Poll of the Day > I made out with my married team lead last night

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CaptBuzzKiII posted...

I dont mean to be a buzzkill or anything but its not real. Where she messed up the story is how she had everything happen so fast. The confession to his wife and then the dinner happening in just days. When you have 3 kids, getting a babysitter to go out to dinner is not that quick. She would have done better with the story to drag it out over a week or two instead of soeedrunning the whole thing.

While I dont think its real, getting a babysitting really just depends. I know for some people, its not as much of an issue. For example, my cousin can always ask him mom (the grandma) as she it always trying to spend more time with the baby. And then, depending on the couple, some already have babysitters that come on certain days or nights. So, while I dont think it real, its not because of that reasons

I used a sick day for work today, I can't go in right now. I'm just going to depression nap today.

Should quit your job

I swear, people are so fucking judgemental here. They were even more judgemental towards me, and that wasn't even a real marriage, lol.

lihlih posted...

I swear, people are so fucking judgemental here. They were even more judgemental towards me, and that wasn't even a real marriage, lol.

We don't really like cheaters that much, surprise surprise.

shadowsword87 posted...

We don't really like cheaters that much, surprise surprise.

Except you people are too lacking to realize that you can't cheat on a fake marriage, lmao.

There goes lihlih again Talking about his fake marriage like always Hes one of the worse posters here, tbh Maybe its good that he blocked me

My partner just told me he feels hurt and is going to stay with his sister for a few days. He needs time apart to figure if he can still trust me.

This might be the dumbest thing I've ever done.

IronBornCorps posted...

My partner just told me he feels hurt and is going to stay with his sister for a few days. He needs time apart to figure if he can still trust me.

This might be the dumbest thing I've ever done.

That doesn't sound like an open relationship.

Revelation34 posted...

That doesn't sound like an open relationship.

Sounds like someone who didn't actually respect the agreed upon boundaries of their open relationship

IronBornCorps posted...

My partner just told me he feels hurt and is going to stay with his sister for a few days. He needs time apart to figure if he can still trust me.

This might be the dumbest thing I've ever done.

Did you not tell him soon enough or something? What are the rules of this open relationship?

I didn't tell him right away after it happened, and though I told my partner about his possible interest before, I never quite directly expressed my own feelings to my partner.

Jen0125 posted...

Sounds like someone who didn't actually respect the agreed upon boundaries of their open relationship

this is why "oh I don't have to tell my partner we're chill about that stuff" has pretty much always been a giant red flag in my experience lol

Kanatteru posted...

this is why "oh I don't have to tell my partner we're chill about that stuff" has pretty much always been a giant red flag in my experience lol

And the fact that she delayed telling her partner signals to me that she knows she broke a boundary

I dont understand why hes mad. Maybe if ya went all the way and raw but in the case of just kissing, idk why hes mad. Especially if you guys are in an Open Relationship.

lihlih posted...

I swear, people are so fucking judgemental here. They were even more judgemental towards me, and that wasn't even a real marriage, lol.

Dem Calves could have a bike magazine all to themselves with all the back pedaling you do.

Anyone point out that the wife was away for school, dropped everything to attend the dinner then asked about possible complications at her work? o_O

HornedLion posted...

I dont understand why hes mad. Maybe if ya went all the way and raw but in the case of just kissing, idk why hes mad. Especially if you guys are in an Open Relationship.

Could be open to just sex and no friendship/emotional. Its also with someone they will continue to see. Open relationships can still have boundaries.

Its important to know them beforehand, but if you only care about self interest you can just ignore other people and their emotions.

ZangsBeard posted...

Dem Calves could have a bike magazine all to themselves with all the back pedaling you do.

Lol, of course you think this. You're so lacking that you can't remember shit.

JixHedgehog posted...

Anyone point out that the wife was away for school, dropped everything to attend the dinner then asked about possible complications at her work? o_O

lmao

DrPrimemaster posted...

Could be open to just sex and no friendship/emotional. Its also with someone they will continue to see. Open relationships can still have boundaries.

Its important to know them beforehand, but if you only care about self interest you can just ignore other people and their emotions.

Whats funny about this is that I see a girl and we are sexually active. She recently got drunk and had sex with someone else.

I didnt care about the sex but we had talked and she was supposed to have her first drink after going sober with me. That hurt.

lihlih posted...

Lol, of course you think this. You're so lacking that you can't remember shit.

Oooh the deflection and defense. All while biking backwards.

ZangsBeard posted...

Oooh the deflection and defense. All while biking backwards.

Lol, post all the bullshit in the world, my dude. Everyone knows you always talk out of your ass.

This is starting to read like how to get the bad ending in CYOA vidya game.

i wanted to go for the dog ending.

Please don't turn this into a 300 post topic of shitting on lihlih

Zareth posted...

Please don't turn this into a 300 post topic of shitting on lihlih

Lol, you must be really lacking if you think Zang posting nonsense then getting pissy and accusing people of deflecting when they call him out on his bullshit is him shitting on me.

lihlih posted...

Lol, post all the bullshit in the world, my dude. Everyone knows you always talk out of your ass.

I actually dont, but weak attempt at deflection. The best part is how youre whining about it when you brought it up completely unnecessarily. Methinks youre feeling a bit guilty. I just love you had to thrown in your false presentation of your marriage as a defense before anyone even said anything. Lol

lihlih posted...

Lol, you must be really lacking if you think Zang posting nonsense then getting pissy and accusing people of deflecting when they call him out on his bullshit is him shitting on me.

You literally brought it up my dude. Like, no one else was talking about it until you felt the need to defend it yet again. Gotta love the projectionist way youre trying to paint me when youre the one throwing the fit.

ZangsBeard posted...

You literally brought it up my dude. Like, no one else was talking about it until you felt the need to defend it yet again. Gotta love the projectionist way youre trying to paint me when youre the one throwing the fit.

Except what I posted was the truth, all you did was spout bullshit.

lihlih posted...

Except what I posted was the truth, all you did was spout bullshit.

We both know youre lying. Evident by you refusing to admit that she was hurt by your actions and lies. Your inevitable back tracking when forced to admit the truth and the even more inevitable disappearing act once youve found out no one actually cares what you have to say and your toddleresque stamping of feet made no actual impression on peoples thoughts about you.

You could just skip to the end and run away as you always do and save yourself the hassle.

kinda miss sophie too tbh

ZangsBeard posted...

We both know youre lying. Evident by you refusing to admit that she was hurt by your actions and lies. Your inevitable back tracking when forced to admit the truth and the even more inevitable disappearing act once youve found out no one actually cares what you have to say and your toddleresque stamping of feet made no actual impression on peoples thoughts about you.

You could just skip to the end and run away as you always do and save yourself the hassle.

What? I said she was hurt many times. I even said I acted the way I did because I felt bad that she was so hurt, even though she had no right to be.

Wow, you talk so much shit out your ass that you can't keep track of all the bullshit, huh?

Zareth posted...

Please don't turn this into a 300 post topic of shitting on lihlih

But its so easy.

Cacciato posted...

But its so easy.

Exactly. He cant do anything but make claims that are more appropriate to himself and throw a tantrum until he storms off.

Im just boggled as to why he even brought it into an unrelated topic. Masochistic much?

Nade_Duck posted...

i wanted to go for the dog ending.

Sorry to disappoint, this is the ugly crying in bed alone tonight because I drank all the dumb bitch juice ending.

ZangsBeard posted...

Exactly. He cant do anything but make claims that are more appropriate to himself and throw a tantrum until he storms off.

Im just boggled as to why he even brought it into an unrelated topic. Masochistic much?

Unrelated? I get that mine was fake infidelity, but it's pretty related. Of course I shouldn't expect someone like you to be able to connect the dots though.

Cacciato posted...

But its so easy.

Why don't you go lie more about your fakeass military career?

lmao

lihlih posted...

Unrelated? I get that mine was fake infidelity, but it's pretty related. Of course I shouldn't expect someone like you to be able to connect the dots though.

Woooosh. You thought you had a cheap barb but only exposed your own lack of understanding. Of course youre going to lash out with the same old attempts at insults you always use because youre neither creative nor knowledgeable enough to do any better. Its okay, you get a participation trophy. Just like with your... marriage.

If this story doesn't end in everybody walking the dinosaur, I will be sorely disappointed.

lihlih has an incredible talent for coming into topics that arent about him and just setting himself up to get absolutely eviscerated. I think he likes it.

but also he does it in the most painfully boring way possible. If youre going to play the role of an antagonist, at least be an interesting one

IronBornCorps posted...

Sorry to disappoint, this is the ugly crying in bed alone tonight because I drank all the dumb bitch juice ending.

dude we could've been abducted by aliens

JigsawTDCII posted...

lihlih has an incredible talent for coming into topics that arent about him and just setting himself up to get absolutely eviscerated. I think he likes it.

but also he does it in the most painfully boring way possible. If youre going to play the role of an antagonist, at least be an interesting one

Yeah, theyre not creative enough. They literally exhausted their entire repertoire of both insults and attempts at justification after about 4 posts. Nothing more than monotonous blithering at this point.

ZangsBeard posted...

Woooosh. You thought you had a cheap barb but only exposed your own lack of understanding. Of course youre going to lash out with the same old attempts at insults you always use because youre neither creative nor knowledgeable enough to do any better. Its okay, you get a participation trophy. Just like with your... marriage.

Lolok, keep proving how lacking you are.

JigsawTDCII posted...

lihlih has an incredible talent for coming into topics that arent about him and just setting himself up to get absolutely eviscerated. I think he likes it.

but also he does it in the most painfully boring way possible. If youre going to play the role of an antagonist, at least be an interesting one

The fact that you think Zang's pathetic insults he pulls from his ass means I'm eviscerated is just laughable and shows how biased you are.

lihlih posted...

Lolok, keep proving how lacking you are.

The fact that you think Zang's pathetic insults he pulls from his ass means I'm eviscerated is just laughable and shows how biased you are.

Oh look. The same 3 things in his attempts to deflect and attack. #Boring.

ZangsBeard posted...

Oh look. The same 3 things in his attempts to deflect and attack. #Boring.

Oh look, Zang is calling shit deflecting and attacking him just because I called out his bullshit.

lihlih posted...

Oh look, Zang is calling shit deflecting and attacking him just because I called out his bullshit.

What do you mean you called out? Youve tried saying the same tired rhetoric like 4 times already on this topic alone. It didnt work the first time, but by golly you just kept trying. Nothing screams inept like your attempts at deflection.

And all this because you felt just and overwhelming need to bring up your past... its like you have an overwhelming urge to get into arguments over your sordid past.

ZangsBeard posted...

What do you mean you called out? Youve tried saying the same tired rhetoric like 4 times already on this topic alone. It didnt work the first time, but by golly you just kept trying. Nothing screams inept like your attempts at deflection.

And all this because you felt just and overwhelming need to bring up your past... its like you have an overwhelming urge to get into arguments over your sordid past.

It's because you keep saying the same lacking bullshit over and over again. You ever heard of the saying: "If you keep showing the symptoms, keep taking your medicine"? It applies exactly to this situation. You keep saying the same old bullshit, expect to keep getting called out for it.

lihlih posted...

It's because you keep saying the same lacking bullshit over and over again. You ever heard of the saying: "If you keep showing the symptoms, keep taking your medicine"? It applies exactly to this situation. You keep saying the same old bullshit, expect to keep getting called out for it.

Youre bad at analogies since youre the one who caused the symptoms, or did you forget already? You havent actually called out anything. Just more run of the mill deflection, because its the best you can accomplish.