Poll of the Day > I made out with my married team lead last night

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Jen0125
09/21/22 5:17:22 PM
#253:


NickMullen posted...
Ohh

Yeah because I brought up from personal experience how something like this could affect a family. But OP would rather be malicious and try to low blow me instead of taking responsibility for her actions.
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IronBornCorps
09/21/22 5:18:41 PM
#254:


Jen0125 posted...
Lmao yeah it's projecting to tell you that you participated in something that ruins families willingly. Please take responsibility for your actions. You're not a victim. It isn't SELF destructive when you're being destructive to other people.

Yeah, you know all the details.

I'm not playing the victim here, and how is making myself available for his wife to talk to, telling him nothing more is going to happen without her blessing, giving my partner space but still being available to talk not taking responsibility?

I know other people got hurt in this, I've never denied that, and I'm doing my best to make things right for all parties involved. I have feelings in this too, and I'm going to express them.

You're just being judgemental as if you have never made any sort of mistake. Would you have done this? Probably not. I'm not going to let you tell me how I should feel about this. You seem pretty angry about something that doesn't actually effect you.
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ZangsBeard
09/21/22 5:19:12 PM
#255:


IronBornCorps posted...
Yeah, you know all the details.

Oh, now I see why he's defending you... lol

IronBornCorps posted...
telling him nothing more is going to happen without her blessing

Nothing like closing the mouth after the tongue has escaped the throat.


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Jen0125
09/21/22 5:21:43 PM
#256:


IronBornCorps posted...
Yeah, you know all the details.

I'm not playing the victim here, and how is making myself available for his wife to talk to, telling him nothing more is going to happen without her blessing, giving my partner space but still being available to talk not taking responsibility?

I know other people got hurt in this, I've never denied that, and I'm doing my best to make things right for all parties involved. I have feelings in this too, and I'm going to express them.

You're just being judgemental as if you have never made any sort of mistake. Would you have done this? Probably not. I'm not going to let you tell me how I should feel about this. You seem pretty angry about something that doesn't actually effect you.

Lmao you literally had a fantasy that you restored their marriage because the wife allegedly offered to peg her husband. You're absolutely wild. Get a new therapist instead of one that validates your shitty behavior.

You already did the harm. Saying you won't do more doesn't stop the damage you did on purpose lol. From this topic I've learned you already knew he was married, you knew he was interested in you and you decided to give in to that attention instead of doing the right thing. You knew it was wrong because you didn't even tell your open relationship partner you did it. Now he's left.

You just keep making excuses for why it's not that bad. It is that bad. And you did it on purpose.
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IronBornCorps
09/21/22 5:22:40 PM
#257:


Honestly, I've talked to my mom, therapist, and a friend about this.

Jen and Zang are the only ones who have said anything about deflecting or not taking responsibility, or playing victim. (Or who ever else has in this topic).

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Jen0125
09/21/22 5:25:33 PM
#258:


IronBornCorps posted...
Honestly, I've talked to my mom, therapist, and a friend about this.

Jen and Zang are the only ones who have said anything about deflecting or not taking responsibility, or playing victim. (Or who ever else has in this topic).

Well you are deflecting lmao. You're bringing up my personal history as an insult like it absolves you of wrong doing. If anything, it makes you look crappier.
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IronBornCorps
09/21/22 5:26:13 PM
#259:


Jen0125 posted...
Lmao you literally had a fantasy that you restored their marriage because the wife allegedly offered to peg her husband. You're absolutely wild. Get a new therapist instead of one that validates your shitty behavior.

THATS what you took away from that statement? I think it's serendipitous and interesting that line of communication has been open. It's a discussion that would have happened eventually I'm sure, I was just involved in the event that facilitated the start of that discussion. Thats hardly me taking credit for saving their marriage, especially when it may not be saved at all.
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Jen0125
09/21/22 5:27:40 PM
#260:


Lmfao girl you literally went to dinner hoping they'd add you to a thruple. Stop.
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IronBornCorps
09/21/22 5:28:07 PM
#261:


Crappy to who? You're the one on offensive after every post I make. Do you really feel bad for my cat?

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Jen0125
09/21/22 5:28:44 PM
#262:


Yes, I feel bad for your cat.
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IronBornCorps
09/21/22 5:29:01 PM
#263:


Jen0125 posted...
Lmfao girl you literally went to dinner hoping they'd add you to a thruple. Stop.

I went to that dinner mildly expecting an ass whooping. Please, you don't know me.
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Jen0125
09/21/22 5:29:19 PM
#264:


IronBornCorps posted...
I went to that dinner mildly expecting an ass whooping. Please, you don't know me.

I said you were HOPING because you're delusional
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Jen0125
09/21/22 5:29:47 PM
#265:


Are you gonna offer to pay 50/50 for their kids therapy? Maybe then I'll believe you're contrite lol
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IronBornCorps
09/21/22 5:33:11 PM
#266:


Maybe I just share every naive thought I'm having on this situation, because this place is full of dysfunctional children, and I don't really care what any of you think.

So yes, forgive me for conveying optimism in this situation and having a dumb moment of hoping somehow it just happens to work out, like I don't know it's not going be that easy.
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ZangsBeard
09/21/22 5:33:22 PM
#267:


IronBornCorps posted...
Jen and Zang are the only ones who have said anything about deflecting or not taking responsibility

This is in no way a defense against what was said. lol...

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Jen0125
09/21/22 5:34:15 PM
#268:


"I cheated but was riding the adrenaline hoping his wife would add me to their relationship without telling my partner and violating the parameters of my own relationship"

Brilliant

You might be a dysfunctional child but all of us aren't. Now who is projecting lmao
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IronBornCorps
09/21/22 5:38:12 PM
#269:


Zang
https://imgflip.com/i/6u836n
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IronBornCorps
09/21/22 5:45:39 PM
#270:


You know I've been talking about my team lead for weeks to my partner. I told him when we talked about being work wife and husband, that we were going to Happy Hours together. That I thought he might be into me.

Where I fucked up was never explicitly telling my partner I was developing feelings also. My partner and I are still talking and communicating about this. We have been having other issues as well, and are looking at things mutually.
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ZangsBeard
09/21/22 5:46:46 PM
#271:


IronBornCorps posted...
Zang
https://imgflip.com/i/6u836n

Just so you know, for future reference so you dont need to be shown again: thats deflection.

lol

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wwinterj25
09/21/22 5:52:04 PM
#272:


Can't say I'm a fan of folk who go after others who are married or even in a relationship.

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Jen0125
09/21/22 5:56:36 PM
#273:


ZangsBeard posted...
Just so you know, for future reference so you dont need to be shown again: thats deflection.

lol

No it's definitely our fault that cheating is bad, okay? Lmao
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hera
09/21/22 5:57:29 PM
#274:


IronBornCorps posted...
because this place is full of dysfunctional children,

one of the children here is thinking it's fine to ruin a marriage and family while the other children are saying that's bad

so im not sure what your definition of dysfunctional is, but it's wrong.

IronBornCorps posted...
and I don't really care what any of you think.

you wouldn't have made this topic if you didn't care what anyone thinks.

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hera
09/21/22 6:03:28 PM
#275:


LinkPizza posted...


I still remember the time he came into my among us topic and got mad at me for giving my own opinion. And they got super mad when everybody asked him what the fuck was wrong with him. Then complained and said everybody had bad reading comprehension

he did the same thing in my topic about a movie

and he had been using the wrong term a whole bunch too lmfao

or that he thinks action figures aren't dolls despite them factually being the same thing by definition lol

or that he cheated on his wife and divorced her only to cheat on his new girlfriend and then he wanted to kill a puppy in front of his child because he thought it would be funny

dudes just an utter failure of a person

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NickMullen
09/21/22 6:10:49 PM
#276:


lmao @ tc calling anybody dysfunctional

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ZangsBeard
09/21/22 6:23:15 PM
#277:


Jen0125 posted...
No it's definitely our fault that cheating is bad, okay? Lmao

Crap, I'm responsible for cheaters now too? Dang.

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Jen0125
09/21/22 6:33:12 PM
#278:


ZangsBeard posted...
Crap, I'm responsible for cheaters now too? Dang.

OP should reflect here too lol. If she says I'm a dysfunctional child projecting the sins of my mother... How did I become this way? Could part of it be because of a fracture formed by cheating? And she's a cheating partner lol. Hopefully she doesn't feel guilty for traumatizing children and helping to create dysfunctional adults. It'd be a real shame to take responsibility for that.
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JigsawTDCII
09/21/22 7:14:11 PM
#279:


this thread single handedly changed my opinion of IBC from pretty cool poster to incredibly sus

it did not change my opinion of lihlih at all which has been at masochistic punching bag for a while
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IronBornCorps
09/21/22 7:16:38 PM
#280:


https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/6/3/4/AAYJGPAADsui.png

Delusional and not taking responsibility, sure
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IronBornCorps
09/21/22 7:18:19 PM
#281:


She is starting her own dating profile, and is getting into apparently. He assured her he would never leave her, and she feels much better.

I'm not saying what I did was right, but sometimes bad things can bring good outcomes.
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VampireCoyote
09/21/22 7:19:53 PM
#282:


marriage should be outlawed

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Jen0125
09/21/22 7:22:47 PM
#283:


Lmfao you are absolutely delusional

Those two haven't even begun to deal with the actual fallout of the husband's actions and you're still here trying to justify your actions

Absolutely pathetic
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Nade_Duck
09/21/22 7:24:12 PM
#284:


JigsawTDCII posted...
this thread single handedly changed my opinion of IBC from pretty cool poster to incredibly sus

it did not change my opinion of lihlih at all which has been at masochistic punching bag for a while
she was always sus.

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GameLord113
09/21/22 7:25:46 PM
#285:


I really feel bad for the kids in this situation. To me it sounds like everyone involved has some issues. Personally I put more blame on the married guy in this situation, but the whole thing is no bueno.
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IronBornCorps
09/21/22 7:34:17 PM
#286:


Jen0125 posted...
Lmfao you are absolutely delusional

Those two haven't even begun to deal with the actual fallout of the husband's actions and you're still here trying to justify your actions

Absolutely pathetic

You're such a wise wizard that knows the rules and reactions of every couple. I'm actually super surprised by how this unfolded. I'm just stating I kissed a married person whom I work with, and would probably do it again. I'm sorry I don't feel bad enough for you.
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lihlih
09/21/22 7:36:05 PM
#287:


JigsawTDCII posted...
this thread single handedly changed my opinion of IBC from pretty cool poster to incredibly sus

it did not change my opinion of lihlih at all which has been at masochistic punching bag for a while


Lol, this just proves how lacking you are.
"Zang kept saying attacks and deflections, lihlih got so owned!"

God, you people are so lacking that I actually feel sorry for you.

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Jen0125
09/21/22 7:38:02 PM
#288:


IronBornCorps posted...
You're such a wise wizard that knows the rules and reactions of every couple. I'm actually super surprised by how this unfolded. I'm just stating I kissed a married person whom I work with, and would probably do it again. I'm sorry I don't feel bad enough for you.

You're still delusional if you think what she's doing is positive or rational. She's likely in a tailspin trying to figure her marriage out but you and her husband are desperately trying to feel like the good guys lmao.

You're mad weird

"I would do it again".. Again. What are you feeling bad about at all if you'd repeat the action? You should go to your therapist again.
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shadowsword87
09/21/22 7:38:40 PM
#289:


There was so much catfighting to read up on I burned my red weenies :(
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Jen0125
09/21/22 7:39:19 PM
#290:


Wow guys aren't OP and the cheating husband great? They actually SAVED the marriage. It's already been determined a whole less than a week after the cheating occurred.

I'm sure OP's partner will be on board and they can form a quad!
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RagOnAStick
09/21/22 7:43:31 PM
#291:


Hey now I'm a functional child (over the age of 13)
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IronBornCorps
09/21/22 7:50:46 PM
#292:


Jen0125 posted...
Wow guys aren't OP and the cheating husband great? They actually SAVED the marriage. It's already been determined a whole less than a week after the cheating occurred.

I'm sure OP's partner will be on board and they can form a quad!

Actually this might be the end for my partner and I. Their marriage has a new line of communication and they are speaking openly about things for the first time in years. I'm happy that they got that out of this situation.

My partner and I are a different story, but he's about to come back over and we are gonna talk.
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Jen0125
09/21/22 7:51:19 PM
#293:


Yeah, it keeps getting lost how you had an emotional and physical affair on your partner too. Hope he leaves you.
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Jen0125
09/21/22 7:51:47 PM
#294:


And I hope he takes the cat
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IronBornCorps
09/21/22 7:52:26 PM
#295:


seething
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IronBornCorps
09/21/22 7:54:51 PM
#296:


Who knows, maybe I'm ready to not be in any relationship structure and free to do what I please.

*edit*
As I've said, my partner and I have been having other issues.
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Cacciato
09/21/22 7:56:09 PM
#297:


lihlih posted...
Lol, this just proves how lacking you are.
"Zang kept saying attacks and deflections, lihlih got so owned!"

God, you people are so lacking that I actually feel sorry for you.
You really need to invest in a thesaurus.
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JigsawTDCII
09/21/22 8:08:01 PM
#298:


lihlih posted...
Lol, this just proves how lacking you are.
"Zang kept saying attacks and deflections, lihlih got so owned!"

God, you people are so lacking that I actually feel sorry for you.

yeah man its just Zang beating a dead horse and not a pattern of behavior Ive observed from you in multiple topics, you got me.

at least you feel sorry for me tho, maybe this can be my first step towards Sunny(TM) enlightenment
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ZangsBeard
09/21/22 8:09:35 PM
#299:


Cacciato posted...
You really need to invest in a thesaurus.

Right? Hell he can use free ones online. He cant figure out how thats supposed to be done either.

Also TC thinks the wife making a dating profile after the fact is somehow coping with the fact her husband cheated. Lolol

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lihlih
09/21/22 8:14:14 PM
#300:


ZangsBeard posted...


Right? Hell he can use free ones online. He cant figure out how thats supposed to be done either.

Also TC thinks the wife making a dating profile after the fact is somehow coping with the fact her husband cheated. Lolol


Lol, Zang proving himself a hypocrite over and over again. You sure have a lot to say for someone that can't come up with anything better than "attacks and deflections". I've tried many words and this is the only one that the mods accept for some reason.

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IronBornCorps
09/21/22 8:15:58 PM
#301:


y'all both are trippin, and that's coming from me.
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Kimbos_Egg
09/21/22 8:29:57 PM
#302:


what the fuck is this stupid ass topic.

No wonder this board is dead

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