Poll of the Day > How do you, like, feel fullfillment in your 30's?

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blu 01/08/21 4:22:16 PM #1:	Why do so many of my internet searches bring up SAMHSAs National Helpline as the top result? fulfillment* <cite>blu posted [p:949273078] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote>Why do so many of my internet searches bring up SAMHSAs National Helpline as the top result? fulfillment* </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Metalsonic66 01/08/21 4:58:39 PM #2:	Secks --- PSN/Steam ID: Metalsonic_69 Big bombs go kabang. <cite>Metalsonic66 posted [p:949274403] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote>Secks </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CarefreeDude 01/08/21 5:05:03 PM #3:	Children maybe? That seems to be what I'm doing --- Switch Code: SW-5421-8761-9807 IGN: Chris Pokemon Home Friend Code: XSNF-XRED-EWDK 3DS:5112-3770-6561 <cite>CarefreeDude posted [p:949274614] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote>Children maybe? That seems to be what I'm doing </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muscles 01/08/21 5:09:47 PM #4:	Accomplishing goals (even small ones such as learning to cook or losing some weight) seems like something that should always bring some sort of fulfillment, obviously more impressive stuff is gonna bring more fulfillment, so set some goals --- Muscles Chicago Bears \| Chicago Blackhawks \| Chicago Bulls \| Chicago Cubs \| NIU Huskies <cite>Muscles posted [p:949274783] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote>Accomplishing goals (even small ones such as learning to cook or losing some weight) seems like something that should always bring some sort of fulfillment, obviously more impressive stuff is gonna bring more fulfillment, so set some goals </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zeus 01/08/21 5:21:18 PM #5:	Same as most ages: By making steady (if not consistent) progress towards meaningful goals, generally while having some measure of a work-life balance. --- (\/)(\/)\|-\| There are precious few at ease / With moral ambiguities / So we act as though they don't exist. <cite>Zeus posted [p:949275220] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote>Same as most ages: By making steady (if not consistent) progress towards meaningful goals, generally while having some measure of a work-life balance. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Raddest_Chad 01/08/21 5:31:48 PM #6:	CarefreeDude posted... Children maybe? That seems to be what I'm doing Yeah, that's the route I'll be taking this year. I'd rather regret having a kid than regret not having one. Me and one other friend are the only holdouts without kids in our social circle. I have some relatives that are a lot older than me who chose not to have kids and... yikes. The older I get, and the more I realize I am not gonna be there for 'em because of my own life, and neither will the other younger family members, the scarier being old and alone-ish seems. They're all married but childless, and that ship has sailed for them outside of adoption. They're okay for now, but in 15-20 years? They're probably gonna have a bad time. <cite>Raddest_Chad posted [p:949275588] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote>CarefreeDude posted... </cite> <quote>Children maybe? That seems to be what I'm doing</quote>Yeah, that's the route I'll be taking this year. I'd rather regret having a kid than regret not having one. Me and one other friend are the only holdouts without kids in our social circle. I have some relatives that are a lot older than me who chose not to have kids and... yikes. The older I get, and the more I realize I am not gonna be there for 'em because of my own life, and neither will the other younger family members, the scarier being old and alone-ish seems. They're all married but childless, and that ship has sailed for them outside of adoption. They're okay for now, but in 15-20 years? They're probably gonna have a bad time. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
pedro45 01/08/21 6:04:40 PM #7:	Raddest_Chad posted... Yeah, that's the route I'll be taking this year. I'd rather regret having a kid than regret not having one. Me and one other friend are the only holdouts without kids in our social circle. I have some relatives that are a lot older than me who chose not to have kids and... yikes. The older I get, and the more I realize I am not gonna be there for 'em because of my own life, and neither will the other younger family members, the scarier being old and alone-ish seems. They're all married but childless, and that ship has sailed for them outside of adoption. They're okay for now, but in 15-20 years? They're probably gonna have a bad time. Why do you think this? I am not going to have kids and I see myself having a brighter future because of it. I want them but my girlfriend doesn't and I'd rather not at this point. Kids are...monsters --- Warning: Sometimes biased https://imgur.com/V0x5fw8 https://imgur.com/IOovUge https://imgur.com/zw7bqPH <cite>pedro45 posted [p:949276783] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote>Raddest_Chad posted... </cite> <quote>Yeah, that's the route I'll be taking this year. I'd rather regret having a kid than regret not having one. Me and one other friend are the only holdouts without kids in our social circle. I have some relatives that are a lot older than me who chose not to have kids and... yikes. The older I get, and the more I realize I am not gonna be there for 'em because of my own life, and neither will the other younger family members, the scarier being old and alone-ish seems. They're all married but childless, and that ship has sailed for them outside of adoption. They're okay for now, but in 15-20 years? They're probably gonna have a bad time.</quote> Why do you think this? I am not going to have kids and I see myself having a brighter future because of it. I want them but my girlfriend doesn't and I'd rather not at this point. Kids are...monsters </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ParanoidObsessive 01/08/21 6:14:36 PM #8:	If you're the sort of person who is worried about feeling "fulfillment", you're never actually going to feel fulfillment. Things like contentment and happiness come when you're doing things you enjoy and living a life you consider worthy, which generally leaves you too busy to actually worry about whether or not you're living up to nebulous expectations or hypothetical benchmarks for "success". Stop trying to do what you think you're "supposed" to or what other people tell you you should be doing, or comparing your life to the achievements or personas of other people. Just figure out what makes you happy, and do it. No matter how simple or "meaningless" it might seem. It's been suggested in the past that the invention of the concept of "happiness" or "being happy" is itself one of the major reasons why people are UNhappy - the more you worry about how happy you are the less happy you're going to be. Stop trying to be happy and you're more likely to BE happy. --- "Wall of Text'D!" --- oldskoolplayr76 "POwned again." --- blight family <cite>ParanoidObsessive posted [p:949277161] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote>If you're the sort of person who is worried about feeling "fulfillment", you're never actually going to feel fulfillment. Things like contentment and happiness come when you're doing things you enjoy and living a life you consider worthy, which generally leaves you too busy to actually worry about whether or not you're living up to nebulous expectations or hypothetical benchmarks for "success". Stop trying to do what you think you're "supposed" to or what other people tell you you should be doing, or comparing your life to the achievements or personas of other people. Just figure out what makes you happy, and do it. No matter how simple or "meaningless" it might seem. It's been suggested in the past that the invention of the concept of "happiness" or "being happy" is itself one of the major reasons why people are UNhappy - the more you worry about how happy you are the less happy you're going to be. Stop trying to be happy and you're more likely to BE happy.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 01/08/21 6:16:40 PM #9:	I occupy my time with mostly leisurely pursuits --- YOU control the numbers of leches. -Sal Vulcano <cite>Mead posted [p:949277238] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote>I occupy my time with mostly leisurely pursuits </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ParanoidObsessive 01/08/21 7:03:25 PM #10:	Mead posted... I occupy my time with mostly leisurely pursuits ~~Masturbation~~ --- "Wall of Text'D!" --- oldskoolplayr76 "POwned again." --- blight family <cite>ParanoidObsessive posted [p:949279348] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote><cite>Mead posted...</cite> <quote>I occupy my time with mostly leisurely pursuits</quote> Masturbation</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Metalsonic66 01/08/21 7:09:29 PM #11:	ParanoidObsessive posted... ~~Masturbation~~ Far from leisurely when I do it! --- PSN/Steam ID: Metalsonic_69 Big bombs go kabang. <cite>Metalsonic66 posted [p:949279583] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote>ParanoidObsessive posted... </cite> <quote>Masturbation</quote>Far from leisurely when I do it! </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 01/08/21 7:17:17 PM #12:	ParanoidObsessive posted... ~~Masturbation~~ not THAT leisurely --- YOU control the numbers of leches. -Sal Vulcano <cite>Mead posted [p:949279922] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote>ParanoidObsessive posted... </cite> <quote>Masturbation</quote> not THAT leisurely </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
ParanoidObsessive 01/08/21 7:22:54 PM #13:	Metalsonic66 posted... Far from leisurely when I do it! Beat it like it owes you money! --- "Wall of Text'D!" --- oldskoolplayr76 "POwned again." --- blight family <cite>ParanoidObsessive posted [p:949280104] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote><cite>Metalsonic66 posted...</cite> <quote>Far from leisurely when I do it!</quote> Beat it like it owes you money!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
rexcrk 01/09/21 4:54:01 AM #14:	Vidya --- These pretzels are making me thirsty! <cite>rexcrk posted [p:949294427] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote>Vidya </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
party_animal07 01/09/21 9:05:18 AM #15:	ParanoidObsessive posted... ~~Masturbation~~ Yes sir. Loading up for round number 3 now. --- https://warpzone.me/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/GRANDIA_-696x509.jpg <cite>party_animal07 posted [p:949297560] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote>ParanoidObsessive posted... </cite> <quote>Masturbation</quote>Yes sir. Loading up for round number 3 now. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Fierce_Deity_08 01/09/21 11:08:54 AM #16:	Im not sure. I never got fulfillment in my 30s really. Going to be leaving my 30s in a month. --- Official Fierce Deity in my own mind. GT: OnikaraStar, PSN: Onikara, NNID: OnikaraStar <cite>Fierce_Deity_08 posted [p:949300210] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote>Im not sure. I never got fulfillment in my 30s really. Going to be leaving my 30s in a month. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
teddy241 01/09/21 11:24:35 AM #17:	For me it would be to have a sizeable nest egg. Knowing that as im aging and becoming less sharp physically, mentally i now have something to fall back on <cite>teddy241 posted [p:949300580] in How do you... [t:79227139]...</cite> <quote>For me it would be to have a sizeable nest egg. Knowing that as im aging and becoming less sharp physically, mentally i now have something to fall back on </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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