Current Events > Should a trans person be upfront about being trans before sleeping with someone?

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Apu
10/27/21 1:29:40 PM
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Should a trans person be upfront about being trans before sleeping with someone?


Where do we stand?

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DeadBankerDream
10/27/21 1:30:23 PM
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Whose alt?

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Blade_Trinity
10/27/21 1:30:30 PM
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Yawn

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Shablagoo
10/27/21 1:31:43 PM
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I dont really care. They can say if they want, or not say if they dont want to.

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Apu
10/27/21 1:31:44 PM
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DeadBankerDream posted...
Whose alt?
Blade_Trinity posted...
Yawn
Did I offend you two in some way?

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Questionmarktarius
10/27/21 1:31:51 PM
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viewmaster_pi
10/27/21 1:32:12 PM
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Apu posted...
Where do we stand?
at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me.

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DeadBankerDream
10/27/21 1:32:35 PM
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Apu posted...
Did I offend you two in some way?
No? I was just asking whose alt you were.

Weird to assume offense at that.

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Umbreon
10/27/21 1:33:13 PM
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Oh boy 300+ posts of trans people getting trashed on while the mods do nothing.

Again.

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Vicious_Dios
10/27/21 1:33:43 PM
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DeadBankerDream posted...
Whose alt?

Blade_Trinity posted...
Yawn

You could've just answered such a simple question or only voted and gone along with the rest of your day, but nope.

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EmbraceOfDeath
10/27/21 1:34:10 PM
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DeadBankerDream posted...
No? I was just asking whose alt you were.

Weird to assume offense at that.
No it isn't. That's the normal reason someone asks that question on this board and you know it. Cut your bullshit.

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nativengine
10/27/21 1:34:26 PM
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Why does this question get asked so much here?

rookie user, never mind

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DeadBankerDream
10/27/21 1:35:03 PM
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Vicious_Dios posted...
You could've just answered such a simple question or only voted and gone along with the rest of your day, but nope.
Now see, this is what getting your knickers in a twist looks like.

Take notes, alt of unknown origin.

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KeeperOfShadows
10/27/21 1:35:35 PM
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nativengine posted...
Why does this question get asked so much here?
The same reason as every other "controversial" topic on CE: it starts arguments.

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gunplagirl
10/27/21 1:35:53 PM
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How was that username not claimed sooner than this September?

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Apu
10/27/21 1:35:53 PM
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DeadBankerDream posted...
No? I was just asking whose alt you were.

Weird to assume offense at that.
Well I think its weird to answer a question with a question. And a non-sequitur question at that.

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ElatedVenusaur
10/27/21 1:36:10 PM
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nativengine posted...
Why does this question get asked so much here?

rookie user, never mind
Straight dudes are often super insecure about their sexuality, it seems. Society is to blame.

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Apu
10/27/21 1:36:51 PM
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gunplagirl posted...
How was that username not claimed sooner than this September?
Youd be surprised at how many Simpsons characters are unclaimed.

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DeadBankerDream
10/27/21 1:36:55 PM
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EmbraceOfDeath posted...
No it isn't. That's the normal reason someone asks that question on this board and you know it. Cut your bullshit.
I think you're confusing "taking offense" with "noting controversial question by low karma account"

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SapphicBoy
10/27/21 1:37:20 PM
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Umbreon posted...
Oh boy 300+ posts of trans people getting trashed on while the mods do nothing.

Again.
The same posters keep coming back in a Groucho Marx mustache and glasses, only to make the same exact threads, with the same exact posters and posts, spanning pages and pages.

Mods say stuff doesn't get marked enough and that's why it stays up. But I always mark this blatant trolling and explain why I think it should be considered trolling. But they tend to stay up for days. This one will stay up for days

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Crescente
10/27/21 1:37:48 PM
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99% you can tell someone is trans, so...I don't think they really need to. They can if they want to.
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ledbowman
10/27/21 1:38:16 PM
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Apu posted...
Well I think its weird to answer a question with a question. And a non-sequitur question at that.
welcome to gamefaqs where we respond to your username and not what you actually typed

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Vicious_Dios
10/27/21 1:39:08 PM
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ledbowman posted...
welcome to gamefaqs where we respond to your username and not what you actually typed

+1

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Apu
10/27/21 1:39:09 PM
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SapphicBoy posted...
The same posters keep coming back in a Groucho Marx mustache and glasses, only to make the same exact threads, with the same exact posters and posts, spanning pages and pages.

Mods say stuff doesn't get marked enough and that's why it stays up. But I always mark this blatant trolling and explain why I think it should be considered trolling. But they tend to stay up for days. This one will stay up for days
Mods also complain about people marking anything they dont agree with as a TOS violation. Of the two of us, guess whos probably pissing them off worse?

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Umbreon
10/27/21 1:40:46 PM
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gunplagirl posted...
How was that username not claimed sooner than this September?

Lots of names got purged from lack of use.

Hell look at me, you think an Eeveelution wouldn't be taken for over a decade?

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SapphicBoy
10/27/21 1:43:03 PM
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Apu posted...
Mods also complain about people marking anything they dont agree with as a TOS violation. Of the two of us, guess whos probably pissing them off worse?
Why are you under the impression I'm unaware that mods dislike user concerns, but are indifferent to thinly veiled plausibly deniable threads like this?

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kingdrake2
10/27/21 1:43:18 PM
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Vicious_Dios posted...
You could've just answered such a simple question or only voted and gone along with the rest of your day,


they rather not tell the truth. they'll get stomped if they do.
either way they're screwed (much more so when they lie).
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JuanCarlos1
10/27/21 1:44:59 PM
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Yes...they should. Theres crazy people with internalized homophobia who have harmed and killed transwomen for this reason. So Id say its more about your own safety and knowing who youre going out with.

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Vicious_Dios
10/27/21 1:46:56 PM
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kingdrake2 posted...
they rather not tell the truth. they'll get stomped if they do.

lol

Stomped by whom or what exactly? The mods? The snitches? Santa Clause?

I never saw the issue of being honest with one's self and to others.

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gunplagirl
10/27/21 1:48:14 PM
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JuanCarlos1 posted...
Yes...they should. Theres crazy people with internalized homophobia who have harmed and killed transwomen for this reason. So Id say its more about your own safety and knowing who youre going out with.
People will kill us even if we say something beforehand. Like, while talking online, before making plans to meet up.

Spoiler alert, it's still all the fault of killers and people who consider us less than women.

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Gobstoppers12
10/27/21 1:50:50 PM
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See here an example of a reasonable question that's still up for debate, soon to be inexplicably locked by the mods just like all the other ones.

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Lost_All_Senses
10/27/21 1:51:33 PM
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Our standards of what we learn about each other before fucking are super low, so it's kind of on both parties lol. If I was Trans, I'd do it for my own safety. I'm not getting killed because I chose to have sex with someone sensitize to their sexuality before knowing who they are past very surface level.

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_MorningStar
10/27/21 1:52:53 PM
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gunplagirl posted...
People will kill us even if we say something beforehand. Like, while talking online, before making plans to meet up
Took long enough.

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SapphicBoy
10/27/21 1:53:41 PM
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_MorningStar posted...
Took long enough.
Excuse me?

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Nemu
10/27/21 1:55:04 PM
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Even ignoring discussions of consent of the partner, hiding it would definitely be an extremely selfish and assholish thing to do. I assume the majority of trans people are sensible enough to be upfront about it, but it is a worthwhile discussion regardless.
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gunplagirl
10/27/21 1:55:52 PM
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_MorningStar posted...
Took long enough.
I beg your pardon, but what?

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CyricZ
10/27/21 1:55:54 PM
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It's not my place to tell them what they "should" disclose.

*rolls up sleeves*

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Gobstoppers12
10/27/21 1:59:33 PM
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totalnerdken posted...
I'm still trying to form my thoughts on this.

But I will say the extreme overreaction from conservatives, where they want to assault a trans person for not revealing that is disgusting. Trans people don't deserve to be brutally attacked in that situation.
It's pretty inappropriate of you to assign these extremely rare occurrences to "conservatives" as if it's just something we're known for doing.

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Umbreon
10/27/21 2:00:13 PM
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Gobstoppers12 posted...
It's pretty inappropriate of you to assign these extremely rare occurrences to "conservatives" as if it's just something we're known for doing.

Bathroom laws

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EffectAndCause
10/27/21 2:00:46 PM
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OVERGOATED posted...
Fuck this. Topic marked and hidden.

Thatll show em!

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Prestoff
10/27/21 2:01:40 PM
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Um, no shit? I've had friends who dated trans people before and none of them have this issue.

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Gobstoppers12
10/27/21 2:02:54 PM
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Umbreon posted...
Bathroom laws
... have nothing to do with violent assault.

Is how I'm sure you were planning to finish that sentence before Candlejack got y

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gatorsPENSbucs
10/27/21 2:03:38 PM
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OVERGOATED posted...
Fuck this. Topic marked and hidden.
Whats wrong with this topic and what would you even mark it as?

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FortuneCookie
10/27/21 2:04:53 PM
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It makes no difference to me personally. I'll take a cisgender woman, a transgender woman, or maybe even an effeminate dude. But I can see how it might be an issue for some people.
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