Current Events > Woman pretends to be a man on tinder. Instantly gets depressed.

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Lunar_Savage posted...

Thankfully, they're still optional...

Just because it exists doesn't mean it has to be used. Only way to break anything under a capitalist system is to tank it financially.

Damn near impossible. Dating apps are held up by the layman desperate to find a relationship. They're the ones funding those apps, not the ladies, and not the minority of guys getting most of the matches. You'd need to create a more sustainable platform that would more consistently benefit the larger population for them to stop funneling money into those dating apps. And the hook up culture isn't going away because of there's no immediate risk or consequences to hooking up. Until you remove the insane accessibility that connects people (dating apps) and create consequences to hooking over getting commitment to a relationship first, or just create a platform that generates more relationships for the mass majority altogether, those dating apps are here to stay.

And I'm convinced if Gladius posted made a topic on dating app adventure, where CE chooses her swipes and tells her what to text, she'd have a metric ton more success. The guy CE matches her up with just won't a heartthrob though.

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I'd legit want to at least grab a drink if I matched with someone like this LOL

Antifar posted...

This is the first time I've seen OLD used as an acronym for online dating. Can't say I like it.

It's popular among the unhinged FDS crowd; basically female incels.

Dudes having no luck on tinder should expand their horizons and try Grindr

Gwynevere posted...

Dudes having no luck on tinder should expand their horizons and try Grindr

Its all guys there right?

Back when I used Tinder it was literally just for an ego boost. I'd never dream of messaging my matches. It was just nice to see someone else picked you.

Gwynevere posted...

Dudes having no luck on tinder should expand their horizons and try Grindr

Not all men are bisexual or gay, grindr is for men seeking men not women.

Antifar posted...

This is the first time I've seen OLD used as an acronym for online dating. Can't say I like it.

Yes its tacky and lazy

ZeroV2 posted...

Youre saying almost every single person you match with online is toxic?

Lol, reminds me of the saying:

If you meet an asshole in the morning, you just met an asshole.
If you made it to the end of the day and all you met were assholes, you are actually the asshole.

Personally, I know a handful of people who really do think everyone else is the problem. Its somehow never their fault when theres a breakup, for example.

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I dunno about that....

I don't know why more people don't realize this. Tinder is a hookup app for people who want someone hot to fuck for the night. If you're using it to look for a genuine relationship especially as an average guy then you're setting yourself up for disappointment. Regular guys should focus on meeting women in person.

XxAxem_BlackxX posted...

I don't know why more people don't realize this. Tinder is a hookup app for people who want someone hot to fuck for the night. If you're using it to look for a genuine relationship especially as an average guy then you're setting yourself up for disappointment. Regular guys should focus on meeting women in person.

I seem to recall Tinder being advertised as a dating app initially, I don't know if it still is, but it was advertised as finding someone to date, and then people realized they could just use it to fuck and leave.

Crazyman93 posted...

I seem to recall Tinder being advertised as a dating app initially, I don't know if it still is, but it was advertised as finding someone to date, and then people realized they could just use it to fuck and leave.

I had been led to believe that Tinder is effectively a Dating App with a "hookup" skin attached. Like yeah you can use it for hookups if you want, but its far from the only thing you can do there.

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Yes, you did not say that and that wasnt my intention, sorry.

ZeroV2s question merely reminded me of that saying, which I have not thought of in I dunno, years.

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@Gladius_



Thanks for the polite discussion. Ive been guilty of participating in aggressive, hostile arguments here in the past, so Im a little numb to it now and sometimes forget to speak clearly. Anyway, Im glad youre offering your perspective here. I will consider what you said about believing people are generally more good than bad. It would be better for us, if you are right about that and I am wrong. Peace.

Gladius_ posted...

Those were really my only 5 criterias.

Fair criteria. And the CE posters telling you to restrict to 5'10'' and up were leading to the same selectivity trap that a lot of girls find themselves in.

But to think your position as a girl is worse than being an average guy, in the dating world in the West, that's not true. At least you're a blip on the map compared to most guys who are invisible and never get any chance.

RiKuToTheMiGhtY posted...

Not all men are bisexual or gay, grindr is for men seeking men not women.

Not with that attitude

Are women on Grindr?

Will_VIIII posted...

Are women on Grindr?

Probably not as it is for gay men or bisexual men looking for a man.

is it more acceptable for women to weed out men by height, age, and weight then men doing that? the famous "no fat chicks" worse or the same weight as "no small dick" or "no manlets" from women?

myzz7 posted...

is it more acceptable for women to weed out men by height, age, and weight then men doing that? the famous "no fat chicks" worse or the same weight as "no small dick" or "no manlets" from women?

Strong incel vibes with this comment

thinking of changing my profile to "abort me", thoughts?