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FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 2:55:04 PM #1:	she tells me i shouldn't have gotten upset, i know who she is and it's unfair to get annoyed at her just being her, then she says it's ridiculous how im acting, i ruined her weekend because of it, sometimes she cries etc etc it's fucking annoying and i know she has her share of problems, but sometimes she's self aware about herself and sometime she isnt. it sucks that i end up feeling guilty every time if she doesnt agree to go to therapy with me i think im just gonna break it off. love her but i can feel and see my mental health deteriorating. just gotta think of how to drop the ultimatum <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:877252321] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote>she tells me i shouldn't have gotten upset, i know who she is and it's unfair to get annoyed at her just being her, then she says it's ridiculous how im acting, i ruined her weekend because of it, sometimes she cries etc etc it's fucking annoying and i know she has her share of problems, but sometimes she's self aware about herself and sometime she isnt. it sucks that i end up feeling guilty every time if she doesnt agree to go to therapy with me i think im just gonna break it off. love her but i can feel and see my mental health deteriorating. just gotta think of how to drop the ultimatum</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 2:58:59 PM #2:	meh <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:877252529] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote>meh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SrRd_RacinG 04/15/17 3:00:32 PM #3:	God damn, sounds like she's not the one for you. But as it will likely go, you'll stick around for some more months of emotional trauma, abuse, probably on both ends (you both will suffer). Then eventually one of you will back out. --- https://media.giphy.com/media/l3vRn3I4UyDoKyWLC/giphy.gif <cite>SrRd_RacinG posted [p:877252604] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote>God damn, sounds like she's not the one for you. But as it will likely go, you'll stick around for some more months of emotional trauma, abuse, probably on both ends (you both will suffer). Then eventually one of you will back out.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:01:17 PM #4:	SrRd_RacinG posted... God damn, sounds like she's not the one for you. But as it will likely go, you'll stick around for some more months of emotional trauma, abuse, probably on both ends (you both will suffer). Then eventually one of you will back out. actually that phase ended and now im in the apathy phase. ill just tell her when i see her later today. if it goes bad ill just get wasted at the family dinner tomorrow <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:877252646] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote><cite>SrRd_RacinG posted...</cite> <quote>God damn, sounds like she's not the one for you. But as it will likely go, you'll stick around for some more months of emotional trauma, abuse, probably on both ends (you both will suffer). Then eventually one of you will back out.</quote> actually that phase ended and now im in the apathy phase. ill just tell her when i see her later today. if it goes bad ill just get wasted at the family dinner tomorrow</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Boge 04/15/17 3:04:09 PM #5:	FrenchCrunch posted... SrRd_RacinG posted... God damn, sounds like she's not the one for you. But as it will likely go, you'll stick around for some more months of emotional trauma, abuse, probably on both ends (you both will suffer). Then eventually one of you will back out. actually that phase ended and now im in the apathy phase. ill just tell her when i see her later today. if it goes bad ill just get wasted at the family dinner tomorrow Yeah, 'cause that always makes things better for everyone. --- If I frowned any lower, I'd be tripping over my own face. <cite>Boge posted [p:877252787] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote><cite>FrenchCrunch posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SrRd_RacinG posted...</cite> <quote>God damn, sounds like she's not the one for you. But as it will likely go, you'll stick around for some more months of emotional trauma, abuse, probably on both ends (you both will suffer). Then eventually one of you will back out.</quote> actually that phase ended and now im in the apathy phase. ill just tell her when i see her later today. if it goes bad ill just get wasted at the family dinner tomorrow</quote> Yeah, 'cause that always makes things better for everyone.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:05:54 PM #6:	Boge posted... Yeah, 'cause that always makes things better for everyone. she's not gonna be there tomorrow, ill just get drunk and play video games with my cousins and such <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:877252873] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote><cite>Boge posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah, 'cause that always makes things better for everyone. </quote> she's not gonna be there tomorrow, ill just get drunk and play video games with my cousins and such</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leanaunfurled 04/15/17 3:07:55 PM #7:	Pretty sure she's gaslighting you. --- Currently Playing: Persona 5 http://i.imgur.com/AuAgV7V.jpg, http://i.imgur.com/UlBw1u1.jpg <cite>Leanaunfurled posted [p:877252977] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote>Pretty sure she's gaslighting you.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Boge 04/15/17 3:15:52 PM #8:	FrenchCrunch posted... Boge posted... Yeah, 'cause that always makes things better for everyone. she's not gonna be there tomorrow, ill just get drunk and play video games with my cousins and such Oh. You said family dinner. It made me think you had an event that you're going to with her and her family that you were going to get drunk to piss her off. --- If I frowned any lower, I'd be tripping over my own face. <cite>Boge posted [p:877253437] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote><cite>FrenchCrunch posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Boge posted...</cite> <quote>Yeah, 'cause that always makes things better for everyone. </quote> she's not gonna be there tomorrow, ill just get drunk and play video games with my cousins and such</quote> Oh. You said family dinner. It made me think you had an event that you're going to with her and her family that you were going to get drunk to piss her off.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:16:13 PM #9:	Leanaunfurled posted... Pretty sure she's gaslighting you. eh i think she's got undiagnosed bpd or something <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:877253457] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote><cite>Leanaunfurled posted...</cite> <quote>Pretty sure she's gaslighting you.</quote> eh i think she's got undiagnosed bpd or something</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
yanksfan4247 04/15/17 3:19:20 PM #10:	You dont love her Dont give an ultimatum just leave --- @macdamurderer GT: Mac Da Murderer <cite>yanksfan4247 posted [p:877253620] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote>You dont love her Dont give an ultimatum just leave</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Old NoiseTank 04/15/17 3:22:04 PM #11:	instead of an ultimatum (since those never work), maybe try talking it out bruh --- "This is why you always use gender neutral pronouns like xir/xim/zxir" - REMercsChamp <cite>Old NoiseTank posted [p:877253740] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote>instead of an ultimatum (since those never work), maybe try talking it out bruh</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:23:25 PM #12:	Old NoiseTank posted... instead of an ultimatum (since those never work), maybe try talking it out bruh oh if only i could post this convo/these phone calls. if only <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:877253816] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote><cite>Old NoiseTank posted...</cite> <quote>instead of an ultimatum (since those never work), maybe try talking it out bruh</quote> oh if only i could post this convo/these phone calls. if only</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Old NoiseTank 04/15/17 3:29:33 PM #13:	FrenchCrunch posted... Old NoiseTank posted... instead of an ultimatum (since those never work), maybe try talking it out bruh oh if only i could post this convo/these phone calls. if only Lol well if that's the case it seems like she's looking for something else man. 4/10 annoying then but I guess that's the way with dating --- "This is why you always use gender neutral pronouns like xir/xim/zxir" - REMercsChamp <cite>Old NoiseTank posted [p:877254165] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote><cite>FrenchCrunch posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Old NoiseTank posted...</cite> <quote>instead of an ultimatum (since those never work), maybe try talking it out bruh</quote> oh if only i could post this convo/these phone calls. if only</quote> Lol well if that's the case it seems like she's looking for something else man. 4/10 annoying then but I guess that's the way with dating</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:30:50 PM #14:	tried to apologize for last night and got it thrown back in my face "Thanks for fucking ruining everything" geez. mental wall is breaking yo. getting upset/annoyed/tired <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:877254245] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote>tried to apologize for last night and got it thrown back in my face "Thanks for fucking ruining everything" geez. mental wall is breaking yo. getting upset/annoyed/tired</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Leanaunfurled 04/15/17 3:32:15 PM #15:	Bipolar or not, it isn't on you or anyone else to put up with it. It isn't an excuse to be a bitch to other people, especially people she supposedly cares for. It's on her to get her shit together and seek out a way to manage it and she'd be lucky if you were there to support her in that endeavor. --- Currently Playing: Persona 5 http://i.imgur.com/AuAgV7V.jpg, http://i.imgur.com/UlBw1u1.jpg <cite>Leanaunfurled posted [p:877254331] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote>Bipolar or not, it isn't on you or anyone else to put up with it. It isn't an excuse to be a bitch to other people, especially people she supposedly cares for. It's on her to get her shit together and seek out a way to manage it and she'd be lucky if you were there to support her in that endeavor.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:33:45 PM #16:	Leanaunfurled posted... Bipolar or not, it isn't on you or anyone else to put up with it. It isn't an excuse to be a bitch to other people, especially people she supposedly cares for. It's on her to get her shit together and seek out a way to manage it and she'd be lucky if you were there to support her in that endeavor. for the record i prolly shouldnt say this to her right cuz im annoyed rn it seems like something i wanna do <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:877254417] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote><cite>Leanaunfurled posted...</cite> <quote>Bipolar or not, it isn't on you or anyone else to put up with it. It isn't an excuse to be a bitch to other people, especially people she supposedly cares for. It's on her to get her shit together and seek out a way to manage it and she'd be lucky if you were there to support her in that endeavor.</quote> for the record i prolly shouldnt say this to her right cuz im annoyed rn it seems like something i wanna do</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Roxborough4Ever 04/15/17 3:35:03 PM #17:	so when she is shaking her ass on other dudes in the club, you get upset? --- You feast on red herring because it is your birthright. <cite>Roxborough4Ever posted [p:877254480] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote>so when she is shaking her ass on other dudes in the club, you get upset?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
bob742omb 04/15/17 3:36:05 PM #18:	FrenchCrunch posted... tried to apologize for last night and got it thrown back in my face "Thanks for fucking ruining everything" geez. mental wall is breaking yo. getting upset/annoyed/tired you need to get out of this relationship <cite>bob742omb posted [p:877254548] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote><cite>FrenchCrunch posted...</cite> <quote>tried to apologize for last night and got it thrown back in my face "Thanks for fucking ruining everything" geez. mental wall is breaking yo. getting upset/annoyed/tired</quote> you need to get out of this relationship</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:37:16 PM #19:	Roxborough4Ever posted... so when she is shaking her ass on other dudes in the club, you get upset? lol what <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:877254623] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote><cite>Roxborough4Ever posted...</cite> <quote>so when she is shaking her ass on other dudes in the club, you get upset?</quote> lol what</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AlisLandale 04/15/17 3:38:52 PM #20:	FrenchCrunch posted... tried to apologize for last night and got it thrown back in my face "Thanks for fucking ruining everything" geez. mental wall is breaking yo. getting upset/annoyed/tired Think about telling her how spurning attempts at reconciliation make people less likely to reconcile in the future. --- Currently Binging: Ghost in the Shell - Stand Alone Complex http://i.imgtc.com/YQId2Bz.png <cite>AlisLandale posted [p:877254704] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote><cite>FrenchCrunch posted...</cite> <quote>tried to apologize for last night and got it thrown back in my face "Thanks for fucking ruining everything" geez. mental wall is breaking yo. getting upset/annoyed/tired</quote> Think about telling her how spurning attempts at reconciliation make people less likely to reconcile in the future.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FrenchCrunch 04/15/17 3:47:05 PM #21:	these days she isn't as self aware about her behavior, or if she is she just doesnt care. she used to be able to realize mid-meltdown if she was being irrational, then start over with a clear head. that doesnt really happen anymore. i guess it's gone? <cite>FrenchCrunch posted [p:877255147] in I feel lik... [t:75241299]...</cite> <quote>these days she isn't as self aware about her behavior, or if she is she just doesnt care. she used to be able to realize mid-meltdown if she was being irrational, then start over with a clear head. that doesnt really happen anymore. i guess it's gone?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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