape and murder me tonight." You DO realize that every woman that goes on a date with a stranger has to take that into consideration, right? What if her reason for taking that picture was because he is (hypothetically) a Muslim? I mean it's just a precaution and she doesn't know for sure that he's not a radical, right? --- ... <cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted [p:884117361] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>Barenziah Boy Toy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Esrac posted...</cite> <quote>"Just gonna take a quick pic of your license plate in case you rape and murder me tonight." </quote> You DO realize that every woman that goes on a date with a stranger has to take that into consideration, right?</quote> What if her reason for taking that picture was because he is (hypothetically) a Muslim? I mean it's just a precaution and she doesn't know for sure that he's not a radical, right?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DippinSauce 08/03/17 1:51:23 PM #414:	That_Happened posted... If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him. Like someone said before. Doing it doesn't set a good tone for the date. I don't think either person is wrong for what they did though. --- i.imgur.com/VDLyhiI.gif <cite>DippinSauce posted [p:884117374] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote>If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him.</quote> Like someone said before. Doing it doesn't set a good tone for the date. I don't think either person is wrong for what they did though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Fennelsdreams 08/03/17 1:54:17 PM #415:	NibeIungsnarf posted... That_Happened posted... Yes, it's hard to empathize with a guy that out of touch with reality. >Goes on date >Girl gives first impression: I wanna take a pic of your license plate in case you assault me >Ends date immediately >Is out of touch with reality ???? Why is this rhetoric so violent against a dude who jsut didn't want to go on a date with a girl whose first act was to put the idea of him as a potential sexual assaulter in his mind? Because apparently all men are expected to be unfeeling stones, and if one just so happens to be made a little uncomfortable its justified for a news site to kickstart a witch hunt on him. But oh no, apparently its all "hurr durr victim complex". --- Hey lazer lips, your mother was a snowblower! <cite>Fennelsdreams posted [p:884117505] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>NibeIungsnarf posted...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote>Yes, it's hard to empathize with a guy that out of touch with reality.</quote> >Goes on date >Girl gives first impression: I wanna take a pic of your license plate in case you assault me >Ends date immediately >Is out of touch with reality ???? Why is this rhetoric so violent against a dude who jsut didn't want to go on a date with a girl whose first act was to put the idea of him as a potential sexual assaulter in his mind?</quote> Because apparently all men are expected to be unfeeling stones, and if one just so happens to be made a little uncomfortable its justified for a news site to kickstart a witch hunt on him. But oh no, apparently its all "hurr durr victim complex".</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
legendary_zell 08/03/17 1:56:55 PM #416:	Balrog0 posted... legendary_zell posted... I just mean they'd be fine with it, none of us actually have a list. I don't think in terms of normal or not normal, I think in terms of whether they're acting in good faith or whether their actions fit the situation. I dunno, man. You're making this kind of sanctimonious when it really doesn't have to be. It's not about thinking in terms of normal or not normal, it's whether something seems off-putting which isn't a logical thing. Like if you were really about actions fitting the situation and good faith, why haven't pushed back on my farting metaphor? Your date should be able to rip a huge one in front of you, shouldn't she? That doesn't show bad faith, and the only thing making it inappropriate is that it's not something you typically do in front of polite company. but for some reason there seems to be a general acceptance from all quarters that, yeah, farting in front of your date probably isn't a good idea. I'm not trying to sanctimonious here, so I apologize if I am coming across that way. You're one of the best posters on this board. But there's a difference between doing something everyone actually knows is unacceptable and serves no purpose vs. choosing a marginally acceptable way to do something valid and with an important purpose. --- http://i.imgur.com/0Bi86cp.gif <cite>legendary_zell posted [p:884117640] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>Balrog0 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>legendary_zell posted...</cite> <quote>I just mean they'd be fine with it, none of us actually have a list. I don't think in terms of normal or not normal, I think in terms of whether they're acting in good faith or whether their actions fit the situation.</quote> I dunno, man. You're making this kind of sanctimonious when it really doesn't have to be. It's not about thinking in terms of normal or not normal, it's whether something seems off-putting which isn't a logical thing. Like if you were really about actions fitting the situation and good faith, why haven't pushed back on my farting metaphor? Your date should be able to rip a huge one in front of you, shouldn't she? That doesn't show bad faith, and the only thing making it inappropriate is that it's not something you typically do in front of polite company. but for some reason there seems to be a general acceptance from all quarters that, yeah, farting in front of your date probably isn't a good idea.</quote> I'm not trying to sanctimonious here, so I apologize if I am coming across that way. You're one of the best posters on this board. But there's a difference between doing something everyone actually knows is unacceptable and serves no purpose vs. choosing a marginally acceptable way to do something valid and with an important purpose.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
That_Happened 08/03/17 1:58:18 PM #417:	MrDrMan posted... That_Happened posted... CanuckCowboy posted... Like I said I wouldn't just flat out end the date but for you to say he's got something wrong with him because he chose to? If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him. In what universe is being labeled a potential rapist not offensive? (Sigh) that would be offensive, but that's not what happened here. If he thought that's what she was doing then he's mentally unstable and should seek help. --- http://fusionanomaly.net/magnoliabutitdidhappen.jpg <cite>That_Happened posted [p:884117722] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>MrDrMan posted...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote><cite>CanuckCowboy posted...</cite> <quote>Like I said I wouldn't just flat out end the date but for you to say he's got something wrong with him because he chose to? </quote> If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him.</quote> In what universe is being labeled a potential rapist not offensive? </quote> (Sigh) that would be offensive, but that's not what happened here. If he thought that's what she was doing then he's mentally unstable and should seek help.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Terror-enforcer 08/03/17 2:00:14 PM #418:	That_Happened posted... DuranOfForcena posted... Terror-enforcer posted... The Catgirl Fondler posted... Amusingly, I bet if you swapped the genders in the story, some of the same people defending the woman and bashing the man would ...still be defending the woman and bashing the man . Most underrated post in this thread. So fucking true. I love when we do see reverse scenarios and see fools change their view so quickly. (Like you know @Leanaunfurled and the rest of the white knight gang would) basically the same thing i said. but i'm jaded (and allegedly misogynistic) for pointing it out apparently. If the roles were reversed! If the roles were reversed! (The roles are never reversed) See?? I knew it! Except it does and has happened before. People call others out for it too. So that's a pretty dumb retort. <cite>Terror-enforcer posted [p:884117818] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DuranOfForcena posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Terror-enforcer posted...</cite> <quote><cite>The Catgirl Fondler posted...</cite> <quote>Amusingly, I bet if you swapped the genders in the story, some of the same people defending the woman and bashing the man would ...still be defending the woman and bashing the man .</quote> Most underrated post in this thread. So fucking true. I love when we do see reverse scenarios and see fools change their view so quickly. (Like you know @Leanaunfurled and the rest of the white knight gang would)</quote> basically the same thing i said. but i'm jaded (and allegedly misogynistic) for pointing it out apparently.</quote> If the roles were reversed! If the roles were reversed! (The roles are never reversed) See?? I knew it!</quote> Except it does and has happened before. People call others out for it too. So that's a pretty dumb retort.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 08/03/17 2:02:06 PM #419:	That_Happened posted... (Sigh) that would be offensive, but that's not what happened here. If he thought that's what she was doing then he's mentally unstable and should seek help Cause you say so. We get that. You can't grasp different thoughts or reactions and leap to absurd judgements then repeat them ad nauseam. Maybe come up with some reasoning or something different to say instead of just repeating yourself. --- "I got a rollatruc, look." <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:884117907] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote> (Sigh) that would be offensive, but that's not what happened here. If he thought that's what she was doing then he's mentally unstable and should seek help</quote> Cause you say so. We get that. You can't grasp different thoughts or reactions and leap to absurd judgements then repeat them ad nauseam. Maybe come up with some reasoning or something different to say instead of just repeating yourself.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
That_Happened 08/03/17 2:02:59 PM #420:	DippinSauce posted... That_Happened posted... If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him. Like someone said before. Doing it doesn't set a good tone for the date. I don't think either person is wrong for what they did though. I'm not really concerned about how this act "set the tone" for a first date. The first thing I'd want to be sure of is that everyone is comfortable and feels safe. Because nothing goes off well on a date until that is accomplished. --- http://fusionanomaly.net/magnoliabutitdidhappen.jpg <cite>That_Happened posted [p:884117957] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>DippinSauce posted...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote>If he ended it because he felt like he was being singled out as a potential rapist, then yes there is something wrong with him.</quote> Like someone said before. Doing it doesn't set a good tone for the date. I don't think either person is wrong for what they did though.</quote> I'm not really concerned about how this act "set the tone" for a first date. The first thing I'd want to be sure of is that everyone is comfortable and feels safe. Because nothing goes off well on a date until that is accomplished.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NOM 08/03/17 2:03:18 PM #421:	Wow, this topic just shows that, on the whole, men and women just cannot trust each other or get along. --- this just here so I ain't a smelly sigless user <cite>NOM posted [p:884117975] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote>Wow, this topic just shows that, on the whole, men and women just cannot trust each other or get along.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
That_Happened 08/03/17 2:04:21 PM #422:	Terror-enforcer posted... Except it does and has happened before. Really? A guy took a picture of a woman's license plate before a first date and the people here tore into him for it? Link? --- http://fusionanomaly.net/magnoliabutitdidhappen.jpg <cite>That_Happened posted [p:884118041] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>Terror-enforcer posted...</cite> <quote>Except it does and has happened before. </quote> Really? A guy took a picture of a woman's license plate before a first date and the people here tore into him for it? Link?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Balrog0 08/03/17 2:04:48 PM #423:	legendary_zell posted... I'm not trying to sanctimonious here, so I apologize if I am coming across that way. it's all good man, I think it's just the tone of the topic in general that's throwing me off tbh not you specifically legendary_zell posted... But there's a difference between doing something everyone actually knows is unacceptable and serves no purpose vs. choosing a marginally acceptable way to do something valid and with an important purpose. No, you're right, I get that. I was just trying to reframe it because I don't view it as an insulting thing per se. It's just kinda socially awkward imo to start a date like that, much weirder than "my friends know where I am," because like... what are you gonna do with that license plate number? breaking off a date at that point is gonna require some bigger issue than that for me personally, but I can see someone who is more casual about dating just saying, nah, no thanks. That's all. --- He would make his mark, if not on this tree, then on that wall; if not with teeth and claws, then with penknife and razor. <cite>Balrog0 posted [p:884118059] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>legendary_zell posted...</cite> <quote>I'm not trying to sanctimonious here, so I apologize if I am coming across that way. </quote> it's all good man, I think it's just the tone of the topic in general that's throwing me off tbh not you specifically <cite>legendary_zell posted...</cite> <quote>But there's a difference between doing something everyone actually knows is unacceptable and serves no purpose vs. choosing a marginally acceptable way to do something valid and with an important purpose.</quote> No, you're right, I get that. I was just trying to reframe it because I don't view it as an insulting thing per se. It's just kinda socially awkward imo to start a date like that, much weirder than "my friends know where I am," because like... what are you gonna do with that license plate number? breaking off a date at that point is gonna require some bigger issue than that for me personally, but I can see someone who is more casual about dating just saying, nah, no thanks. That's all.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DippinSauce 08/03/17 2:05:31 PM #424:	You don't see how her doing that in front of him would make the date a little awkward and weird? Again, I don't think either person did anything wrong, but the guy is allowed to feel offended. --- i.imgur.com/VDLyhiI.gif <cite>DippinSauce posted [p:884118097] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote>You don't see how her doing that in front of him would make the date a little awkward and weird? Again, I don't think either person did anything wrong, but the guy is allowed to feel offended.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DippinSauce 08/03/17 2:07:56 PM #425:	That_Happened posted... I'm not really concerned about how this act "set the tone" for a first date. The first thing I'd want to be sure of is that everyone is comfortable and feels safe. Because nothing goes off well on a date until that is accomplished. Then be discreet. People are allowed to stop a date for whatever reason they want. --- i.imgur.com/VDLyhiI.gif <cite>DippinSauce posted [p:884118219] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote>I'm not really concerned about how this act "set the tone" for a first date. The first thing I'd want to be sure of is that everyone is comfortable and feels safe. Because nothing goes off well on a date until that is accomplished.</quote> Then be discreet. People are allowed to stop a date for whatever reason they want.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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That_Happened 08/03/17 2:10:04 PM #427:	DippinSauce posted... You don't see how her doing that in front of him would make the date a little awkward and weird? Again, I don't think either person did anything wrong, but the guy is allowed to feel offended. I do. I gave an example of a story earlier where a girl I dated told her mom where we were going, and my initial thought was "that's a little weird.." but then I thought about it for literally two seconds more and figured "i'm bigger, faster and stronger than she is and I bet she's had WAY more negative experiences with dating than I have, so I'm not gonna let something I perceive as awkward bother me. In the big picture, her actions make sense." But if it was my goal to get offended and stay offended and make it personal, I could have done that too. --- http://fusionanomaly.net/magnoliabutitdidhappen.jpg <cite>That_Happened posted [p:884118319] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>DippinSauce posted...</cite> <quote>You don't see how her doing that in front of him would make the date a little awkward and weird? Again, I don't think either person did anything wrong, but the guy is allowed to feel offended.</quote> I do. I gave an example of a story earlier where a girl I dated told her mom where we were going, and my initial thought was "that's a little weird.." but then I thought about it for literally two seconds more and figured "i'm bigger, faster and stronger than she is and I bet she's had WAY more negative experiences with dating than I have, so I'm not gonna let something I perceive as awkward bother me. In the big picture, her actions make sense." But if it was my goal to get offended and stay offended and make it personal, I could have done that too.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BLAKUboy 08/03/17 2:10:09 PM #428:	Why is this going to be a 500 topic? --- Aeris dies if she takes more damage than her current HP - Panthera http://signavatar.com/26999_s.png <cite>BLAKUboy posted [p:884118322] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote>Why is this going to be a 500 topic?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DippinSauce 08/03/17 2:11:44 PM #429:	DuranOfForcena posted... DippinSauce posted... That_Happened posted... I'm not really concerned about how this act "set the tone" for a first date. The first thing I'd want to be sure of is that everyone is comfortable and feels safe. Because nothing goes off well on a date until that is accomplished. Then be discreet. People are allowed to stop a date for whatever reason they want. unless they're a man amirite lololololol Exactly. People are fast to label and attack men for "toxic masculinity", but when they show their feelings and sensitivity they're still the bad guy. --- i.imgur.com/VDLyhiI.gif <cite>DippinSauce posted [p:884118386] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>DuranOfForcena posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DippinSauce posted...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote>I'm not really concerned about how this act "set the tone" for a first date. The first thing I'd want to be sure of is that everyone is comfortable and feels safe. Because nothing goes off well on a date until that is accomplished.</quote> Then be discreet. People are allowed to stop a date for whatever reason they want.</quote> unless they're a man amirite lololololol</quote> Exactly. People are fast to label and attack men for "toxic masculinity", but when they show their feelings and sensitivity they're still the bad guy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 08/03/17 2:11:56 PM #430:	That_Happened posted... I do. I gave an example of a story earlier where a girl I dated told her mom where we were going, and my initial thought was "that's a little weird See that's not even the tiniest bit weird. It's weird you thought it was weird though. Also not comparable. BLAKUboy posted... Why is this going to be a 500 topic? The tone of the original article probly helped. --- "I got a rollatruc, look." <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:884118401] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote> I do. I gave an example of a story earlier where a girl I dated told her mom where we were going, and my initial thought was "that's a little weird</quote> See that's not even the tiniest bit weird. It's weird you thought it was weird though. Also not comparable. <cite>BLAKUboy posted...</cite> <quote>Why is this going to be a 500 topic?</quote> The tone of the original article probly helped.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Terror-enforcer 08/03/17 2:11:58 PM #431:	That_Happened posted... Terror-enforcer posted... Except it does and has happened before. Really? A guy took a picture of a woman's license plate before a first date and the people here tore into him for it? Link? No, the fact that reverse scenarios happen all of the time and people like you eat shit and look ignorant. Obviously I don't have this exact scenario on hand. <cite>Terror-enforcer posted [p:884118405] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Terror-enforcer posted...</cite> <quote>Except it does and has happened before. </quote> Really? A guy took a picture of a woman's license plate before a first date and the people here tore into him for it? Link?</quote> No, the fact that reverse scenarios happen all of the time and people like you eat shit and look ignorant. Obviously I don't have this exact scenario on hand.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
That_Happened 08/03/17 2:18:08 PM #432:	Terror-enforcer posted... That_Happened posted... Terror-enforcer posted... Except it does and has happened before. Really? A guy took a picture of a woman's license plate before a first date and the people here tore into him for it? Link? No, the fact that reverse scenarios happen all of the time and people like you eat shit and look ignorant. Obviously I don't have this exact scenario on hand. So then you don't actually have a scenario in which I, or anyone else here, has committed the double standard your suggesting. ...but you just KNOW it would happen, right? Lol joke poster. --- http://fusionanomaly.net/magnoliabutitdidhappen.jpg <cite>That_Happened posted [p:884118817] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>Terror-enforcer posted...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Terror-enforcer posted...</cite> <quote>Except it does and has happened before. </quote> Really? A guy took a picture of a woman's license plate before a first date and the people here tore into him for it? Link?</quote> No, the fact that reverse scenarios happen all of the time and people like you eat shit and look ignorant. Obviously I don't have this exact scenario on hand.</quote> So then you don't actually have a scenario in which I, or anyone else here, has committed the double standard your suggesting. ...but you just KNOW it would happen, right? Lol joke poster.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 08/03/17 2:19:15 PM #433:	TrollSlayer11 posted... What kind of a psycho thinks everyone they meet is a rapist? The dude was right to avoid that red flag. The woman only exposes her own insanity by doing some stupid shit like that. Like, where does this whole female thing "OMG he might be a psycho rapist killer!" come from? Why is that even a thing? Because of the 1% of the population that are murderers? Also why is she going on a date with a guy she thinks is a killer or a rapist? If she was truly uncomfortable with getting in his car she's probably unstable herself and it could easily be remedied by meeting at a public place. Holy fuck our society is going full on moron. I see someone has never misjudged someone's character before, good for you. --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:Paters1 IGN:SuperPattyCakes <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:884118881] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>TrollSlayer11 posted...</cite> <quote>What kind of a psycho thinks everyone they meet is a rapist? The dude was right to avoid that red flag. The woman only exposes her own insanity by doing some stupid shit like that. Like, where does this whole female thing "OMG he might be a psycho rapist killer!" come from? Why is that even a thing? Because of the 1% of the population that are murderers? Also why is she going on a date with a guy she thinks is a killer or a rapist? If she was truly uncomfortable with getting in his car she's probably unstable herself and it could easily be remedied by meeting at a public place. Holy fuck our society is going full on moron.</quote> I see someone has never misjudged someone's character before, good for you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
legendary_zell 08/03/17 2:19:55 PM #434:	DippinSauce posted... DuranOfForcena posted... DippinSauce posted... That_Happened posted... I'm not really concerned about how this act "set the tone" for a first date. The first thing I'd want to be sure of is that everyone is comfortable and feels safe. Because nothing goes off well on a date until that is accomplished. Then be discreet. People are allowed to stop a date for whatever reason they want. unless they're a man amirite lololololol Exactly. People are fast to label and attack men for "toxic masculinity", but when they show their feelings and sensitivity they're still the bad guy. It's not bad to show your feelings. No one is attacking him for that. It's for getting offended in this specific situation when we believe it doesn't make sense. Can you point to anyone attacking him purely for the act of showing feelings and not for lack of empathy/overreacting? --- http://i.imgur.com/0Bi86cp.gif <cite>legendary_zell posted [p:884118926] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>DippinSauce posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DuranOfForcena posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DippinSauce posted...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote>I'm not really concerned about how this act "set the tone" for a first date. The first thing I'd want to be sure of is that everyone is comfortable and feels safe. Because nothing goes off well on a date until that is accomplished.</quote> Then be discreet. People are allowed to stop a date for whatever reason they want.</quote> unless they're a man amirite lololololol</quote> Exactly. People are fast to label and attack men for "toxic masculinity", but when they show their feelings and sensitivity they're still the bad guy.</quote> It's not bad to show your feelings. No one is attacking him for that. It's for getting offended in this specific situation when we believe it doesn't make sense. Can you point to anyone attacking him purely for the act of showing feelings and not for lack of empathy/overreacting?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Barenziah Boy Toy 08/03/17 2:20:19 PM #435:	electricbugs2 posted... Yeah but 99.99 % don't snap the dude plate to their friends. Maybe they should. Better safe than sorry. --- You don't need a treaty to have free trade. M Rothbard {Self-Hating Token Asian of the Ivory Tower's Zionist Elite} <cite>Barenziah Boy Toy posted [p:884118954] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>electricbugs2 posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah but 99.99 % don't snap the dude plate to their friends.</quote> Maybe they should. Better safe than sorry.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
That_Happened 08/03/17 2:20:54 PM #436:	DippinSauce posted... Then be discreet. Then imagine she was discreet, and later while reviewing pictures of the date, the guy discovers she secretly took his license plate and sent it to the friend, or the police. That would be even worse I feel. Like I said, I prefer the honest approach. "I like our discussions online but realistically this is the first time we're meeting each other so I'm going to take these precautions." I would appreciate that level of openness, and I would probably have told my friends about who I was going out with as well, and where she lived. --- http://fusionanomaly.net/magnoliabutitdidhappen.jpg <cite>That_Happened posted [p:884118993] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>DippinSauce posted...</cite> <quote>Then be discreet. </quote> Then imagine she was discreet, and later while reviewing pictures of the date, the guy discovers she secretly took his license plate and sent it to the friend, or the police. That would be even worse I feel. Like I said, I prefer the honest approach. "I like our discussions online but realistically this is the first time we're meeting each other so I'm going to take these precautions." I would appreciate that level of openness, and I would probably have told my friends about who I was going out with as well, and where she lived.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Nomadic View 08/03/17 2:21:28 PM #437:	I can't believe this is going to hit 500. --- {}\\{}(o){}\\//{}//=\\{})){}(< \\//{}{{-{}//\\{} {}xxxxxxxx{};;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;;> <cite>Nomadic View posted [p:884119017] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote>I can't believe this is going to hit 500.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
That_Happened 08/03/17 2:22:44 PM #438:	Nomadic View posted... I can't believe this is going to hit 500. You helped it get there. Take some responsibility. --- http://fusionanomaly.net/magnoliabutitdidhappen.jpg <cite>That_Happened posted [p:884119104] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>Nomadic View posted...</cite> <quote>I can't believe this is going to hit 500.</quote> You helped it get there. Take some responsibility.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
electricbugs2 08/03/17 2:23:03 PM #439:	Barenziah Boy Toy posted... electricbugs2 posted... Yeah but 99.99 % don't snap the dude plate to their friends. Maybe they should. Better safe than sorry. Sure they can. They can just deal with not going on the date and being left behind. Fairs fair :) --- "Cuz yung bucks be finnin n fruntin up a reap G know what it is"-Naysaspace <cite>electricbugs2 posted [p:884119130] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>Barenziah Boy Toy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>electricbugs2 posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah but 99.99 % don't snap the dude plate to their friends.</quote> Maybe they should. Better safe than sorry.</quote> Sure they can. They can just deal with not going on the date and being left behind. Fairs fair :)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Albel-Nox 08/03/17 2:24:33 PM #440:	That_Happened posted... Terror-enforcer posted... That_Happened posted... Terror-enforcer posted... Except it does and has happened before. Really? A guy took a picture of a woman's license plate before a first date and the people here tore into him for it? Link? No, the fact that reverse scenarios happen all of the time and people like you eat shit and look ignorant. Obviously I don't have this exact scenario on hand. Lol joke poster. <cite>Albel-Nox posted [p:884119239] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Terror-enforcer posted...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Terror-enforcer posted...</cite> <quote>Except it does and has happened before. </quote> Really? A guy took a picture of a woman's license plate before a first date and the people here tore into him for it? Link?</quote> No, the fact that reverse scenarios happen all of the time and people like you eat shit and look ignorant. Obviously I don't have this exact scenario on hand.</quote> Lol joke poster.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dave_is_slick 08/03/17 2:24:50 PM #441:	That_Happened posted... Then imagine she was discreet, and later while reviewing pictures of the date, the guy discovers she secretly took his license plate and sent it to the friend, or the police. That would be even worse I feel. Several people have clearly said that finding out later would be better. It's precautionary and not obvious. --- The most relaxing version of Aquatic Ambiance I've ever heard: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bl61y1XM7sM <cite>dave_is_slick posted [p:884119254] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote>Then imagine she was discreet, and later while reviewing pictures of the date, the guy discovers she secretly took his license plate and sent it to the friend, or the police. That would be even worse I feel.</quote> Several people have clearly said that finding out later would be better. It's precautionary and not obvious.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dave_is_slick 08/03/17 2:25:58 PM #442:	legendary_zell posted... It's not bad to show your feelings. No one is attacking him for that. It's for getting offended in this specific situation when we believe it doesn't make sense. Can you point to anyone attacking him purely for the act of showing feelings and not for lack of empathy/overreacting? Everyone saying he has no right to be offended. --- The most relaxing version of Aquatic Ambiance I've ever heard: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bl61y1XM7sM <cite>dave_is_slick posted [p:884119317] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>legendary_zell posted...</cite> <quote>It's not bad to show your feelings. No one is attacking him for that. It's for getting offended in this specific situation when we believe it doesn't make sense. Can you point to anyone attacking him purely for the act of showing feelings and not for lack of empathy/overreacting?</quote> Everyone saying he has no right to be offended.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Albel-Nox 08/03/17 2:26:45 PM #443:	dave_is_slick posted... That_Happened posted... Then imagine she was discreet, and later while reviewing pictures of the date, the guy discovers she secretly took his license plate and sent it to the friend, or the police. That would be even worse I feel. Several people have clearly said that finding out later would be better. It's precautionary and not obvious. Joke posters. <cite>Albel-Nox posted [p:884119365] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote>Then imagine she was discreet, and later while reviewing pictures of the date, the guy discovers she secretly took his license plate and sent it to the friend, or the police. That would be even worse I feel.</quote> Several people have clearly said that finding out later would be better. It's precautionary and not obvious.</quote> Joke posters.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DippinSauce 08/03/17 2:27:56 PM #444:	legendary_zell posted... It's not bad to show your feelings. No one is attacking him for that. It's for getting offended in this specific situation when we believe it doesn't make sense. Can you point to anyone attacking him purely for the act of showing feelings and not for lack of empathy/overreacting? Showing his feelings and ending the date is literally all he did. Last I checked, being offended was a feeling. Go to the threads from the original link. People were saying she was right and he's creepy/dangerous for how he reacted. --- i.imgur.com/VDLyhiI.gif <cite>DippinSauce posted [p:884119451] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>legendary_zell posted...</cite> <quote>It's not bad to show your feelings. No one is attacking him for that. It's for getting offended in this specific situation when we believe it doesn't make sense. Can you point to anyone attacking him purely for the act of showing feelings and not for lack of empathy/overreacting?</quote> Showing his feelings and ending the date is literally all he did. Last I checked, being offended was a feeling. Go to the threads from the original link. People were saying she was right and he's creepy/dangerous for how he reacted.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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legendary_zell 08/03/17 2:30:01 PM #446:	dave_is_slick posted... legendary_zell posted... It's not bad to show your feelings. No one is attacking him for that. It's for getting offended in this specific situation when we believe it doesn't make sense. Can you point to anyone attacking him purely for the act of showing feelings and not for lack of empathy/overreacting? Everyone saying he has no right to be offended. Yeah, that's the debate. What I'm saying is that's a separate issue of attacking him for daring to feel feelings as a man. One is disputing the specific basis of his anger. The other is attacking him for being offended because men aren't allowed to offended. Completely different things. --- http://i.imgur.com/0Bi86cp.gif <cite>legendary_zell posted [p:884119578] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>legendary_zell posted...</cite> <quote>It's not bad to show your feelings. No one is attacking him for that. It's for getting offended in this specific situation when we believe it doesn't make sense. Can you point to anyone attacking him purely for the act of showing feelings and not for lack of empathy/overreacting?</quote> Everyone saying he has no right to be offended.</quote> Yeah, that's the debate. What I'm saying is that's a separate issue of attacking him for daring to feel feelings as a man. One is disputing the specific basis of his anger. The other is attacking him for being offended because men aren't allowed to offended. Completely different things.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Terror-enforcer 08/03/17 2:32:20 PM #447:	That_Happened posted... Terror-enforcer posted... That_Happened posted... Terror-enforcer posted... Except it does and has happened before. Really? A guy took a picture of a woman's license plate before a first date and the people here tore into him for it? Link? No, the fact that reverse scenarios happen all of the time and people like you eat shit and look ignorant. Obviously I don't have this exact scenario on hand. So then you don't actually have a scenario in which I, or anyone else here, has committed the double standard your suggesting. ...but you just KNOW it would happen, right? Lol joke poster. You're saying I'm a joke poster while you utilize such abysmal logic. Gosh I forget how slow some CEmen can be sometimes. I provided analogous situations of where it HAS happened, thus it can obviously occur yet again. How can you not understand that? EDIT: Actually, scratch that. I'm probably better off questioning a brick wall on this topic than someone like you. <cite>Terror-enforcer posted [p:884119713] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Terror-enforcer posted...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Terror-enforcer posted...</cite> <quote>Except it does and has happened before. </quote> Really? A guy took a picture of a woman's license plate before a first date and the people here tore into him for it? Link?</quote> No, the fact that reverse scenarios happen all of the time and people like you eat shit and look ignorant. Obviously I don't have this exact scenario on hand.</quote> So then you don't actually have a scenario in which I, or anyone else here, has committed the double standard your suggesting. ...but you just KNOW it would happen, right? Lol joke poster.</quote> You're saying I'm a joke poster while you utilize such abysmal logic. Gosh I forget how slow some CEmen can be sometimes. I provided analogous situations of where it HAS happened, thus it can obviously occur yet again. How can you not understand that? EDIT: Actually, scratch that. I'm probably better off questioning a brick wall on this topic than someone like you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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That_Happened 08/03/17 2:34:35 PM #449:	Terror-enforcer posted... You're saying I'm a joke poster while you utilize such abysmal? ...Huh? Gosh I forget how slow some CEmen can be sometimes. laughs Yeah. --- http://fusionanomaly.net/magnoliabutitdidhappen.jpg <cite>That_Happened posted [p:884119860] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>Terror-enforcer posted...</cite> <quote>You're saying I'm a joke poster while you utilize such abysmal? </quote> ...Huh? <quote>Gosh I forget how slow some CEmen can be sometimes.</quote> laughs Yeah.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Terror-enforcer 08/03/17 2:37:02 PM #450:	That_Happened posted... Terror-enforcer posted... You're saying I'm a joke poster while you utilize such abysmal? ...Huh? Gosh I forget how slow some CEmen can be sometimes. laughs Yeah. Yes, a typo due to my phone is totally indicative of my intelligence. Thanks for proving my point. Laughing is totally such a proper intelligent response to the points I provided. /s God I don't know why I even waste my time with people like you. I feel like I'm talking to children. <cite>Terror-enforcer posted [p:884119998] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>That_Happened posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Terror-enforcer posted...</cite> <quote>You're saying I'm a joke poster while you utilize such abysmal? </quote> ...Huh? <quote>Gosh I forget how slow some CEmen can be sometimes.</quote> laughs Yeah.</quote> Yes, a typo due to my phone is totally indicative of my intelligence. Thanks for proving my point. Laughing is totally such a proper intelligent response to the points I provided. /s God I don't know why I even waste my time with people like you. I feel like I'm talking to children.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Xeno14 08/03/17 2:38:01 PM #451:	Asherlee10 posted... DippinSauce posted... legendary_zell posted... It's not bad to show your feelings. No one is attacking him for that. It's for getting offended in this specific situation when we believe it doesn't make sense. Can you point to anyone attacking him purely for the act of showing feelings and not for lack of empathy/overreacting? Showing his feelings and ending the date is literally all he did. Last I checked, being offended was a feeling. Go to the threads from the original link. People were saying she was right and he's creepy/dangerous for how he reacted. Honestly, the most moderate (and rational) view of this, I think, is what Darkman and Balrog have been conveying. 1. It isn't unreasonable for someone to take precautions for their safety on a date with someone they do not know very well 2. The guy had every right to cancel the date for whatever reason he has. It doesn't need justification. 3. He shouldn't have shamed her. Just ended the date and moved on. 4. It was kind of odd/weird of her to be so obvious and tactless to snap a photo of his license plate in front of him. She should have been discreet out of courtesy. when did he shame her? Seriously, when someone else asked if they went on the date? His anecdote that didn't name anyone? This is just reaching in effort to portray him as doing something wrong. --- http://i.imgur.com/brMr5Ig.jpg http://i.imgur.com/MoXxySu.gif https://pbs.twimg.com/media/CyGM7qMXgAAwhbT.jpg:large <cite>Xeno14 posted [p:884120057] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>Asherlee10 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>DippinSauce posted...</cite> <quote><cite>legendary_zell posted...</cite> <quote>It's not bad to show your feelings. No one is attacking him for that. It's for getting offended in this specific situation when we believe it doesn't make sense. Can you point to anyone attacking him purely for the act of showing feelings and not for lack of empathy/overreacting?</quote> Showing his feelings and ending the date is literally all he did. Last I checked, being offended was a feeling. Go to the threads from the original link. People were saying she was right and he's creepy/dangerous for how he reacted.</quote> Honestly, the most moderate (and rational) view of this, I think, is what Darkman and Balrog have been conveying. 1. It isn't unreasonable for someone to take precautions for their safety on a date with someone they do not know very well 2. The guy had every right to cancel the date for whatever reason he has. It doesn't need justification. 3. He shouldn't have shamed her. Just ended the date and moved on. 4. It was kind of odd/weird of her to be so obvious and tactless to snap a photo of his license plate in front of him. She should have been discreet out of courtesy.</quote> when did he shame her? Seriously, when someone else asked if they went on the date? His anecdote that didn't name anyone? This is just reaching in effort to portray him as doing something wrong.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Albel-Nox 08/03/17 2:38:24 PM #452:	Damn this is getting more hilarious, fast! <cite>Albel-Nox posted [p:884120074] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote>Damn this is getting more hilarious, fast!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
That_Happened 08/03/17 2:39:33 PM #453:	Terror-enforcer posted... I provided analogous situations of where it HAS happened, What? You haven't provided any analogous situations. Zero concrete examples, zero links, zero usernames, and you haven't even given a subject in which people have committed a double standard. All you've said is "I love when we do see reverse scenarios and see fools change their view so quickly. (Like you know @Leanaunfurled and the rest of the white knight gang would)" and "reverse scenarios happen all of the time and people like you eat shit and look ignorant." Not a single legitimate "analogous situation." So tell me again how slow some CEmen can be sometimes. ;) --- http://fusionanomaly.net/magnoliabutitdidhappen.jpg <cite>That_Happened posted [p:884120145] in Man shames... [t:75632735]...</cite> <quote><cite>Terror-enforcer posted...</cite> <quote>I provided analogous situations of where it HAS happened,</quote> What? You haven't provided any analogous situations. Zero concrete examples, zero links, zero usernames, and you haven't even given a subject in which people have committed a double standard. All you've said is "I love when we do see reverse scenarios and see fools change their view so quickly. (Like you know @Leanaunfurled and the rest of the white knight gang would)" and "reverse scenarios happen all of the time and people like you eat shit and look ignorant." Not a single legitimate "analogous situation." So tell me again how slow some CEmen can be sometimes. ;)</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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