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FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 2:55:04 PM #1: |
she tells me i shouldn't have gotten upset, i know who she is and it's unfair to get annoyed at her just being her, then she says it's ridiculous how im acting, i ruined her weekend because of it, sometimes she cries
etc etc it's fucking annoying and i know she has her share of problems, but sometimes she's self aware about herself and sometime she isnt. it sucks that i end up feeling guilty every time if she doesnt agree to go to therapy with me i think im just gonna break it off. love her but i can feel and see my mental health deteriorating. just gotta think of how to drop the ultimatum ... Copied to Clipboard!
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FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 2:58:59 PM #2: |
meh
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SrRd_RacinG 04/15/17 3:00:32 PM #3: |
God damn, sounds like she's not the one for you. But as it will likely go, you'll stick around for some more months of emotional trauma, abuse, probably on both ends (you both will suffer).
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FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:01:17 PM #4: |
SrRd_RacinG posted...
God damn, sounds like she's not the one for you. But as it will likely go, you'll stick around for some more months of emotional trauma, abuse, probably on both ends (you both will suffer). actually that phase ended and now im in the apathy phase. ill just tell her when i see her later today. if it goes bad ill just get wasted at the family dinner tomorrow ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Boge 04/15/17 3:04:09 PM #5: |
FrenchCrunch posted...
SrRd_RacinG posted...God damn, sounds like she's not the one for you. But as it will likely go, you'll stick around for some more months of emotional trauma, abuse, probably on both ends (you both will suffer). Yeah, 'cause that always makes things better for everyone. --- If I frowned any lower, I'd be tripping over my own face. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:05:54 PM #6: |
Boge posted...
Yeah, 'cause that always makes things better for everyone. she's not gonna be there tomorrow, ill just get drunk and play video games with my cousins and such ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Leanaunfurled 04/15/17 3:07:55 PM #7: |
Pretty sure she's gaslighting you.
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Boge 04/15/17 3:15:52 PM #8: |
FrenchCrunch posted...
Boge posted...Yeah, 'cause that always makes things better for everyone. Oh. You said family dinner. It made me think you had an event that you're going to with her and her family that you were going to get drunk to piss her off. --- If I frowned any lower, I'd be tripping over my own face. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:16:13 PM #9: |
Leanaunfurled posted...
Pretty sure she's gaslighting you. eh i think she's got undiagnosed bpd or something ... Copied to Clipboard!
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yanksfan4247 04/15/17 3:19:20 PM #10: |
You dont love her
Dont give an ultimatum just leave --- @macdamurderer GT: Mac Da Murderer ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Old NoiseTank 04/15/17 3:22:04 PM #11: |
instead of an ultimatum (since those never work), maybe try talking it out bruh
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FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:23:25 PM #12: |
Old NoiseTank posted...
instead of an ultimatum (since those never work), maybe try talking it out bruh oh if only i could post this convo/these phone calls. if only ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Old NoiseTank 04/15/17 3:29:33 PM #13: |
FrenchCrunch posted...
Old NoiseTank posted...instead of an ultimatum (since those never work), maybe try talking it out bruh Lol well if that's the case it seems like she's looking for something else man. 4/10 annoying then but I guess that's the way with dating --- "This is why you always use gender neutral pronouns like xir/xim/zxir" - REMercsChamp ... Copied to Clipboard!
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FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:30:50 PM #14: |
tried to apologize for last night and got it thrown back in my face
"Thanks for fucking ruining everything" geez. mental wall is breaking yo. getting upset/annoyed/tired ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Leanaunfurled 04/15/17 3:32:15 PM #15: |
Bipolar or not, it isn't on you or anyone else to put up with it. It isn't an excuse to be a bitch to other people, especially people she supposedly cares for. It's on her to get her shit together and seek out a way to manage it and she'd be lucky if you were there to support her in that endeavor.
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FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:33:45 PM #16: |
Leanaunfurled posted...
Bipolar or not, it isn't on you or anyone else to put up with it. It isn't an excuse to be a bitch to other people, especially people she supposedly cares for. It's on her to get her shit together and seek out a way to manage it and she'd be lucky if you were there to support her in that endeavor. for the record i prolly shouldnt say this to her right cuz im annoyed rn it seems like something i wanna do ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Roxborough4Ever 04/15/17 3:35:03 PM #17: |
so when she is shaking her ass on other dudes in the club, you get upset?
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bob742omb 04/15/17 3:36:05 PM #18: |
FrenchCrunch posted...
tried to apologize for last night and got it thrown back in my face you need to get out of this relationship ... Copied to Clipboard!
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FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:37:16 PM #19: |
Roxborough4Ever posted...
so when she is shaking her ass on other dudes in the club, you get upset? lol what ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AlisLandale 04/15/17 3:38:52 PM #20: |
FrenchCrunch posted...
tried to apologize for last night and got it thrown back in my face Think about telling her how spurning attempts at reconciliation make people less likely to reconcile in the future. --- Currently Binging: Ghost in the Shell - Stand Alone Complex http://i.imgtc.com/YQId2Bz.png ... Copied to Clipboard!
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FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:47:05 PM #21: |
these days she isn't as self aware about her behavior, or if she is she just doesnt care. she used to be able to realize mid-meltdown if she was being irrational, then start over with a clear head. that doesnt really happen anymore. i guess it's gone?
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