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mario masta 07/17/17 9:16:12 PM #101:	Tadamoto16 posted... Solar_Crimson posted... Sounds more like he was passive and not forward in his feelings. Meanwhile, these "bad boys" exude an air of confidence and are right-to-the-point regarding what they want. Bullshit. I was forward and straight to the point with this girl: https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/75560833 And I got ignored. I cringed super hard. --- ...I guess... <cite>mario masta posted [p:883108188] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tadamoto16 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Solar_Crimson posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds more like he was passive and not forward in his feelings. Meanwhile, these "bad boys" exude an air of confidence and are right-to-the-point regarding what they want.</quote> Bullshit. I was forward and straight to the point with this girl: https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/75560833 And I got ignored.</quote> I cringed super hard.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darmik 07/17/17 9:17:55 PM #102:	CanuckCowboy posted... Darmik posted... Err how is having a repellent personality bad luck? It's not that hard to be friendly to people. Yeah you control who you are ffs. If you regularly make people dislike you and wish it were different fucking get some self awareness and figure it out. You control how you treat others yes. You're not talking about a social disorder are you? Repellent is a very strong word. --- Kind Regards, Darmik <cite>Darmik posted [p:883108285] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>CanuckCowboy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote>Err how is having a repellent personality bad luck? It's not that hard to be friendly to people.</quote> Yeah you control who you are ffs. If you regularly make people dislike you and wish it were different fucking get some self awareness and figure it out.</quote> You control how you treat others yes. You're not talking about a social disorder are you? Repellent is a very strong word.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
I4NRulez 07/17/17 9:18:28 PM #103:	Twinmold posted... I4NRulez posted... Also i utterly despise the "nice guys" Eh, I thought it was a pretty good movie. Aim for the bushes --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. <cite>I4NRulez posted [p:883108306] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Twinmold posted...</cite> <quote><cite>I4NRulez posted...</cite> <quote>Also i utterly despise the "nice guys"</quote> Eh, I thought it was a pretty good movie.</quote> Aim for the bushes</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sojy 07/17/17 9:19:40 PM #104:	Darmik posted... Sojy posted... As far as I know there's nothing you can do to make you 100% certain to get laid, so yes luck is a factor. Yes there is. Pay someone who'll provide you with that service. I'm assuming the guy is American, Facebook/GFAQs are American sites, etc. That's not feasible in America, and also out of context in general. Additionally prostitutes have rejected clients before. Darmik posted... Sojy posted... If this guy naturally developed a p** repellent personality then that's also bad luck. If he's ugly as f* that's bad luck. Err how is having a repellent personality bad luck? It's not that hard to be friendly to people. You bragged about how your marriage isn't work while that one guy's is. Some people naturally develop in a way that makes maintaining a dating life work for them. And some people just can't get in the game at all because of who they are. I believe in accepting people of a range of different types of personalities. Naturally some of those people will have personalities that aren't good for dating. mario masta posted... Conflict posted... Also lol @ this nice guy™ Now you can't even defend lonely dudes without being a nice guy trademark? I'm nice enough to tell you to fuck off. <cite>Sojy posted [p:883108376] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>As far as I know there's nothing you can do to make you 100% certain to get laid, so yes luck is a factor.</quote> Yes there is. Pay someone who'll provide you with that service.</quote> I'm assuming the guy is American, Facebook/GFAQs are American sites, etc. That's not feasible in America, and also out of context in general. Additionally prostitutes have rejected clients before. <cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>If this guy naturally developed a p** repellent personality then that's also bad luck. If he's ugly as f* that's bad luck.</quote> Err how is having a repellent personality bad luck? It's not that hard to be friendly to people.</quote> You bragged about how your marriage isn't work while that one guy's is. Some people naturally develop in a way that makes maintaining a dating life work for them. And some people just can't get in the game at all because of who they are. I believe in accepting people of a range of different types of personalities. Naturally some of those people will have personalities that aren't good for dating. <cite>mario masta posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Conflict posted...</cite> <quote>Also lol @ this nice guy™</quote></quote> Now you can't even defend lonely dudes without being a nice guy trademark? I'm nice enough to tell you to fuck off.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sojy 07/17/17 9:20:44 PM #105:	Darmik posted... It's not that hard to be friendly to people. Being friendly to people is blatantly not enough to succeed in dating. This guy is friendly enough to pay for dinner for a bunch of his FB friends. Still can't date. <cite>Sojy posted [p:883108446] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote>It's not that hard to be friendly to people.</quote> Being friendly to people is blatantly not enough to succeed in dating. This guy is friendly enough to pay for dinner for a bunch of his FB friends. Still can't date.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sojy 07/17/17 9:21:59 PM #106:	mario masta posted... I cringed super hard. "super hard" You sound like 2000s era geek. <cite>Sojy posted [p:883108524] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>mario masta posted...</cite> <quote>I cringed super hard.</quote> "super hard" You sound like 2000s era geek.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dyinglegacy 07/17/17 9:22:07 PM #107:	mario masta posted... Tadamoto16 posted... Solar_Crimson posted... Sounds more like he was passive and not forward in his feelings. Meanwhile, these "bad boys" exude an air of confidence and are right-to-the-point regarding what they want. Bullshit. I was forward and straight to the point with this girl: https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/75560833 And I got ignored. I cringed super hard. A serial killer would've been more smooth. --- PSN: KillingLegacy Gamertag: Killing Legacy <cite>Dyinglegacy posted [p:883108531] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>mario masta posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tadamoto16 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Solar_Crimson posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds more like he was passive and not forward in his feelings. Meanwhile, these "bad boys" exude an air of confidence and are right-to-the-point regarding what they want.</quote> Bullshit. I was forward and straight to the point with this girl: https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/75560833 And I got ignored.</quote> I cringed super hard.</quote> A serial killer would've been more smooth.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darmik 07/17/17 9:22:22 PM #108:	Sojy posted... I'm assuming the guy is American, Facebook/GFAQs are American sites, etc. That's not feasible in America, and also out of context in general. Additionally prostitutes have rejected clients before. You can still use stuff like Craigslist or travel to another country if you're that desperate to have sex. if people can buy weed I'm sure it's possible to buy sex. There's no way to stop it. Sojy posted... You bragged about how your marriage isn't work while that one guy's is. Some people naturally develop in a way that makes maintaining a dating life work for them. The guy got married regardless so this seems like a pointless thing to bring up. Sojy posted... And some people just can't get in the game at all because of who they are. I believe in accepting people of a range of different types of personalities. Naturally some of those people will have personalities that aren't good for dating. Tell me a personality type that isn't good for dating. Sojy posted... Darmik posted... It's not that hard to be friendly to people. Being friendly to people is blatantly not enough to succeed in dating. This guy is friendly enough to pay for dinner for a bunch of his FB friends. Still can't date. Okay? So what's repellent about his personality? --- Kind Regards, Darmik <cite>Darmik posted [p:883108551] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>I'm assuming the guy is American, Facebook/GFAQs are American sites, etc. That's not feasible in America, and also out of context in general. Additionally prostitutes have rejected clients before.</quote> You can still use stuff like Craigslist or travel to another country if you're that desperate to have sex. if people can buy weed I'm sure it's possible to buy sex. There's no way to stop it. <cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>You bragged about how your marriage isn't work while that one guy's is. Some people naturally develop in a way that makes maintaining a dating life work for them.</quote> The guy got married regardless so this seems like a pointless thing to bring up. <cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>And some people just can't get in the game at all because of who they are. I believe in accepting people of a range of different types of personalities. Naturally some of those people will have personalities that aren't good for dating.</quote> Tell me a personality type that isn't good for dating. <cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote>It's not that hard to be friendly to people.</quote> Being friendly to people is blatantly not enough to succeed in dating. This guy is friendly enough to pay for dinner for a bunch of his FB friends. Still can't date.</quote> Okay? So what's repellent about his personality?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sojy 07/17/17 9:25:17 PM #110:	Darmik posted... if people can buy weed I'm sure it's possible to buy sex. There's no way to stop it. Who do you think is buying weed? Not guys like this. They wouldn't have the connects. Darmik posted... Tell me a personality type that isn't good for dating. If you're a dude, being socially awkward, not able to notice social cues, not having interpersonal instinct, being shy, being passive, being submissive, etc. are extremely pussy repellent. It doesn't make the guys bad people, they just won't get girls. <cite>Sojy posted [p:883108726] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote>if people can buy weed I'm sure it's possible to buy sex. There's no way to stop it.</quote> Who do you think is buying weed? Not guys like this. They wouldn't have the connects. <cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote>Tell me a personality type that isn't good for dating.</quote> If you're a dude, being socially awkward, not able to notice social cues, not having interpersonal instinct, being shy, being passive, being submissive, etc. are extremely pussy repellent. It doesn't make the guys bad people, they just won't get girls.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 07/17/17 9:25:54 PM #111:	Sojy posted... As far as I know there's nothing you can do to make you 100% certain to get laid, so yes luck is a factor. If you make an effort and have some self awareness and actually adapt it will happen. Like 100% for a typical guy. It's not bingo. --- "Wear my feelins on my sleeveless my weed seedless my trees leafless I miss my diagonal grilled cheeses n back when Mike Jackson was still Jesus." <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:883108756] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>As far as I know there's nothing you can do to make you 100% certain to get laid, so yes luck is a factor.</quote> If you make an effort and have some self awareness and actually adapt it will happen. Like 100% for a typical guy. It's not bingo.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dyinglegacy 07/17/17 9:26:32 PM #112:	Dyinglegacy posted... mario masta posted... Tadamoto16 posted... Solar_Crimson posted... Sounds more like he was passive and not forward in his feelings. Meanwhile, these "bad boys" exude an air of confidence and are right-to-the-point regarding what they want. Bullshit. I was forward and straight to the point with this girl: https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/75560833 And I got ignored. I cringed super hard. A serial killer would've been more smooth. Did anything even remotely similar occur during your relationship with this girl, or was your proposal just outta the blue? --- PSN: KillingLegacy Gamertag: Killing Legacy <cite>Dyinglegacy posted [p:883108792] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Dyinglegacy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>mario masta posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Tadamoto16 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Solar_Crimson posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds more like he was passive and not forward in his feelings. Meanwhile, these "bad boys" exude an air of confidence and are right-to-the-point regarding what they want.</quote> Bullshit. I was forward and straight to the point with this girl: https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/75560833 And I got ignored.</quote> I cringed super hard.</quote> A serial killer would've been more smooth.</quote> Did anything even remotely similar occur during your relationship with this girl, or was your proposal just outta the blue?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 07/17/17 9:28:38 PM #113:	Sojy posted... Darmik posted... It's not that hard to be friendly to people. Being friendly to people is blatantly not enough to succeed in dating. This guy is friendly enough to pay for dinner for a bunch of his FB friends. Still can't date. That's not necessarily so much friendly as desperate. Desperation is not appealing. It's human nature. --- "Wear my feelins on my sleeveless my weed seedless my trees leafless I miss my diagonal grilled cheeses n back when Mike Jackson was still Jesus." <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:883108907] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote>It's not that hard to be friendly to people.</quote> Being friendly to people is blatantly not enough to succeed in dating. This guy is friendly enough to pay for dinner for a bunch of his FB friends. Still can't date.</quote> That's not necessarily so much friendly as desperate. Desperation is not appealing. It's human nature.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sojy 07/17/17 9:28:43 PM #114:	CanuckCowboy posted... Sojy posted... As far as I know there's nothing you can do to make you 100% certain to get laid, so yes luck is a factor. If you make an effort and have some self awareness and actually adapt it will happen. Like 100% for a typical guy. It's not bingo. Maybe for a typical guy. But awareness and adaptability are things some people aren't born with. Some dudes can't even make an effort without exuding creepiness or obnoxiousness. Actually, a lot of dudes. Doesn't make them bad people though. <cite>Sojy posted [p:883108915] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>CanuckCowboy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>As far as I know there's nothing you can do to make you 100% certain to get laid, so yes luck is a factor.</quote> If you make an effort and have some self awareness and actually adapt it will happen. Like 100% for a typical guy. It's not bingo.</quote> Maybe for a typical guy. But awareness and adaptability are things some people aren't born with. Some dudes can't even make an effort without exuding creepiness or obnoxiousness. Actually, a lot of dudes. Doesn't make them bad people though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darmik 07/17/17 9:31:03 PM #115:	Sojy posted... Who do you think is buying weed? Not guys like this. They wouldn't have the connects. And why is that? And I said they can check personal ads on the internet or travel to a state or country where it is legal if they're that desperate. Sojy posted... If you're a dude, being socially awkward, not able to notice social cues, not having interpersonal instinct, being shy, being passive, being submissive, etc. are extremely p** repellent. No they aren't. It just means you need to try harder to get out of your comfort zone and make an effort to be social. --- Kind Regards, Darmik <cite>Darmik posted [p:883109050] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>Who do you think is buying weed? Not guys like this. They wouldn't have the connects.</quote> And why is that? And I said they can check personal ads on the internet or travel to a state or country where it is legal if they're that desperate. <cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>If you're a dude, being socially awkward, not able to notice social cues, not having interpersonal instinct, being shy, being passive, being submissive, etc. are extremely p** repellent.</quote> No they aren't. It just means you need to try harder to get out of your comfort zone and make an effort to be social.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
PesticideDream 07/17/17 9:31:19 PM #116:	Generally, people who keep failing, and failing, and failing doing nothing but blaming others for why they fail instead of personally examining what they're doing that's causing failure are people everyone likes to avoid and distance themselves from. Women do like nice guys. Women don't like "nice guys" that call women sluts, whores, and idiots behind their backs and advertise to everyone that they're a failure while feeling entitled to sex because they did the bare minimum expected in a relationship. <cite>PesticideDream posted [p:883109065] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote>Generally, people who keep failing, and failing, and failing doing nothing but blaming others for why they fail instead of personally examining what they're doing that's causing failure are people everyone likes to avoid and distance themselves from. Women do like nice guys. Women don't like "nice guys" that call women sluts, whores, and idiots behind their backs and advertise to everyone that they're a failure while feeling entitled to sex because they did the bare minimum expected in a relationship.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
I4NRulez 07/17/17 9:32:38 PM #117:	Sojy posted... Being friendly to people is blatantly not enough to succeed in dating. This guy is friendly enough to pay for dinner for a bunch of his FB friends. Still can't date. Dating isnt being friendly though. Friendly only gets you so far. Also guys like him make themselves too available and people generally dont like clingy. --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. <cite>I4NRulez posted [p:883109148] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>Being friendly to people is blatantly not enough to succeed in dating. This guy is friendly enough to pay for dinner for a bunch of his FB friends. Still can't date. </quote> Dating isnt being friendly though. Friendly only gets you so far. Also guys like him make themselves too available and people generally dont like clingy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 07/17/17 9:33:17 PM #118:	Sojy posted... a lot of dudes. Doesn't make them bad people though. If you completely and utterly are intellectually incapable of being honest with yourself or identifying when something isn't working it doesn't. So long as you don't blame everyone else for it. If you're intellectually capable critical thought and self eveluation but just won't admit you're likely the problem? And/or blame others for your failures? You suck. --- "Wear my feelins on my sleeveless my weed seedless my trees leafless I miss my diagonal grilled cheeses n back when Mike Jackson was still Jesus." <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:883109183] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>a lot of dudes. Doesn't make them bad people though.</quote> If you completely and utterly are intellectually incapable of being honest with yourself or identifying when something isn't working it doesn't. So long as you don't blame everyone else for it. If you're intellectually capable critical thought and self eveluation but just won't admit you're likely the problem? And/or blame others for your failures? You suck.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sojy 07/17/17 9:35:33 PM #119:	Darmik posted... Sojy posted... If you're a dude, being socially awkward, not able to notice social cues, not having interpersonal instinct, being shy, being passive, being submissive, etc. are extremely p** repellent. No they aren't. It just means you need to try harder to get out of your comfort zone and make an effort to be social. The descriptors would no longer be accurate if they were doing that. And also, awkwardness to the point where one cannot learn anything on fly and a lack of instinct to the point where one doesn't know how to behave towards someone without literally asking them can't be remedied by social interaction. Hence why some guys with friends still can't meet the eligibility requirements for dating. <cite>Sojy posted [p:883109337] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>If you're a dude, being socially awkward, not able to notice social cues, not having interpersonal instinct, being shy, being passive, being submissive, etc. are extremely p** repellent.</quote> No they aren't. It just means you need to try harder to get out of your comfort zone and make an effort to be social.</quote> The descriptors would no longer be accurate if they were doing that. And also, awkwardness to the point where one cannot learn anything on fly and a lack of instinct to the point where one doesn't know how to behave towards someone without literally asking them can't be remedied by social interaction. Hence why some guys with friends still can't meet the eligibility requirements for dating.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darmik 07/17/17 9:37:25 PM #120:	Anyone else find it interesting that you get these guys who complain about being an introverted man and having no friends and yet they still blame women? Like having a friend is way less of a commitment than having a girlfriend and yet you're not even managing that? But it's still the fault of women? Sojy posted... The descriptors would no longer be accurate if they were doing that. And also, awkwardness to the point where one cannot learn anything on fly and a lack of instinct to the point where one doesn't know how to behave towards someone without literally asking them can't be remedied by social interaction. Hence why some guys with friends still can't meet the eligibility requirements for dating. Yes they would. Both my wife and I get socially anxious and are shy. Yet we can manage basic human interactions. You can learn with experience and get better. Especially as you get to know others and be more comfortable with them. If you're shutting yourself away from society because you think you're too awkward to function with other people that's not the fault of women or dating. That's a legit basic human skill you are lacking. --- Kind Regards, Darmik <cite>Darmik posted [p:883109456] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote>Anyone else find it interesting that you get these guys who complain about being an introverted man and having no friends and yet they still blame women? Like having a friend is way less of a commitment than having a girlfriend and yet you're not even managing that? But it's still the fault of women? <cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>The descriptors would no longer be accurate if they were doing that. And also, awkwardness to the point where one cannot learn anything on fly and a lack of instinct to the point where one doesn't know how to behave towards someone without literally asking them can't be remedied by social interaction. Hence why some guys with friends still can't meet the eligibility requirements for dating.</quote> Yes they would. Both my wife and I get socially anxious and are shy. Yet we can manage basic human interactions. You can learn with experience and get better. Especially as you get to know others and be more comfortable with them. If you're shutting yourself away from society because you think you're too awkward to function with other people that's not the fault of women or dating. That's a legit basic human skill you are lacking.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sojy 07/17/17 9:39:05 PM #121:	CanuckCowboy posted... If you completely and utterly are intellectually incapable of being honest with yourself or identifying when something isn't working it doesn't. Even if you know what doesn't work, that doesn't automatically give you the answer of what does work. CanuckCowboy posted... So long as you don't blame everyone else for it. If you're intellectually capable critical thought and self eveluation but just won't admit you're likely the problem? And/or blame others for your failures? You suck. He's venting. He's just desperately trying to find an answer as to why through decades of presumably friendly behavior he still can't get into dating. I don't think he needs to be so HARSHLY attacked for taking a wrong turn in finding an explanation. <cite>Sojy posted [p:883109567] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>CanuckCowboy posted...</cite> <quote>If you completely and utterly are intellectually incapable of being honest with yourself or identifying when something isn't working it doesn't.</quote> Even if you know what doesn't work, that doesn't automatically give you the answer of what does work. <cite>CanuckCowboy posted...</cite> <quote>So long as you don't blame everyone else for it. If you're intellectually capable critical thought and self eveluation but just won't admit you're likely the problem? And/or blame others for your failures? You suck.</quote> He's venting. He's just desperately trying to find an answer as to why through decades of presumably friendly behavior he still can't get into dating. I don't think he needs to be so HARSHLY attacked for taking a wrong turn in finding an explanation.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
donkeyjack 07/17/17 9:42:04 PM #122:	I don't get how he just get call girls. --- The boywonder is the American idol/And every night I go to bed with the title/With infrared in the bible. http://imgur.com/tyElXOs http://imgur.com/Mxpx3aN <cite>donkeyjack posted [p:883109753] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote>I don't get how he just get call girls.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sojy 07/17/17 9:44:34 PM #123:	Darmik posted... Yes they would. Both my wife and I get socially anxious and are shy. Yet we can manage basic human interactions. You can learn with experience and get better. The existence of people like the Facebook guy proves that's not universally true. Some people don't learn. <cite>Sojy posted [p:883109884] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote>Yes they would. Both my wife and I get socially anxious and are shy. Yet we can manage basic human interactions. You can learn with experience and get better.</quote> The existence of people like the Facebook guy proves that's not universally true. Some people don't learn.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CanuckCowboy 07/17/17 9:48:03 PM #124:	Sojy posted... Even if you know what doesn't work, that doesn't automatically give you the answer of what does work. It gives you the insight needed to try new things. If you're reaction is "everyone else is fucked in the head" you have a problem --- "Wear my feelins on my sleeveless my weed seedless my trees leafless I miss my diagonal grilled cheeses n back when Mike Jackson was still Jesus." <cite>CanuckCowboy posted [p:883110086] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>Even if you know what doesn't work, that doesn't automatically give you the answer of what does work.</quote> It gives you the insight needed to try new things. If you're reaction is "everyone else is fucked in the head" you have a problem</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sojy 07/17/17 9:48:12 PM #125:	Darmik posted... If you're shutting yourself away from society because you think you're too awkward to function with other people that's not the fault of women or dating. That's a legit basic human skill you are lacking. I just recently posted in a topic about being friends with someone who's cheated in a relationship and it reminded me that someone can lack friends for a variety reasons. Such as having fell out of favor with their social circle or made a moral objection to many people around them's behavior or just recently moved. It's not appropriate to assume they're flawed at all. <cite>Sojy posted [p:883110097] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote>If you're shutting yourself away from society because you think you're too awkward to function with other people that's not the fault of women or dating. That's a legit basic human skill you are lacking.</quote> I just recently posted in a topic about being friends with someone who's cheated in a relationship and it reminded me that someone can lack friends for a variety reasons. Such as having fell out of favor with their social circle or made a moral objection to many people around them's behavior or just recently moved. It's not appropriate to assume they're flawed at all.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darmik 07/17/17 9:50:47 PM #126:	Sojy posted... Darmik posted... Yes they would. Both my wife and I get socially anxious and are shy. Yet we can manage basic human interactions. You can learn with experience and get better. The existence of people like the Facebook guy proves that's not universally true. Some people don't learn. Some people aren't willing to learn or try. Sojy posted... I just recently posted in a topic about being friends with someone who's cheated in a relationship and it reminded me that someone can lack friends for a variety reasons. Such as having fell out of favor with their social circle or made a moral objection to many people around them's behavior or just recently moved. It's not appropriate to assume they're flawed at all. Nothing about any of those situations are permanent. --- Kind Regards, Darmik <cite>Darmik posted [p:883110240] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote>Yes they would. Both my wife and I get socially anxious and are shy. Yet we can manage basic human interactions. You can learn with experience and get better.</quote> The existence of people like the Facebook guy proves that's not universally true. Some people don't learn.</quote> Some people aren't willing to learn or try. <cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>I just recently posted in a topic about being friends with someone who's cheated in a relationship and it reminded me that someone can lack friends for a variety reasons. Such as having fell out of favor with their social circle or made a moral objection to many people around them's behavior or just recently moved. It's not appropriate to assume they're flawed at all.</quote> Nothing about any of those situations are permanent.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mrtopgoon327 07/17/17 9:51:14 PM #127:	Tadamoto16 posted... Solar_Crimson posted... Sounds more like he was passive and not forward in his feelings. Meanwhile, these "bad boys" exude an air of confidence and are right-to-the-point regarding what they want. Bullshit. I was forward and straight to the point with this girl: https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/75560833 And I got ignored. lol, you have a lot to work on young bruh --- mr top goon in this thang <cite>mrtopgoon327 posted [p:883110268] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Tadamoto16 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Solar_Crimson posted...</cite> <quote>Sounds more like he was passive and not forward in his feelings. Meanwhile, these "bad boys" exude an air of confidence and are right-to-the-point regarding what they want.</quote> Bullshit. I was forward and straight to the point with this girl: https://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/400-current-events/75560833 And I got ignored.</quote> lol, you have a lot to work on young bruh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sojy 07/17/17 9:53:19 PM #128:	Darmik posted... Sojy posted... Darmik posted... Yes they would. Both my wife and I get socially anxious and are shy. Yet we can manage basic human interactions. You can learn with experience and get better. The existence of people like the Facebook guy proves that's not universally true. Some people don't learn. Some people aren't willing to learn or try. I'm aware but there's no way to know who's who. If a situation is cloudy I'm going to abstain from hostility towards anyone involved. <cite>Sojy posted [p:883110387] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote>Yes they would. Both my wife and I get socially anxious and are shy. Yet we can manage basic human interactions. You can learn with experience and get better.</quote> The existence of people like the Facebook guy proves that's not universally true. Some people don't learn.</quote> Some people aren't willing to learn or try.</quote> I'm aware but there's no way to know who's who. If a situation is cloudy I'm going to abstain from hostility towards anyone involved.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darmik 07/17/17 9:55:14 PM #129:	Sojy posted... I'm aware but there's no way to know who's who. If a situation is cloudy I'm going to abstain from hostility towards anyone involved. Considering he thinks that the problem is that women are brainwashed I'm guessing if hasn't been trying the right lessons. --- Kind Regards, Darmik <cite>Darmik posted [p:883110495] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>I'm aware but there's no way to know who's who. If a situation is cloudy I'm going to abstain from hostility towards anyone involved.</quote> Considering he thinks that the problem is that women are brainwashed I'm guessing if hasn't been trying the right lessons.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheVipaGTS 07/17/17 9:56:28 PM #130:	"Why do women hate me I'm so awesome and amazing sigh...I'm gonna be at PF changs later. Come join me. Even though it's my birthday I'll pay for your dinner so you hang out with me :/" <cite>TheVipaGTS posted [p:883110568] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote>"Why do women hate me I'm so awesome and amazing sigh...I'm gonna be at PF changs later. Come join me. Even though it's my birthday I'll pay for your dinner so you hang out with me :/"</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Sojy 07/17/17 9:59:33 PM #132:	Conflict posted... Sojy posted... No arguments son? All of your posts consist of you trying to come up with some excuse for this guy. I'm not going to deny that there could've been an environmental effect on his current state of mind but in no way am I going to justify someone generalizing a giant group of people because he can't get any, or acting entitled and thinking girls are in the wrong for not being sexually attracted to him. I understand many people are sensitive to bigotry I guess. I just think that after decades of less luck than the average person people are prone to potentially making at least one or two wrong or insensitive comments. <cite>Sojy posted [p:883110777] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Conflict posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote>No arguments son?</quote> All of your posts consist of you trying to come up with some excuse for this guy. I'm not going to deny that there could've been an environmental effect on his current state of mind but in no way am I going to justify someone generalizing a giant group of people because he can't get any, or acting entitled and thinking girls are in the wrong for not being sexually attracted to him.</quote> I understand many people are sensitive to bigotry I guess. I just think that after decades of less luck than the average person people are prone to potentially making at least one or two wrong or insensitive comments.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ruvan22 07/17/17 10:18:10 PM #133:	MakoReizei posted... Women don't like nice guys. They want bad boys. The Backstreet Boys were wise beyond their years!! <cite>Ruvan22 posted [p:883112046] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>MakoReizei posted...</cite> <quote>Women don't like nice guys. They want bad boys.</quote> The Backstreet Boys were wise beyond their years!!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SophieLuvsTofu 07/17/17 10:21:15 PM #134:	Yikes. This is the perfect way to set a good birthday has a party mood. "Hey I'm angry and ranting come eat with me, or don't, idc!" lol wow that is. <cite>SophieLuvsTofu posted [p:883112251] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote>Yikes. This is the perfect way to set a good birthday has a party mood. "Hey I'm angry and ranting come eat with me, or don't, idc!" lol wow that is.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Albel-Nox 07/17/17 10:30:59 PM #135:	More <cite>Albel-Nox posted [p:883112845] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote>More</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KyerWiz 07/17/17 10:50:25 PM #136:	Nice entitlement. No, you don't get laid because you think you "deserve" to. You do because you and someone else want to. No matter how nice you treat them and how great a guy you are, that doesn't mean they have to be interested. <cite>KyerWiz posted [p:883114000] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote>Nice entitlement. No, you don't get laid because you think you "deserve" to. You do because you and someone else want to. No matter how nice you treat them and how great a guy you are, that doesn't mean they have to be interested.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LordMarshal 07/17/17 10:54:13 PM #137:	Ok im thinking too much or whatever but lets say he was right for a second. I have a hard time believing he wouldnt just treat women poorly and get all the women he wants. No, man, despite figuring this out he simply is too good to ever treat women bad. --- There can be only one. <cite>LordMarshal posted [p:883114209] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote>Ok im thinking too much or whatever but lets say he was right for a second. I have a hard time believing he wouldnt just treat women poorly and get all the women he wants. No, man, despite figuring this out he simply is too good to ever treat women bad.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Joelypoely 07/17/17 11:45:35 PM #138:	Yes he's made a mistake here but some of you are being too harsh on him. Beating people while they're down won't help either of you. --- https://philoetryblog.wordpress.com/ <cite>Joelypoely posted [p:883116991] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote>Yes he's made a mistake here but some of you are being too harsh on him. Beating people while they're down won't help either of you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JcOpIVY86 07/17/17 11:57:37 PM #139:	I'd say I'm a nice guy, others have said I was one but when I lost mine at 19 to my wife when we first started dating, she didn't believe me. I fooled around with other girlfriends before her but never home plate, so that may be why. Pushed all the right buttons, figuratively and literally lol. I was into punk rock, had long hair, buzzed sides, had the bad boy look I guess. She says my confidence and sense of humor won her over. A girl doesn't want a pity party. They don't want to feel like you only like her because you're desperate, they want you there because you want HER. If you don't love yourself, feel ok in your own skin, and fight for what you want, you'll never get anywhere. Thankfully I learned that before high school and I feel I benefited greatly from it. I do not envy anyone looking for someone after college. --- Sometimes it's what you don't do that makes you who you are. http://i4.photobucket.com/albums/y115/jckorn86/smallerbanner.jpg <cite>JcOpIVY86 posted [p:883117594] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote>I'd say I'm a nice guy, others have said I was one but when I lost mine at 19 to my wife when we first started dating, she didn't believe me. I fooled around with other girlfriends before her but never home plate, so that may be why. Pushed all the right buttons, figuratively and literally lol. I was into punk rock, had long hair, buzzed sides, had the bad boy look I guess. She says my confidence and sense of humor won her over. A girl doesn't want a pity party. They don't want to feel like you only like her because you're desperate, they want you there because you want HER. If you don't love yourself, feel ok in your own skin, and fight for what you want, you'll never get anywhere. Thankfully I learned that before high school and I feel I benefited greatly from it. I do not envy anyone looking for someone after college.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
The Wheelman1 07/18/17 12:02:43 AM #140:	Generally, nice guys are seen as weaklings and are often taken advantage of. Whereas the bad boys don't take any shit from anyone. Girls like the bad boys more because they feel protected around them. While some girls think that the nice guys are likely to be chumps. --- XBox Live GT: MastaMez PSN: KoolMez http://www.youtube.com/profile?user=TheWheelman1 <cite>The Wheelman1 posted [p:883117808] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote>Generally, nice guys are seen as weaklings and are often taken advantage of. Whereas the bad boys don't take any shit from anyone. Girls like the bad boys more because they feel protected around them. While some girls think that the nice guys are likely to be chumps.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GordonFreeGin 07/18/17 12:48:01 AM #141:	KyerWiz posted... Nice entitlement. No, you don't get laid because you think you "deserve" to. You do because you and someone else want to. No matter how nice you treat them and how great a guy you are, that doesn't mean they have to be interested. Unless you are a literal pimp. --- The party's always better with Gordon FreeGin around. <cite>GordonFreeGin posted [p:883119842] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>KyerWiz posted...</cite> <quote>Nice entitlement. No, you don't get laid because you think you "deserve" to. You do because you and someone else want to. No matter how nice you treat them and how great a guy you are, that doesn't mean they have to be interested.</quote> Unless you are a literal pimp.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
hyperpsycho 07/18/17 12:50:00 AM #142:	Conflict posted... Also lol @ this Sojy guy I think he's Observato. --- http://i.imgur.com/ZrnUI3A.jpg ~drawn by United_World <cite>hyperpsycho posted [p:883119938] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Conflict posted...</cite> <quote>Also lol @ this Sojy guy</quote> I think he's Observato.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 07/18/17 2:01:08 PM #143:	Free PF Changs? Sign me up --- Not changing this sig until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) BRAVELY DEFAULT: 1075 - 0844 - 9134 + FS: Pumkaboo, Lampent, Dusclops. <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:883146090] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote>Free PF Changs? Sign me up</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NihilistTurian 07/18/17 3:02:56 PM #144:	Imagine defending this guy when he blatantly reveals how shitty his attitudes are. --- http://i.imgur.com/IqHwxnf.gif http://i.imgur.com/jscE9D1.gifv http://i.imgur.com/jUql1.jpg http://i.imgur.com/LQn0HKm.mp4 <cite>NihilistTurian posted [p:883149913] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote>Imagine defending this guy when he blatantly reveals how shitty his attitudes are.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KogaSteelfang 07/18/17 3:07:54 PM #145:	Sojy posted... Darmik posted... if people can buy weed I'm sure it's possible to buy sex. There's no way to stop it. Who do you think is buying weed? Not guys like this. They wouldn't have the connects. Darmik posted... Tell me a personality type that isn't good for dating. If you're a dude, being socially awkward, not able to notice social cues, not having interpersonal instinct, being shy, being passive, being submissive, etc. are extremely pussy repellent. It doesn't make the guys bad people, they just won't get girls. ^That perfectly describes me, at this point I'm convinced there's no hope. --- What did the pirate say on his 80th birthday? Aye Matey! <cite>KogaSteelfang posted [p:883150221] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>Sojy posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote>if people can buy weed I'm sure it's possible to buy sex. There's no way to stop it.</quote> Who do you think is buying weed? Not guys like this. They wouldn't have the connects. <cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote>Tell me a personality type that isn't good for dating.</quote> If you're a dude, being socially awkward, not able to notice social cues, not having interpersonal instinct, being shy, being passive, being submissive, etc. are extremely pussy repellent. It doesn't make the guys bad people, they just won't get girls.</quote> ^That perfectly describes me, at this point I'm convinced there's no hope.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Albel-Nox 07/18/17 3:21:59 PM #146:	<cite>Albel-Nox posted [p:883151018] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MacadamianNut3 07/18/17 3:30:21 PM #147:	lilORANG posted... I'd totally hang with that guy for free PF Changs. --- XBL/Steam/R*/Uplay: Barinade88 \| Origin: Barinade \| BattleNet: Barinade#11210 Roll Tide & Go Irish <cite>MacadamianNut3 posted [p:883151551] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>lilORANG posted...</cite> <quote>I'd totally hang with that guy for free PF Changs.</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
I4NRulez 07/18/17 6:53:52 PM #148:	KogaSteelfang posted... ^That perfectly describes me, at this point I'm convinced there's no hope. There's always hope my friend --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. <cite>I4NRulez posted [p:883163869] in 33-year-ol... [t:75576377]...</cite> <quote><cite>KogaSteelfang posted...</cite> <quote>^That perfectly describes me, at this point I'm convinced there's no hope. </quote> There's always hope my friend</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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