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CwebbMichSac4
06/25/17 6:51:36 AM
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Do you ever ask? Have you ever asked? Idk some guys just don't think it's a good idea or that it's none of their business
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Irony
06/25/17 6:52:24 AM
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Eevee-Trainer
06/25/17 6:54:29 AM
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that it's none of their business

It's not their business.
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Aristoph
06/25/17 6:54:32 AM
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Nope.

Doesn't matter in the slightest. If she wants to share that info it's up too her. I ask if she's clean and that's all I need to know
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_Goggalor_
06/25/17 6:54:56 AM
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Asked an ex once. Didn't like the answer and wish I hadn't asked.
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Trayvon
06/25/17 6:57:20 AM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
Asked an ex once. Didn't like the answer and wish I hadn't asked.

what was the answer?

how many were you expecting
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FrisbeeDude
06/25/17 6:57:45 AM
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My number is pretty high, so i enjoy exchanging
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_Goggalor_
06/25/17 6:57:55 AM
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Trayvon posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Asked an ex once. Didn't like the answer and wish I hadn't asked.

what was the answer?

how many were you expecting


Her answer was a little over 20. I expected like 5 or 6.
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EffectAndCause
06/25/17 6:58:23 AM
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When I first got with my current girlfriend she admitted that after her previous longterm boyfriend broke her self esteem by being verbally abusive, she had a period of going on a bunch of dates and sleeping with a bunch of guys to basically determine if she was still desirable or if he was right.

I personally have zero issue with it at all, I never asked for a number because I don't really care.
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LysistrataMedea
06/25/17 6:58:25 AM
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honestly i think this is a fair question to ask. if a woman has slept with 50+ guys and is only like 25 or whatever, then realistically how are you not just another notch on her belt? same applies to men who have been with 50+ women.

it wouldn't stop me from dating someone if i really liked them, but if i was unsure about them it would definitely influence my opinion.
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CwebbMichSac4
06/25/17 7:00:04 AM
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Never seen clerks but i heard there was a funny line in it, that dude in the movie asked his g/f how many dicks she's sucked or something and iirc she said like 30 or something like that and then the guy was mad and said to his friend, "hey my g/f sucked 30 dicks and his friend said "in a row?"
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TheFireRises
06/25/17 7:00:17 AM
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If she's done so much as kiss a man, she is impure and not marriage material.
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EffectAndCause
06/25/17 7:02:06 AM
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LysistrataMedea posted...
honestly i think this is a fair question to ask. if a woman has slept with 50+ guys and is only like 25 or whatever, then realistically how are you not just another notch on her belt? same applies to men who have been with 50+ women.

it wouldn't stop me from dating someone if i really liked them, but if i was unsure about them it would definitely influence my opinion.


Honestly the only thing that it made me think was "Nice, she's experienced in bed."
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Feline_Heart
06/25/17 7:02:47 AM
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Only once
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LysistrataMedea
06/25/17 7:06:19 AM
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EffectAndCause posted...
LysistrataMedea posted...
honestly i think this is a fair question to ask. if a woman has slept with 50+ guys and is only like 25 or whatever, then realistically how are you not just another notch on her belt? same applies to men who have been with 50+ women.

it wouldn't stop me from dating someone if i really liked them, but if i was unsure about them it would definitely influence my opinion.


Honestly the only thing that it made me think was "Nice, she's experienced in bed."

*shrug* it's not really a huge deal. it's not something i personally ask my dates but i can understand someone asking me, or a guy asking a girl
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Ultima Dragon
06/25/17 7:06:55 AM
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_Goggalor_ posted...
Asked an ex once. Didn't like the answer and wish I hadn't asked.


I think this is going to be true for most guys. In general, women have a much easier time getting laid. So for every one partner your average guy has, most women will easily end up with like 3+. I know it's pretty damn insecure, but it's still an uncomfortable feeling for most. You are just never going to like the answer unless she lies about it, which a lot of them will (for fear of being judged).

I don't know, I just think that no good can possibly ever come from asking that question. Just enjoy your time together, however brief or long. The only thing that matters is she's with you now, and is hopefully faithful.
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moose_knuckle
06/25/17 7:08:07 AM
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Feline_Heart posted...
Only once


That's all it takes to learn to never ask again.
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545x39
06/25/17 7:25:27 AM
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CwebbMichSac4 posted...
Never seen clerks but i heard there was a funny line in it, that dude in the movie asked his g/f how many dicks she's sucked or something and iirc she said like 30 or something like that and then the guy was mad and said to his friend, "hey my g/f sucked 30 dicks and his friend said "in a row?"


Try not to suck any dick on the way through the parking lot!
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Woodger
06/25/17 7:26:42 AM
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If it matters to you, why not? You want to know something, you ask.
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thelovefist
06/25/17 7:27:04 AM
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LysistrataMedea posted...
EffectAndCause posted...
LysistrataMedea posted...
honestly i think this is a fair question to ask. if a woman has slept with 50+ guys and is only like 25 or whatever, then realistically how are you not just another notch on her belt? same applies to men who have been with 50+ women.

it wouldn't stop me from dating someone if i really liked them, but if i was unsure about them it would definitely influence my opinion.


Honestly the only thing that it made me think was "Nice, she's experienced in bed."

*shrug* it's not really a huge deal. it's not something i personally ask my dates but i can understand someone asking me, or a guy asking a girl

Are you a virgin?
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_Goggalor_
06/25/17 7:27:59 AM
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Ultima Dragon posted...
_Goggalor_ posted...
Asked an ex once. Didn't like the answer and wish I hadn't asked.


I think this is going to be true for most guys. In general, women have a much easier time getting laid. So for every one partner your average guy has, most women will easily end up with like 3+. I know it's pretty damn insecure, but it's still an uncomfortable feeling for most. You are just never going to like the answer unless she lies about it, which a lot of them will (for fear of being judged).

I don't know, I just think that no good can possibly ever come from asking that question. Just enjoy your time together, however brief or long. The only thing that matters is she's with you now, and is hopefully faithful.


I honestly was only mildly upset when I thought of it and 10 minutes later it was nothing. I was just surprised when she was like "Idk, 25, 26 msybe?" And I had only been with 4 including her at the time. She was also 22 so...not like that leaves a lot of time for those 26 encounters to have happened.
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UnfairRepresent
06/25/17 7:29:03 AM
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I ask while drinking coffee and discussing cilents.

"Anyway how many people have you fucked?"
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Howl
06/25/17 7:58:12 AM
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I asked my fiance and she's fucked more guys than women I've fucked, but it doesn't bother me at all.
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Ranmaru-2
06/25/17 8:02:03 AM
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I wouldn't want her to have had more than 3. In fact I'd prefer it if she was a virgin.
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Dragonblade01
06/25/17 8:07:33 AM
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Nope
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Sativa_Rose
06/25/17 8:11:32 AM
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No, people who are insecure about this have problems tbh
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Awesome
06/25/17 8:15:32 AM
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its not biologically normal for women to bang a lot of guys, so theres a problem right there
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Sada_Pop
06/25/17 8:33:42 AM
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No. That does not come up in normal conversation. Plus, I'm not interested.
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lilORANG
06/25/17 8:41:16 AM
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My fiance has banged twice as many dudes as I have girls lmao.

Kinda weird thinking that at some point in the future, a guy could walk up to me and truthfully say "I fucked your wife "
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OpShaft
06/25/17 8:44:47 AM
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lilORANG posted...
My fiance has banged twice as many dudes as I have girls lmao.

Kinda weird thinking that at some point in the future, a guy could walk up to me and truthfully say "I fucked your wife "


I fucked your wife. Raw.
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lilORANG
06/25/17 8:46:17 AM
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OpShaft posted...
lilORANG posted...
My fiance has banged twice as many dudes as I have girls lmao.

Kinda weird thinking that at some point in the future, a guy could walk up to me and truthfully say "I fucked your wife "


I fucked your wife. Raw.

I don't have a wife.
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REMercsChamp
06/25/17 8:52:08 AM
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No, I just assume she's a dumb slut and has slept with many guys, and will be sleeping with many more after I cheat on her and dump her ass.
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LysistrataMedea
06/25/17 9:22:29 AM
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thelovefist posted...
LysistrataMedea posted...
EffectAndCause posted...
LysistrataMedea posted...
honestly i think this is a fair question to ask. if a woman has slept with 50+ guys and is only like 25 or whatever, then realistically how are you not just another notch on her belt? same applies to men who have been with 50+ women.

it wouldn't stop me from dating someone if i really liked them, but if i was unsure about them it would definitely influence my opinion.


Honestly the only thing that it made me think was "Nice, she's experienced in bed."

*shrug* it's not really a huge deal. it's not something i personally ask my dates but i can understand someone asking me, or a guy asking a girl

Are you a virgin?

no, but i haven't been in many relationships either. why do you ask
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prince_leo
06/25/17 9:57:42 AM
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i've never asked or cared, but it tends to come up for some reason
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Funkydog
06/25/17 10:23:29 AM
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Asherlee10 posted...
The number of previous sexual partners has never mattered to me. I only care about STDs.

Before I had sex with anyone, I want to see your clean record. I'd prefer to NOT get throat cancer from HPV.

This really.

Being clean is all that matters ultimately. Number of people, or lack of, shouldnt really matter at all, unless they've a reputation of being unfaithful as simply sleeping around isn't a sign of.. anything, other than enjoying an enjoyable thing.
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Duncanwii
06/25/17 10:25:31 AM
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My girlfriend says she's a virgin. I believe her.
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Lorenzo_2003
06/25/17 10:34:22 AM
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If she can't be honest about that question, I don't know how the fuck you guys expect her to ever truly be honest about anything else. I mean ask or don't ask. It's your call, and only you know if you can handle her answer. What I do know is it's generally a bad start to keep secrets from someone if you want to be serious with them at some point, also your past behavior can be a relatively decent indicator of your future actions. We develop habits easily, but we don't break them without serious effort.
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Ranmaru-2
06/25/17 10:34:33 AM
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Duncanwii posted...
My girlfriend says she's a virgin. I believe her.

Lucky.
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haloiscoolisbak
06/25/17 10:41:35 AM
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I don't care anymore

years ago I did though
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Iodine
06/25/17 10:48:42 AM
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As long as she doesn't have any STDs it doesn't matter.
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Lorenzo_2003
06/25/17 10:51:23 AM
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Asherlee10 posted...
Ranmaru-2 posted...
Duncanwii posted...
My girlfriend says she's a virgin. I believe her.

Lucky.


Why is that lucky?


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omega cookie
06/25/17 10:56:09 AM
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All but one of my girlfriends were virgins when I started dating them, including my fiance, and the one who wasn't I never slept with. So unless they cheated on me(unlikely, went to highschool in a small town and went to a smallish college. Nothing stays secret there.), I already know the numbers.
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yanksfan4247
06/25/17 11:04:09 AM
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Asherlee10 posted...
The number of previous sexual partners has never mattered to me. I only care about STDs.

Before I had sex with anyone, I want to see your clean record. I'd prefer to NOT get throat cancer from HPV.


You really looking at health records before sex? Come on son.
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Gamer99z
06/25/17 11:06:09 AM
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I only ask about STD history. I'd prefer not to think about a girl I have a thing for getting plowed by a bunch of dudes before me so I'd rather not know.
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Returning_CEmen
06/25/17 11:07:38 AM
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I'm curious, but would rather not know.
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Sativa_Rose
06/25/17 11:11:42 AM
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Shame you can't check dudes for HPV yet
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