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deoxxys 04/20/23 11:16:26 PM #1: |
Can girls and guys be just friends?
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I've seen this debate on GameFAQs where it seems a lot of people believe this. Here's a short comedy sketch I think illustrates why that's naive: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRTMbeFD/ --- twylite sprinkle http://tinyurl.com/jeqyas3 https://tinyurl.com/mgvx7h2 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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VampireCoyote 04/20/23 11:17:22 PM #2: |
some can some cant --- She/her ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Zikten 04/20/23 11:19:28 PM #3: |
Depends on age. My first friend ever was a girl. I moved away when I was 6. Years later as a teenager, my family met up with her family again for a day. I remember being attracted to her ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pepys_Monster 04/20/23 11:21:25 PM #4: |
It depends. Is he deep in the friendzone? Or is he a 6'0" muscular guy she hooked up with in the past? --- Ryzen 3700X | ASUS RTX 3070 8GB | 16GB DDR4 3200 | Crucial MX500 2TB ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Angel_ 04/20/23 11:22:25 PM #5: |
Definitely yes. As per the skit, your S/O having a friend thats trying to fuck (and is in denial of) is a whole different matter that needs to be worked out. --- Nostalgia, how I remember things. Remember crowns, remember kings. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Glob 04/20/23 11:22:32 PM #6: |
If you find it hard to believe that its possible, it just means that you don't view the opposite sex in a healthy way. I work in female dominated profession. As a result, probably around 70% of my friends are women. It has never been a problem. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Arcanine2009 04/20/23 11:26:11 PM #7: |
It helps if you aren't attracted to them or if they already taken. I wouldn't usually go out of my way to hang out with a woman alone, unless I was attracted to them, or if it was work related. --- Less is more. Everything you want, isn't everything you need. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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NoxObscuras 04/20/23 11:37:29 PM #8: |
Generally yes, guys and girls can just be friends. What Matt is talking about in his standup is completely different. Having regular opposite gender friends is not the same as having a friend that secretly wants to get with you. Like my ex had plenty of male friends, and they were cool guys. But there was one, just one, that gave me the "oh he's secretly trying to fuck her" vibes. And sure enough... She's my ex now because fuck that lol. --- PSN - NoxObscuras Z490 | i9-10900K | EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra | 32GB DDR4 3600 | 4TB SSD ... Copied to Clipboard!
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The-Apostle 04/20/23 11:39:55 PM #9: |
My best friend was a girl for 18 years until she passed away when Covid started. --- http://goo.gl/mnO36O #GoPackGo Not changing sig until EA loses the NFL license. #NFLdropEA Started 3/12/23 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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VampireCoyote 04/20/23 11:41:38 PM #10: |
The-Apostle posted... My best friend was a girl for 18 years until she passed away when Covid started. oh no Im sorry you lost your friend --- She/her ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DarthDemented 04/20/23 11:46:54 PM #11: |
Don't give me that, don't even give me that! You! You got what I neeeed! But you say he's just a friend, you say he's just a friend! --- Paula Wood. My love, my life. 1980-2021 https://store.steampowered.com/wishlist/profiles/76561198210788964/#sort=order ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Philip027 04/20/23 11:48:11 PM #12: |
The majority of my friends are female, so... ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BettyWhite 04/20/23 11:52:44 PM #13: |
I mean.. I'm friends with my exes... I'm friends with girls that "friend zoned" me. And I'm friends with girls where it's always been platonic on my end. It's not hard.. Maybe back in the day when gender roles made it to where women and men wouldn't have as much in common for friendly discourse. But nowadays there's so much overlap for shared interests that I have to question why a person can't befriend the opposite sex. --- Thank you for being a friend <3 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BettyWhite 04/21/23 12:00:51 AM #14: |
If you're friend zoned and it hurts too much, I can understand why you'd need to pull away to heal. But if you really liked her, wouldn't you still want her in your life? Or is it that you just wanted to fuck her? Maybe the attraction won't go away and it hurts I guess.. But I'm guessing you're not sexually attracted to all women... So then I'm wondering why a dude can't befriend a chick he's not attracted to the same way he would another dude. I guess if you're a very masculine dude who likes things that are still largely dominated by men.. Hunting, trucking, beer drinking kinda guy. But like.. there's still the occasional chick who likes that shit.. But then maybe if you find a chick like that, it's impossible not to be attracted to her for you.. thus bringing us back to not being able to handle unrequited feelings with a friend. Don't mind me.. just arguing with myself. --- Thank you for being a friend <3 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MICHALECOLE 04/21/23 12:02:55 AM #15: |
Pepys_Monster posted... It depends. Is he deep in the friendzone? Or is he a 6'0" muscular guy she hooked up with in the past?It depends, am I threatened by him or am I not? so fuckin sad ... Copied to Clipboard!
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haloiscoolisbak 04/21/23 12:06:32 AM #16: |
It depends on a lot, including how much you trust your girlfriend/boyfriend. My last girlfriend's best friend was a straight male, but he was always cool to me. Never saw them flirt, never felt threatened. --- Started from the bottom now we here ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Pepys_Monster 04/21/23 12:23:19 AM #17: |
MICHALECOLE posted... It depends, am I threatened by him or am I not?More like "Is he a threat, or not?" --- Ryzen 3700X | ASUS RTX 3070 8GB | 16GB DDR4 3200 | Crucial MX500 2TB ... Copied to Clipboard!
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MICHALECOLE 04/21/23 12:30:36 AM #18: |
Pepys_Monster posted... More like "Is he a threat, or not?"Sure, thats different if that makes you feel better sad little boy ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TerraSeeker 04/21/23 12:35:59 AM #19: |
Definitely. But I've heard that phrase when he is more than just a friend. --- Your words are as empty as your soul ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JKwaffle 04/21/23 12:49:29 AM #20: |
VampireCoyote posted... some can some cantI mean, frankly, this is the right answer. Most of my closest friends are women, and I'm a dude. I will also admit though, like 40% of my friends, I've asked out once. If they said nah, I just said "ok cool no worries." and we kept being friends. (I'm also friends with some of my exes still) In my opinion, the issue really happens when a dude asks their friend out, they say nah, and then the dude acts all bitter and proves they didn't actually wanna be friends with them, they just wanted to fuck. If you're attracted to your friend(s), that's fine. But if you stop being friends with them the second they reject you romantically and/or sexually, you're just a dickhead IMO. --- - The user formerly known as WafflehouseJK ... Copied to Clipboard!
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BettyWhite 04/21/23 12:54:16 AM #21: |
JKwaffle posted... I mean, frankly, this is the right answer. I noticed I have you as a 5 star poster in your tag. I don't remember what earned you your 5 stars, but your post reinforces it. --- Thank you for being a friend <3 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pkmnlord 04/21/23 12:56:27 AM #22: |
JKwaffle posted... they just wanted to fuck.And what's wrong with that? --- http://i.imgur.com/MP7ZznH.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Questionmarktarius 04/21/23 12:58:15 AM #23: |
obligatory Biz Markie https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9aofoBrFNdg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pfh1001 04/21/23 12:58:19 AM #24: |
Arcanine2009 posted... It helps if you aren't attracted to them or if they already taken. Agreed. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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JKwaffle 04/21/23 1:02:07 AM #25: |
BettyWhite posted... I noticed I have you as a 5 star poster in your tag. I don't remember what earned you your 5 stars, but your post reinforces it.<3 pkmnlord posted... And what's wrong with that?Wanting to fuck isn't the problem, JUST wanting to fuck is the problem. If you only call someone your friend until they reject you, then you never wanted to actually be friends with them. The issue isn't that you're attracted to them, the issue is that your "friendship" ends the second you didn't get sex out of it. That's the problem. --- - The user formerly known as WafflehouseJK ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cuttin_in_farm 04/21/23 1:05:20 AM #26: |
The obvious answer is yes. I dont understand folks who say otherwise. Even in a scenario that Im attracted to a friend, I still like being around them and spending time. So even if the friendship doesnt advance, Im still cool with being friends. People should try it more often. A friend that is also eye candy is great. Now a friend that I am romantically in love with is a tad different. And the only scenario Id understand if you wish to not remain friends. --- A show of kindness may not do much help, but a show of cruelty may do much harm. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tenlaar 04/21/23 1:06:36 AM #27: |
Not being able to see value in the opposite sex outside of sexual/romantic potential is fucked up. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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pkmnlord 04/21/23 1:23:31 AM #28: |
JKwaffle posted... Wanting to fuck isn't the problem, JUST wanting to fuck is the problem. If you only call someone your friend until they reject you, then you never wanted to actually be friends with them. The issue isn't that you're attracted to them, the issue is that your "friendship" ends the second you didn't get sex out of it. That's the problem.Okay, that I can understand. --- http://i.imgur.com/MP7ZznH.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Glob 04/21/23 1:24:13 AM #29: |
Tenlaar posted... Not being able to see value in the opposite sex outside of sexual/romantic potential is fucked up. Agreed. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GGuirao13 04/21/23 3:06:58 AM #30: |
I don't see why not. --- Donald J. Trump--proof against government intelligence. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Smashingpmkns 04/21/23 3:14:22 AM #31: |
Like 80% of my friends are women and I've been with my lady for almost a decade now. --- http://i.imgur.com/x04tPRZ.jpg http://i.imgur.com/t7T392I.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Joelypoely 04/21/23 4:16:56 AM #32: |
Definitely. Also if you've been close friends for a long time at some point it'll generally be brought up why you aren't attracted to each other. --- https://philoetryblog.wordpress.com/ ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Gobstoppers12 04/21/23 4:18:58 AM #33: |
There's always some risk, even if it's low. --- (He/Him) I write Naruto Fanfiction. But I am definitely not a furry. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Garioshi 04/21/23 4:20:44 AM #35: |
I dunno, can gay guys just be friends? --- "I play with myself" - Darklit_Minuet, 2018 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Choco 04/21/23 4:22:41 AM #36: |
i guess as a bisexual i can't be friends with anyone. ce is so fucking pathetic --- https://i.imgur.com/286sD4e.png http://error1355.com/ce/Choco.html ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Noumas 04/21/23 4:29:14 AM #38: |
... tiktok videos aren't relegated to 1 minute? Then how come youtube shorts, the direct response feature to tiktok, limits videos to 1 min? ... Copied to Clipboard!
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rexcrk 04/21/23 5:03:18 AM #39: |
Oh yes. Ive been just friends with women my whole life haha. Heh. ..yeah. --- Baskin Robbins always finds out ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Solid_Snake07 04/21/23 5:38:57 AM #40: |
Of course. But I do think a man and a woman being best friends is often crossing into some weird territory though. The only thing really separating a best friend from a partner is sex and commitment. Just seems really likely that at least one of them probably wants more. --- "People incapable of guilt usually do have a good time" -Detective Rust Cohle ... Copied to Clipboard!
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DarthWendy 04/21/23 5:46:08 AM #41: |
Yes but only after they shagged at least once. --- Ave Caesar, Rosae Rosam et Spiritus Rex ! - Voila, ca ne veut absolument rien dire mais l'effet reste le meme https://i.imgur.com/CEMKFWl.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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AsucaHayashi 04/21/23 6:27:19 AM #42: |
if we're breaking it down to the basest levels of friendship then both guy and girl should come without any baggage(like being taken) and at the very first glance should look at each other and think "that's a person i could be friends with" instead of he/she being "hot/cute/sweet" etc. basically anything that signifies an attraction since the true platonic friend-"ship" has already sailed at that point. everything else just seems like coping with the situation... like one already asked the other one out and got denied so they stayed friends as if there were any other real choice. or one or both are taken and decide to be friends as if there were any other real choice that wouldn't upend their lives. of course, in order to function in today's interconnected society you pretty much have to cope or be seen as a sociopathic outcast. --- http://abload.de/img/pcgamingxtuvt.jpg http://i.imgur.com/9Yv0R2Z.jpg ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Glob 04/21/23 7:02:28 AM #43: |
AsucaHayashi posted... if we're breaking it down to the basest levels of friendship then both guy and girl should come without any baggage(like being taken) and at the very first glance should look at each other and think "that's a person i could be friends with" instead of he/she being "hot/cute/sweet" etc. basically anything that signifies an attraction since the true platonic friend-"ship" has already sailed at that point. I dont talk to any of my exes, or anybody who Ive ever been turned down by. Its never been a problem. Friends are friends. Doesnt matter what their gender is to me. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Spiritlittle 04/21/23 7:11:36 AM #44: |
If I'm gay and can be friends with straight guys and gay guys without sex, then so can straight men and women. --- Official Fujin of the Mortal Kombat 11 board. Trails of Cold Steel is the most underappreciated JRPG series ever. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Mew 04/21/23 7:17:10 AM #46: |
Yea of course Unless youre some redpilled type weirdo --- https://gfycat.com/tensescarygermanshepherd ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Tenlaar 04/21/23 7:45:49 AM #47: |
AsucaHayashi posted... at the very first glance should look at each other and think "that's a person i could be friends with" instead of he/she being "hot/cute/sweet" etc. basically anything that signifies an attraction since the true platonic friend-"ship" has already sailed at that point.Thats complete nonsense, you can have platonic friendship with people you find attractive. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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deoxxys 04/21/23 11:28:13 AM #48: |
Spiritlittle posted... If I'm gay and can be friends with straight guys and gay guys without sex, then so can straight men and women.Nah if I were gay Id be banging every dude that gave me the look. But maybe I am just a whore. --- twylite sprinkle http://tinyurl.com/jeqyas3 https://tinyurl.com/mgvx7h2 ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Letron_James 04/21/23 11:51:46 AM #49: |
Depends but if you're attractive than most likely not --- Ask me if I would eat da booty. ... Copied to Clipboard!
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