Current Events > 33-year-old "nice guy" virgin bitter about his standing in life.

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The minion is a nice touch

*cringe*

Women don't like nice guys. They want bad boys.
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damn offering to pay for other people's meals on his birthday
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He sounds like a fucking loser yeah
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MakoReizei posted...

Women don't like nice guys. They want bad boys.

BS
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He reminds me of Elliot Rodgers
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MakoReizei posted...

Women don't like nice guys. They want bad boys.

No, women want nice guys, not "nice guys".
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orangefire25 posted...

MakoReizei posted...

Women don't like nice guys. They want bad boys.

BS

How is it BS? Just look at that guy's post. He said he treated women like queens. That's his problem right there.
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MakoReizei posted...

orangefire25 posted...

MakoReizei posted...

Women don't like nice guys. They want bad boys.

BS

How is it BS? Just look at that guy's post. He said he treated women like queens. That's his problem right there.

Sounds more like he was passive and not forward in his feelings.

Meanwhile, these "bad boys" exude an air of confidence and are right-to-the-point regarding what they want.
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I wonder if the guy even tries to meet women? Typically, unless you have movie star good looks, you have to be the one to initiate with a woman.

Just... Talk to them. Hitting on them probably won't get you anywhere, unless you're good looking, or if they are obviously into you.
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WizardPowers posted...

damn offering to pay for other people's meals on his birthday

Yeah, this was the saddest part about the post to me. That's a whole other level of loneliness.
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MakoReizei posted...

orangefire25 posted...

MakoReizei posted...

Women don't like nice guys. They want bad boys.

BS

How is it BS? Just look at that guy's post. He said he treated women like queens. That's his problem right there.

Anyone, not just women, want well rounded, fun people to engage with. That's more than just being "nice" and fyi, nice does not immediately mean "good". So even if you are good, which nice isn't good, you still should strive to be fun, interesting, and talkative.
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Blaming the women seems like a good strategy

He should stick with that
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MegaButterfree posted...

He's probably fat. If so that's like 99% of the problem right there.

Doubt that his physical form has a whole lot to do with his fucking luck with girls. lol
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Dyinglegacy posted...

I wonder if the guy even tries to meet women? Typically, unless you have movie star good looks, you have to be the one to initiate with a woman.

Just... Talk to them. Hitting on them probably won't get you anywhere, unless your good looking, or if they are obviously into you.

The dude probably stays at home all day playing video games, and can't understand why he can't meet women.
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MegaButterfree posted...

He's probably fat. If so that's like 99% of the problem right there.

Just find a fat chick. Plenty of them around. Your standards should meet your own qualifications.
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MakoReizei posted...

orangefire25 posted...

MakoReizei posted...

Women don't like nice guys. They want bad boys.

BS

How is it BS? Just look at that guy's post. He said he treated women like queens. That's his problem right there.

Sure that's the problem. Not that he is spending his 33rd birthday ranting about society because he hasn't been laid and thinks women are too stupid to see how great he is.
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Dyinglegacy posted...

Just find a fat chick. Plenty of them around. Your standards should meet your own qualifications.

sound quote, yet still a bit beside the point here
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Girls don't like boys girls like expensive anime figures
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I just read his post again. After I was able to wipe the "feel sorry for this guy" out of my mind, the post exudes weakness.

I'd say most women would probably cringe at the post.
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Self proclaimed "nice guys" are the worst. They're rarely nice, just passive aggressive.

Dyinglegacy posted...

I just read his post again. After I was able to wipe the "feel sorry for this guy" out of my mind, the post exudes weakness.

I'd say most women would probably cringe at the post.

Most anyone would cringe cuz he sounds like a fucking nerd, loser, who needs a clue. I hope there aren't any dudes on this damn board like him.
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What weaker guys usually consider "assholes" or "bad boys" are probably just confident dudes, that actually believe what they are saying/showing.
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Poor guy.

The thing is, he was probably nice in the sense he was indecisive, boring, let the girl decide everything "to be polite" and let her essentially have a one-sided "relationship/friendship".

It's commonly known, but the guy has wants and desires too, if a girl asked him for shit, he can do the same in return.

Plus, he should just pay someone to have sex with. When you're a virgin, sex becomes some kinda magical paradise, when really it's just another social interaction. It happens. It's a thing. So lose your card and it won't be such a wondrous dream anymore.

orangefire25 posted...

Most anyone would cringe cuz he sounds like a f***ing nerd, loser, who needs a clue. I hope there aren't any dudes on this damn board like him.

I'm sure they'll be here soon enough. We already have one.
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Dyinglegacy posted...

What weaker guys usually consider "assholes" or "bad boys" are probably just confident dudes, that actually believe what they are saying/showing.

Always believe what you're saiyan.
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orangefire25 posted...

Anyone, not just women,

Let's cut that. Men and women obviously treat dating differently. You don't see 33 year old women virgins claiming they never had an opportunity to get a man.

It's blatantly obvious that women have higher standards.

Darmik posted...

orangefire25 posted...

Most anyone would cringe cuz he sounds like a f***ing nerd, loser, who needs a clue. I hope there aren't any dudes on this damn board like him.

I'm sure they'll be here soon enough. We already have one.

GOD help them. In the immediate meantime, I'm here.
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Dyinglegacy posted...

MegaButterfree posted...

He's probably fat. If so that's like 99% of the problem right there.

Just find a fat chick. Plenty of them around. Your standards should meet your own qualifications.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ug02cqP69V4
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Typically, if you have to describe yourself as a nice guy, you think basic human courtesy is enough to purchase a ticket to a girl's panties. No, that's bare-fucking-minimun work right there. Everyone should be a nice guy.

This dude needs to either try harder or work on himself. Stop blaming women. These types are so damn pathetic I'd almost say he's a lost cause.
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Darmik posted...

MakoReizei posted...

orangefire25 posted...

MakoReizei posted...

Women don't like nice guys. They want bad boys.

BS

How is it BS? Just look at that guy's post. He said he treated women like queens. That's his problem right there.

Sure that's the problem. Not that he is spending his 33rd birthday ranting about society because he hasn't been laid and thinks women are too stupid to see how great he is.

That's his response to the situation, not the cause of the situation.

Also for people saying he's not forward, he's literally announcing a party in the post.

Sojy posted...

orangefire25 posted...

Anyone, not just women,

Let's cut that. Men and women obviously treat dating differently. You don't see 33 year old women virgins claiming they never had an opportunity to get a man.

It's blatantly obvious that women have higher standards.

Wait. Let's say this is true.

Why is the woman getting laid the one with standards that are too high?

Sojy posted...

That's his response to the situation, not the cause of the situation.

Also for people saying he's not forward, he's literally announcing a party in the post.

You don't know how long he's been like this.

He's not describing a party either. He's offering to pay for others dinners if they eat with him.
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I like how there are a good chunk of users here so eager to attack this guy and put him down. Isn't his life shit enough?

Sure, he's got a messed up perspective and all, but cut the guy a break, damn. You feel good calling him a loser? You feel better about yourself? Yeah? Yeah? Not really? I didn't think so.

Blue_Dream87 posted...

Typically, if you have to describe yourself as a nice guy, you think basic human courtesy is enough to purchase a ticket to a girl's panties. No, that's bare-fucking-minimun work right there. Everyone should be a nice guy.

It's not "bare minimum" considering the amount of dudes who cheat on, yell at, insult, etc. their girls and still get laid regularly. I don't know why you people keep trying to put these blinders on reality when everyone knows what happens out there.

Obviously most men with girls aren't like that, but fuck no is being nice a "bare minimum" requirement.

"Hi I'm a 33 year old virgin with lots of money. You want to come hang out with me and I'll get you drunk?"

yeah, like, anyone with half a brain would nope the fuck out of that.
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Sojy posted...

It's blatantly obvious that women have higher standards.

They can probably afford it.

Guys are definitely more pathetic when it comes to trying to get a lover of the opposite sex. A woman, though?

Unless she's a fuckin' trashcan, she could say "wanna fuck?" and she could probably find a guy who would respond in a heartbeat.
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Sojy posted...

orangefire25 posted...

Anyone, not just women,

Let's cut that. Men and women obviously treat dating differently. You don't see 33 year old women virgins claiming they never had an opportunity to get a man.

It's blatantly obvious that women have higher standards.

Listen. Women have better immediate physical bait. That's obvious. So, getting laid is easier as a girl. I can admit that. Lust is this thing that involves body, smell, and physical attraction. Women win here. However, dating and engaging consistently with the opposite sex is somewhat interchangeable.
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I'd totally hang with that guy for free PF Changs.
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This guy is pitiful, and no woman is attracted to that. There are guys much uglier, dumber, and less successful than he likely is who can get women because they don't have a pathetic attitude like that and don't exude a sense of failure. I mean, after reading that post, I can't imagine having to spend even a short amount of time with this guy, so I can only imagine any woman is going to feel the same way.
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lmao what a lame
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Kanaya413 posted...

Girls don't like boys girls like expensive anime figures

Sojy posted...

It's not "bare minimum" considering the amount of dudes who cheat on, yell at, insult, etc. their girls and still get laid regularly. I don't know why you people keep trying to put these blinders on reality when everyone knows what happens out there.

He literally insults women in his Facebook post so he even fails that standard.
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Darmik posted...

Why is the woman getting laid the one with standards that are too high?

People's standards should be in line with their looks, personality, what they bring to the table, rather than how lucky they are or what genitals they've been blessed with.

Sojy posted...

Blue_Dream87 posted...

Typically, if you have to describe yourself as a nice guy, you think basic human courtesy is enough to purchase a ticket to a girl's panties. No, that's bare-fucking-minimun work right there. Everyone should be a nice guy.

It's not "bare minimum" considering the amount of dudes who cheat on, yell at, insult, etc. their girls and still get laid regularly. I don't know why you people keep trying to put these blinders on reality when everyone knows what happens out there.

Obviously most men with girls aren't like that, but fuck no is being nice a "bare minimum" requirement.

Yeah, and those are horrible men and theres obviously something else going on with the women who stay with them. Let's put it this way, if the best thing going for you is "Hey I won't beat you/cheat on you", then you need to reevaluate your priorities. This is stuff we learn from our peers as children. You don't have to put in any fucking effort to treat another human being with respect and dignity. So you don't have antisocial tendencies? Big whoop.
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Sojy posted...

Darmik posted...

Why is the woman getting laid the one with standards that are too high?

People's standards should be in line with their looks, personality, what they bring to the table, rather than how lucky they are or what genitals they've been blessed with.

And this guy apparently fails on both counts so?
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