Poll of the Day > One of my friends is having a meltdown because a girl he likes has a boyfriend.

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THEGODDAMNBATMA
02/10/21 12:01:43 PM
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Guess he fell for some girl he started working with one week ago.

"How could she do this to me? All women are immoral and egotistical. They don't deserve rights."

"What happened"

"She said we could hangout, then told me that she didn't care about me and to fuck off and posted a picture of her and her boyfriend on Snapchat!"

"She told you to fuck off and that she didn't care about you?"

"N-No, but that's what it felt like when I saw the picture!"

Men are so fucking weak, stop falling in love or imagining a distant future with someone you clearly don't even know.
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JOExHIGASHI
02/10/21 12:03:47 PM
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Is he an incel?

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LinkPizza
02/10/21 12:05:15 PM
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I do have a solution to the problem. But it could end with him arrested (if he does it wrong) and me modded. So, I cant help...
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THEGODDAMNBATMA
02/10/21 12:05:26 PM
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JOExHIGASHI posted...
Is he an incel?
See, I don't even use that term because I have seen genuinely attractive men who could get laid any time they want have meltdowns like this claiming all women are evil and out to get you.
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Jen0125
02/10/21 12:28:16 PM
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I think you hit a big part of it. These people begin imagine some perfect relationship that was never going to happen and then get mad when the woman doesn't play along.

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Blightzkrieg
02/10/21 12:44:21 PM
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It's an almost child like view of relationships. People expect to find their one true love who has only ever loved them and will only ever love them.

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Yellow
02/10/21 1:19:13 PM
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A week? Hahahaha

Why are you friends with such a pussy. I hope you have him a hard time for that.

I've had it 200 times worse than that and was nothing but nice to the girl afterwards. It was my fault making it so bad for myself. Guys make this narrative in their head and they obsess over it.

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ReturnOfFa
02/10/21 1:23:58 PM
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It would've been very hard to convince me out of this mindset 10 years ago. Meh. People just need to figure it out and grow out of it. Calling him a pussy won't help.

Although wait, I definitely did not think like this O_O ""How could she do this to me? All women are immoral and egotistical. They don't deserve rights."

I was more of the unrequited love type lmao

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Smarkil
02/10/21 1:39:43 PM
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This didnt happen

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Jen0125
02/10/21 1:41:46 PM
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Smarkil posted...
This didnt happen

It's not far fetched

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LinkPizza
02/10/21 1:44:53 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
It's not far fetched

This. I agree. I mean, Ive seen milder versions of this in real life. This is something that can, and probably has, happened...
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grimhilde00
02/10/21 1:49:27 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
I think you hit a big part of it. These people begin imagine some perfect relationship that was never going to happen and then get mad when the woman doesn't play along.

Yeah not viewing your object of desire as a person with their own lives, motivations, choices helps with that too. They imagine this scenario as if the other person is just a side actor in their make believe narrative.

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Jen0125
02/10/21 1:58:50 PM
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grimhilde00 posted...
Yeah not viewing your object of desire as a person with their own lives, motivations, choices helps with that too. They imagine this scenario as if the other person is just a side actor in their make believe narrative.

They just use another person as an empty shell to project their desires into and then get mad when they aren't at all that person lol

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THEGODDAMNBATMA
02/10/21 2:10:01 PM
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Zangulus posted...
#ThatEscalatedQuickly
Honestly I have to feel like he's joking when he says shit like that, but he is a really far-right dude and accused me of whiteknighting.
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LinkPizza
02/10/21 2:14:49 PM
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THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...
accused me of whiteknighting.

I got accused of whiteknighting for a girl on CE. But that was because I decided to hear what she had to say rather than shame her like everyone else. I had no reason to shame her. I knew nothing about her. Im also gay, and have a BF. It was weird...
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MeteoricBurst
02/10/21 2:16:25 PM
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Sounds like he's on a fast track to prison.

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Gobstoppers12
02/10/21 2:57:28 PM
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It sounds like an exaggerated, fanfictiony version of something that could realistically happen. It's written like dialogue, not like something a person would actually say.

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MICHALECOLE
02/10/21 3:27:49 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
I got accused of whiteknighting for a girl on CE. But that was because I decided to hear what she had to say rather than shame her like everyone else. I had no reason to shame her. I knew nothing about her. Im also gay, and have a BF. It was weird...
Wait a god damn minute. Youre gay?!
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LinkPizza
02/10/21 3:32:17 PM
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MICHALECOLE posted...
Wait a god damn minute. Youre gay?!

Dont you remember all those nights we spent together?
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Muscles
02/10/21 3:43:33 PM
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That's pathetic, and if he really believes all women are immoral and egotistical why would he keep trying to get with them?

I never got this mindset, I have been rejected like 100 times and never thought they were a bitch for doing so, let alone all women

If the attraction isn't there it isn't there, deal with it

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JOExHIGASHI
02/10/21 3:46:46 PM
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Muscles posted...
That's pathetic, and if he really believes all women are immoral and egotistical why would he keep trying to get with them?

I never got this mindset, I have been rejected like 100 times and never thought they were a bitch for doing so, let alone all women

If the attraction isn't there it isn't there, deal with it
It's so they don't have to take responsibility and can blame someone else for their lack of success

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Muscles
02/10/21 3:49:05 PM
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JOExHIGASHI posted...
It's so they don't have to take responsibility and can blame someone else for their lack of success
Wouldn't you rather try to improve so you can succeed as opposed to wallowing in your own emotional filth? It seems like the best course of action to actually get the results you want

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LinkPizza
02/10/21 3:50:08 PM
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Muscles posted...
Wouldn't you rather try to improve so you can succeed as opposed to wallowing in your own emotional filth? It seems like the best course of action to actually get the results you want

Probably. But its easier to blame someone else. So, thats what they do. Also, some think theyre already perfect...
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Smarkil
02/10/21 10:02:55 PM
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Jen0125 posted...
It's not far fetched

The situation isn't far fetched. The way TC wrote it is. That's not how people talk in real life. This ain't no anime.

I also feel like people ignore who's posting because the TC is a regular shitposter.

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THEGODDAMNBATMA
02/11/21 1:09:48 AM
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this guy is sending me pictures of her house from google maps. do i call the police?
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ZBug_
02/11/21 1:14:54 AM
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THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...
Honestly I have to feel like he's joking when he says shit like that, but he is a really far-right dude and accused me of whiteknighting.
Not that I condone violence, but he needs to be punched in the nose

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GunslingerGunsl
02/11/21 1:19:30 AM
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There was this one time some girl agreed to go out with me to play pool and have a drink. I thought it was a date, but I guess I never said the word date. When I asked her if she'd like to go out again, she told me that she had a boyfriend. Sometimes I think girls purposely keep things ambiguous... of course guys are just as likely to do the same thing.

Anyway, a few weeks later, I asked the same girl if she'd like to go see a movie as friends because I thought she was cool. She suggested Netflix at my apartment instead and ended up cheating on her boyfriend with me for the next 6 months or so. It reminded me why so many people have trust issues. I mean I felt like an asshole for it too but she was probably the hottest girl I've ever been with and I had trouble saying no for quite a while, not that it makes it any better on my end.

Your friend in the OP just sounds like an entitled little boy though.

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LinkPizza
02/11/21 6:59:58 AM
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GunslingerGunsl posted...
cheating on her boyfriend with me for the next 6 months or so.

You kept seeing her?
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Yellow
02/11/21 8:26:19 AM
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THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...
this guy is sending me pictures of her house from google maps. do i call the police?
The fuck

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BUMPED2002
02/11/21 8:32:34 AM
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Tough luck get over it and move on.

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woody71
02/11/21 9:56:03 AM
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THEGODDAMNBATMA posted...
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Men are so fucking weak, stop falling in love or imagining a distant future with someone you clearly don't even know.

I dont disagree but woman arnt much better most woman claim they want a romantic sensetive men with humour but when they fubd him he usually enss up in the "friendzone" im talking from experience because i USED to be that guy woman would do everyone a favor if they told men what they realy want

The reason they dont is 2fold
Contradiction
Sensetive-strength
Humour-serious
Non jealous-protective

When most men are presented a list of the positive sounding by most women or the more negative mostly spread by men or the holywood ideal

Young men aspire to those values (most do it without realizing it) and when they grow up they are usually dissapointed when reality hits them

secons is oppertunism all ill say is it varries but it does play a role in attraction

The truth is in the middle the less flattering quallities (for woman to admit they find artractive) usually help toward atraction

Alphaman
Strong fisycal and mental but at this stage not in a fiflgurative sense
Serious
Bold
Rich(er)
Good looks
Etc.
Aome may be overlooked if the others fill. The gap

Now the tricky part
To cultivate attraction into love you need those qualities girls tout they like in alll men (the basic nice guy) WITHOUT losing the attrection qualties this feels contradictory and it is thats why most women deny this and there is so much condlict) nut its a matter of where and when to be strong and when to be vulnerable when ro be doominant or submisiveand when to be serious or making her laugh

No matter what woman say it wont be helpfull 99% of the time

Also if someone doesnt feel the same wat you do that person isnt deserving of your live so its best to move on

tldr men aee idiots and dont seevthe difference between what a woman says and what she actually wants

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HornedLion
02/11/21 10:02:09 AM
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Fun Fact: If a woman is unsure of your feelings towards her, itll make you more attractive in her eyes.


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IronBornCorps
02/11/21 10:10:26 AM
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HornedLion posted...
Fun Fact: If a woman is unsure of your feelings towards her, itll make you more attractive in her eyes.

Lol what?

If you want dating advice here's some...don't take dating advice on PotD.

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woody71
02/11/21 11:06:58 AM
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IronBornCorps posted...
Lol what?

If you want dating advice here's some...don't take dating advice on PotD.
He is right but most woman are sure there is non if you create doubt you will be in heelr toylughts while a full admission of love can lead to a dismissal or denying leads to ignarance and "friendzone" doubt can be a potent weapon if wielded correctly

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Jen0125
02/11/21 11:08:31 AM
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Why are men like this

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HornedLion
02/11/21 11:08:34 AM
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woody71 posted...
He is right but most woman are sure there is non if you create doubt you will be in heelr toylughts while a full admission of love can lead to a dismissal or denying leads to ignarance and "friendzone" doubt can be a potent weapon if wielded correctly

Your new tag.



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Firewerx
02/11/21 11:52:27 AM
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What a bitch. Imagine her, daring to have a boyfriend before a week ago! Did she have no consideration whatsoever for the feelings of some guy she hadn't even met?!

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IronBornCorps
02/11/21 11:55:55 AM
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Jen0125 posted...
Why are men like this

Why ARE men like this?
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Blightzkrieg
02/11/21 12:20:41 PM
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If I could rearrange the alphabet, I'd like to get hit by a bus ;)

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Yellow
02/11/21 12:23:12 PM
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IronBornCorps posted...
Lol what?

If you want dating advice here's some...don't take dating advice on PotD.
Seriously

Just go at it with a positive and mature attitude and act like a normal human being

Don't play mind games and don't act like a psycho

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Blightzkrieg
02/11/21 12:26:42 PM
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Yellow posted...
Seriously

Just go at it with a positive and mature attitude and act like a normal human being

Don't play mind games and don't act like a psycho
getting serious chad privilege vibes here

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IronBornCorps
02/11/21 12:34:02 PM
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I enter this topic and read the words, then I smell toast....stronk?
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GunslingerGunsl
02/11/21 12:48:51 PM
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LinkPizza posted...
You kept seeing her?
Yeah :/

I had just gone through a break up with my ex and had really liked this girl. After she told me she had a boyfriend, she told me that he was always cheating on her so I guess I used that to justify it at the time.
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Fierce_Deity_08
02/11/21 2:37:43 PM
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Thats when you go on The Jerry Springer Show and talk it out.

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Yellow
02/11/21 2:50:12 PM
#46:


Blightzkrieg posted...
getting serious chad privilege vibes here
Thanks that means a lot to me

Also please tell me you're being sarcastic because I can't tell lol.

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DirtBasedSoap
02/11/21 2:51:17 PM
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Blightzkrieg posted...
getting serious chad privilege vibes here
seriously, do you realize how hard it is to not act like an unhinged loser all the time?

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Zeus
02/11/21 2:58:13 PM
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This board still bites at these obviously fake stories?

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Mead
02/11/21 3:02:45 PM
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TC making up stories for the internet again

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Muscles
02/11/21 3:08:11 PM
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Zeus posted...
This board still bites at these obviously fake stories?
Sometimes its fun to play along

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