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cameronpbb 06/27/20 7:37:20 PM #1:	Hey all, don't really know where else to post so IL just make this here. I'm 21, names Cameron, no job, no gf, really shy, love gaming and anime, not really doing anything and tbh always feeling like I just suck. I have literally 0 friends irl and only a few close family members to talk to. My life mostly revolves around Naruto/Boruto, gaming and not much else... I just need someone to chat to, thanks. <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941356325] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>Hey all, don't really know where else to post so IL just make this here. I'm 21, names Cameron, no job, no gf, really shy, love gaming and anime, not really doing anything and tbh always feeling like I just suck. I have literally 0 friends irl and only a few close family members to talk to. My life mostly revolves around Naruto/Boruto, gaming and not much else... I just need someone to chat to, thanks. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
tremain07 06/27/20 7:38:24 PM #2:	Oh absolutely. Sometimes I go to sleep hoping I don't wake up, others I dive into bad behavior to push the realization and pain away. --- IGN: Sun FC: 0061-0132-7564 <cite>tremain07 posted [p:941356375] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>Oh absolutely. Sometimes I go to sleep hoping I don't wake up, others I dive into bad behavior to push the realization and pain away. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cameronpbb 06/27/20 7:39:39 PM #3:	tremain07 posted... Oh absolutely. Sometimes I go to sleep hoping I don't wake up, others I dive into bad behavior to push the realization and pain away. Same, I'm not very good at controlling my emotions, especially when it comes to porn and what types of porn, I feel terrible afterwards and I hate myself even more <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941356438] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>tremain07 posted... </cite> <quote>Oh absolutely. Sometimes I go to sleep hoping I don't wake up, others I dive into bad behavior to push the realization and pain away.</quote>Same, I'm not very good at controlling my emotions, especially when it comes to porn and what types of porn, I feel terrible afterwards and I hate myself even more </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
tremain07 06/27/20 7:41:28 PM #4:	Porn? Huh for me it's just a game or a terrible topic or randomly going to buy some candy --- IGN: Sun FC: 0061-0132-7564 <cite>tremain07 posted [p:941356518] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>Porn? Huh for me it's just a game or a terrible topic or randomly going to buy some candy </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cameronpbb 06/27/20 7:42:42 PM #5:	tremain07 posted... Porn? Huh for me it's just a game or a terrible topic or randomly going to buy some candy It's hard to go into here but yeah... <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941356576] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>tremain07 posted... </cite> <quote>Porn? Huh for me it's just a game or a terrible topic or randomly going to buy some candy</quote>It's hard to go into here but yeah... </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Coloradough 06/27/20 7:42:43 PM #6:	You're 21, you're a child. I could barely hold a conversation when I was 21 --- Slaves, be subject to your masters with all reverence, even to those who are perverse - The Holy Bible <cite>Coloradough posted [p:941356577] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>You're 21, you're a child. I could barely hold a conversation when I was 21 </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
trappedunderice 06/27/20 7:42:58 PM #7:	Every day. <cite>trappedunderice posted [p:941356591] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>Every day. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 06/27/20 7:43:05 PM #8:	Ya all the time --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:941356601] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>Ya all the time </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
RetsuZaiZen 06/27/20 7:43:35 PM #9:	At certain things of course. Overall, hell no. --- Why do nerdsalways get caught up on the details? https://imgur.com/dntQM https://imgur.com/9gNcUGM https://imgur.com/bH8vq3f <cite>RetsuZaiZen posted [p:941356622] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>At certain things of course. Overall, hell no. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
the0rebirth 06/27/20 7:48:58 PM #10:	cameronpbb posted... Hey all, don't really know where else to post so IL just make this here. I'm 21, names Cameron, no job, no gf, really shy, love gaming and anime, not really doing anything and tbh always feeling like I just suck. I have literally 0 friends irl and only a few close family members to talk to. My life mostly revolves around Naruto/Boruto, gaming and not much else... I just need someone to chat to, thanks. You're only 21. Give yourself more time. --- "The Dragon Ball Super anime is lowering the IQ of the characters so the DB fan base can relate to them better." -Acharyap28 <cite>the0rebirth posted [p:941356834] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>cameronpbb posted... </cite> <quote>Hey all, don't really know where else to post so IL just make this here. I'm 21, names Cameron, no job, no gf, really shy, love gaming and anime, not really doing anything and tbh always feeling like I just suck. I have literally 0 friends irl and only a few close family members to talk to. My life mostly revolves around Naruto/Boruto, gaming and not much else... I just need someone to chat to, thanks.</quote> You're only 21. Give yourself more time. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Smackems 06/27/20 7:50:08 PM #11:	I'm still alive so no --- Common sense is the most uncommon thing in the world-some dude. <cite>Smackems posted [p:941356887] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>I'm still alive so no </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cameronpbb 06/27/20 7:50:24 PM #12:	the0rebirth posted... You're only 21. Give yourself more time. I told myself that years ago and I haven't gotten better... I already feel so old and I have nothing going for me. <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941356898] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>the0rebirth posted... </cite> <quote>You're only 21. Give yourself more time.</quote>I told myself that years ago and I haven't gotten better... I already feel so old and I have nothing going for me. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dj1200 06/27/20 7:50:27 PM #13:	Take a class at a jc. Get a job. Both might help you meet ppl --- "It was so ridiculous and I have so many feelings about it." -Virtual Energies <cite>dj1200 posted [p:941356899] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>Take a class at a jc. Get a job. Both might help you meet ppl </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BignutzisBack 06/27/20 7:50:35 PM #14:	cameronpbb posted... I'm 21, Bruh --- https://imgur.com/plA0Vg9 https://media.giphy.com/media/dgK22exekwOLm/giphy.gif <cite>BignutzisBack posted [p:941356904] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>cameronpbb posted... </cite> <quote>I'm 21,</quote> Bruh </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WingsOfGood 06/27/20 7:50:48 PM #15:	the0rebirth posted... You're only 21. Give yourself more time. At what age should he stop giving himself more time? <cite>WingsOfGood posted [p:941356909] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>the0rebirth posted... </cite> <quote>You're only 21. Give yourself more time.</quote> At what age should he stop giving himself more time? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JBaLLEN66 06/27/20 7:50:51 PM #16:	cameronpbb posted... I told myself that years ago and I haven't gotten better... I already feel so old and I have nothing going for me. u could be 27 like me --- https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IdR2Iktffaw The day Capitalism was humiliated :) <cite>JBaLLEN66 posted [p:941356910] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>cameronpbb posted... </cite> <quote>I told myself that years ago and I haven't gotten better... I already feel so old and I have nothing going for me.</quote> u could be 27 like me </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cameronpbb 06/27/20 7:51:24 PM #17:	JBaLLEN66 posted... u could be 27 like me Only a few years different, your probably better than me still <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941356936] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>JBaLLEN66 posted... </cite> <quote>u could be 27 like me</quote>Only a few years different, your probably better than me still </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cameronpbb 06/27/20 7:51:50 PM #18:	WingsOfGood posted... At what age should he stop giving himself more time? This, I feel like I said that to myself years ago and not improved <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941356950] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>WingsOfGood posted... </cite> <quote>At what age should he stop giving himself more time?</quote>This, I feel like I said that to myself years ago and not improved </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Austin_Era_II 06/27/20 7:53:13 PM #19:	I was like 23 or 24 when I first had a gf and wasn't a virgin. --- Currently gaming: Metal Gear Solid V MCMLXXXV <cite>Austin_Era_II posted [p:941357018] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>I was like 23 or 24 when I first had a gf and wasn't a virgin. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cameronpbb 06/27/20 7:54:18 PM #21:	ImAMarvel posted... I wouldn't say I felt like a complete failure but I do feel like I'm behind compared to my peers. Which isn't something I should be worrying over, since you're not supposed to compared yourself to others. But at least I am definitely working towards self-improvement every day. Honestly, more than anything, I'm just incredibly lonely. I'm the same, I just want someone to chat to and share my interests... It's hard to not feel lonely when you have noone to share experiences with <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941357079] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>ImAMarvel posted... </cite> <quote>I wouldn't say I felt like a complete failure but I do feel like I'm behind compared to my peers. Which isn't something I should be worrying over, since you're not supposed to compared yourself to others. But at least I am definitely working towards self-improvement every day. Honestly, more than anything, I'm just incredibly lonely.</quote>I'm the same, I just want someone to chat to and share my interests... It's hard to not feel lonely when you have noone to share experiences with </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
the0rebirth 06/27/20 7:54:36 PM #22:	WingsOfGood posted... At what age should he stop giving himself more time? 21 & a half. But really, TC, youre still a kid in the grand scheme of things. Not even old enough to rent a car. Dont hold yourself to an unrealistic standard. Live and learn. Try some new things as your brain continues to develop. Soul-search. You could be a totally different person a year from now. --- "The Dragon Ball Super anime is lowering the IQ of the characters so the DB fan base can relate to them better." -Acharyap28 <cite>the0rebirth posted [p:941357097] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>WingsOfGood posted... </cite> <quote>At what age should he stop giving himself more time?</quote> 21 & a half. But really, TC, youre still a kid in the grand scheme of things. Not even old enough to rent a car. Dont hold yourself to an unrealistic standard. Live and learn. Try some new things as your brain continues to develop. Soul-search. You could be a totally different person a year from now. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cameronpbb 06/27/20 7:55:50 PM #24:	the0rebirth posted... 21 & a half. But really, TC, youre still a kid in the grand scheme of things. Not even old enough to rent a car. Dont hold yourself to such a high standard. Live and learn. Try some new things as your brain continues to develop. You could be a totally different person a year from now. Thank you. Once this is over I'm heading to a gym, I just need to think of how to meet new people with my interest, there's no anime fanclubs where I live <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941357150] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>the0rebirth posted... </cite> <quote>21 & a half. But really, TC, youre still a kid in the grand scheme of things. Not even old enough to rent a car. Dont hold yourself to such a high standard. Live and learn. Try some new things as your brain continues to develop. You could be a totally different person a year from now.</quote>Thank you. Once this is over I'm heading to a gym, I just need to think of how to meet new people with my interest, there's no anime fanclubs where I live </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 06/27/20 7:55:59 PM #25:	I'm 34, with a home, a wife, 2 kids, a car and a good career. I still get this feeling all the time, for me it's because of clinical depression for you it could be the same thing, but you should realize that I spent from about 14 - 28 doing hard drugs, dropping out of school, not taking life seriously in anyway you are probably fine. --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:IfGodCouldDie IGN:SuperPattyCakes FC: SW-1615-6159-5504 <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:941357158] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>I'm 34, with a home, a wife, 2 kids, a car and a good career. I still get this feeling all the time, for me it's because of clinical depression for you it could be the same thing, but you should realize that I spent from about 14 - 28 doing hard drugs, dropping out of school, not taking life seriously in anyway you are probably fine. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cameronpbb 06/27/20 7:56:37 PM #26:	ImAMarvel posted... What are your interests? What do you like to talk about? Naruto/Boruto, gaming, mostly rpgs and platformers, horror movies, mysteries and conspiracys etc <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941357185] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>ImAMarvel posted... </cite> <quote>What are your interests? What do you like to talk about?</quote>Naruto/Boruto, gaming, mostly rpgs and platformers, horror movies, mysteries and conspiracys etc </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cameronpbb 06/27/20 7:57:06 PM #27:	IfGodCouldDie posted... I'm 34, with a home, a wife, 2 kids, a car and a good career. I still get this feeling all the time, for me it's because of clinical depression for you it could be the same thing, but you should realize that I spent from about 14 - 28 doing hard drugs, dropping out of school, not taking life seriously in anyway you are probably fine. You did well my man, congrats <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941357208] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>IfGodCouldDie posted... </cite> <quote>I'm 34, with a home, a wife, 2 kids, a car and a good career. I still get this feeling all the time, for me it's because of clinical depression for you it could be the same thing, but you should realize that I spent from about 14 - 28 doing hard drugs, dropping out of school, not taking life seriously in anyway you are probably fine.</quote>You did well my man, congrats </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cameronpbb 06/27/20 7:59:26 PM #29:	ImAMarvel posted... What horror movies do you like? I'm a bit of a horror movie fan myself. Alot, from Halloween to cube, final destination, wrong turn etc. Dead meat got me into alot of franchises. A YouTuber who counts kills in horror films. <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941357309] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>ImAMarvel posted... </cite> <quote>What horror movies do you like? I'm a bit of a horror movie fan myself.</quote>Alot, from Halloween to cube, final destination, wrong turn etc. Dead meat got me into alot of franchises. A YouTuber who counts kills in horror films. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SoIidLegacy 06/27/20 8:00:46 PM #30:	IfGodCouldDie posted... I'm 34, with a home, a wife, 2 kids, a car and a good career. I still get this feeling all the time, for me it's because of clinical depression for you it could be the same thing, but you should realize that I spent from about 14 - 28 doing hard drugs, dropping out of school, not taking life seriously in anyway you are probably fine. Out of curiostity, what was it that made you turn your life around and improve things (and how did you do it)? --- The secrets of the ancient world have been unearthed. The shackles of false histories destroyed. Together we stand as the authors of destiny. <cite>SoIidLegacy posted [p:941357360] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>IfGodCouldDie posted... </cite> <quote>I'm 34, with a home, a wife, 2 kids, a car and a good career. I still get this feeling all the time, for me it's because of clinical depression for you it could be the same thing, but you should realize that I spent from about 14 - 28 doing hard drugs, dropping out of school, not taking life seriously in anyway you are probably fine.</quote> Out of curiostity, what was it that made you turn your life around and improve things (and how did you do it)? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cameronpbb 06/27/20 8:04:33 PM #32:	ImAMarvel posted... Never heard of Dead meat but I like the two Halloween movies that I've seen. The first one and the newest one from a couple of years ago. My favorites are probably: You're Next Trick 'R' Treat The Conjuring Candyman Evil Dead series The Cabin in the Woods I love TCITW, really subverted expectations <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941357518] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>ImAMarvel posted... </cite> <quote>Never heard of Dead meat but I like the two Halloween movies that I've seen. The first one and the newest one from a couple of years ago. My favorites are probably: You're Next Trick 'R' Treat The Conjuring Candyman Evil Dead series The Cabin in the Woods</quote>I love TCITW, really subverted expectations </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cameronpbb 06/27/20 8:07:52 PM #34:	ImAMarvel posted... I want some kind of followup or another movie in the series. Or even a tv show! ImAMarvel posted... I want some kind of followup or another movie in the series. Or even a tv show! I'd love that, seeing far more of the monsters, mabye a new one each episode. I really want to make my own one day as you can do so much with horror <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941357669] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>ImAMarvel posted... </cite> <quote>I want some kind of followup or another movie in the series. Or even a tv show!</quote> ImAMarvel posted... </cite> <quote>I want some kind of followup or another movie in the series. Or even a tv show!</quote>I'd love that, seeing far more of the monsters, mabye a new one each episode. I really want to make my own one day as you can do so much with horror </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 06/27/20 8:08:03 PM #35:	SoIidLegacy posted... Out of curiostity, what was it that made you turn your life around and improve things (and how did you do it)? My then gf now wife getting pregnant with our son. As far as how I did it, I just did. My father abandoned my mom when he found out she was pregnant and I knew I was never going to be a piece of shit father so I didn't let myself. I looked at my options and made a mad dash towards a field I could make the best advancements and the most money with the least amount of time investment. Then utilized any and every available social and financial institution and program I could to get for what schooling I needed paid for and began my career. --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:IfGodCouldDie IGN:SuperPattyCakes FC: SW-1615-6159-5504 <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:941357679] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>SoIidLegacy posted... </cite> <quote>Out of curiostity, what was it that made you turn your life around and improve things (and how did you do it)?</quote>My then gf now wife getting pregnant with our son. As far as how I did it, I just did. My father abandoned my mom when he found out she was pregnant and I knew I was never going to be a piece of shit father so I didn't let myself. I looked at my options and made a mad dash towards a field I could make the best advancements and the most money with the least amount of time investment. Then utilized any and every available social and financial institution and program I could to get for what schooling I needed paid for and began my career. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cameronpbb 06/27/20 8:10:38 PM #37:	ImAMarvel posted... I've always thought some kind of shared horror cinematic universe, with each series in it being a different subgenre of horror, would be really interesting. Ohh I like that idea. <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941357784] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>ImAMarvel posted... </cite> <quote>I've always thought some kind of shared horror cinematic universe, with each series in it being a different subgenre of horror, would be really interesting.</quote>Ohh I like that idea. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cameronpbb 06/27/20 8:12:30 PM #39:	ImAMarvel posted... I want to make my own comic book universe with that idea. Maybe one day. I'd buy it my dude. Love to see you do that. <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941357870] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>ImAMarvel posted... </cite> <quote>I want to make my own comic book universe with that idea. Maybe one day.</quote>I'd buy it my dude. Love to see you do that. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
BaphometFlux 06/27/20 8:13:25 PM #40:	tremain07 posted... Oh absolutely. Sometimes I go to sleep hoping I don't wake up, others I dive into bad behavior to push the realization and pain away. --- "Shisaanputa" <cite>BaphometFlux posted [p:941357919] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>tremain07 posted... </cite> <quote>Oh absolutely. Sometimes I go to sleep hoping I don't wake up, others I dive into bad behavior to push the realization and pain away.</quote> </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CRON 06/27/20 8:13:37 PM #41:	I'm probably worse off than most of you. --- [obligatory signature] <cite>CRON posted [p:941357928] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>I'm probably worse off than most of you. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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cameronpbb 06/27/20 8:14:37 PM #43:	CRON posted... I'm probably worse off than most of you. Doubt it man <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941357979] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>CRON posted... </cite> <quote>I'm probably worse off than most of you.</quote>Doubt it man </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bestoffuture 06/27/20 8:15:03 PM #44:	Used to. Something changed at 25 where I got more confidence. --- ...and that's the meaning of life. <cite>Bestoffuture posted [p:941357994] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>Used to. Something changed at 25 where I got more confidence. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
cameronpbb 06/27/20 8:15:44 PM #45:	Bestoffuture posted... Used to. Something changed at 25 where I got more confidence. How are you now? <cite>cameronpbb posted [p:941358031] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>Bestoffuture posted... </cite> <quote>Used to. Something changed at 25 where I got more confidence.</quote>How are you now? </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bestoffuture 06/27/20 8:20:57 PM #46:	Good. My internal philosophy changed where I stopped thinking that everyone had things more figured out than me and therefore better than me. That kind of thing just happened naturally without trying though. --- ...and that's the meaning of life. <cite>Bestoffuture posted [p:941358227] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>Good. My internal philosophy changed where I stopped thinking that everyone had things more figured out than me and therefore better than me. That kind of thing just happened naturally without trying though. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GateOfDoom 06/27/20 8:26:10 PM #47:	Yep I'm 33 dont have any kids still a virgin I do have a job never had a girlfriend and live next door to my mom. Now do you feel better about yourself Tc. I'm a failure not you <cite>GateOfDoom posted [p:941358434] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>Yep I'm 33 dont have any kids still a virgin I do have a job never had a girlfriend and live next door to my mom. Now do you feel better about yourself Tc. I'm a failure not you </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
IfGodCouldDie 06/27/20 8:27:44 PM #48:	GateOfDoom posted... Yep I'm 33 dont have any kids still a virgin I do have a job never had a girlfriend and live next door to my mom. Now do you feel better about yourself Tc. I'm a failure not you Why are you a failure? None of the things you listed make you a failure. They make you a person living their life. --- Mind post. XBL:Cyanide Sucker PSN:IfGodCouldDie IGN:SuperPattyCakes FC: SW-1615-6159-5504 <cite>IfGodCouldDie posted [p:941358507] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>GateOfDoom posted... </cite> <quote>Yep I'm 33 dont have any kids still a virgin I do have a job never had a girlfriend and live next door to my mom. Now do you feel better about yourself Tc. I'm a failure not you</quote>Why are you a failure? None of the things you listed make you a failure. They make you a person living their life. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
GateOfDoom 06/27/20 8:31:10 PM #50:	IfGodCouldDie posted... Why are you a failure? None of the things you listed make you a failure. They make you a person living their life. Most if not all 33 year olds have experienced the things I haven't yet thats what makes me a failure <cite>GateOfDoom posted [p:941358663] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>IfGodCouldDie posted... </cite> <quote>Why are you a failure? None of the things you listed make you a failure. They make you a person living their life.</quote> Most if not all 33 year olds have experienced the things I haven't yet thats what makes me a failure </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Joe8 06/27/20 8:31:31 PM #51:	I notice from your posts in this topic that you are very negative about yourself. The more you do this the less likely things will improve, as harsh as that might sound. If you genuinely think you have negative traits, think about what you could do to improve them. In my early 20s I was also shy and very low on confidence. I'd just graduated in Computing and got an entry-level job in IT Support - this helped so much as I was forced out of my comfort zone and having to talk to people for most of my 40-hour work weeks. This kinda blended into my personality and while I'm still a bit of an introvert even now, I'm much more open around friends/workmates now, and this also led to me being more confident with dating etc, and I felt better about myself overall as a result. Everyone's situation is different but maybe there's something similar you could research and look into in terms of jobs or even just social groups. (Obviously right now it's difficult to find either of those things though) Feel free to drop a PM if you ever want a chat mate. --- Joenage. <cite>Joe8 posted [p:941358681] in Ever feel ... [t:78808142]...</cite> <quote>I notice from your posts in this topic that you are very negative about yourself. The more you do this the less likely things will improve, as harsh as that might sound. If you genuinely think you have negative traits, think about what you could do to improve them. In my early 20s I was also shy and very low on confidence. I'd just graduated in Computing and got an entry-level job in IT Support - this helped so much as I was forced out of my comfort zone and having to talk to people for most of my 40-hour work weeks. This kinda blended into my personality and while I'm still a bit of an introvert even now, I'm much more open around friends/workmates now, and this also led to me being more confident with dating etc, and I felt better about myself overall as a result. Everyone's situation is different but maybe there's something similar you could research and look into in terms of jobs or even just social groups. (Obviously right now it's difficult to find either of those things though) Feel free to drop a PM if you ever want a chat mate. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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