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Lebronwon
02/01/22 2:14:37 PM
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https://nypost.com/2022/02/01/this-is-why-i-always-have-sex-on-the-first-date/

If the cult classic rom-coms we obsessively watched on repeat as teenagers taught us anything, its that you shouldnt have sex on a first date. After all, the key message we were told time and time again was that theyll never see you as serious girlfriend material if you jump into bed straight away. *eye roll* But even though were old and wise enough to now know that its your compatibility that determines if the relationship will go the distance, this key message is never far from our minds on first dates. One person who is trying to shake this dating myth is sex and relationships writer Mary Rose Madigan. In a personal essay for Mama Mia, the Sydney-based writer said shes actually found it to be a highly effective approach. She explained: Honestly, sleep with a man you are attracted to straight away if you want, its fabulous also its very time efficient. When she first entered the world of dating, Mary says she felt like she had to withhold any kind of intimacy to ensure guys would remain interested in her. This meant she would save sex for the third or fifth date and by that point, she would be pretty romantically entangled with the guy.

She added: [This] meant if the sex was bad, or it didnt work, or they were the kind of man that finished within three seconds or didnt truly understand where exactly a vagina is located, I felt stuck. As Mary didnt think bad sex was a big enough reason to break up, she ended up dragging out the relationship even though she felt deeply unfulfilled. After going through this process a few times, it dawned on Mary that something had to change and she decided to stop withholding sex. Describing how it made dating more fun, she added: I wasnt trying to play a strategic game balancing just the right amount of sexy without ever seeming too much. Instead, I was going on what felt right. It was a much more simple and pleasurable system. It also meant I churned through men quicker which was a good thing! As this approach helped Mary weed out the guys shes not compatible with, she said it actually helped her carve out more time for herself, too. Whats more, Mary says it hasnt stopped her from finding love either as she is now in a happy relationship with a guy she slept with on the second date. She added: Now we co-parent a pet chihuahua and live in a tiny terrace together. I didnt even have to withhold sex for all of that to happen. Why? Because I met someone I liked, who liked me and the sexual chemistry was there from the very beginning.

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Awards
02/01/22 2:15:10 PM
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Holy shit
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DespondentDeity
02/01/22 2:16:09 PM
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Fuckin woof

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SydneySweenHero
02/01/22 2:16:24 PM
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I like her message but I dont like her appearance >_>

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ChopinList
02/01/22 2:16:31 PM
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Wait there are guys that finish within 3 seconds lmao.

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TommyG663513
02/01/22 2:16:50 PM
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Ok then

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SwiggitySwoogit
02/01/22 2:17:13 PM
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Tbf, I'd also have trouble locating the vagina under all those folds of fat.
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CalosiaTana
02/01/22 2:17:34 PM
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Ain't no beer goggles strong enough

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Tenlaar
02/01/22 2:20:56 PM
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Co-parent a pet chihuahua.
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Smackems
02/01/22 2:22:46 PM
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She mad she was a practice girl

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Turbam
02/01/22 2:22:48 PM
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CE mad that she gets new dick daily while y'all sitting at home watching porn :V

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Strider102
02/01/22 2:22:52 PM
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Well that's....something...

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cjsdowg
02/01/22 2:23:27 PM
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And people can't tell me that women don't have it easier when it comes to dating.

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MedeaLysistrata
02/01/22 2:23:53 PM
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Turbam posted...
CE mad that she gets new dick daily while y'all sitting at home watching porn :V
Tbf it's probably not new dick, just the same few guys everyone else uses

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toreysback
02/01/22 2:24:48 PM
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it's an ethos

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Lost_All_Senses
02/01/22 2:25:56 PM
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cjsdowg posted...
And people can't tell me that women don't have it easier when it comes to dating.

Who tells you they don't? Plus, that's so vague. If you're talking about how safe you are going in first dates, men would have it easier. You can just focus in on whatever aspect makes you the one getting the shit end. I heard women find that irresistible btw. Downplaying their struggles to boost up your own. They love that shit :3.

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MedeaLysistrata
02/01/22 2:28:26 PM
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Lost_All_Senses posted...
Who tells you they don't? Plus, that's so vague. If you're talking about how safe you are going in first dates, men would have it easier. You can just focus in on whatever aspect makes you the one getting the shit end. I heard women find that irresistible btw. Downplaying their struggles to boost up your own. They love that shit :3.
Women have it harder because they're women, but some men don't have it at all, it the source of the bitterness

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OudeGeuze
02/01/22 2:30:02 PM
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cjsdowg posted...
And people can't tell me that women don't have it easier when it comes to dating.
At any given time in the world there are just as many single men as there are women so no, women don't have it easier.
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SweetieBeIle462
02/01/22 2:33:11 PM
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Nice

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g0ldie
02/01/22 2:34:18 PM
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ChopinList posted...
Wait there are guys that finish within 3 seconds lmao.
don't nut shame

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MedeaLysistrata
02/01/22 2:37:22 PM
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OudeGeuze posted...
At any given time in the world there are just as many single men as there are women so no, women don't have it easier.
T-they have more chances to find someone though!

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Homeless_Waifu
02/01/22 2:37:38 PM
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Turbam posted...
CE mad that she gets new dick daily while y'all sitting at home watching porn :V
Grr I'm so mad, that I gotta draw some hentai!

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cjsdowg
02/01/22 2:39:03 PM
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OudeGeuze posted...
At any given time in the world there are just as many single men as there are women so no, women don't have it easier.

That is by choice . Women will turn no more me on average than men will turn down women.

That lady is clearly a 3. Do you think a man who was 3 could pull as much booty as he wanted .

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Fony
02/01/22 2:44:44 PM
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There is nothing wrong with quick sex, it's actually very good for a relationship as long as you're comfortable, attracted and done your due dilligence. Dangling sex like a carrot, or agonizing over the timing like a moron is just a way to have an actual person with their head screwed on stright leave you in the dust due to your nuerosis. Personally, I've never waitied more than 3 and a half weeks to sleep with someone, and that was due to a 3 week vacation.

As far as taking women "seriously". This is something we know almost right away, if not within hours. And most guys moving with real intent know if they'll commit or not before they even bust it open, there's not some grand discovery after busting a nut. If you don't think someone is relationship material, it's due to other things and not how quickly you hit it.

My ex-fiancee and I had sex on our first "real" date right in my car. She admitted she would have went home with me right after we had our first meeting, which was a 20 minute conversation. The only women I am friends with right now were all women I slept with quickly, the ones that were neurotic or tried to dangle I just ghost them. I get consitent sex, no need to put up with that.

For people who don't want to have sex right away, at least keep your engagement up in talking to the person and communicate alot. Don't just have this mental block revolving around sex. It's not natural and makes you seem like you have bad intentions or are mentally unwell/immature.

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Fony
02/01/22 2:45:29 PM
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cjsdowg posted...
That is by choice . Women will turn no more me on average than men will turn down women.

That lady is clearly a 3. Do you think a man who was 3 could pull as much booty as he wanted .

Women like her have it so "easy" because of guys like you though. Why complain? you agonize over the "unfairness", you harrass women, you binge porn, you subscribe to only fans, you particiapte in cosplay/idol culture, you fawn over women with nothing in return, you simp, you message them endlessly then come here to cry about not getting replies, you give them attention and options. Why cry, instead of stop being morons?

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SydneySweenHero
02/01/22 2:48:03 PM
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The average man is unfuckable

The average woman gets blasted by limitless chad dick

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OudeGeuze
02/01/22 2:53:31 PM
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cjsdowg posted...
. Do you think a man who was 3 could pull as much booty as he wanted .
If he lowered his standards to fucking 3s and not sending unsolicited dick pics to 7.8s, yes
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TheOnionKnight
02/01/22 3:02:33 PM
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I usually have sex on the first date. Sometimes the second. If it hasn't happened by then, it basically means we're not compatible.

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Cookie Bag
02/01/22 3:59:49 PM
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Fony posted...
Women like her have it so "easy" because of guys like you though. Why complain? you agonize over the "unfairness", you harrass women, you binge porn, you subscribe to only fans, you particiapte in cosplay/idol culture, you fawn over women with nothing in return, you simp, you message them endlessly then come here to cry about not getting replies, you give them attention and options. Why cry, instead of stop being morons?
How huge is your butthole you're pulling all this shit from lmao

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Smashingpmkns
02/01/22 4:08:27 PM
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Nothing wrong with having sex on the first date tbh

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Guide
02/01/22 4:13:18 PM
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Only reason she puts out on the first date is because they might come to their senses on the second.

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pick4six
02/01/22 4:16:09 PM
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when shes right shes right

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1337toothbrush
02/01/22 5:13:30 PM
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I fuck on the last date

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WingsOfGood
02/01/22 5:14:46 PM
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Isn't the whole point of not having sex on the first date to protect yourself from possible crazy people?
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R1masher
02/01/22 5:24:11 PM
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You aint slow playing anyone, you all know youd hit it

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kuwab0
02/01/22 5:28:13 PM
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When did Fiona divorce Shrek?

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Lordgold666
02/01/22 5:52:37 PM
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Eww

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ModLogic
02/01/22 9:05:25 PM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/3/9/7/AAIY7IAAC29V.jpg

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bigtiggie23
02/01/22 9:15:28 PM
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She looks like the kid that would've been born if Mia Wallace did mess around with Tony Rocky Horror.

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AsucaHayashi
02/01/22 9:20:35 PM
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Guide posted...
Only reason she puts out on the first date is because they might come to their senses on the second.

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samurai bandit
02/01/22 9:21:10 PM
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SydneySweenHero posted...
The average man is unfuckable

The average woman gets blasted by limitless chad dick

Its a shame it took 25 posts until someone posted this message. It should have been like the first reply.

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haloiscoolisbak
02/01/22 9:38:17 PM
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I've never had sex before a second date but tbh it takes a bit of time for me to feel comfortable with someone

I don't really see a week or two as a long time so I don't understand this whole mentality around trying to see if you're sexually compatible asap or risk "wasting" your time


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ColdOne666
02/01/22 9:40:38 PM
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SydneySweenHero posted...
I like her message but I dont like her appearance >_>


SwiggitySwoogit posted...
Tbf, I'd also have trouble locating the vagina under all those folds of fat.


CalosiaTana posted...
Ain't no beer goggles strong enough


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ColdOne666
02/02/22 1:46:22 AM
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They probably sobered up during sex and wanted to finish quick and run away once they seen her.

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Slayer_22
02/02/22 1:48:31 AM
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I think that's because she doesn't have much of a chance at a 2nd date.

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Gucci_Josh
02/02/22 2:12:56 AM
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Well...
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DocDelicious
02/02/22 2:27:14 AM
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She is awful looking but she's right. Fuck first then figure out how you feel about eachother.

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Shadowplay
02/02/22 2:36:15 AM
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https://gamefaqs.gamespot.com/a/user_image/3/8/4/AAJm-4AAC4LQ.jpg

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