Current Events > Whatever happened to your school bullies?

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Ive known a dozen of them but it seems they disappeared right after i graduated. Pretty sure i wouldve known or heard about them on my FB feeds, but its been over a decade and nothing.

No clue. Literally don't keep track of anyone from high school except like 2 people >_>
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I can only see one on FB/LinkedIn and he started his own business last month after being the head of a region of a removalist company. The rest either disappeared or just do casual/retail jobs/etc.

AFAIK I seem to have done a fair bit better than them, and also earn more than all of them put together.

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They got stuck in a nowhere town on welfare.
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Disappeared in the Derry sewers.
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Hopefully they went to an insane asylum tbh.
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Prolly in prison

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More than likely went nowhere in life

They were pretty poor growing up
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I was the bully so posting on CE?
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I didn't really have bullies growing up.

There were a few kids that were just general pricks to me though.

One of them died his senior year from cancer.

The other one got a really good engineering job, but is otherwise a complete fucking mess and always complaining about how others are doing better than him because he can't seem to get laid. Only reason I know this is because we have mutual friends.
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Not really a bully, but someone I feuded with. He's in prison, and his brother (who was cut from the same cloth) was killed by police.

Seeing how their mother was (they used to live across the street from us and got into a fight with one of my friends; she was shouting at him that he should have gotten a knife to stab him with), I don't think they had a chance of not avoiding either fate.
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One died of a heroin overdose, one shot himself in the head, and one went to prison for beating up his girlfriend, not sure if he got out or not. Only the first one tried to bully me though, they bullied other kids a lot. Despite that I was the kid who sat in the back and never talked to anyone I was well liked, for some reason.
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She's a CNA.
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He became president of the United States.

https://www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/kerry-katonas-ex-george-kay-18297204

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Came out as gay or are in jail. One dude used to beat up a couple of openly gay students and called them gay slurs. One student killed himself over the bullying. I checked the bully's facebook a couple months ago and he was at the gay pride parade with his boyfriend. So I guess in between middle school and now he came out as gay.
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One died from a drug overdose

One is the night manager at the Taco Bell he worked at in high school (we graduated in 2010)

One has four kids from four men none of whom are still with her and she lives with her grandparents

Last one was actually fairly successful until about a year ago when his wife found out he cheated on her and took the house, the dog, the car, etc. in the divorce. He lost his job and lives with his parents now

Bastards
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No clue. I hope they live a poor, hard and painful life.

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I have no idea and don't care, I have my own issues to deal with.
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Knowing my luck, probably extremely successful.
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Dunno, but as we grew up together in school, most of them became friends in the end. I'm sure if I met with them today they'd all be pretty chill.

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He's in prison for murder.
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I guess everybodies bullies are dead or in jail. You guys must have had some serious bullies
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I'm posting here.

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littlebro07 posted...

One died from a drug overdose

One is the night manager at the Taco Bell he worked at in high school (we graduated in 2010)

One has four kids from four men none of whom are still with her and she lives with her grandparents

Last one was actually fairly successful until about a year ago when his wife found out he cheated on her and took the house, the dog, the car, etc. in the divorce. He lost his job and lives with his parents now

Bastards

Man, she wanted him to suffer... the dog too? Now he has no best friend. Did she take his friends too?

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I wasn't bullied in school but two of the guys who were bullies in school became cops. One LAPD and the other a Sheriff.
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I was a bully until 10th grade. I realized it was actually hurting other people's feelings. I always had the mentality of joking around but pushed it to the extreme. Now I'm one of the nicest people you'll ever meet in person.I might be douchy in here but that's not me irl

Not my bully, just an idiot who was an asshole to everybody, but he now teaches at the school, and rumor has it he abuses female students and the school is keeping under the rug. So, yeah...
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Holy shit Im not surprised most of them grew up to still be scum

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They all got fucked in the ass.

Not by me tho.
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Dont know, dont care. Its interesting how a lot of people who had bad high school experiences turn out to have fine lives.
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brestugo posted...

I wasn't bullied in school but two of the guys who were bullies in school became cops. One LAPD and the other a Sheriff.

Typical of bullies to become cops

Someone has to define "bullying" because I don't think I was ever bullied going by what most consider bullying. I assume bullying is when you do nothing to fight back or are not in a position to fight back or stand up for yourself and fortunately I never found myself in that position. I got into a lot of fights but we all became friends after a few months and forget about those things.

On a related note to the topic of bullies.. did you find that as you got closer to the end of high school, people just got over it and became friends/cordial at least?

(my comment on my bullies earlier.. I based it on my primary school)

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Most of them are living unremarkable lives.

Bullies tend to peak in high school
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Boo_Guy posted...

He became president of the United States.

Is that you, Jeb!?

I don't know what happened to everybody but I know that the two neighbors from the family who said they could kill me wound up being washouts. The one kid joined the military then got kicked out for drug charges, the other kid moved out with his girlfriend to smoke pot and work at the local country club.

That was many years ago though, maybe they're more successful now.
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there actually weren't bullies in any of the schools i attended. kids were quick to defend each other if something like that was happening.
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I never got bullied as I was in the popular jock crowd throughout school aside from when I was too ill, and nobody was dumb enough to mess with a chemo patient during those times.
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There really weren't any traditional bullies.

The kids that got made fun of actually deserved it because eveeyone thought they were annoying
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One apologised later in life when I stumbled across them.

Not the slightest clue what happened to the rest.
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one is in prison. i see the other occasionally on drugs

the one that fucked with me the most i honestly have no idea. ive searched a lot but found nothing so i assume he cleaned up his act

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I only had two for a year in junior high. Never was even sure why. No fights or anything. Buttttt theyre both dead.

Agnostic420 posted...

I only had two for a year in junior high. Never was even sure why. No fights or anything. Buttttt theyre both dead.

Suspicious...
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they are all working at banking firms

No idea. The last guy to give me shit wasn't a bully, but he was a dick. And a sect leader in MS13, and he killed a guy and now he's in prison. I guess I dodged a bullet.
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Probably overdosed.

Don't know, don't care.

I'm a bit confused why so many people know about the date of their former tormentor.
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Umbreon posted...

Don't know, don't care.

I'm a bit confused why so many people know about the date of their former tormentor.

in my case one night i just got curious about where people i remembered from high school are now, so i tossed a few names into google and stuff came up.

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