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ColdOne666
10/28/21 3:24:48 AM
#455:


Because people keep bumping it rather then letting it vanish.

Besides the topic doesn't break the TOS.

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Scotty_Rogers
10/28/21 4:02:31 AM
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unnamedsoldier
10/28/21 4:02:54 AM
#457:


Congrats on the 500 topic, TC
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GGuirao13
10/28/21 4:12:28 AM
#458:


Yes, out of honesty and respect for the other person.

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Bishop9800
10/28/21 4:16:56 AM
#459:


GGuirao13 posted...
Yes, out of honesty and respect for the other person.


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Xethuminra
10/28/21 4:17:58 AM
#460:


Listen to yourselves

When a trans person wants to sleep with a non trans person they have to let them know every time before they do it

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Apu
10/28/21 4:27:12 AM
#461:


gunplagirl posted...
Well, time to wait like 20 hours for the mods to nkl this crappy alt account. I wonder how much he paid for that alt. 4735 karma for future reference.
Who in their right mind would pay for a gamefaqs alt account?

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Apu
10/28/21 4:29:09 AM
#462:


Mr_Karate_II posted...
Why the fuck is this topic still up?
Maybe because it was never a TOS violation to begin with?

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BloodMoon7
10/28/21 4:32:52 AM
#463:


Apu posted...
Who in their right mind would pay for a gamefaqs alt account?
We're on CE. Your username is Apu. I think we can all agree we're not the most normal.

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Apu
10/28/21 4:33:45 AM
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BloodMoon7 posted...
We're on CE. Your username is Apu. I think we can all agree we're not the most normal.
You know what?
Agreed.

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RoseLuck2X22462
10/28/21 4:34:30 AM
#465:


Mr_Karate_II posted...
Why the fuck is this topic still up?

It's way past midnight

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John_Galt
10/28/21 5:15:59 AM
#466:


Interesting results

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CyricZ
10/28/21 5:47:48 AM
#467:


Smackems posted...
Oh an actual transphobe. How much you pay for that account
For those of you asking "how these topics get so big", this is why.

These topics are transphobic dog whistles, low key contributing to negative feelings against trans people, and emboldening and empowering people who would do actual harm.

That's why I show up; to point out how bad faith these topics tend to be, argue the "minority opinion" and point out when bias is showing.

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BloodMoon7
10/28/21 5:49:39 AM
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Wow Cyric you're a real hero from the night. Where would we be without you.

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shnangyboos
10/28/21 5:50:09 AM
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CyricZ posted...
That's why I show up; to point out how bad faith these topics tend to be, argue the "minority opinion" and point out when bias is showing.


The hero we deserve.

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hockeybub89
10/28/21 5:54:56 AM
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toadfan64 posted...
At least these results show me it's only a vocal minority that's nutty around here.
Not sharing personal details with complete strangers is nutty now? Seems pretty ableist. Really just ignorant, because you don't need to have some sort of condition to not get so personal the first time you meet someone.

Also, the majority is wrong all the fucking time. Have you ever met a human being or read about their history?

I would never tell someone I just met jack shit. They gotta earn that.

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CyricZ
10/28/21 6:00:57 AM
#472:


Don't get wrong, the counter-opinion of "Why can't you be like me, hate the world, and not give a shit" is compelling, but I take opportunities where I see them.

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shnangyboos
10/28/21 6:06:03 AM
#473:


No no, elevating your opinions and activity on here to potentially violence stopping is the way to go. You're doing it right.

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BloodMoon7
10/28/21 6:10:11 AM
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Cyric: "This is why I'm here, the divine and righteous purpose that raised my sword! Now taste my ultimate attack, hraaaaaaaaaaa!!"

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Me: :0

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BloodMoon7
10/28/21 6:17:28 AM
#476:


shockthemonkey posted...
Yall are still fucking going? Jesus
Let's GOOOOOO WOOOO!!

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Bass_X0
10/28/21 6:19:20 AM
#477:


BloodMoon7 posted...
Let's GOOOOOO WOOOO!!

*cue Maximilian Dood theme music*

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KStateKing17
10/28/21 6:19:37 AM
#478:


This topic actually moved faster than I thought it would

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godogod
10/28/21 6:24:31 AM
#479:


hockeybub89 posted...
Not sharing personal details with complete strangers is nutty now? Seems pretty ableist. Really just ignorant, because you don't need to have some sort of condition to not get so personal the first time you meet someone.

Also, the majority is wrong all the fucking time. Have you ever met a human being or read about their history?

I would never tell someone I just met jack shit. They gotta earn that.
What? Everybody should absolutely know who they are dating. Sexual identity and preference should be shared from the get go, otherwise it's deceptive and a waste of time for both parties. We're talking about dating here, and it's personal.
It's absolutely fucking common sense that it matters to people while dating. And relationships are built on trust. You lie about something big like that, they can't trust you with anything else and it's over.

You can't justify being deceptive because you are insecure and fear of being accepted because you have a smaller dating pool. Just grow a pair and own it. Have confidence that you are a trans and let people know, and come to terms with the fact that the world may see you differently than biological women, and it might be a deal breaker to many. But so what? That just means you will be closer to finding a partner that is more compatible to you. Be honest with yourself about this.

and nobody is saying you should share everything on a first date. You just need to use your brain for what things should be disclosed on what date. Nobody needs to know your medical history on a first date for example.

Most CE posters here are fairly liberal, intelligent and decent people here. 90% of people voting yes on this poll aren't trolls. It's just common courtesy and for safety as well. Just grt the hell out of your bubble and acknowledge that society outside of these threads and offline think so as well

if you really wanna hide that you are trans and not bring it up until it gets serious, that's on you. You won't get into a serious longterm relationship and you will end up with more heart break and people resenting you. I also sincerely hope you don't get hurt.

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CyricZ
10/28/21 6:55:40 AM
#480:


godogod posted...
Sexual identity and preference should be shared from the get go
So just to clarify, you're in the camp that a trans person should disclose they're trans and it's not on the other person to disclose that they don't want to date trans people?

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Machete
10/28/21 6:57:26 AM
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shnangyboos posted...
activity on here to potentially violence

lmao what is this dumb fucking trash?

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CyricZ
10/28/21 6:59:09 AM
#482:


Machete posted...
lmao what is this dumb fucking trash?
I was going to let him fix his sentence before addressing it but apparently it's exactly what he's trying to say.

Not like I can talk; I forget the "me" in "Don't get me wrong".

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RenescoStCewl
10/28/21 7:02:00 AM
#483:


I feel like it would be dangerous not to tell people you're trans before sleeping with them. Isn't that how a lot of murders happen?

I think some people didn't read the topic title. No one said trans people should tell everyone they meet they're trans. Just people they are going to sleep with.

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shnangyboos
10/28/21 7:02:50 AM
#484:


Machete posted...
lmao what is this dumb fucking trash?


Now when you really want to talk about elevating your activity on here, this is the guy.

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Machete
10/28/21 7:04:46 AM
#485:


shnangyboos posted...
Now when you really want to talk about elevating your activity on here, this is the guy.

@gwwak @DragonGirlYuki @CarrieChan

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BloodMoon7
10/28/21 7:04:57 AM
#486:


shnangyboos posted...
Now when you really want to talk about elevating your activity on here, this is the guy.
His username is a weapon.

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CyricZ
10/28/21 7:05:23 AM
#487:


I feel like the sentiment of "nothing we discuss here matters because we're all gamer trash" is more self-pitying than anything else.

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Machete
10/28/21 7:07:35 AM
#488:


BloodMoon7 posted...
His username is a weapon.

your username is a bodily fluid, a thing that orbits a planet and... 7

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CyricZ
10/28/21 7:08:58 AM
#489:


My username is the God of Madness in the Forgotten Realms D&D canon and boy will people here tell you how much I drive them crazy! *hyuk*

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BloodMoon7
10/28/21 7:14:45 AM
#490:


Machete posted...
your username is a bodily fluid, a thing that orbits a planet and... 7
My username is actually the Blood Moon from The Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild and... 7

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MrMallard
10/28/21 7:15:55 AM
#491:


/topic

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EffectAndCause
10/28/21 7:16:12 AM
#492:


Hopefully after reading these poll results transgender people will take away that they should be respectful and tolerant of the wishes of 92% of people. Its how we build a better world.

Its nice that the mods allowed this very important subject to have its full discussion.

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BloodMoon7
10/28/21 7:17:37 AM
#493:


Wow we actually did it. We're almost at 500 posts.

Now mods, lock this at 499.

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TheRadiant
10/28/21 7:21:04 AM
#494:


BloodMoon7 posted...
Wow we actually did it. We're almost at 500 posts.

Now mods, lock this at 499.
Anything about transgender is the ticket to a 500 post topic

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Machete
10/28/21 7:23:50 AM
#495:


BloodMoon7 posted...
My username is actually the Blood Moon from The Legend of Zelda: Breath of the Wild and... 7

and mine is actually just a weapon in Diablo 3 that drops around level 46 or 47

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EffectAndCause
10/28/21 7:25:35 AM
#496:


So youre both nerds, now kiss.

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CyricZ
10/28/21 7:26:48 AM
#497:


I always make sure when I play Lords of Waterdeep that I make an effort to complete the "Seal Gate to Cyric's Realm" quest.

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BloodMoon7
10/28/21 7:26:53 AM
#498:


EffectAndCause posted...
So youre both nerds, now kiss.
No that's how you get cooties.

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TheRadiant
10/28/21 7:27:18 AM
#499:


500?

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Turbam
10/28/21 7:27:30 AM
#500:


:V

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