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Doom_Art 10/11/20 7:07:42 PM #1: |
...when I can't hang out.
This is all very disappointing Is it weird to get hung up on this stuff? I really liked her but this bugs me. --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 https://imgur.com/mPvcy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The Trent 10/11/20 7:08:32 PM #2: |
you're cheating on her arent you?!
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DDirtyDastard 10/11/20 7:08:46 PM #3: |
She's never been to school? Does she know how to read?
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The Trent 10/11/20 7:09:01 PM #4: |
she knows you are
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monkmith 10/11/20 7:09:08 PM #5: |
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Compsognathus 10/11/20 7:09:11 PM #6: |
Weird? No. Heck never went to school and unemployed would have been a non-starter for me.
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nevershine 10/11/20 7:10:16 PM #7: |
so shes basically jodie foster from Nell?
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SrRd_RacinG 10/11/20 7:11:46 PM #9: |
This is a woman waving multiple red flags in your face.
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Doom_Art 10/11/20 7:12:11 PM #10: |
Should add I didn't know about the lack of employment or education before I started seeing her
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Doom_Art 10/11/20 7:13:03 PM #11: |
DDirtyDastard posted...
She's never been to school? Does she know how to read?I meant like college or university lol --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 https://imgur.com/mPvcy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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ghostblob 10/11/20 7:14:19 PM #13: |
Doom_Art posted...
I meant like college or university lolWow, that's snobby as fuck to care ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Obstacle2 10/11/20 7:14:21 PM #14: |
Lack of post-secondary education doesn't bother me that much, unless she's a ratchet type. Would not date someone unemployed though. Unless it's temporary and she's actively looking. The third one is just women in general.
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CRON 10/11/20 7:15:11 PM #15: |
Sounds exactly like my ex lmao
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unclekoolaid73 10/11/20 7:17:04 PM #16: |
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Pitlord_Special 10/11/20 7:19:30 PM #18: |
If those things are important to you, why not discuss them earlier before you got more involved with this person?
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DDirtyDastard 10/11/20 7:19:59 PM #19: |
Doom_Art posted...
I meant like college or university lol Oh so she's debt free? That's a plus. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AmericaTheBrave 10/11/20 7:21:00 PM #20: |
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MedeaLysistrata 10/11/20 7:21:55 PM #21: |
sounds like a nonconformist winner TC, stick with her
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I4NRulez 10/11/20 7:23:54 PM #22: |
Doom_Art posted...
I meant like college or university lol Eh, ive dated girls who didnt either. As long as they work hard and make their own money im cool. If shes unemployed because of COVID then thats something but if shes been unemployed for a while thats a red flag for me --- The night brims with defiled scum,and is permeated by their rotten stench. Just think. Now you're all set to hunt and kill to your heart's content. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Twelf 10/11/20 7:38:17 PM #23: |
Doom_Art posted...
Nerd. --- *sighs* ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doom_Art 10/11/20 7:39:29 PM #24: |
Yea I grew up in/live in a college town. It's also not quite as prohibitively expensive here as in the US so its just my experience that most people had some kinda postsecondary education
As for the unemployment stuff, she doesn't seem particularly ambitious and I've inferred through shit that she was jobless prior to the lockdown. --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 https://imgur.com/mPvcy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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emblem boy 10/11/20 7:44:45 PM #25: |
Ask her what her future plans and goals are. It's not weird to be wary of getting into a long term relationship with someone who's future plans you're so unsure of.
Like, ya, I get that some people might not have big career or financial goals, but does she have any other things that she's got going on, like hobbies? Just in the conversation, don't make it sound like you're belittling her or whatever. The college part is whatever. College educated people overestimate how many people have degrees --- Pitter-patter, let's get at 'er ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JimCarrysToe 10/11/20 7:48:11 PM #27: |
I'm sorry I tricked you into a relationship with me.
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Doom_Art 10/11/20 7:56:31 PM #28: |
emblem boy posted...
Ask her what her future plans and goals are. It's not weird to be wary of getting into a long term relationship with someone who's future plans you're so unsure of.That's just it, she doesn't seem into much of anything productive. Watches stuff, listens to music, doesn't drive, walks/hikes She's made comments about and OF (which doesn't bug me at all) but also mentioning she hasn't updated/promoted it in a long time. --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 https://imgur.com/mPvcy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doom_Art 10/11/20 8:03:12 PM #30: |
And yea, as for the getting weird stuff, she mentions feeling insecure when I mention I can't hang out/stay over at her place.
The thing that spurred this topic was when we hung out on Friday she suggested I stay over Saturday night, I mentioned I had to work that day since we had a particular client at work and had made plans with some friends later in the evening but would let her know how things were going. She said that's not a problem. I messaged her around 8ish last night to say that I probably wouldn't be able to make it. She told me that it was all good and told me to have fun. Then I get a message from her today saying "Hey. I realized it did bother me that you didn't come over last night." --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 https://imgur.com/mPvcy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Blue_Inigo 10/11/20 8:06:23 PM #31: |
No job? Unemployed before quarantine? No ambition? She belongs to the streets.
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Romulox28 10/11/20 8:07:52 PM #32: |
Doom_Art posted...
And yea, as for the getting weird stuff, she mentions feeling insecure when I mention I can't hang out/stay over at her place.
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3PiesAndAFork 10/11/20 8:10:35 PM #33: |
Make sure to not let her sabotage your condoms.
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Doom_Art 10/11/20 8:10:40 PM #34: |
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get the hell out of there my dude, sneak out a window if you have to and RUNyeah typing it all out i was like "what the fuck am I doing here" just rather disappointed because i did rather like her quite a bit prior to this and she seemed genuinely excited we were finally an item lol --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 https://imgur.com/mPvcy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doom_Art 10/11/20 8:16:16 PM #35: |
3PiesAndAFork posted...
Make sure to not let her sabotage your condoms.>_> --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 https://imgur.com/mPvcy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pkmas1702 10/11/20 8:18:00 PM #36: |
3PiesAndAFork posted...
Make sure to not let her sabotage your condoms.Damn. --- I'm gonna stand outside. If anyone asks, I'm outstanding. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Beyond01 10/11/20 8:26:48 PM #37: |
Doom_Art posted...
I meant like college or university lol Someone is high maintenance. --- Here we go ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Doom_Art 10/11/20 8:27:52 PM #38: |
Beyond01 posted...
Someone is high maintenance.I'll never argue with you on that --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 https://imgur.com/mPvcy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Romulox28 10/11/20 8:30:01 PM #39: |
Doom_Art posted...
yeahim sure she is a really cool & sweet girl but imo that is not enough for an adult relationship. sounds like she needs to do a lot of work on herself now and if she isnt taking any steps to improve, basically you're catching her on what is bound to be a gradual decline. ofc telling you to gtfo is easy but actually doing that is hard, im just warning you that i get the vibe she is going to become increasingly more and more reliant on you (financially, emotionally, etc) and it will be a drain --- ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Touch 10/11/20 8:30:27 PM #40: |
So does she live with her parents or something? Cuz then how is she paying rent? Not saying living with parents is a bad thing
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Pkmas1702 10/11/20 8:31:46 PM #41: |
Romulox28 posted...
im sure she is a really cool & sweet girl but imo that is not enough for an adult relationship. sounds like she needs to do a lot of work on herself now and if she isnt taking any steps to improve, basically you're catching her on what is bound to be a gradual decline. ofc telling you to gtfo is easy but actually doing that is hard, im just warning you that i get the vibe she is going to become increasingly more and more reliant on you (financially, emotionally, etc) and it will be a drainThis. --- I'm gonna stand outside. If anyone asks, I'm outstanding. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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tremain07 10/11/20 8:33:20 PM #42: |
Get rid of the trash, TC. I can say that because I'm trash myself. She's going nowhere and will drag you with her so long as you're with her, the clinginess tells me she's got Zero social skills or friends or a social life at all that doesn't involve you.
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rideshort 10/11/20 8:37:49 PM #43: |
Unless you are trying to save her because you like each other, GTFO. This girl has no ambition and sticking to someone like that can be toxic. Since this is bothering you, speak your mind and tell her.
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NeonOctopus 10/11/20 8:40:53 PM #44: |
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jon1012 10/11/20 8:44:06 PM #45: |
Post a pic
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Doom_Art 10/11/20 11:52:28 PM #46: |
So that's over lol
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emblem boy 10/11/20 11:54:36 PM #47: |
What happened?
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Doom_Art 10/11/20 11:58:33 PM #48: |
emblem boy posted...
What happened?Responded to her (rather harshly, as a friend pointed out) I just said that we had talked about it last night and the night before, that this wasn't the first time she's reacted this way, and that I felt as though I had to walk on eggshells or stress out whenever I couldn't hang out with her. We went back and forth and decided to step back and cool off. I will not be stepping back in. --- Not removing this until Mega Man 64 is released on the Wii Virtual Console. Started on: 12/1/2009 https://imgur.com/mPvcy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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nothanks1 10/12/20 12:06:32 AM #49: |
>global recession
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SSMajinVegeta2 10/12/20 12:18:46 AM #50: |
Other peoples problems arent your problems bro.
decide between is it worth the investment or is it. just be careful. --- On my business card, I am a corporate president. In my mind, I am a game developer. But in my heart, I am a gamer. Satoru Iwata, 1959 - 2015 RIP GP God bless ... Copied to Clipboard!
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SwordMaster13X 10/12/20 12:19:51 AM #51: |
How old was she?
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LostForest 10/12/20 12:19:55 AM #52: |
Doom_Art posted...
I meant like college or university lol This really isn't a big deal then. I thought you meant she dropped out of high school or something lol. --- ForestLogic alt. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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