Poll of the Day > Been increasing the compliments toward my wife recently. Getting more sex now.

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Far-Queue
04/20/17 2:06:51 PM
#1:


Not a bad trade-off.

Just been a bit more affectionate and been helping around the house a bit. Not even all that much. Her mood is better, and she's been more amenable to permitting my dangly man-parts to enter her luscious sanctuary.
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Jen0125
04/20/17 2:07:50 PM
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so you normally don't help around the house?

why not?
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dragon504
04/20/17 2:14:46 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
so you normally don't help around the house?

why not?


Maybe he works and she doesn't?
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Muffinz0rz
04/20/17 2:18:53 PM
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dragon504 posted...
Jen0125 posted...
so you normally don't help around the house?

why not?


Maybe he works and she doesn't?

did you just assume their gender(s)?
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dragon504
04/20/17 2:20:36 PM
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Muffinz0rz posted...
dragon504 posted...
Jen0125 posted...
so you normally don't help around the house?

why not?


Maybe he works and she doesn't?

did you just assume their gender(s)?


Yes.
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Far-Queue
04/20/17 4:53:51 PM
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I do help out, but I could help out more. I do dishes and laundry mostly, take out the trash. Fix stuff. But I rarely do floors or dust, and that's what I've been doing more of the past few weeks. I've taken to washing the bathroom, which I know she appreciates.

The attention and the compliments are the biggest factor in her being happier lately. Not that I wasn't affectionate before, just that after 10 years and two kids, things cooled off between us I guess. Especially after the second kid. We're just so busy and tired all the time. She works second shift and I work mornings. It's easy to "forget" to be intimate with everything else going on, if that makes sense.
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Muffinz0rz
04/20/17 5:00:22 PM
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Get a hotel some weekend and just go bananas
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Junpeiclover
04/20/17 5:07:34 PM
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Far-Queue posted...
We're just so busy and tired all the time. She works second shift and I work mornings. It's easy to "forget" to be intimate with everything else going on, if that makes sense.


I'm no love doctor, but there is no way in hell y'all are so tired you guys can't be intimate or at least talk about it enough to plan something

I have no experience with marriage whatsoever but if she is being "nicer" after you gave hew more compliments you may just not be showing her enough love :(
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Jen0125
04/20/17 5:12:37 PM
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Junpeiclover posted...

I'm no love doctor, but there is no way in hell y'all are so tired you guys can't be intimate or at least talk about it enough to plan something

I have no experience with marriage whatsoever but if she is being "nicer" after you gave hew more compliments you may just not be showing her enough love :(


you also don't have children

why are you talking about things you admit you have no knowledge of
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Doctor Foxx
04/20/17 5:14:28 PM
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Being helped with housework and treated nicely does make doing dirty things more appealing

Glad you figured it out
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Blue_Thunder
04/20/17 5:18:03 PM
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Isn't that Good Husband 101 though?
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RedPixel
04/20/17 5:20:03 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
wynaut?

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_AdjI_
04/20/17 5:36:59 PM
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Junpeiclover posted...
I have no experience with marriage whatsoever but if she is being "nicer" after you gave hew more compliments you may just not be showing her enough love :(


Well, yes. That much is pretty obvious. It's pretty easy to take a relationship for granted and stop putting effort into maintaining it when life gets busy, especially in the emotional intimacy department (since it doesn't have as clear a measurable outcome as "did we have sex? Y/N"). TC's realized that, and started putting a bit more effort into showing his wife he loves her.
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dragon504
04/20/17 5:38:58 PM
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Good deal though tc, glad your life is a bit better. Even if it was good before, improvement is nice.
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DXMG
04/20/17 6:13:35 PM
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lol, if you were doing it right you wouldnt need permission.

And you woldnt need to do housework and all that either, becuase wen she gets mad at you for being lazy, you make it up to her with the D.
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Jen0125
04/20/17 6:22:21 PM
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DXMG posted...
lol, if you were doing it right you wouldnt need permission.

And you woldnt need to do housework and all that either, becuase wen she gets mad at you for being lazy, you make it up to her with the D.


first half is rapist

second half is true virgin

am confused
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-Komaiko54-
04/20/17 6:30:44 PM
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DXMG posted...

And you woldnt need to do housework and all that either, becuase wen she gets mad at you for being lazy, you make it up to her with the D.


I have never heard this working in my entire life :p
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Jen0125
04/20/17 6:48:51 PM
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DXMG posted...

Thats becuase you're an idiot. Let me explain:

You dont need permission becaUse she is begging for it all the time.

Second part should make sense in that context. If not Ill explain that part too.


yeah spoken like a true virgin
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DXMG
04/20/17 7:53:53 PM
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-Komaiko54- posted...
DXMG posted...

And you woldnt need to do housework and all that either, becuase wen she gets mad at you for being lazy, you make it up to her with the D.


I have never heard this working in my entire life :p


Looks like you are doing it wrong too. :D
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-Komaiko54-
04/20/17 9:06:49 PM
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Bill Cosby posted...
-Komaiko54- posted...
Bill Cosby posted...

And you woldnt need to do housework and all that either, becuase wen she gets mad at you for being lazy, you make it up to her with the D.


I have never heard this working in my entire life :p


Looks like you are doing it wrong too. :D


bruh are you even married
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DXMG
04/20/17 10:28:48 PM
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-Komaiko54- posted...
Bill Cosby posted...
-Komaiko54- posted...
Bill Cosby posted...

And you woldnt need to do housework and all that either, becuase wen she gets mad at you for being lazy, you make it up to her with the D.


I have never heard this working in my entire life :p


Looks like you are doing it wrong too. :D


bruh are you even married


yep
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dedbus
04/20/17 10:47:43 PM
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Cool, what does she do to earn sex with you? But either way it was noble of you to meet her half way and go the entire other half as well.
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DXMG
04/20/17 11:34:31 PM
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OK well I was just messin with you guys by posting douchey versions of what i actually think, but since people actually seem interested in the topic, the BS I said before does have root in fact. To start by answering your question:

She does nothing. If you are doing it right, sex isnt a commodity. If she feels frisky she lets me know, if I feel frisky I let her know, if the time/situation is good we get down. As it happens, my wife is frisky a lot,

As for "permission" - I mean, I don't ask for permission to cook breakfast right? I say "Hey Imma cook some breakfast, do you want some eggs n toast?" and she either says yes or no. Same deal. I am not getting "permission" to cook breakfast, I am stating an intent or desire to do something, asking if she wants to join me. If the answer is yes, it isnt permission by a granting authority to a request from position of inferior power, it is an agreement to partake in an activity as equals.

it kinda surprises me with you kids being so allegedly progressive these days that you hold onto such an outmoded 1950s way of thinking about the "luscious sanctuary" and all that nonsense.
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