Board 8 > My father's case got back from the Court of Appeals... he lost.

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TheRock1525 03/23/12 11:23:00 AM #1:	Everyone had said that this is one of the most one-sided rulings they've ever seen. And yet, the Court of Appeals rule it to be ok. The one chance he had of getting out of this mess, and it failed. And he's just further in debt now. F* this world. F* this stupid f**ing world. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man.* "You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. <cite>TheRock1525 posted [p:941567] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Everyone had said that this is one of the most one-sided rulings they've ever seen. And yet, the Court of Appeals rule it to be ok.The one chance he had of getting out of this mess, and it failed. And he's just further in debt now.F* this world. F* this stupid f***ing world. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man."You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gwindor 03/23/12 11:25:00 AM #2:	The world is cruel. I don't think there's anything I can do to help you. I'm sorry. -- "What if you just eat vegetarians?"-neonreaper "^ You are what you eat. ^_~"-Koiji <cite>Gwindor posted [p:941568] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> The world is cruel. I don't think there's anything I can do to help you. I'm sorry. -- "What if you just eat vegetarians?"-neonreaper"^ You are what you eat. ^_~"-Koiji </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
XIII_rocks 03/23/12 11:33:00 AM #3:	Augh :( -- XIII_rocks, the cream of XIII fanboyism. <cite>XIII_rocks posted [p:941569] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Augh :( -- XIII_rocks, the cream of XIII fanboyism. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
MrSmartGuy 03/23/12 11:34:00 AM #4:	=( -- Xbox GT/PSN name: TatteredUniform http://www.scuffletown.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/tRBE1.gif <cite>MrSmartGuy posted [p:941570] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> =( -- Xbox GT/PSN name: TatteredUniformhttp://www.scuffletown.org/wp-content/uploads/2010/05/tRBE1.gif </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BIGPUN9999 03/23/12 11:34:00 AM #5:	god dammit -- http://img24.imageshack.us/img24/2820/dogpunpngyr.png http://img72.imageshack.us/img72/7154/dogpun2pngqa.png <cite>BIGPUN9999 posted [p:941571] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> god dammit -- http://img24.imageshack.us/img24/2820/dogpunpngyr.pnghttp://img72.imageshack.us/img72/7154/dogpun2pngqa.png </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EndOfDiscOne 03/23/12 11:35:00 AM #6:	The judicial system is the worst part of America -- http://img.imgcake.com/fitgirljpgta.jpg <cite>EndOfDiscOne posted [p:941572] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> The judicial system is the worst part of America -- http://img.imgcake.com/fitgirljpgta.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Emporer_Kazbar 03/23/12 11:36:00 AM #7:	Sorry to hear, man. I wish I could help. -- Will not remove this line of my signature until the Seahawks, Jazz or Rockies win a title (Started 5-16-09) SuperNiceDog: Guru winner <cite>Emporer_Kazbar posted [p:941573] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Sorry to hear, man. I wish I could help. -- Will not remove this line of my signature until the Seahawks, Jazz or Rockies win a title (Started 5-16-09)SuperNiceDog: Guru winner </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GrapefruitKing 03/23/12 11:45:00 AM #8:	what was the case? -- http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lp3yjnfEQ31qzn70vo1_500.gif <cite>GrapefruitKing posted [p:941574] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> what was the case? -- http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lp3yjnfEQ31qzn70vo1_500.gif </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FashnQueenEtna 03/23/12 11:49:00 AM #9:	Damn sorry bro :( -- Mobile Chrono1219 <cite>FashnQueenEtna posted [p:941575] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Damn sorry bro :( -- Mobile Chrono1219 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EndOfDiscOne 03/23/12 11:54:00 AM #10:	*GrapefruitKing posted...* what was the case? I'm guessing his dad got f*ed over for not being able to pay alimony. I don't know, I haven't been keeping up with the developments to the story. -- http://img.imgcake.com/fitgirljpgta.jpg <cite>EndOfDiscOne posted [p:941576] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> GrapefruitKing posted...what was the case?I'm guessing his dad got f*ed over for not being able to pay alimony. I don't know, I haven't been keeping up with the developments to the story. -- http://img.imgcake.com/fitgirljpgta.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ShadowHalo17 03/23/12 12:25:00 PM #11:	Was child support part of it too? From what I recall Rock's mom is just... not cool. That really f*ing sucks. -- ~Halo Everybody run! http://img9.imageshack.us/img9/6195/furriese.jpg <cite>ShadowHalo17 posted [p:941577] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Was child support part of it too?From what I recall Rock's mom is just... not cool.That really f*ing sucks. -- ~Halo Everybody run!http://img9.imageshack.us/img9/6195/furriese.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CrimsonOcean 03/23/12 12:31:00 PM #12:	=\ sorry man -- http://img.imgcake.com/crimjpgpe.jpg Mo' buildings mo' problems ocean kinda grew on me like a flesh eating ...fungus. -BIGPUN9999 <cite>CrimsonOcean posted [p:941578] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> =\ sorry man -- http://img.imgcake.com/crimjpgpe.jpg Mo' buildings mo' problemsocean kinda grew on me like a flesh eating ...fungus. -BIGPUN9999 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheRock1525 03/23/12 12:43:00 PM #13:	No, just spousal support. I'm the youngest at 24. No, see, my mother was awarded $1600 a month in alimony payments and another $700 a month in "rent" payments for the house (even though my dad said he didn't want the house under any circumstances). Even when my dad was healthy and working, he only made $3600 a month take home. Meaning that before he even saw a dime of it, they were taking out $2300. He's working a 40+ hour a week job and he's only taking home $1300 a month at the end of the day. He got hurt in November of 2010 and was unable to work since then. However, they didn't reduce the alimony until October of last year, meaning while he was getting NO money they were still charging those amounts. When he finally got SSD they reduced it for $500 a month alimony ("rent" stayed the same). But he still had to pay back all of the previous alimony under the $1600 pricetag, meaning he had to take out a mortgage on the house to pay off the owed money. He only gets $2000 a month in SSD, meaning they're taking out $1200 before he even sees a dime. Keep in mind that he has to take care off all the bills of a 2900 square foot home, plus the taxes, plus other expenses (lawyer bills, credit card bills, water, heat, etc.). I try to pitch in all I can, but they took away my unemployment and I can't find a decent job to save my life (I haven't been able to get back to school thanks to this mess, either). This was the one hope, the light at the end of the tunnel that would at least let my dad get back on his feet. Give him a chance to start over. He got nothing. No reduction in alimony, no chance in the division of marital assets (which also ruled heavily in my mother's favor), nothing. God. F**ing. Dammit. That's all that I can say at this point. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man.* "You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. <cite>TheRock1525 posted [p:941579] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> No, just spousal support. I'm the youngest at 24.No, see, my mother was awarded $1600 a month in alimony payments and another $700 a month in "rent" payments for the house (even though my dad said he didn't want the house under any circumstances). Even when my dad was healthy and working, he only made $3600 a month take home. Meaning that before he even saw a dime of it, they were taking out $2300. He's working a 40+ hour a week job and he's only taking home $1300 a month at the end of the day.He got hurt in November of 2010 and was unable to work since then. However, they didn't reduce the alimony until October of last year, meaning while he was getting NO money they were still charging those amounts. When he finally got SSD they reduced it for $500 a month alimony ("rent" stayed the same). But he still had to pay back all of the previous alimony under the $1600 pricetag, meaning he had to take out a mortgage on the house to pay off the owed money. He only gets $2000 a month in SSD, meaning they're taking out $1200 before he even sees a dime. Keep in mind that he has to take care off all the bills of a 2900 square foot home, plus the taxes, plus other expenses (lawyer bills, credit card bills, water, heat, etc.). I try to pitch in all I can, but they took away my unemployment and I can't find a decent job to save my life (I haven't been able to get back to school thanks to this mess, either).This was the one hope, the light at the end of the tunnel that would at least let my dad get back on his feet. Give him a chance to start over. He got nothing. No reduction in alimony, no chance in the division of marital assets (which also ruled heavily in my mother's favor), nothing.God. F***ing. Dammit. That's all that I can say at this point. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man."You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ShadowHalo17 03/23/12 12:50:00 PM #14:	That's f*ed up. I can't remember if you discussed this before, but what is your current relationship with your mom? If I was you I wouldn't ever fing talk to her again. -- ~Halo* Now you learn the mistake of challenging me. http://img408.imageshack.us/img408/2734/hieis.jpg <cite>ShadowHalo17 posted [p:941580] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> That's f*ed up.I can't remember if you discussed this before, but what is your current relationship with your mom? If I was you I wouldn't ever f*ing talk to her again. -- ~Halo Now you learn the mistake of challenging me.http://img408.imageshack.us/img408/2734/hieis.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheRock1525 03/23/12 12:51:00 PM #15:	Haven't spoken to her in over a year. Only time I see her is when we're in court, and I usually just give her the finger. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man. "You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. <cite>TheRock1525 posted [p:941581] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Haven't spoken to her in over a year. Only time I see her is when we're in court, and I usually just give her the finger. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man."You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Biolizard28 03/23/12 12:54:00 PM #16:	Appealing was a bad decision, especially coming off "one of the most one-sided rulings they've ever seen." -- I like how each new topic you make reveals such varied facets of your idiocy. - foolmo [NO BARKLEY NO PEACE] <cite>Biolizard28 posted [p:941582] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Appealing was a bad decision, especially coming off "one of the most one-sided rulings they've ever seen." -- I like how each new topic you make reveals such varied facets of your idiocy. - foolmo[NO BARKLEY NO PEACE] </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheRock1525 03/23/12 12:57:00 PM #17:	*Biolizard28 posted...* Appealing was a bad decision, especially coming off "one of the most one-sided rulings they've ever seen." It was either appeal, or watch him shrivel up and die cause there's no chance in hell he can live a normal life under these conditions. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man. "You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. <cite>TheRock1525 posted [p:941583] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Biolizard28 posted...Appealing was a bad decision, especially coming off "one of the most one-sided rulings they've ever seen."It was either appeal, or watch him shrivel up and die cause there's no chance in hell he can live a normal life under these conditions. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man."You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Highwind89 03/23/12 12:58:00 PM #18:	That really sucks. Sorry to hear about that bud. Hope everything works out. <cite>Highwind89 posted [p:941584] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> That really sucks. Sorry to hear about that bud. Hope everything works out. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheRock1525 03/23/12 12:59:00 PM #19:	oh, and the court never ruled this but it was thrown into the final document anyway: my dad is paying for a life insurance policy that if he dies, my mother will get $100,000. Even when he's dead, she'll still be taking money from him. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man. "You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. <cite>TheRock1525 posted [p:941585] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> oh, and the court never ruled this but it was thrown into the final document anyway: my dad is paying for a life insurance policy that if he dies, my mother will get $100,000.Even when he's dead, she'll still be taking money from him. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man."You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheRock1525 03/23/12 1:00:00 PM #20:	*whatisurnameplz posted...* Your mother is a real ***** and it's sad how she can't move on from her divorce. What's she going to do with all that money, anyways? She bought a brand new car. In the meantime, my car that I bought with my money was considered marital assets because it wasn't in my name at the time, and therefore was sold off in the estate auction. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man. "You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. <cite>TheRock1525 posted [p:941586] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> whatisurnameplz posted...Your mother is a real ***** and it's sad how she can't move on from her divorce.What's she going to do with all that money, anyways?She bought a brand new car.In the meantime, my car that I bought with my money was considered marital assets because it wasn't in my name at the time, and therefore was sold off in the estate auction. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man."You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gwindor 03/23/12 1:01:00 PM #21:	At least she will die knowing that her own children will never love her. -- "What if you just eat vegetarians?"-neonreaper "^ You are what you eat. ^_~"-Koiji <cite>Gwindor posted [p:941587] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> At least she will die knowing that her own children will never love her. -- "What if you just eat vegetarians?"-neonreaper"^ You are what you eat. ^_~"-Koiji </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ShadowHalo17 03/23/12 1:01:00 PM #22:	From: TheRock1525 \| #015 Haven't spoken to her in over a year. Only time I see her is when we're in court, and I usually just give her the finger. Good man. -- ~Halo Rolling around at the speed of sound. http://img593.imageshack.us/img593/2417/sonicspeed.jpg <cite>ShadowHalo17 posted [p:941588] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> From: TheRock1525 \| #015Haven't spoken to her in over a year. Only time I see her is when we're in court, and I usually just give her the finger.Good man. -- ~Halo Rolling around at the speed of sound.http://img593.imageshack.us/img593/2417/sonicspeed.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Biolizard28 03/23/12 1:01:00 PM #23:	From: TheRock1525 \| #017 It was either appeal, or watch him shrivel up and die cause there's no chance in hell he can live a normal life under these conditions. As you said, losing the appeal has only made the situation worse. It's called cutting your losses. Not trying to be an ass, just stating facts. -- I like how each new topic you make reveals such varied facets of your idiocy. - foolmo [NO BARKLEY NO PEACE] <cite>Biolizard28 posted [p:941589] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> From: TheRock1525 \| #017It was either appeal, or watch him shrivel up and die cause there's no chance in hell he can live a normal life under these conditions.As you said, losing the appeal has only made the situation worse. It's called cutting your losses.Not trying to be an ass, just stating facts. -- I like how each new topic you make reveals such varied facets of your idiocy. - foolmo[NO BARKLEY NO PEACE] </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
whatisurnameplz 03/23/12 1:02:00 PM #24:	Your mother is a real *** and it's sad how she can't move on from her divorce. What's she going to do with all that money, anyways? edit: Also, I hope things improve for you. My money situation isn't so great for my family, too. -- SuperNiceDog has won. <cite>whatisurnameplz posted [p:941590] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Your mother is a real *** and it's sad how she can't move on from her divorce.What's she going to do with all that money, anyways?edit: Also, I hope things improve for you. My money situation isn't so great for my family, too. -- SuperNiceDog has won. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ShadowHalo17 03/23/12 1:03:00 PM #25:	From: Biolizard28 \| #024 Not trying to be an ass Does not compute. -- *~Halo* Give into the Night. http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a125/ShadowHalo/haloshadow1.gif <cite>ShadowHalo17 posted [p:941591] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> From: Biolizard28 \| #024Not trying to be an assDoes not compute. -- ~Halo Give into the Night.http://i10.photobucket.com/albums/a125/ShadowHalo/haloshadow1.gif </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
DpObliVion 03/23/12 1:05:00 PM #26:	Wow, this is some serious bulls*. Sorry man, hope things get better. -- NEW YORK GIANTS: SUPER BOWL XLII/XLVI CHAMPIONS! Save My South Park Episode! http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/8-/62333261 <cite>DpObliVion posted [p:941592] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Wow, this is some serious bulls*. Sorry man, hope things get better. -- NEW YORK GIANTS: SUPER BOWL XLII/XLVI CHAMPIONS!Save My South Park Episode! http://www.gamefaqs.com/boards/8-/62333261 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
greengravy294 03/23/12 1:06:00 PM #27:	Things like this makes me not want to ever get married. Probably better off just doing a civil union with another straight guy and just cheat on each other with women or whatever, since men aren't nearly as awful as most women are. Brilliant, i tell you. Anyways that sucks sorry bro -- Try hard. Camp harder. <cite>greengravy294 posted [p:941593] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Things like this makes me not want to ever get married. Probably better off just doing a civil union with another straight guy and just cheat on each other with women or whatever, since men aren't nearly as awful as most women are.Brilliant, i tell you.Anyways that sucks sorry bro -- Try hard.Camp harder. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheRock1525 03/23/12 1:06:00 PM #28:	Bio, you don't get it: He wasn't going to function under the conditions set by the ruling. He lost everything. The situation is still just as awful as it could have been had he done nothing. Adding the $10,000 is more an insult than "making the situation worse" because even without that money owed he was still f*ed. You can't go below fed. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man.* "You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. <cite>TheRock1525 posted [p:941594] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Bio, you don't get it:He wasn't going to function under the conditions set by the ruling. He lost everything. The situation is still just as awful as it could have been had he done nothing. Adding the $10,000 is more an insult than "making the situation worse" because even without that money owed he was still f*ed. You can't go below f*ed. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man."You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ashethan 03/23/12 1:13:00 PM #29:	Did you at least ask your mom to pay you for your car? Sucks that he lost though. Did he have a terrible lawyer? -- See You In Another Life, Brother. God, too busy to help the broncos on Sundays, gave them Manning <cite>Ashethan posted [p:941595] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Did you at least ask your mom to pay you for your car?Sucks that he lost though. Did he have a terrible lawyer? -- See You In Another Life, Brother.God, too busy to help the broncos on Sundays, gave them Manning </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
whatisurnameplz 03/23/12 1:16:00 PM #30:	From: Ashethan \| #029 Did you at least ask your mom to pay you for your car? Sucks that he lost though. Did he have a terrible lawyer? Why would he ask? The *** would just say "Oh, well I need to buy a brand new one because I don't give a about anyone but myself." -- SuperNiceDog has won. <cite>whatisurnameplz posted [p:941596] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> From: Ashethan \| #029Did you at least ask your mom to pay you for your car?Sucks that he lost though. Did he have a terrible lawyer?Why would he ask? The * would just say "Oh, well I need to buy a brand new one because I don't give a ** about anyone but myself." -- SuperNiceDog has won. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Highwind89 03/23/12 1:16:00 PM #31:	Don't listen to Bio, Rock. My parents just recently got divorced too. it hasn't been anywhere near as bad as your situation, and I really feel for you. If you ever want to talk just let me know. <cite>Highwind89 posted [p:941597] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Don't listen to Bio, Rock.My parents just recently got divorced too. it hasn't been anywhere near as bad as your situation, and I really feel for you. If you ever want to talk just let me know. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GrapefruitKing 03/23/12 1:17:00 PM #32:	what the f* is wrong with your mom I didn't know that people this awful existed in real life -- http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lp3yjnfEQ31qzn70vo1_500.gif <cite>GrapefruitKing posted [p:941598] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> what the f* is wrong with your momI didn't know that people this awful existed in real life -- http://29.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_lp3yjnfEQ31qzn70vo1_500.gif </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ShadowHalo17 03/23/12 1:18:00 PM #33:	Hey Rock, what about any siblings you have, what have they been doing and such? I hope none of them are on your mom's side. -- *~Halo* You're not the brightest. http://img404.imageshack.us/img404/907/bandfinisher.jpg <cite>ShadowHalo17 posted [p:941599] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Hey Rock, what about any siblings you have, what have they been doing and such? I hope none of them are on your mom's side. -- ~Halo You're not the brightest.http://img404.imageshack.us/img404/907/bandfinisher.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheRock1525 03/23/12 1:18:00 PM #34:	And keep in mind all this happened while he was having major back surgery. He can't even lay on his back anymore, he's under constant medication, he has only 30% movement in his right leg. And I feel so awful because he's trying to push me away, and he doesn't want to drag me down with him, but I could never live with myself if I just walked away. I remember back in August when I got back from Seattle, and he just broke down and cried saying how he didn't want to any of this for me and he wished I would have just stayed out there. What do I even do here? I spend so many sleepless nights trying to answer this damn question, and this ruling just makes everything worse. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man. "You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. <cite>TheRock1525 posted [p:941600] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> And keep in mind all this happened while he was having major back surgery. He can't even lay on his back anymore, he's under constant medication, he has only 30% movement in his right leg.And I feel so awful because he's trying to push me away, and he doesn't want to drag me down with him, but I could never live with myself if I just walked away. I remember back in August when I got back from Seattle, and he just broke down and cried saying how he didn't want to any of this for me and he wished I would have just stayed out there.What do I even do here? I spend so many sleepless nights trying to answer this damn question, and this ruling just makes everything worse. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man."You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ShadowHalo17 03/23/12 1:19:00 PM #35:	From: GrapefruitKing \| #032 I didn't know that people this awful existed in real life Well yeah. In fact they're usually worse in real life. -- *~Halo* Live, fight, survive, as a family. http://img267.imageshack.us/img267/7469/batfamily.jpg <cite>ShadowHalo17 posted [p:941601] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> From: GrapefruitKing \| #032I didn't know that people this awful existed in real lifeWell yeah. In fact they're usually worse in real life. -- ~Halo Live, fight, survive, as a family.http://img267.imageshack.us/img267/7469/batfamily.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ShadowHalo17 03/23/12 1:22:00 PM #36:	=( I wouldn't be able to walk away either. I can sympathize in the sense that I absolutely love my dad and I don't care much for my mom (but she's not a terrible person, just really annoying). So I'd be the same as you, I wouldn't be able to leave my dad behind like that. I guess the only thing you really can do is try your hardest to find a good job to help him out. It sucks no matter what. Or maybe formulate a plan to... get your mother out of the picture >_> -- ~Halo Rolling around at the speed of sound. http://img593.imageshack.us/img593/2417/sonicspeed.jpg <cite>ShadowHalo17 posted [p:941602] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> =(I wouldn't be able to walk away either. I can sympathize in the sense that I absolutely love my dad and I don't care much for my mom (but she's not a terrible person, just really annoying). So I'd be the same as you, I wouldn't be able to leave my dad behind like that.I guess the only thing you really can do is try your hardest to find a good job to help him out. It sucks no matter what.Or maybe formulate a plan to... get your mother out of the picture >_> -- ~Halo Rolling around at the speed of sound.http://img593.imageshack.us/img593/2417/sonicspeed.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
whatisurnameplz 03/23/12 1:22:00 PM #37:	From: TheRock1525 \| #034 And keep in mind all this happened while he was having major back surgery. He can't even lay on his back anymore, he's under constant medication, he has only 30% movement in his right leg. And I feel so awful because he's trying to push me away, and he doesn't want to drag me down with him, but I could never live with myself if I just walked away. I remember back in August when I got back from Seattle, and he just broke down and cried saying how he didn't want to any of this for me and he wished I would have just stayed out there. What do I even do here? I spend so many sleepless nights trying to answer this damn question, and this ruling just makes everything worse. Have your parents talked at all since their divorce? -- SuperNiceDog has won. <cite>whatisurnameplz posted [p:941603] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> From: TheRock1525 \| #034And keep in mind all this happened while he was having major back surgery. He can't even lay on his back anymore, he's under constant medication, he has only 30% movement in his right leg.And I feel so awful because he's trying to push me away, and he doesn't want to drag me down with him, but I could never live with myself if I just walked away. I remember back in August when I got back from Seattle, and he just broke down and cried saying how he didn't want to any of this for me and he wished I would have just stayed out there.What do I even do here? I spend so many sleepless nights trying to answer this damn question, and this ruling just makes everything worse.Have your parents talked at all since their divorce? -- SuperNiceDog has won. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Gwindor 03/23/12 1:26:00 PM #38:	I don't think people are getting that this woman is obviously evil. Actually evil. -- "What if you just eat vegetarians?"-neonreaper "^ You are what you eat. ^_~"-Koiji <cite>Gwindor posted [p:941604] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> I don't think people are getting that this woman is obviously evil. Actually evil. -- "What if you just eat vegetarians?"-neonreaper"^ You are what you eat. ^_~"-Koiji </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheRock1525 03/23/12 1:27:00 PM #39:	Did you at least ask your mom to pay you for your car? Sucks that he lost though. Did he have a terrible lawyer? Why would he ask? The *** would just say "Oh, well I need to buy a brand new one because I don't give a about anyone but myself." No, see, the sad part is that she wouldn't say that. She'd talk about how much she loved me and how she was just trying to protect her financial future (that's the bulls* answer I got when I begged her not to subpoena me to court). Hey Rock, what about any siblings you have, what have they been doing and such? I hope none of them are on your mom's side. My brother is home from Kentucky, he's completely oblivious to the going-ons or simply doesn't care. My sister... is a large reason why my parents divorced. My dad was always trying to get my sister to move out of the house (never forced her, just trying to get her work or to look at studios for her photography business). Her response was to run to my mother and they pretty much spent more time together (including sharing the same bed). My sister is now 30 years old and still lives with my mother. And my mother never actively discouraged this. She was so overprotective of us that any attempts to push us out of the house would have been met with hostility, so my dad never really went after like, honestly, he should have to at least separate the stranglehold my sister had on my mom. All the while, her being (at the time) in her late 20's, my brother was living in Utah and I was living 450 miles north. But my sister never left the house. She went to school locally. Any jobs she took were local, and she never even used her degree (she was in elementary education). So yeah, welcome to F**edupville. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man.* "You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. <cite>TheRock1525 posted [p:941605] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Did you at least ask your mom to pay you for your car?Sucks that he lost though. Did he have a terrible lawyer?Why would he ask? The *** would just say "Oh, well I need to buy a brand new one because I don't give a about anyone but myself."No, see, the sad part is that she wouldn't say that. She'd talk about how much she loved me and how she was just trying to protect her financial future (that's the bulls* answer I got when I begged her not to subpoena me to court).Hey Rock, what about any siblings you have, what have they been doing and such? I hope none of them are on your mom's side.My brother is home from Kentucky, he's completely oblivious to the going-ons or simply doesn't care.My sister... is a large reason why my parents divorced. My dad was always trying to get my sister to move out of the house (never forced her, just trying to get her work or to look at studios for her photography business). Her response was to run to my mother and they pretty much spent more time together (including sharing the same bed). My sister is now 30 years old and still lives with my mother. And my mother never actively discouraged this. She was so overprotective of us that any attempts to push us out of the house would have been met with hostility, so my dad never really went after like, honestly, he should have to at least separate the stranglehold my sister had on my mom. All the while, her being (at the time) in her late 20's, my brother was living in Utah and I was living 450 miles north. But my sister never left the house. She went to school locally. Any jobs she took were local, and she never even used her degree (she was in elementary education). So yeah, welcome to F***edupville. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man."You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ShadowHalo17 03/23/12 1:31:00 PM #40:	So your sister needs to be taken out as well. Maybe you could at least try to appeal to your brother. Get him to care and maybe the two of you can... do something, I don't know. Another big, big maybe would be to try and... talk to your mom and convince her to stop being an evil b**. But I can't honestly suggest that because we all know it won't work and that would also include talking to her. -- ~Halo Everybody run! http://img9.imageshack.us/img9/6195/furriese.jpg <cite>ShadowHalo17 posted [p:941606] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> So your sister needs to be taken out as well.Maybe you could at least try to appeal to your brother. Get him to care and maybe the two of you can... do something, I don't know.Another big, big maybe would be to try and... talk to your mom and convince her to stop being an evil b**. But I can't honestly suggest that because we all know it won't work and that would also include talking to her. -- ~Halo Everybody run!http://img9.imageshack.us/img9/6195/furriese.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Not_an_Owl 03/23/12 1:31:00 PM #41:	Would declaring bankruptcy help your dad at all? I'm no expert, but it seems like precisely the situation bankruptcy was made for. -- Besides, marijuana is far more harmful than steroids. - BlitzBomb I headbang to Bruckner. <cite>Not_an_Owl posted [p:941607] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Would declaring bankruptcy help your dad at all? I'm no expert, but it seems like precisely the situation bankruptcy was made for. -- Besides, marijuana is far more harmful than steroids. - BlitzBombI headbang to Bruckner. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheRock1525 03/23/12 1:33:00 PM #42:	*Not_an_Owl posted...* Would declaring bankruptcy help your dad at all? I'm no expert, but it seems like precisely the situation bankruptcy was made for. He's talked to a couple of bankruptcy lawyers. The problem is the house. It's a $200,000 asset. Having banks seize that would probably make the situation worse. He's better off trying to sell it on his own (which is what we're trying to do). -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man. "You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. <cite>TheRock1525 posted [p:941608] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Not_an_Owl posted...Would declaring bankruptcy help your dad at all? I'm no expert, but it seems like precisely the situation bankruptcy was made for.He's talked to a couple of bankruptcy lawyers. The problem is the house. It's a $200,000 asset. Having banks seize that would probably make the situation worse. He's better off trying to sell it on his own (which is what we're trying to do). -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man."You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dark Young Link 03/23/12 1:39:00 PM #43:	God damn.... that's... that's so **ed up. I'm sorry man. This isn't right at all. I hope the appeal goes better for you. -- http://img.imgcake.com/AlecTrevylan006/darkyounglinkshieldpngyg.png <cite>Dark Young Link posted [p:941609] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> God damn.... that's... that's so **ed up.I'm sorry man. This isn't right at all. I hope the appeal goes better for you. -- http://img.imgcake.com/AlecTrevylan006/darkyounglinkshieldpngyg.png </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheRock1525 03/23/12 1:39:00 PM #44:	I hope the appeal goes better for you. This was the appeal. He lost. It's over. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man. "You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. <cite>TheRock1525 posted [p:941610] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> I hope the appeal goes better for you.This was the appeal. He lost. It's over. -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man."You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dark Young Link 03/23/12 1:46:00 PM #45:	Oh........ I don't even know what to say. I don't even know how that could happen... -- http://img.imgcake.com/AlecTrevylan006/darkyounglinkshieldpngyg.png <cite>Dark Young Link posted [p:941611] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Oh........I don't even know what to say. I don't even know how that could happen... -- http://img.imgcake.com/AlecTrevylan006/darkyounglinkshieldpngyg.png </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EndOfDiscOne 03/23/12 2:05:00 PM #46:	*Not_an_Owl posted...* Would declaring bankruptcy help your dad at all? I'm no expert, but it seems like precisely the situation bankruptcy was made for. Fun fact: Bankruptcy doesn't clear your alimony or child support debts. At least that's how I remember it, it's been over a year since I took that section of the CPA exam. -- http://img.imgcake.com/fitgirljpgta.jpg <cite>EndOfDiscOne posted [p:941612] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Not_an_Owl posted...Would declaring bankruptcy help your dad at all? I'm no expert, but it seems like precisely the situation bankruptcy was made for.Fun fact: Bankruptcy doesn't clear your alimony or child support debts.At least that's how I remember it, it's been over a year since I took that section of the CPA exam. -- http://img.imgcake.com/fitgirljpgta.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Menji76 03/23/12 2:14:00 PM #47:	That sucks Rock, hang in there. =( From: EndOfDiscOne \| #046 *Not_an_Owl posted...* Would declaring bankruptcy help your dad at all? I'm no expert, but it seems like precisely the situation bankruptcy was made for. Fun fact: Bankruptcy doesn't clear your alimony or child support debts. At least that's how I remember it, it's been over a year since I took that section of the CPA exam. Yeah, it doesn't. This is like THE thing they look for when you submit the petition. -- Menji+ http://backloggery.com/menji/sig.gif http://www.yourgamercards.net/trophy/24/nb-menji.png <cite>Menji76 posted [p:941613] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> That sucks Rock, hang in there. =(From: EndOfDiscOne \| #046Not_an_Owl posted...Would declaring bankruptcy help your dad at all? I'm no expert, but it seems like precisely the situation bankruptcy was made for.Fun fact: Bankruptcy doesn't clear your alimony or child support debts.At least that's how I remember it, it's been over a year since I took that section of the CPA exam.Yeah, it doesn't. This is like THE thing they look for when you submit the petition. -- Menji+ http://backloggery.com/menji/sig.gifhttp://www.yourgamercards.net/trophy/24/nb-menji.png </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RPGLord95 03/23/12 2:28:00 PM #48:	Rock your mom is easily one of my least favorite B8 characters. Hate that heartless b**. -- Whiskey Nick at work The most American Canadian on Board 8 - #9 Bro on Board 8 <cite>RPGLord95 posted [p:941614] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Rock your mom is easily one of my least favorite B8 characters. Hate that heartless b**. -- Whiskey Nick at workThe most American Canadian on Board 8 - #9 Bro on Board 8 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Biolizard28 03/23/12 2:34:00 PM #49:	From: TheRock1525 \| #039 No, see, the sad part is that she wouldn't say that. She'd talk about how much she loved me and how she was just trying to protect her financial future (that's the bulls*** answer I got when I begged her not to subpoena me to court). Have you ever considered that this might actually be what she actually thinks? I know you and a few others in this topic would rather jam a sharp object in their eye than talk to this woman, but appealing to her seems to be the only way you'll ever get out of this mess. Have you even tried to reason with her or have you been stuck in "grrr b**** stupid woman grrr" mode ever since the divorce? I shouldn't have to tell you that now isn't a good time to burn bridges. -- I like how each new topic you make reveals such varied facets of your idiocy. - foolmo [NO BARKLEY NO PEACE] <cite>Biolizard28 posted [p:941615] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> From: TheRock1525 \| #039No, see, the sad part is that she wouldn't say that. She'd talk about how much she loved me and how she was just trying to protect her financial future (that's the bulls* answer I got when I begged her not to subpoena me to court).Have you ever considered that this might actually be what she actually thinks?I know you and a few others in this topic would rather jam a sharp object in their eye than talk to this woman, but appealing to her seems to be the only way you'll ever get out of this mess. Have you even tried to reason with her or have you been stuck in "grrr b** stupid woman grrr" mode ever since the divorce?I shouldn't have to tell you that now isn't a good time to burn bridges. -- I like how each new topic you make reveals such varied facets of your idiocy. - foolmo[NO BARKLEY NO PEACE] </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheRock1525 03/23/12 2:52:00 PM #50:	*Biolizard28 posted...* From: TheRock1525 \| #039 No, see, the sad part is that she wouldn't say that. She'd talk about how much she loved me and how she was just trying to protect her financial future (that's the bulls* answer I got when I begged her not to subpoena me to court). Have you ever considered that this might actually be what she actually thinks? I know you and a few others in this topic would rather jam a sharp object in their eye than talk to this woman, but appealing to her seems to be the only way you'll ever get out of this mess. Have you even tried to reason with her or have you been stuck in "grrr b stupid woman grrr" mode ever since the divorce? I shouldn't have to tell you that now isn't a good time to burn bridges. She filed for divorce in March of 2010. Up until August 2010 I was trying to reason with her. I didn't burn any bridge. She did. Hell, I was OK with them getting a divorce until I found out she lied to me and it wasn't mutual. Hell, she didn't even have the audacity to tell him, he was just serve papers one day while they were still in the house together. But even though I was upset with her, I was still moving back and forth between the both of them. She used the same excuse every time: I love you but I have to protect my financial future. Keep in mind by "protecting" her future, she's completely destroyed my father's. Also, she's got a bachelor's degree and is fully capable of working full time (she quit her job about 5-6 years ago because she didn't want to work more than 8 hours a week). What kind of fed up world do we live in where a woman fully capable of working with no disabilities can just say "I don't feel like working anymore, this guy I hate can support me from now on" and the court system says "OK." I can understand maybe a year's worth to help her get started and get her own life together, but this is for the rest of my dad's life. I mean, why should you be allowed to have financial security from a person you want nothing to do with? If she didn't want to be around my father anymore, fine. But why should she get all the financial benefits of having him around? Why does she get to ruin his finances just to "protect" her own? -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man.* "You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. <cite>TheRock1525 posted [p:941616] in My father&... [t:62334030]...</cite> <quote> Biolizard28 posted...From: TheRock1525 \| #039No, see, the sad part is that she wouldn't say that. She'd talk about how much she loved me and how she was just trying to protect her financial future (that's the bulls* answer I got when I begged her not to subpoena me to court).Have you ever considered that this might actually be what she actually thinks?I know you and a few others in this topic would rather jam a sharp object in their eye than talk to this woman, but appealing to her seems to be the only way you'll ever get out of this mess. Have you even tried to reason with her or have you been stuck in "grrr b stupid woman grrr" mode ever since the divorce?I shouldn't have to tell you that now isn't a good time to burn bridges.She filed for divorce in March of 2010. Up until August 2010 I was trying to reason with her. I didn't burn any bridge. She did.Hell, I was OK with them getting a divorce until I found out she lied to me and it wasn't mutual. Hell, she didn't even have the audacity to tell him, he was just serve papers one day while they were still in the house together. But even though I was upset with her, I was still moving back and forth between the both of them.She used the same excuse every time: I love you but I have to protect my financial future. Keep in mind by "protecting" her future, she's completely destroyed my father's. Also, she's got a bachelor's degree and is fully capable of working full time (she quit her job about 5-6 years ago because she didn't want to work more than 8 hours a week). What kind of f*ed up world do we live in where a woman fully capable of working with no disabilities can just say "I don't feel like working anymore, this guy I hate can support me from now on" and the court system says "OK." I can understand maybe a year's worth to help her get started and get her own life together, but this is for the rest of my dad's life.I mean, why should you be allowed to have financial security from a person you want nothing to do with? If she didn't want to be around my father anymore, fine. But why should she get all the financial benefits of having him around? Why does she get to ruin his finances just to "protect" her own? -- TheRock ~ Slow dramatic zoom-pan. Doesn't phase the hooded man."You have issues." - MWC. Pot. Kettle. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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