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ElatedVenusaur 02/04/21 9:39:59 AM #52:	Good on you, TC. <cite>ElatedVenusaur posted [p:950267665] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Good on you, TC. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Pogo_Marimo 02/04/21 9:55:59 AM #53:	Alucard188 posted... I love how people are shitting on the TC here, like there isn't a moral or ethical quandary to be had when you're dating a co-worker almost half your age. There isn't an ethical quandary. The risk of a younger person dating an older person is of them being exploited. If you are the older person, then you have control over whether to exploit them or not. You can choose to be a shitty person or a good person in the relationship. That isn't a quandary, it's just a question of your character. --- 'Cause you know that I have no fear, ain't gonna walk into the river and disappear. I'm gonna be a powerful man. Red blood running down the broken sand. <cite>Pogo_Marimo posted [p:950268043] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Alucard188 posted... </cite> <quote>I love how people are shitting on the TC here, like there isn't a moral or ethical quandary to be had when you're dating a co-worker almost half your age.</quote>There isn't an ethical quandary. The risk of a younger person dating an older person is of them being exploited. If you are the older person, then you have control over whether to exploit them or not. You can choose to be a shitty person or a good person in the relationship. That isn't a quandary, it's just a question of your character. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Alpha218 02/04/21 10:00:59 AM #54:	Glad to see TC has some form of standards --- I'm Commander Shepard, and this is my favorite user on the Citadel. https://discord.gg/Wgtz2y9 - Come join us for Among Us <cite>Alpha218 posted [p:950268177] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Glad to see TC has some form of standards </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jiek_Fafn 02/04/21 10:06:37 AM #55:	Theres always a lot of hot 19 year olds here. They flirt with me. I love it --- PSN: Jiek <cite>Jiek_Fafn posted [p:950268302] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Theres always a lot of hot 19 year olds here. They flirt with me. I love it </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Cocytus 02/04/21 10:07:18 AM #56:	Then you best run away. <cite>Cocytus posted [p:950268323] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Then you best run away. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Frizzurd 02/04/21 10:30:56 AM #57:	Good on you TC. I am gay, and don't think it's cool to date more than ten years outside my age either. I certainly don't like men old enough to be my father, creeping on me. --- Super Mario Maker 2: Cauca Ape JVC-2R6-4QG <cite>Frizzurd posted [p:950268920] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Good on you TC. I am gay, and don't think it's cool to date more than ten years outside my age either. I certainly don't like men old enough to be my father, creeping on me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Fizaga 02/04/21 10:32:23 AM #58:	Alucard188 posted... I love how people are shitting on the TC here, like there isn't a moral or ethical quandary to be had when you're dating a co-worker almost half your age. ^ This. While I don't have issues with age gaps, if everyone are consenting adults, its their lives, this would be a bad idea all round. I certainly wouldn't be making my interest known in this situation, I'd put it down to "shit happens" and leave it. It could go really badly. If they were clearly interested then that changes things a bit, but 19 is still a teenager which gives you an advantage over them even if you try not to have one, and there is the issue of work colleagues. --- DS - (ix) I helped with a game: https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/world-war-b/id1096584665 <cite>Fizaga posted [p:950268958] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Alucard188 posted... </cite> <quote>I love how people are shitting on the TC here, like there isn't a moral or ethical quandary to be had when you're dating a co-worker almost half your age.</quote> ^ This. While I don't have issues with age gaps, if everyone are consenting adults, its their lives, this would be a bad idea all round. I certainly wouldn't be making my interest known in this situation, I'd put it down to "shit happens" and leave it. It could go really badly. If they were clearly interested then that changes things a bit, but 19 is still a teenager which gives you an advantage over them even if you try not to have one, and there is the issue of work colleagues. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Sad_Face 02/04/21 10:46:25 AM #59:	Pogo_Marimo posted... There isn't an ethical quandary. The risk of a younger person dating an older person is of them being exploited. If you are the older person, then you have control over whether to exploit them or not. You can choose to be a s*ty person or a good person in the relationship. That isn't a quandary, it's just a question of your character. This isn't necessarily due to age but inexperience (they're not mutually exclusive). I had friends who had ample dating experience but still were unprepared for their relationships that ended up flipping their worlds and made life 10000x more difficult. But it is true that the biggest boon of a younger girl is that she's more malleable and willing to learn while someone OP's age has had her ideals forged by years of life experience which would make it very difficult for her to adapt to a different lifestyle. This makes a difference if you're aiming for a grand life goal that involves a good deal of risk. I don't know what OP's ambitions are so these things may or may not matter to him. --- https://imgur.com/WmIB016 https://imgur.com/53FGj6K <cite>Sad_Face posted [p:950269352] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Pogo_Marimo posted... </cite> <quote>There isn't an ethical quandary. The risk of a younger person dating an older person is of them being exploited. If you are the older person, then you have control over whether to exploit them or not. You can choose to be a s*ty person or a good person in the relationship. That isn't a quandary, it's just a question of your character.</quote> This isn't necessarily due to age but inexperience (they're not mutually exclusive). I had friends who had ample dating experience but still were unprepared for their relationships that ended up flipping their worlds and made life 10000x more difficult. But it is true that the biggest boon of a younger girl is that she's more malleable and willing to learn while someone OP's age has had her ideals forged by years of life experience which would make it very difficult for her to adapt to a different lifestyle. This makes a difference if you're aiming for a grand life goal that involves a good deal of risk. I don't know what OP's ambitions are so these things may or may not matter to him. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
skermac 02/04/21 10:48:19 AM #60:	Over 18 dont let it bother you --- To the edge of the universe and back, endure and survive <cite>skermac posted [p:950269407] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Over 18 dont let it bother you </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
skermac 02/04/21 10:49:13 AM #61:	Pogo_Marimo posted... There isn't an ethical quandary. The risk of a younger person dating an older person is of them being exploited. If you are the older person, then you have control over whether to exploit them or not. You can choose to be a shitty person or a good person in the relationship. That isn't a quandary, it's just a question of your character. ^this --- To the edge of the universe and back, endure and survive <cite>skermac posted [p:950269435] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Pogo_Marimo posted... </cite> <quote>There isn't an ethical quandary. The risk of a younger person dating an older person is of them being exploited. If you are the older person, then you have control over whether to exploit them or not. You can choose to be a shitty person or a good person in the relationship. That isn't a quandary, it's just a question of your character.</quote> ^this </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
skermac 02/04/21 10:51:17 AM #62:	The bad thing is dating a co worker not her age check with your companies dating rules some dont allow dating co workers --- To the edge of the universe and back, endure and survive <cite>skermac posted [p:950269499] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>The bad thing is dating a co worker not her age check with your companies dating rules some dont allow dating co workers </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GrabASnickers 02/04/21 10:56:20 AM #63:	Not surprised that a site full of virgins/people who don't get laid often has a bunch of people who don't bat an eye at this. You'd have to be pretty desperate to date a 19 year old at 34, I mean ewww. Though it's pretty ridiculous that this guy thought she was 25 and now decided to share lol. I'd keep it to myself if I did something like that <cite>GrabASnickers posted [p:950269637] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Not surprised that a site full of virgins/people who don't get laid often has a bunch of people who don't bat an eye at this. You'd have to be pretty desperate to date a 19 year old at 34, I mean ewww. Though it's pretty ridiculous that this guy thought she was 25 and now decided to share lol. I'd keep it to myself if I did something like that </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
skermac 02/04/21 10:58:54 AM #64:	GrabASnickers posted... Not surprised that a site full of virgins/people who don't get laid often has a bunch of people who don't bat an eye at this. You'd have to be pretty desperate to date a 19 year old at 34, I mean ewww. Though it's pretty ridiculous that this guy thought she was 25 and now decided to share lol. I'd keep it to myself if I did something like that sorry to see you are so close minded, dont judge others --- To the edge of the universe and back, endure and survive <cite>skermac posted [p:950269713] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>GrabASnickers posted... </cite> <quote>Not surprised that a site full of virgins/people who don't get laid often has a bunch of people who don't bat an eye at this. You'd have to be pretty desperate to date a 19 year old at 34, I mean ewww. Though it's pretty ridiculous that this guy thought she was 25 and now decided to share lol. I'd keep it to myself if I did something like that</quote> sorry to see you are so close minded, dont judge others </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dabrikishaw15 02/04/21 11:11:44 AM #65:	Snickers is right though. Normal people in their 30's wouldn't think of dating a 19 year old because they understand it' creepy. --- 3DS FC: 4382 - 2449 - 5707 IGN: Anthony <cite>Dabrikishaw15 posted [p:950270049] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Snickers is right though. Normal people in their 30's wouldn't think of dating a 19 year old because they understand it' creepy. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 02/04/21 11:13:19 AM #66:	It's not about dating, it's about fucking. --- I'm in Chicago, I'm shaking my head. <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:950270087] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>It's not about dating, it's about fucking. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Fizaga 02/04/21 11:14:01 AM #67:	Sad_Face posted... This isn't necessarily due to age but inexperience (they're not mutually exclusive). I had friends who had ample dating experience but still were unprepared for their relationships that ended up flipping their worlds and made life 10000x more difficult. But it is true that the biggest boon of a younger girl is that she's more malleable and willing to learn while someone OP's age has had her ideals forged by years of life experience which would make it very difficult for her to adapt to a different lifestyle. This makes a difference if you're aiming for a grand life goal that involves a good deal of risk. I don't know what OP's ambitions are so these things may or may not matter to him. This is true, but I think it goes deeper than that. I've done the younger woman thing twice, one ended badly and the other (my current GF as it happens) is going well. The key difference is that while my GF is younger than me, shes older than the one that went badly. Ironically, the one that went badly was 19 when it all started. It wasn't something I went into lightly, I had just gotten out of a very bad long term relationship so my mindset was like "okay, I'll give this a chance". I was as fluid as possible about it all, and still, loads of problems started to occur. The biggest problem was what we wanted from each other. Which was ironic because I wanted to take things slow, but she pushed quite hard to move faster. But she ended up confusing the hell out of me, talking big and then freaking out about it when I eventually started to come around to that. I think when someone is 19/20 they're starting to get ready for serious relationships so toy with the idea, but just aren't there yet. It causes problems, and we were just discussing the possible future, not actively planning anything. Then there are ambitions, even though I was more tied down than her I was really flexible, but it was almost impossible to draw any compromise. That was definitely an age thing. Also, arguments tend not to resolve themselves well. Needless to say, it didn't last and we both ended up getting hurt when it ended and I wasn't doing that again. A short time later, stuff started to develop with a friend. She was also younger so I was way more hesitant about it, but people around me encouraged me to give it a go. While she was younger, she was in her early 20's and its been a totally different experience. Both mostly on the same page, progressing at around the same pace, planning stuff wasn't stressful, both flexible, everything is good and normal. We have a great relationship. People change a lot between 19 and their 20's. I think 19 is just too young, if someone is younger I think they need to be in their 20's for you to be at all on the same page with stuff. So yeah, TC, you're making the right choice. From experience, it doesn't tend to work out well. --- DS - (ix) I helped with a game: https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/world-war-b/id1096584665 <cite>Fizaga posted [p:950270112] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Sad_Face posted... </cite> <quote>This isn't necessarily due to age but inexperience (they're not mutually exclusive). I had friends who had ample dating experience but still were unprepared for their relationships that ended up flipping their worlds and made life 10000x more difficult. But it is true that the biggest boon of a younger girl is that she's more malleable and willing to learn while someone OP's age has had her ideals forged by years of life experience which would make it very difficult for her to adapt to a different lifestyle. This makes a difference if you're aiming for a grand life goal that involves a good deal of risk. I don't know what OP's ambitions are so these things may or may not matter to him.</quote> This is true, but I think it goes deeper than that. I've done the younger woman thing twice, one ended badly and the other (my current GF as it happens) is going well. The key difference is that while my GF is younger than me, shes older than the one that went badly. Ironically, the one that went badly was 19 when it all started. It wasn't something I went into lightly, I had just gotten out of a very bad long term relationship so my mindset was like "okay, I'll give this a chance". I was as fluid as possible about it all, and still, loads of problems started to occur. The biggest problem was what we wanted from each other. Which was ironic because I wanted to take things slow, but she pushed quite hard to move faster. But she ended up confusing the hell out of me, talking big and then freaking out about it when I eventually started to come around to that. I think when someone is 19/20 they're starting to get ready for serious relationships so toy with the idea, but just aren't there yet. It causes problems, and we were just discussing the possible future, not actively planning anything. Then there are ambitions, even though I was more tied down than her I was really flexible, but it was almost impossible to draw any compromise. That was definitely an age thing. Also, arguments tend not to resolve themselves well. Needless to say, it didn't last and we both ended up getting hurt when it ended and I wasn't doing that again. A short time later, stuff started to develop with a friend. She was also younger so I was way more hesitant about it, but people around me encouraged me to give it a go. While she was younger, she was in her early 20's and its been a totally different experience. Both mostly on the same page, progressing at around the same pace, planning stuff wasn't stressful, both flexible, everything is good and normal. We have a great relationship. People change a lot between 19 and their 20's. I think 19 is just too young, if someone is younger I think they need to be in their 20's for you to be at all on the same page with stuff. So yeah, TC, you're making the right choice. From experience, it doesn't tend to work out well. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GrabASnickers 02/04/21 11:14:42 AM #68:	Flockaveli posted... It's not about dating, it's about fucking. Good job making this sound... just even more creepy? <cite>GrabASnickers posted [p:950270140] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Flockaveli posted... </cite> <quote>It's not about dating, it's about fucking.</quote> Good job making this sound... just even more creepy? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Fizaga 02/04/21 11:17:48 AM #69:	GrabASnickers posted... Not surprised that a site full of virgins/people who don't get laid often has a bunch of people who don't bat an eye at this. You'd have to be pretty desperate to date a 19 year old at 34, I mean ewww. Though it's pretty ridiculous that this guy thought she was 25 and now decided to share lol. I'd keep it to myself if I did something like that No, not desperate. Thats a cheap stereotype. Typically, its not desperate virgins who find themselves in these situations. I know lots of people who have done this stuff, sure sometimes it might be desperation or something weird. More often than not though, its just a case of getting swept up in something, having a "well, you only live once" mindset and believing that it'll all work out. Followed by getting hurt. --- DS - (ix) I helped with a game: https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/world-war-b/id1096584665 <cite>Fizaga posted [p:950270226] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>GrabASnickers posted... </cite> <quote>Not surprised that a site full of virgins/people who don't get laid often has a bunch of people who don't bat an eye at this. You'd have to be pretty desperate to date a 19 year old at 34, I mean ewww. Though it's pretty ridiculous that this guy thought she was 25 and now decided to share lol. I'd keep it to myself if I did something like that</quote> No, not desperate. Thats a cheap stereotype. Typically, its not desperate virgins who find themselves in these situations. I know lots of people who have done this stuff, sure sometimes it might be desperation or something weird. More often than not though, its just a case of getting swept up in something, having a "well, you only live once" mindset and believing that it'll all work out. Followed by getting hurt. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GrabASnickers 02/04/21 11:21:33 AM #70:	Yeah but these people aren't in the situation and the guy already made up his mind he wasn't going to do anything, and a bunch of people are like "hell yeah do it bro". Comes off very much like they'd do just about anything (legal) to get some <cite>GrabASnickers posted [p:950270337] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Yeah but these people aren't in the situation and the guy already made up his mind he wasn't going to do anything, and a bunch of people are like "hell yeah do it bro". Comes off very much like they'd do just about anything (legal) to get some </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
skermac 02/04/21 11:24:04 AM #71:	I personally know a guy thats 42 his wife is 19 I have no problems with it because you can tell they are in love but sometimes it seems she slightly manipulates him, he wasnt looking for a youtgirl but it randomly happened some people need to stop being judgmental I think those calling it gross are jealous, just my opinion --- To the edge of the universe and back, endure and survive <cite>skermac posted [p:950270411] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>I personally know a guy thats 42 his wife is 19 I have no problems with it because you can tell they are in love but sometimes it seems she slightly manipulates him, he wasnt looking for a youtgirl but it randomly happened some people need to stop being judgmental I think those calling it gross are jealous, just my opinion </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Fizaga 02/04/21 11:26:03 AM #72:	GrabASnickers posted... Yeah but these people aren't in the situation and the guy already made up his mind he wasn't going to do anything, and a bunch of people are like "hell yeah do it bro". Comes off very much like they'd do just about anything (legal) to get some Oh yeah, the ones who are saying "its hot", absolutely. But the ones who are more "hey, why not"... thats very typical. When I threw caution to the wind, so many people were saying that. And I mean guys being jovial, women friends who are completely rational, were just like "hey, live, you spend years in a relationship... now its time to live again, blah blah blah". So that sentiment is totally common. BIB: Yeah. I agree, from experience, he really shouldn't. --- DS - (ix) I helped with a game: https://itunes.apple.com/us/app/world-war-b/id1096584665 <cite>Fizaga posted [p:950270474] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>GrabASnickers posted... </cite> <quote>Yeah but these people aren't in the situation and the guy already made up his mind he wasn't going to do anything, and a bunch of people are like "hell yeah do it bro". Comes off very much like they'd do just about anything (legal) to get some</quote> Oh yeah, the ones who are saying "its hot", absolutely. But the ones who are more "hey, why not"... thats very typical. When I threw caution to the wind, so many people were saying that. And I mean guys being jovial, women friends who are completely rational, were just like "hey, live, you spend years in a relationship... now its time to live again, blah blah blah". So that sentiment is totally common. BIB: Yeah. I agree, from experience, he really shouldn't. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GrabASnickers 02/04/21 11:31:26 AM #73:	skermac posted... I personally know a guy thats 42 his wife is 19 I have no problems with it because you can tell they are in love but sometimes it seems she slightly manipulates him, he wasnt looking for a youtgirl but it randomly happened some people need to stop being judgmental I think those calling it gross are jealous, just my opinion The wife part makes this one especially weird. Either they really rushed into marriage or this guy started getting to know her before she was 18 <cite>GrabASnickers posted [p:950270655] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>skermac posted... </cite> <quote>I personally know a guy thats 42 his wife is 19 I have no problems with it because you can tell they are in love but sometimes it seems she slightly manipulates him, he wasnt looking for a youtgirl but it randomly happened some people need to stop being judgmental I think those calling it gross are jealous, just my opinion</quote> The wife part makes this one especially weird. Either they really rushed into marriage or this guy started getting to know her before she was 18 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
smoke_break 02/04/21 11:31:53 AM #74:	skermac posted... Over 18 dont let it bother you This, anything else is nonsense. --- https://imgur.com/mOCFlRv <cite>smoke_break posted [p:950270666] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>skermac posted... </cite> <quote>Over 18 dont let it bother you</quote>This, anything else is nonsense. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
skermac 02/04/21 11:42:58 AM #75:	smoke_break posted... This, anything else is nonsense. agreed --- To the edge of the universe and back, endure and survive <cite>skermac posted [p:950271039] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>smoke_break posted... </cite> <quote>This, anything else is nonsense.</quote> agreed </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BB mofo 02/04/21 11:44:03 AM #76:	Two monks were walking down a path when they see a beautiful young woman lying by the road. She has twisted her ankle and asks if they can help carry her back home. The older monk puts her on his back and carries her a little ways to the house she points out to them. The two monks continue on their journey, but the younger monk is unable to get the beautiful young woman out of his mind. Finally, he just has to bring it up to his traveling companion. "She was gorgeous and her robe was loose. You could almost see her breasts. How could you carry her like that as if it were nothing. Weren't you afraid of being tempted and breaking your Buddhist vows?" The older monk nods. "Yes she was very beautiful and I was tempted while I carried her. But I only carried her to her doorstep and left her there hours ago. After all that time, why are you still carrying her?" --- "But who prays for Satan? Who, in eighteen centuries, has had the common humanity to pray for the one sinner that needed it most?" -Mark Twain <cite>BB mofo posted [p:950271066] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Two monks were walking down a path when they see a beautiful young woman lying by the road. She has twisted her ankle and asks if they can help carry her back home. The older monk puts her on his back and carries her a little ways to the house she points out to them. The two monks continue on their journey, but the younger monk is unable to get the beautiful young woman out of his mind. Finally, he just has to bring it up to his traveling companion. "She was gorgeous and her robe was loose. You could almost see her breasts. How could you carry her like that as if it were nothing. Weren't you afraid of being tempted and breaking your Buddhist vows?" The older monk nods. "Yes she was very beautiful and I was tempted while I carried her. But I only carried her to her doorstep and left her there hours ago. After all that time, why are you still carrying her?" </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Taharqa_ 02/04/21 11:49:06 AM #77:	I'm 35 and I can't date a 19 year old, I don't care how fine she is at that age she's (mentally) a kid to me. --- "We tried to tell y'all." - African-American proverb <cite>Taharqa_ posted [p:950271207] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>I'm 35 and I can't date a 19 year old, I don't care how fine she is at that age she's (mentally) a kid to me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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nothanks1 02/04/21 1:44:28 PM #79:	I should probably point out that being around teenagers that are 17/18 have shown me that they are terribly immature. So no I won't be trying to get in her pants. But thank you for trying to convince me taking advantage of a 19 year old is a good idea. No problem with those saying it's fine. Those that seem to be overjoyed at the prospect of the age difference are a bit odd considering she literally only graduated about a year ago --- for the alcohlics https://www.aa.org/ <cite>nothanks1 posted [p:950275346] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>I should probably point out that being around teenagers that are 17/18 have shown me that they are terribly immature. So no I won't be trying to get in her pants. But thank you for trying to convince me taking advantage of a 19 year old is a good idea. No problem with those saying it's fine. Those that seem to be overjoyed at the prospect of the age difference are a bit odd considering she literally only graduated about a year ago</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
R1masher 02/04/21 1:46:27 PM #80:	lame ending to this thread/10 --- R1R1R1R1R1R1 <cite>R1masher posted [p:950275428] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>lame ending to this thread/10 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Flockaveli 02/04/21 1:53:03 PM #81:	GrabASnickers posted... Good job making this sound... just even more creepy? What? Wanting to date an 18 year old is way weirder than just fucking one time. --- I'm in Chicago, I'm shaking my head. <cite>Flockaveli posted [p:950275690] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>GrabASnickers posted... </cite> <quote>Good job making this sound... just even more creepy?</quote>What? Wanting to date an 18 year old is way weirder than just fucking one time. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EmilyWillis 02/04/21 2:01:20 PM #82:	even if she was your age or older TC, the fact that she's a co-worker makes it NOPE for me because we've all seen/heard about how people dating co-workers ends up badly like 99.9999% of the time her being 19 is irrelevant in this situation imo because dating co-workers = blerghhhhhhh HARD PASS anyways --- https://i.ibb.co/3MLyHFP/emilywillis-DELICIOUS.jpg <cite>EmilyWillis posted [p:950275983] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>even if she was your age or older TC, the fact that she's a co-worker makes it NOPE for me because we've all seen/heard about how people dating co-workers ends up badly like 99.9999% of the time her being 19 is irrelevant in this situation imo because dating co-workers = blerghhhhhhh HARD PASS anyways </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nothanks1 02/04/21 2:02:28 PM #83:	It's a school. Most people are here for life and meet their partner here I think out of maybe 30 couples I know about here only 2 met outside here and both were in college --- for the alcohlics https://www.aa.org/ <cite>nothanks1 posted [p:950276026] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>It's a school. Most people are here for life and meet their partner here I think out of maybe 30 couples I know about here only 2 met outside here and both were in college</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Lost_All_Senses 02/04/21 2:03:41 PM #84:	Appreciate you not being a creeper TC. You're a real man. --- Name checks out "Try to talk and they ain't listening, but they'll point it out when you get ignorant" - Dreezy <cite>Lost_All_Senses posted [p:950276075] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Appreciate you not being a creeper TC. You're a real man. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
skermac 02/04/21 6:04:36 PM #85:	EmilyWillis posted... even if she was your age or older TC, the fact that she's a co-worker makes it NOPE for me because we've all seen/heard about how people dating co-workers ends up badly like 99.9999% of the time her being 19 is irrelevant in this situation imo because dating co-workers = blerghhhhhhh HARD PASS anyways i think your percentage is a little high, ive seen many coworkers date with no problems, ive done it too --- To the edge of the universe and back, endure and survive <cite>skermac posted [p:950284187] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>EmilyWillis posted... </cite> <quote>even if she was your age or older TC, the fact that she's a co-worker makes it NOPE for me because we've all seen/heard about how people dating co-workers ends up badly like 99.9999% of the time her being 19 is irrelevant in this situation imo because dating co-workers = blerghhhhhhh HARD PASS anyways</quote> i think your percentage is a little high, ive seen many coworkers date with no problems, ive done it too </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Rinku_ 02/04/21 6:10:10 PM #86:	LivingLegend posted... My boyfriend is still in high school (hes 18). Theres nothing wrong about that. And how old are you? <cite>_Rinku_ posted [p:950284351] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>LivingLegend posted... </cite> <quote>My boyfriend is still in high school (hes 18). Theres nothing wrong about that.</quote>And how old are you? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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TeaMilk 02/04/21 6:16:38 PM #88:	--- http://large.horse/ Show icons on posts: https://openuserjs.org/scripts/melon/GameFAQs_Show_Icon <cite>TeaMilk posted [p:950284560] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
karmageddon28 02/04/21 6:34:41 PM #89:	If two people like each other and are of legal age, there is no reason not to give it a shot. A good friends parents have a 13 year gap, and they're one of most caring couples I've met. They've been together over 30 years. According to a lot of people on this board they should have never have been together. <cite>karmageddon28 posted [p:950285190] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>If two people like each other and are of legal age, there is no reason not to give it a shot. A good friends parents have a 13 year gap, and they're one of most caring couples I've met. They've been together over 30 years. According to a lot of people on this board they should have never have been together. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
_Rinku_ 02/04/21 6:44:48 PM #90:	karmageddon28 posted... If two people like each other and are of legal age, there is no reason not to give it a shot. A good friends parents have a 13 year gap, and they're one of most caring couples I've met. They've been together over 30 years. According to a lot of people on this board they should have never have been together. How old were they when they started dating? <cite>_Rinku_ posted [p:950285630] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>karmageddon28 posted... </cite> <quote>If two people like each other and are of legal age, there is no reason not to give it a shot. A good friends parents have a 13 year gap, and they're one of most caring couples I've met. They've been together over 30 years. According to a lot of people on this board they should have never have been together.</quote>How old were they when they started dating? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
nothanks1 02/04/21 6:45:57 PM #91:	This was literally so I could fucking vent She's a child to me like why the fuck is the topic still going on --- for the alcohlics https://www.aa.org/ <cite>nothanks1 posted [p:950285681] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>This was literally so I could fucking vent She's a child to me like why the fuck is the topic still going on</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FL81 02/04/21 6:48:18 PM #92:	nothanks1 posted... School She's admin staff all the admin staff tend to mix together This would normally be a "Fair, next", but this little detail changes everything yeah I'd stay away --- Thanks to Proofpyros for the sig images https://imgur.com/Nv4Pi1v https://imgur.com/N43HJYv <cite>FL81 posted [p:950285775] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>nothanks1 posted... </cite> <quote>School She's admin staff all the admin staff tend to mix together</quote>This would normally be a "Fair, next", but this little detail changes everything yeah I'd stay away </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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EmilyWillis 02/04/21 7:08:33 PM #94:	skermac posted... i think your percentage is a little high, ive seen many coworkers date with no problems, ive done it too lol @ actually taking my percentage that seriously especially since i added a bunch of decimal points to it, only on CE could something like that happen XD like of course there are times when co-workers dating turns out great, but since shit hits the fan more often than not, HARD PASS anyways TC you're making the right choice at the end of the day so good on you, not checking this topic again lol --- https://i.ibb.co/3MLyHFP/emilywillis-DELICIOUS.jpg <cite>EmilyWillis posted [p:950286535] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>skermac posted... </cite> <quote>i think your percentage is a little high, ive seen many coworkers date with no problems, ive done it too</quote>lol @ actually taking my percentage that seriously especially since i added a bunch of decimal points to it, only on CE could something like that happen XD like of course there are times when co-workers dating turns out great, but since shit hits the fan more often than not, HARD PASS anyways TC you're making the right choice at the end of the day so good on you, not checking this topic again lol </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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_Rinku_ 02/04/21 7:19:57 PM #96:	LivingLegend posted... Doesnt matter... Hes 18. It really does, and the fact that you won't say how old you are sheds a lot of light on your character. <cite>_Rinku_ posted [p:950286939] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>LivingLegend posted... </cite> <quote>Doesnt matter... Hes 18.</quote>It really does, and the fact that you won't say how old you are sheds a lot of light on your character. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
NoxObscuras 02/04/21 7:20:13 PM #97:	Dabrikishaw15 posted... Snickers is right though. Normal people in their 30's wouldn't think of dating a 19 year old because they understand it' creepy. No, that's not usually why. I'm 31 and 95% of the time, I wouldn't even consider dating someone that's still college age. I don't think it's creepy, but at that age, she likely wouldn't have the level of maturity that I want in a woman. We would also be at a very different stages in life. It just wouldn't work out. I have no problem hitting on women in their 40's though. --- Formerly ox0Shadow0xo \| PSN - NoxObscuras i7-7700K \| EVGA 3080 FTW3 Ultra \| 32GB DDR4 \| 4TB SSD <cite>NoxObscuras posted [p:950286948] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Dabrikishaw15 posted... </cite> <quote>Snickers is right though. Normal people in their 30's wouldn't think of dating a 19 year old because they understand it' creepy.</quote>No, that's not usually why. I'm 31 and 95% of the time, I wouldn't even consider dating someone that's still college age. I don't think it's creepy, but at that age, she likely wouldn't have the level of maturity that I want in a woman. We would also be at a very different stages in life. It just wouldn't work out. I have no problem hitting on women in their 40's though. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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GrabASnickers 02/04/21 7:32:06 PM #100:	"Maturity level" is part of what makes it creepy, unless you're suggesting that all older guys who date younger women are immature themselves. Or maybe a lot of them just want to take advantage of their immaturity. It's easier to hide your shortcomings from someone who is more naive and doesn't have the life experience to recognize them <cite>GrabASnickers posted [p:950287300] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>"Maturity level" is part of what makes it creepy, unless you're suggesting that all older guys who date younger women are immature themselves. Or maybe a lot of them just want to take advantage of their immaturity. It's easier to hide your shortcomings from someone who is more naive and doesn't have the life experience to recognize them </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
kage_53 02/04/21 7:32:40 PM #101:	Lol..this reminds me when I was 28, an 18 year old came onto me. <cite>kage_53 posted [p:950287321] in Work crush... [t:79277047]...</cite> <quote>Lol..this reminds me when I was 28, an 18 year old came onto me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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