Current Events > Woman pretends to be a man on tinder. Instantly gets depressed.

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myzz7 04/28/22 8:50:59 AM #1:	from another forum --- I(33f) decided to help my brother(31m) with OLD apps. He has been struggling with dating and OLD apps for 3 years now and parents are concerned about his mental health. So I invited him to stay with me for a couple of weeks and told him that I would help him "*fix" his dating app profiles as I was certain that he was doing something wrong. He halfheartedly agreed and brought a second phone that I could use. He is 6'0'', 165 lbs and has moderately good looks. He has a stable job which makes him good money. I set up his account on Tinder and Bumble, and completed his profile, description etc on his second phone. I also swiped and initially chatted with the women who matched with the profile. My aim was to show him how to talk to women to keep them interested in him because his main complaint was that they never respond. I thought of sending the first few messages and then letting him continue the conversation. It has been 2 weeks now, my experience has been utter garbage. Nobody wants to have a conversation. I don't quite understand why. Maybe I am doing something wrong? I feel depressed, probably because all these years, I kept telling him that he was doing something wrong. I always thought that only rude, broke, obese, unhygienic and bad looking men sucked at dating apps and others had a fair chance. Well, I was in for a rude awakening. This is what I experienced. Very few matches, when compared to what we women get. He got a few matches on the first couple of days. Post that, it's just a match or 2 a day. I used to get scores of "good" matches everyday when I used OLD for myself - and I was very picky. Hardly any responses from his matches. Women just don't want to have anything to do with him. This was perhaps what affected me the most. I watched in despair as matches just kept expiring. Sometimes they would stop after a few messages and other times they wouldn't even send a message or a reply. I have used bumble and tinder myself. Men don't do this. 90 percent of men respond to the first message. This is worse than getting a dick pic (which has happened to me a few times). At least the person on the other side wants you - even if it is just for sex. Imagine being ignored like a piece of trash. That's what it felt like. 90 percent of the matches never initiated the conversation on responded to the first message. How is he supposed to get a date when there are no responses from the other side. Very poor quality matches. Most women who matched with his profile were nowhere close to his educational qualifications or salary range. In fact, there wasn't even a single match who initiated a conversation that I would say matched his salary and education level. I never had this problem on OLD apps. There were loads of men who were either equal or better than me in salary and education. I met my current bf on bumble and he makes as much as I do. I don't know why men even go through this.* He seems to be okay with this experience and is holding his own - I don't understand how. I know we can't change the dating scene much. The least we can do is empathize with the person instead of telling them they are doing something wrong. Honestly, I don't even know if I am doing anything wrong myself. I am just doing what worked for me. I am going to ask him to stop using OLD and go out there. I am sure he will find it easier to find a good woman to date in real life. --- zoomers are screwed. hell half the millennials are too, aging into their 30s with no family. escape out of the apps and social media for true romance. --- ''If I knew how to dox people, and you lived close to me, I would beat you with a bat.'' Bad_Mojo 8/24/2018 <cite>myzz7 posted [p:964632127] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>from another forum --- I(33f) decided to help my brother(31m) with OLD apps. He has been struggling with dating and OLD apps for 3 years now and parents are concerned about his mental health. So I invited him to stay with me for a couple of weeks and told him that I would help him "fix" his dating app profiles as I was certain that he was doing something wrong. He halfheartedly agreed and brought a second phone that I could use. He is 6'0'', 165 lbs and has moderately good looks. He has a stable job which makes him good money. I set up his account on Tinder and Bumble, and completed his profile, description etc on his second phone. I also swiped and initially chatted with the women who matched with the profile. My aim was to show him how to talk to women to keep them interested in him because his main complaint was that they never respond. I thought of sending the first few messages and then letting him continue the conversation. It has been 2 weeks now, my experience has been utter garbage. Nobody wants to have a conversation. I don't quite understand why. Maybe I am doing something wrong? I feel depressed, probably because all these years, I kept telling him that he was doing something wrong. I always thought that only rude, broke, obese, unhygienic and bad looking men sucked at dating apps and others had a fair chance. Well, I was in for a rude awakening. This is what I experienced. Very few matches, when compared to what we women get. He got a few matches on the first couple of days. Post that, it's just a match or 2 a day. I used to get scores of "good" matches everyday when I used OLD for myself - and I was very picky.Hardly any responses from his matches. Women just don't want to have anything to do with him. This was perhaps what affected me the most. I watched in despair as matches just kept expiring. Sometimes they would stop after a few messages and other times they wouldn't even send a message or a reply. I have used bumble and tinder myself. Men don't do this. 90 percent of men respond to the first message. This is worse than getting a dick pic (which has happened to me a few times). At least the person on the other side wants you - even if it is just for sex. Imagine being ignored like a piece of trash. That's what it felt like. 90 percent of the matches never initiated the conversation on responded to the first message. How is he supposed to get a date when there are no responses from the other side.Very poor quality matches. Most women who matched with his profile were nowhere close to his educational qualifications or salary range. In fact, there wasn't even a single match who initiated a conversation that I would say matched his salary and education level. I never had this problem on OLD apps. There were loads of men who were either equal or better than me in salary and education. I met my current bf on bumble and he makes as much as I do.I don't know why men even go through this. He seems to be okay with this experience and is holding his own - I don't understand how. I know we can't change the dating scene much. The least we can do is empathize with the person instead of telling them they are doing something wrong. Honestly, I don't even know if I am doing anything wrong myself. I am just doing what worked for me. I am going to ask him to stop using OLD and go out there. I am sure he will find it easier to find a good woman to date in real life. --- zoomers are screwed. hell half the millennials are too, aging into their 30s with no family. escape out of the apps and social media for true romance. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BlackBlueButts 04/28/22 8:52:26 AM #2:	Women get too much attention, men don't get enough attention. Wish there was a way to balance the scales. --- I like black and blue butts <cite>BlackBlueButts posted [p:964632152] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Women get too much attention, men don't get enough attention. Wish there was a way to balance the scales. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Were_Wyrm 04/28/22 8:54:06 AM #3:	BlackBlueButts posted... Wish there was a way to balance the scales. Start collecting infinity stones --- I was a God, Valeria. I found it...beneath me. - Dr. Doom https://i.imgur.com/0EJvC4l.jpg <cite>Were_Wyrm posted [p:964632170] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>BlackBlueButts posted... </cite> <quote>Wish there was a way to balance the scales.</quote>Start collecting infinity stones </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
s0nicfan 04/28/22 8:55:41 AM #4:	Reminds me of this story: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-Made_Man_(book) --- "History Is Much Like An Endless Waltz. The Three Beats Of War, Peace And Revolution Continue On Forever." - Gundam Wing: Endless Waltz <cite>s0nicfan posted [p:964632194] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Reminds me of this story: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-Made_Man_(book) </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 04/28/22 8:56:32 AM #5:	So she admitted she has been picky when she used apps, and that she got tons of messages. But she is somehow surprised that means most guys don't get a response? --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:964632207] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>So she admitted she has been picky when she used apps, and that she got tons of messages. But she is somehow surprised that means most guys don't get a response? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Antifar 04/28/22 8:56:52 AM #6:	This is the first time I've seen OLD used as an acronym for online dating. Can't say I like it. --- kin to all that throbs <cite>Antifar posted [p:964632211] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>This is the first time I've seen OLD used as an acronym for online dating. Can't say I like it. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 04/28/22 8:56:57 AM #7:	"Out there" sounds like a great place. Is it on the bus line? --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:964632213] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>"Out there" sounds like a great place. Is it on the bus line? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ThyCorndog 04/28/22 8:59:30 AM #8:	gunplagirl posted... So she admitted she has been picky when she used apps, and that she got tons of messages. But she is somehow surprised that means most guys don't get a response? Lol indeed --- https://i.imgur.com/6cPXvLN.jpg https://i.imgur.com/hVC4i6j.jpg <cite>ThyCorndog posted [p:964632251] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>gunplagirl posted... </cite> <quote>So she admitted she has been picky when she used apps, and that she got tons of messages. But she is somehow surprised that means most guys don't get a response?</quote>Lol indeed </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ANort175 04/28/22 9:00:20 AM #9:	Antifar posted... This is the first time I've seen OLD used as an acronym for online dating. Can't say I like it. Exactly what I was thinking. --- Are we the baddies? <cite>ANort175 posted [p:964632266] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Antifar posted... </cite> <quote>This is the first time I've seen OLD used as an acronym for online dating. Can't say I like it.</quote> Exactly what I was thinking. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
g0ldie 04/28/22 9:00:26 AM #10:	maybe she just doesn't know how to talk to women --- https://imgur.com/mApEnf3 <cite>g0ldie posted [p:964632268] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>maybe she just doesn't know how to talk to women </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teep_ 04/28/22 9:00:40 AM #11:	Stuff like this is why I don't want to get into online dating tbh. My self esteem is fragile enough as it is --- The world is cruel but I still love you <cite>teep_ posted [p:964632272] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Stuff like this is why I don't want to get into online dating tbh. My self esteem is fragile enough as it is </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KainWind 04/28/22 9:01:26 AM #12:	Antifar posted... This is the first time I've seen OLD used as an acronym for online dating. Can't say I like it. Thank you. It only took me reading your post twice to finally figure out why she kept saying OLD. --- Momentai <cite>KainWind posted [p:964632280] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Antifar posted... </cite> <quote>This is the first time I've seen OLD used as an acronym for online dating. Can't say I like it.</quote> Thank you. It only took me reading your post twice to finally figure out why she kept saying OLD. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Esrac 04/28/22 9:05:05 AM #13:	s0nicfan posted... Reminds me of this story: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-Made_Man_(book) Yeah, I've read that book a few years back. The relevant tl;dr version is a lesbian thought she would masquerade as a man for a while and, when it came to dating, found that it is actually really hard for a guy; there is a lot more pressure as a man and that women are very cold and cruel to the men they reject. She admits that she faced so much rejection that she struggled with feeling resentment toward women in general. <cite>Esrac posted [p:964632333] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>s0nicfan posted... </cite> <quote>Reminds me of this story: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-Made_Man_(book)</quote> Yeah, I've read that book a few years back. The relevant tl;dr version is a lesbian thought she would masquerade as a man for a while and, when it came to dating, found that it is actually really hard for a guy; there is a lot more pressure as a man and that women are very cold and cruel to the men they reject. She admits that she faced so much rejection that she struggled with feeling resentment toward women in general. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lebronwon 04/28/22 9:12:04 AM #14:	Reminds me of this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iNONlWyD_kU --- Not 1, not 2, not 3, not 4, not 5, not 6, not 7 <cite>Lebronwon posted [p:964632446] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Reminds me of this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iNONlWyD_kU </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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darkbuster 04/28/22 9:19:30 AM #16:	Translation: Spend a few weeks as a man, & incels don't seem so incomprehensible anymore. Seriously, she admits to how picky she was herself, then feels surprised how difficult it would be for those on the other end of this mentality? It's amazing how few people can truly manage critical thinking. --- Remember kids, it's only an RPG until someone gets hit with a meteor; Then it's a JRPG! SSBB: 3869 0521 7142 <cite>darkbuster posted [p:964632567] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Translation: Spend a few weeks as a man, & incels don't seem so incomprehensible anymore. Seriously, she admits to how picky she was herself, then feels surprised how difficult it would be for those on the other end of this mentality? It's amazing how few people can truly manage critical thinking. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 04/28/22 9:24:55 AM #17:	Also, cishet dating in general is still easy mode. If I was managing a match or two a day between all my accounts back when I heavily used them, I'd have been a happy camper. Heck, I can't remember the list time I matched with a cis woman who didn't turn out to be one of those "husband/ bf and me looking for a third" accounts. darkbuster posted... Translation: Spend a few weeks as a man, & incels don't seem so incomprehensible anymore. Seriously, she admits to how picky she was herself, then feels surprised how difficult it would be for those on the other end of this mentality? It's amazing how few people can truly manage critical thinking. Most people lack any genuine sense of self awareness. Or even a sense of self in any greater context than literally just what they deal with directly on a regular basis. --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:964632655] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Also, cishet dating in general is still easy mode. If I was managing a match or two a day between all my accounts back when I heavily used them, I'd have been a happy camper. Heck, I can't remember the list time I matched with a cis woman who didn't turn out to be one of those "husband/ bf and me looking for a third" accounts. darkbuster posted... </cite> <quote>Translation: Spend a few weeks as a man, & incels don't seem so incomprehensible anymore. Seriously, she admits to how picky she was herself, then feels surprised how difficult it would be for those on the other end of this mentality? It's amazing how few people can truly manage critical thinking.</quote>Most people lack any genuine sense of self awareness. Or even a sense of self in any greater context than literally just what they deal with directly on a regular basis. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
AdrianBeterson 04/28/22 9:26:10 AM #18:	I was drunk one night and used Snapchats gender swap feature to make a tinder account using a female version picture of me. The results I got in one hour are below: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/5/6/AAazv-AADLaE.jpg This was on a profile with one picture, no description and zero effort. I have never had this much success as a man. I promptly deleted my account and have never touched online dating since then. Just imagine, if a dude pretending to be a woman who is using a grainy Snapchat gender swap picture gets this much attention, imagine what an AVERAGE looking woman gets, let alone a decently attractive one. Its no wonder that good, quality men have a hard time on online dating. Its horrible out there as a man in online dating. --- https://imgur.com/EvtcK3P <cite>AdrianBeterson posted [p:964632673] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>I was drunk one night and used Snapchats gender swap feature to make a tinder account using a female version picture of me. The results I got in one hour are below: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/5/6/AAazv-AADLaE.jpg This was on a profile with one picture, no description and zero effort. I have never had this much success as a man. I promptly deleted my account and have never touched online dating since then. Just imagine, if a dude pretending to be a woman who is using a grainy Snapchat gender swap picture gets this much attention, imagine what an AVERAGE looking woman gets, let alone a decently attractive one. Its no wonder that good, quality men have a hard time on online dating. Its horrible out there as a man in online dating. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cobra1010 04/28/22 9:27:23 AM #19:	This this what happens when the census of these dating apps are likely to be 30:1 men to women. --- Rule #17: Don't be a Hero - Unnecessary risks are risks that shouldn't be taken. <cite>Cobra1010 posted [p:964632685] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>This this what happens when the census of these dating apps are likely to be 30:1 men to women. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
gunplagirl 04/28/22 9:27:56 AM #20:	Cobra1010 posted... This this what happens when the census of these dating apps are likely to be 30:1 men to women. That's true --- tfw no big tiddy goth vampire gf who lactates blood - viewmaster_pi <cite>gunplagirl posted [p:964632698] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Cobra1010 posted... </cite> <quote>This this what happens when the census of these dating apps are likely to be 30:1 men to women.</quote>That's true </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Esrac 04/28/22 9:43:19 AM #21:	AdrianBeterson posted... I was drunk one night and used Snapchats gender swap feature to make a tinder account using a female version picture of me. The results I got in one hour are below: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/5/6/AAazv-AADLaE.jpg This was on a profile with one picture, no description and zero effort. I have never had this much success as a man. I promptly deleted my account and have never touched online dating since then. Just imagine, if a dude pretending to be a woman who is using a grainy Snapchat gender swap picture gets this much attention, imagine what an AVERAGE looking woman gets, let alone a decently attractive one. Its no wonder that good, quality men have a hard time on online dating. Its horrible out there as a man in online dating. Online Dating Apps in general were a mistake. <cite>Esrac posted [p:964632955] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>AdrianBeterson posted... </cite> <quote>I was drunk one night and used Snapchats gender swap feature to make a tinder account using a female version picture of me. The results I got in one hour are below: https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/5/6/AAazv-AADLaE.jpg This was on a profile with one picture, no description and zero effort. I have never had this much success as a man. I promptly deleted my account and have never touched online dating since then. Just imagine, if a dude pretending to be a woman who is using a grainy Snapchat gender swap picture gets this much attention, imagine what an AVERAGE looking woman gets, let alone a decently attractive one. Its no wonder that good, quality men have a hard time on online dating. Its horrible out there as a man in online dating.</quote> Online Dating Apps in general were a mistake. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Choco 04/28/22 10:01:55 AM #22:	The least we can do is empathize with the person instead of telling them they are doing something wrong. yup, and not just in dating --- https://i.imgur.com/286sD4e.png http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html <cite>Choco posted [p:964633288] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote><quote>The least we can do is empathize with the person instead of telling them they are doing something wrong.</quote>yup, and not just in dating </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Strider102 04/28/22 10:04:37 AM #23:	The average woman blah blah --- Last Cloudia ID: 188850453 <cite>Strider102 posted [p:964633330] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>The average woman blah blah </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ilishe 04/28/22 10:07:16 AM #24:	She talks a lot about salary and education because those are apparently what determines a person's worth. --- ~Phoenix Nine~ ~Victory needs no explanation; defeat allows none.~ <cite>Ilishe posted [p:964633391] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>She talks a lot about salary and education because those are apparently what determines a person's worth. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Strider102 04/28/22 10:07:36 AM #25:	Maybe she should try dating her brother. --- Last Cloudia ID: 188850453 <cite>Strider102 posted [p:964633395] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Maybe she should try dating her brother. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
KylianMbappe 04/28/22 10:09:22 AM #26:	Men: use shitty pictures, swipe right on every girl and send the most boring, generic small talk intros Also men: "Why is no one responding to us" LOL ok stop being self deprecating get a haircut, stop wearing cargo shorts and have someone take nice pictures of you and be creative for success instead of complaining about women. tinder is literally a red carpet for men to get laid if you try <cite>KylianMbappe posted [p:964633432] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Men: use shitty pictures, swipe right on every girl and send the most boring, generic small talk intros Also men: "Why is no one responding to us" LOL ok stop being self deprecating get a haircut, stop wearing cargo shorts and have someone take nice pictures of you and be creative for success instead of complaining about women. tinder is literally a red carpet for men to get laid if you try </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Heartomaton 04/28/22 10:11:51 AM #27:	Can confirm. Using dating apps is a source of near-constant psychological torture and heartache. https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/9/5/AAcI8BAADLar.jpg --- https://www.youtube.com/user/Heartomaton Heartomaton for President 2028. <cite>Heartomaton posted [p:964633487] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Can confirm. Using dating apps is a source of near-constant psychological torture and heartache. https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/1/9/5/AAcI8BAADLar.jpg </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JuanCarlos1 04/28/22 10:12:32 AM #28:	BlackBlueButts posted... Women get too much attention, men don't get enough attention. Wish there was a way to balance the scales. Having money --- Mas dicen, que en las dimensiones de nuestro ser... hay muchos detalles por conocer... <cite>JuanCarlos1 posted [p:964633499] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>BlackBlueButts posted... </cite> <quote>Women get too much attention, men don't get enough attention. Wish there was a way to balance the scales.</quote> Having money </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
viewmaster_pi 04/28/22 10:13:40 AM #29:	KylianMbappe posted... Men: use shitty pictures, swipe right on every girl and send the most boring, generic small talk intros Also men: "Why is no one responding to us" LOL ok stop being self deprecating get a haircut, stop wearing cargo shorts and have someone take nice pictures of you and be creative for success instead of complaining about women. tinder is literally a red carpet for men to get laid if you try why break out an alt for this --- Don't turn away and leave me to plead in this hole of a place <cite>viewmaster_pi posted [p:964633519] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>KylianMbappe posted... </cite> <quote>Men: use shitty pictures, swipe right on every girl and send the most boring, generic small talk intros Also men: "Why is no one responding to us" LOL ok stop being self deprecating get a haircut, stop wearing cargo shorts and have someone take nice pictures of you and be creative for success instead of complaining about women. tinder is literally a red carpet for men to get laid if you try</quote>why break out an alt for this </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Solution_45 04/28/22 10:19:10 AM #30:	KylianMbappe posted... Men: use shitty pictures, swipe right on every girl and send the most boring, generic small talk intros Also men: "Why is no one responding to us" LOL ok stop being self deprecating get a haircut, stop wearing cargo shorts and have someone take nice pictures of you and be creative for success instead of complaining about women. tinder is literally a red carpet for men to get laid if you try hey now don't get crazy <cite>Solution_45 posted [p:964633627] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>KylianMbappe posted... </cite> <quote>Men: use shitty pictures, swipe right on every girl and send the most boring, generic small talk intros Also men: "Why is no one responding to us" LOL ok stop being self deprecating get a haircut, stop wearing cargo shorts and have someone take nice pictures of you and be creative for success instead of complaining about women. tinder is literally a red carpet for men to get laid if you try</quote> hey now don't get crazy </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Oubliettes 04/28/22 10:27:07 AM #31:	no one worth having sex with gives a shit about cargo shorts --- http://i.imgur.com/ozVGOuh.png <cite>Oubliettes posted [p:964633755] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>no one worth having sex with gives a shit about cargo shorts </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sad_Face 04/28/22 10:30:15 AM #32:	myzz7 posted... I feel depressed, probably because all these years, I kept telling him that he was doing something wrong. I always thought that only rude, broke, obese, unhygienic and bad looking men sucked at dating apps and others had a fair chance. lololol this is great. A rule of thumb I have is that if you notice a decent percentage of people have a problem (Something that's far beyond "you're the only one I know with X problem"), there's some societal effect that makes it a lot harder for them to do on their own. I'm not trying to discredit personal responsibility, but there's some a line between something people with common knowledge should be able to accomplish versus having to sit down, diagnose the situation and engineer a solution with consultation for outside perspectives, that's a lot to expect the general populace to do without giving up. s0nicfan posted... Reminds me of this story: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-Made_Man_(book) Esrac posted... The relevant tl;dr version is a lesbian thought she would masquerade as a man for a while and, when it came to dating, found that it is actually really hard for a guy; there is a lot more pressure as a man and that women are very cold and cruel to the men they reject. She admits that she faced so much rejection that she struggled with feeling resentment toward women in general. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ip7kP_dd6LU I need to pick up the book because I thought this 20 minute piece was quite solid. --- https://i.imgur.com/WmIB016.jpg https://i.imgur.com/53FGj6K.gif <cite>Sad_Face posted [p:964633814] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>myzz7 posted... </cite> <quote>I feel depressed, probably because all these years, I kept telling him that he was doing something wrong. I always thought that only rude, broke, obese, unhygienic and bad looking men sucked at dating apps and others had a fair chance.</quote> lololol this is great. A rule of thumb I have is that if you notice a decent percentage of people have a problem (Something that's far beyond "you're the only one I know with X problem"), there's some societal effect that makes it a lot harder for them to do on their own. I'm not trying to discredit personal responsibility, but there's some a line between something people with common knowledge should be able to accomplish versus having to sit down, diagnose the situation and engineer a solution with consultation for outside perspectives, that's a lot to expect the general populace to do without giving up. s0nicfan posted... </cite> <quote>Reminds me of this story: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Self-Made_Man_(book)</quote>Esrac posted... </cite> <quote>The relevant tl;dr version is a lesbian thought she would masquerade as a man for a while and, when it came to dating, found that it is actually really hard for a guy; there is a lot more pressure as a man and that women are very cold and cruel to the men they reject. She admits that she faced so much rejection that she struggled with feeling resentment toward women in general.</quote> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ip7kP_dd6LU I need to pick up the book because I thought this 20 minute piece was quite solid. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Master Kazuya 04/28/22 10:35:54 AM #33:	Im some ways it's a blessing in disguise, the less rejection phases you, the better you are at making choices. Even if you go from caring the most on the planet to the second most, it's still progress. It fucking sucks though and sometimes the sting of just wanting to snuggle up for the night but being alone gets to me. --- itt my post is the best <cite>Master Kazuya posted [p:964633927] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Im some ways it's a blessing in disguise, the less rejection phases you, the better you are at making choices. Even if you go from caring the most on the planet to the second most, it's still progress. It fucking sucks though and sometimes the sting of just wanting to snuggle up for the night but being alone gets to me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ExtremeLuchador 04/28/22 10:36:23 AM #34:	FYI, there are plenty of good politicians who want to tear down this hook-up culture and restore our great values running this year. --- "It was horrible," guard Jeff McInnis said. "I took 100 naps and we were still in the air." <cite>ExtremeLuchador posted [p:964633934] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>FYI, there are plenty of good politicians who want to tear down this hook-up culture and restore our great values running this year. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Turtlebread 04/28/22 10:37:25 AM #35:	ExtremeLuchador posted... FYI, there are plenty of good politicians who want to tear down this hook-up culture and restore our great values running this year. please tell me more!!! --- http://i.imgur.com/yCW15Zn.jpg <cite>Turtlebread posted [p:964633950] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>ExtremeLuchador posted... </cite> <quote>FYI, there are plenty of good politicians who want to tear down this hook-up culture and restore our great values running this year.</quote> please tell me more!!! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sad_Face 04/28/22 10:39:28 AM #36:	ExtremeLuchador posted... FYI, there are plenty of good politicians who want to tear down this hook-up culture and restore our great values running this year. I'd be very very interested in hearing their ideas on how they intend to accomplish this. I can't imagine there'd be a solution that everyone would be happy with to eliminate the hook-up culture. --- https://i.imgur.com/WmIB016.jpg https://i.imgur.com/53FGj6K.gif <cite>Sad_Face posted [p:964633989] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>ExtremeLuchador posted... </cite> <quote>FYI, there are plenty of good politicians who want to tear down this hook-up culture and restore our great values running this year.</quote> I'd be very very interested in hearing their ideas on how they intend to accomplish this. I can't imagine there'd be a solution that everyone would be happy with to eliminate the hook-up culture. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Heartomaton 04/28/22 10:41:09 AM #37:	ExtremeLuchador posted... FYI, there are plenty of good politicians who want to tear down this hook-up culture and restore our great values running this year. Stop trying to recruit incels into right-wing lunacy. They don't need help with that. --- https://www.youtube.com/user/Heartomaton Heartomaton for President 2028. <cite>Heartomaton posted [p:964634021] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>ExtremeLuchador posted... </cite> <quote>FYI, there are plenty of good politicians who want to tear down this hook-up culture and restore our great values running this year.</quote> Stop trying to recruit incels into right-wing lunacy. They don't need help with that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Oubliettes 04/28/22 10:41:11 AM #38:	Sad_Face posted... I'd be very very interested in hearing their ideas on how they intend to accomplish this. I can't imagine there'd be a solution that everyone would be happy with to eliminate the hook-up culture. mandatory ice cream socials boom --- http://i.imgur.com/ozVGOuh.png <cite>Oubliettes posted [p:964634022] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Sad_Face posted... </cite> <quote>I'd be very very interested in hearing their ideas on how they intend to accomplish this. I can't imagine there'd be a solution that everyone would be happy with to eliminate the hook-up culture.</quote> mandatory ice cream socials boom </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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CyricZ 04/28/22 10:53:51 AM #40:	Oubliettes posted... mandatory ice cream socials boom I am in favor of these even not factoring in the potential for relationships. --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:964634250] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Oubliettes posted... </cite> <quote>mandatory ice cream socials boom</quote>I am in favor of these even not factoring in the potential for relationships. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
sktgamer_13dude 04/28/22 10:53:56 AM #41:	KylianMbappe posted... Men: use shitty pictures, swipe right on every girl and send the most boring, generic small talk intros Also men: "Why is no one responding to us" LOL ok stop being self deprecating get a haircut, stop wearing cargo shorts and have someone take nice pictures of you and be creative for success instead of complaining about women. tinder is literally a red carpet for men to get laid if you try whos alt --- http://i.imgur.com/jWVrg9U.gif http://i.imgur.com/g2efUtT.jpg http://i.imgur.com/5dOwhaP.jpg http://i.imgur.com/LVdqu8J.gif Go Cougs and M's RIP SMV 2/25/21 <cite>sktgamer_13dude posted [p:964634251] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>KylianMbappe posted...</cite> <quote>Men: use shitty pictures, swipe right on every girl and send the most boring, generic small talk intros Also men: "Why is no one responding to us" LOL ok stop being self deprecating get a haircut, stop wearing cargo shorts and have someone take nice pictures of you and be creative for success instead of complaining about women. tinder is literally a red carpet for men to get laid if you try </quote> whos alt</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ruvan22 04/28/22 11:09:40 AM #42:	CyricZ posted... I am in favor of these even not factoring in the potential for relationships. But wait!! It's not ice cream but frogurt.... <cite>Ruvan22 posted [p:964634544] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>CyricZ posted... </cite> <quote>I am in favor of these even not factoring in the potential for relationships.</quote> But wait!! It's not ice cream but frogurt.... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FortuneCookie 04/28/22 11:10:52 AM #43:	BlackBlueButts posted... Women get too much attention, men don't get enough attention. Wish there was a way to balance the scales. Genie: Granted! men everywhere suddenly grow boobs <cite>FortuneCookie posted [p:964634557] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>BlackBlueButts posted... </cite> <quote>Women get too much attention, men don't get enough attention. Wish there was a way to balance the scales.</quote> Genie: Granted! men everywhere suddenly grow boobs </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CyricZ 04/28/22 11:12:35 AM #44:	Ruvan22 posted... But wait!! It's not ice cream but frogurt.... That's good! --- CyricZ He/him <cite>CyricZ posted [p:964634595] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Ruvan22 posted... </cite> <quote>But wait!! It's not ice cream but frogurt....</quote>That's good! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bananadra 04/28/22 11:15:22 AM #45:	Lol @ incels --- Your signature is automatically appended to the bottom of every post you make. <cite>Bananadra posted [p:964634655] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Lol @ incels </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 04/28/22 11:16:28 AM #46:	Lebronwon posted... Reminds me of this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iNONlWyD_kU Naruto party for isis lol --- All posters and events depicted in this post are entirely fictitious. Any similarity to actual events or posters, living or dead, is purely coincidental. <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:964634683] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Lebronwon posted... </cite> <quote>Reminds me of this video https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iNONlWyD_kU</quote>Naruto party for isis lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lorenzo_2003 04/28/22 11:16:40 AM #47:	KylianMbappe posted... tinder is literally a red carpet for men to get laid if you try Lol. Bruh, no. Just no. --- ... <cite>Lorenzo_2003 posted [p:964634688] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>KylianMbappe posted... </cite> <quote>tinder is literally a red carpet for men to get laid if you try</quote> Lol. Bruh, no. Just no. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EricDraven 04/28/22 11:57:42 AM #48:	dating sites shouldnt be taken seriously --- It can't rain all the time. :p <cite>EricDraven posted [p:964635424] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>dating sites shouldnt be taken seriously </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
random_man9119 04/28/22 12:00:12 PM #49:	myzz7 posted... it's just a match or 2 a day. I wish I was even this lucky... I've only gotten 2 matches in the 5 years I've used Tinder... --- NNID:MrOddities\|PSN:OddGamer2013 Playing:Pokemon Penumbra Moon\|Pokemon Black\|Lego Star Wars: The Skywalker Saga\|AI: The Somnium Files\|LoZ: The Minish Cap <cite>random_man9119 posted [p:964635462] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>myzz7 posted... </cite> <quote>it's just a match or 2 a day.</quote> I wish I was even this lucky... I've only gotten 2 matches in the 5 years I've used Tinder... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Questionmarktarius 04/28/22 12:06:09 PM #50:	Thanos was right about online dating all along https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EzWNBmjyv7Y <cite>Questionmarktarius posted [p:964635568] in Woman pret... [t:80001857]...</cite> <quote>Thanos was right about online dating all along https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EzWNBmjyv7Y </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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