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AzNDarkSamurai
03/09/24 1:58:10 AM
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If youre rich and powerful, I assume you can get most girls you talk to

You can likely even bang the pretty girl working at Whole Foods for free if you show them youre a baller

so whats the point really? I understand if you do this if you have no other way of getting with a girl but. why if youre rich and you can pretty much get any girl you want?

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Enclave
03/09/24 2:00:20 AM
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AzNDarkSamurai posted...
if youre rich and you can pretty much get any girl you want?

Because contrary to what some believe? This isn't actually true.

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Dark_Arbron
03/09/24 2:02:25 AM
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Enclave posted...
Because contrary to what some believe? This isn't actually true.

Its not true that you can get any woman you want but having money makes it far easier through sheer probability. They dont even have to be the gold digging type - being successful is simply an attractive quality to most people for financial security reasons, e even if its not their primary interest.

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Ninjaluver
03/09/24 2:03:08 AM
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Your premises are incorrect, and that's why you're not able to understand the conclusion.

No, the "pretty girl at Whole Foods" is not going to bang you if you "show them you're a baller". They're likely to call you a tool and post you on social media or contact the police.
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Aloc
03/09/24 2:04:16 AM
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Ninjaluver posted...
Your premises are incorrect, and that's why you're not able to understand the conclusion.

No, the "pretty girl at Whole Foods" I'd not going to bang you if you "show them you're a baller". They're likely to call you a tool and post you on social media or contact the police.
If you're an obnoxious nfl quarterback who makes 50m a year, yes you will yet her number.

Maybe the 60 year old balding guy who makes that money will repulse her. But the young rich handsome guy? She will out up with his shit

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sabin017
03/09/24 2:05:08 AM
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Ask Bruce Wayne.

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Umbreon
03/09/24 2:05:15 AM
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Athletes and celebrities perhaps.

But a lot of other wealthy people only really have their wealth to offer.

Status > Money it seems. Though money certainly buys a lot.

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Aloc
03/09/24 2:07:23 AM
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Shockthemonkey?

Are you serious?


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Ninjaluver
03/09/24 2:08:24 AM
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Aloc posted...
If you're an obnoxious nfl quarterback who makes 50m a year, yes you will yet her number.

Maybe the 60 year old balding guy who makes that money will repulse her. But the young rich handsome guy? She will out up with his shit

"Getting her number" is not the same as her becoming your sex slave. Shes more likely to use you (rightfully) for your money with minimal to no sexual contact.

You could argue this maybe 60 years ago, but not today.
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CE_gonna_CE
03/09/24 2:11:55 AM
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AzNDarkSamurai posted...
If youre rich and powerful, I assume you can get most girls you talk to
lolno

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pegusus123456
03/09/24 2:16:14 AM
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I don't know if this is true in real life, but I know one trope in stories about prostitutes is that they're distrustful of rich, attractive dudes looking to hire them. The idea being that if someone is rich, good looking, and still going to a prostitute, they're probably into some fucked up shit.

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Punished_Blinx
03/09/24 2:16:43 AM
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It's a more efficient use of time.

If they're in a relationship it'll be easier to get away with cheating too.

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jumi
03/09/24 2:18:35 AM
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Do you know what the difference is between paying for sex and sex for free?

Sex for free costs more.

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Guide
03/09/24 2:23:35 AM
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jumi posted...
Do you know what the difference is between paying for sex and sex for free?

Sex for free costs more.

Not if your almost-inlaws are desperate to get their daughter married!

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ai123
03/09/24 2:25:28 AM
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The rich and powerful don't have the time to be chatting up the cashier at Whole Foods.

Escorts are a convenient way of fulfilling a need. Trading effort for cost is what rich people do.

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Nukazie
03/09/24 2:28:35 AM
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all rich dudes look like brad pitt?

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Glob
03/09/24 2:29:55 AM
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Having a lot of money doesnt mean that all women want you, but it does make it very easy to get with women.

However, you also stand to lose more if things go south.

While escorts dont interest me, I can see why wealthy people might prefer them. If you view relationships as transactional in nature (I dont) then its better to know the costs up front.
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Dudebusters
03/09/24 2:31:54 AM
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AzNDarkSamurai posted...
If youre rich and powerful, I assume you can get most girls you talk to

You can likely even bang the pretty girl working at Whole Foods for free if you show them youre a baller

so whats the point really? I understand if you do this if you have no other way of getting with a girl but. why if youre rich and you can pretty much get any girl you want?

Paying for an escort is a two-way knowledge that you specifically are only in it for one thing. What you're ultimately suggesting is that people with money should knowingly use their money to take advantage of women who may not necessarily be into, basically, being used like an escort.

Should've thought this one through a bit more.

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BloodMoon7
03/09/24 2:45:37 AM
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I feel like the answer is pretty simple. If you have a lot of money, it's not unlikely that any girl you get involved with is only interested in your wealth. If you're just looking to get laid, hiring an escort is an easy and no hassle way to go about it. Having more wealth also means you can hire high end escorts and buy people's discretion/cover up scandals.

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BewmHedshot
03/09/24 2:53:29 AM
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They aren't paying for the sex, they're paying for the lack of strings attached.
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Kradek
03/09/24 4:33:06 AM
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As traditionally portrayed in media, it's because they're into weird shit and paying for their services keeps their kinks and fetishes between them and the escort/prostitute.

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Dudebusters
03/09/24 4:36:40 AM
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Kradek posted...
As traditionally portrayed in media, it's because they're into weird shit and paying for their services keeps their kinks and fetishes between them and the escort/prostitute.

This feels much less likely than

BewmHedshot posted...
They aren't paying for the sex, they're paying for the lack of strings attached.

This

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AzNDarkSamurai
03/09/24 4:37:02 AM
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Dudebusters posted...
Paying for an escort is a two-way knowledge that you specifically are only in it for one thing. What you're ultimately suggesting is that people with money should knowingly use their money to take advantage of women who may not necessarily be into, basically, being used like an escort.

Should've thought this one through a bit more.

Not necessarily because you dont even need to force anyone to do anything when a lot of women throw themselves at you if they know youre rich, powerful, and successful.

So in that case, whats the point of paying for it when its pretty much guaranteed you can get with a lot of girls out there for free?

whats funny is that I never even said youll get every woman. thats impossible no matter who you are.

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Dudebusters
03/09/24 4:39:06 AM
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AzNDarkSamurai posted...
So in that case, whats the point of paying for it when its pretty much guaranteed you can get with a lot of girls out there for free?

Because with an escort, it's a guaranteed business transaction and nothing more. You don't get that guarantee otherwise. That's the entire point.

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Kradek
03/09/24 4:41:20 AM
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Dudebusters posted...
This feels much less likely than

This

No reason it couldn't be both. I don't know why everyone is acting like there has to be strings attached to random women they pick up based off nothing but their wealth.

Take them home, bang them, kick them out, never contact them/answer their calls, no strings attached achieved. Seems no different than paying for a prostitute other than there's more work involved as they have to actually talk to them before the sex.

At least in my example, a woman scorned can take to social media and tell everyone you liked to be shat on, whereas prostitutes are paid in part to handle weird dudes and their kinks and one night stands with non-pros aren't likely to be ok with that kind of stuff, much less so keeping it a secret.

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Dudebusters
03/09/24 4:44:03 AM
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Kradek posted...
No reason it couldn't be both. I don't know why everyone is acting like there has to be strings attached to random women they pick up based off nothing but their wealth.

Take them home, bang them, kick them out, never contact them/answer their calls, no strings attached achieved. Seems no different than paying for a prostitute other than there's more work involved as they have to actually talk to them before the sex.

At least in my example, a woman scorned can take to social media and tell everyone you liked to be shat on, whereas prostitutes are paid in part to handle weird dudes and their kinks.

You kinda answered your own question on why there's a difference. With an escort, it's a business transaction, and it ends there. There is no "woman scorned" scenario because both parties go into it as a transaction. It CAN be both, but it's very unlikely "weird kink" is a major reason over just... The transaction aspect. It's not that there has to be strings attached with a random woman, just that there could be. With an escort, there wouldn't be, since the transaction is understood by both parties from the beginning.

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Kradek
03/09/24 4:46:53 AM
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Dudebusters posted...
You kinda answered your own question on why there's a difference. With an escort, it's a business transaction, and it ends there. There is no "woman scorned" scenario because both parties go into it as a transaction. It CAN be both, but it's very unlikely "weird kink" is a major reason over just... The transaction aspect.

If you say so, rich people tend to be really fucking weird and try to keep it under wraps, and the more they get exposed to the public the more it comes out.

It's not a hill I'm willing to die on, just saying, the wealthy are known for being greedy and miserly with their money and they get more out of paying for someone to not spread around their weird ass shit they're into which could hurt their reputation than to just merely have an hour of "I could be doing this with literally anybody else with no complications, however I'm paying for you for reasons".

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Dudebusters
03/09/24 4:48:29 AM
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Kradek posted...
If you say so, rich people tend to be really fucking weird and try to keep it under wraps, and the more they get exposed to the public the more it comes out.

Is there any particular source suggesting rich people tend to be super weird kinks, over just... Paying for transactional sex because they can afford to pay for transactional sex? Like, not sticking up for rich people, but this feels like an assumption based entirely on media.

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Kradek
03/09/24 4:54:08 AM
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Dudebusters posted...
Is there any particular source suggesting rich people tend to be super weird kinks, over just... Paying for transactional sex because they can afford to pay for transactional sex? Like, not sticking up for rich people, but this feels like an assumption based entirely on media.

Looking it up it seems it's all assumptions regardless of the conclusion, I did find an ABC article talking about a sex club Elliot Spritzer was a part of that talks about depending what they want the more expensive it gets, which would correlate with only the really wealthy being able to afford the really weird shit they're uncomfortable with.

Based off my Google results, we're all just spitballing here as the people engaging in these services themselves are not the ones writing these articles or giving in-depth interviews on the subject.

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pegusus123456
03/09/24 5:02:42 AM
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Kradek posted...
I did find an ABC article talking about a sex club Elliot Spritzer was a part of that talks about depending what they want the more expensive it gets,
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=46zrey2IAak

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R_Jackal
03/09/24 5:04:53 AM
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If you have money and can take a shortcut, you likely would. No extra thought required on the answer to this one.
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Rei_B
03/09/24 5:32:17 AM
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The lesser of the two evils, I guess? Pay for something over putting in some kind of effort.

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BloodMoon7
03/09/24 5:35:42 AM
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Kradek posted...
No reason it couldn't be both. I don't know why everyone is acting like there has to be strings attached to random women they pick up based off nothing but their wealth.

Take them home, bang them, kick them out, never contact them/answer their calls, no strings attached achieved. Seems no different than paying for a prostitute other than there's more work involved as they have to actually talk to them before the sex.

At least in my example, a woman scorned can take to social media and tell everyone you liked to be shat on, whereas prostitutes are paid in part to handle weird dudes and their kinks and one night stands with non-pros aren't likely to be ok with that kind of stuff, much less so keeping it a secret.
You just said why they can't just pump and dump random women. It'll turn into a scandal since being wealthy, people are more likely to care about such things. An escort isn't going to say anything cause it's just a job.

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Rika_Furude
03/09/24 5:37:17 AM
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you pay to not have to deal with the social aspect of it. pay money, get sex. dont have to deal with talking to them and getting to know them and all that. its just an exchange
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Glob
03/09/24 5:40:17 AM
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Kradek posted...
If you say so, rich people tend to be really fucking weird and try to keep it under wraps, and the more they get exposed to the public the more it comes out.

It's not a hill I'm willing to die on, just saying, the wealthy are known for being greedy and miserly with their money and they get more out of paying for someone to not spread around their weird ass shit they're into which could hurt their reputation than to just merely have an hour of "I could be doing this with literally anybody else with no complications, however I'm paying for you for reasons".

Plenty of poor people are kinky as fuck too, they just cant afford the escorts.
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Kradek
03/09/24 5:45:25 AM
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BloodMoon7 posted...
You just said why they can't just pump and dump random women. It'll turn into a scandal since being wealthy, people are more likely to care about such things. An escort isn't going to say anything cause it's just a job.

Taking random women home to have conventional sex with is not scandalous or reputation ruining unless they're married, and even then they're likely to not care all that much. Choking them/asking them to pee on them (or to pee on them, I know weird choice of wording I'm using) is the kind of shit they wouldn't want leaked to the public.

A wealthy guy having sex with a lot women just makes him look like a stud, which is the image Trump has been trying to portray. The image of him paying Russian prostitutes to pee on a bed Obama once slept in in Moscow is weird shit he would not want to be public, which is why he so vehemently rejected it. I mean, it could also just not be true as that hasn't been verified, however his reaction to that was noticeably different than it coming out that he banged Stormy Daniels, a porn star he cheated on his wife with who had just given birth to his child.

That's the difference. It wasn't those Russian prostitutes who gave that information to the U.S. public, it was the Steele dossier.

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pegusus123456
03/09/24 5:48:08 AM
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Kradek posted...
pee on them

Kradek posted...
leaked to the public
huehuehuehue

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03/09/24 6:02:29 AM
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Kradek
03/09/24 6:07:13 AM
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pegusus123456 posted...
huehuehuehue

Lol I hadn't even caught that.

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IceCreamOnStero
03/09/24 6:19:43 AM
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First of all, your premise is flawed. Being rich does not mean that everyone in a 10 metre radius wants to bang you

Second, there's some sort of professional standard. Even if your money does just get you a free shot with someone, there's no guarantee that they'll put in any effort or that the sex will be good. Woth an escort, its their job to do what you want in the bedroom, and requires none of the complications of "natural" relationships.

Third, its no strings attached. There's no possibility of the escort expecting to get more money if she sticks around, its just a one and done.

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pinky0926
03/09/24 6:21:08 AM
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You pay escorts to leave. That's the difference.

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AzNDarkSamurai
03/09/24 11:09:51 AM
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Why does everyone think I said you can get EVERY girl if youre rich? I never even said that

I said you can get with a lot of girls out there for free since your status will attract a lotta girls

and thats actually true if youre rich

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ironman2009
03/09/24 11:19:32 AM
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pinky0926 posted...
You pay escorts to leave. That's the difference.


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Umbreon
03/09/24 12:33:43 PM
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For someone who's gimmick is flexing on the poor, it's pretty funny he doesn't understand this subject.

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Dudebusters
03/09/24 5:10:46 PM
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pinky0926 posted...
You pay escorts to leave. That's the difference.

This poster put it better than I ever did. It could be some weird kink, but it doesn't have to be. The point of an escort is that when the deed is done, whatever it is... It's done, period. End of transaction. No "Call me later?" No "Do they expect more?" That's just it. You completed your purchase, they completed their job, and it's in the best interest of both parties to just be done unless another transaction occurs.

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