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mrduckbear
09/11/19 10:22:48 PM
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Do you think it was selfish of Drew to divorce Kristina over this mix up that wasn't her fault? - Results (3 votes)
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A White New Jersey Couple's family are ripped apart after they give birth to an ASIAN BABY due to a mishap at a FERTILITY clinic and the woman's Husband DIVORCED her because he could not raise a child that was NOT HIS!!

Kristina Koedderich and her now ex husband, Drew individually filed their lawsuits with the Superior Court of New Jersey

They claimed to have paid 500,000 to the Institute of Reproductive Medicine and Science at Saint Barnabas so they could have a child together

Drew provided his "sperm" on November 7, 2012 and the sperm was then used to fertilize Koedderich's eggs around November 26 of that year

But after giving birth to a girl in 2013, their "nightmare scenario" began when they noticed their baby girl was developing "asian" features and had a blood disorder that is associated with Southeast Asian heritage

A DNA test proved he was not the father and he shared his 'devastation' over the news and his ex wife recalled him crying as they ask how this could be possible

Superior court Judge, Keith Lynott released an order to release the asian men's names used at the facility as well as the names of the employees who worked there that day

All asian men who gave sperm that was thawed out during the time frame have been asked to be identified and for the clinic to name all the possible women clients that could have had their eggs fertilized by Wasilewski as that way, Drew could learn if his sperm was used for someone looking for their own baby.

They are seeking damages for negligence and that the little girl is entitled to know her genetic history

Drew is keen on learning if any of his children are "out there" as he'd like them to know who he is as a person and about as much about him as possible

Social media suggests Kristina is now single and raising 2 children as it's unknown if she had a child from a prior relationship

Do you think it was a selfish move of Drew to divorce Kristina over this?

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Rex_Banner
09/11/19 10:32:38 PM
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mrduckbear posted...
the woman's Husband DIVORCED her because he could not raise a child that was NOT HIS!!


While it's not the child's fault that the lab screwed up, it's not unreasonable for the dad to feel that way given that the whole reason he invested a large sum of money was so that he'd be able to raise his biological child. If he wanted to raise somebody else's child, he would have just adopted. Granted, if the other child pictured is his biological son, then he's being kind of a dick.

mrduckbear posted...
Do you think it was selfish of Drew to divorce Kristina over this mix up that wasn't her fault?


It was her decision to keep the child. His complaint could have been resolved if she gave the child up, although it'd likely be hard for the wife because she at least birthed the child and, I'm assuming because it wasn't mentioned otherwise, was likely her biological daughter.
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Yellow
09/11/19 11:20:19 PM
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It looks like she fucked Minecraft Steve.
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The_tall_midget
09/12/19 2:22:19 AM
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His body, his money, his choice. The child isn't his so he doesn't have to pay to raise it.

Is it the woman's fault? Nope. 100% the problem of the lab. But a man should not be obligated to pay for a child that isn't his.

The strong, independent woman made a choice, she needs to account for it.
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Mead
09/12/19 2:32:32 AM
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I think it was incredibly selfish to leave her to raise the kids herself

It may not be biologically his but the mistake happened to them both. They should absolutely seek money for the mistake but just leaving her with all the responsibility of raising the girl seems very wrong to me

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ArvTheGreat
09/12/19 8:00:50 AM
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arv thinks they both made a choice and the lab messed up they should just give the kid up for adoption and move on with their lives if thats the case
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EvilMegas
09/12/19 8:08:26 AM
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What a nightmare, having an Asian child.
And fuck the other kid too. I guess.

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SunWuKung420
09/12/19 8:11:51 AM
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He is a scumbag.
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LinkPizza
09/12/19 9:42:28 AM
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The_tall_midget posted...
His body, his money, his choice. The child isn't his so he doesn't have to pay to raise it.

Is it the woman's fault? Nope. 100% the problem of the lab. But a man should not be obligated to pay for a child that isn't his.

The strong, independent woman made a choice, she needs to account for it.

Well, they both made the choice. The lab just fucked it all up...

Mead posted...
I think it was incredibly selfish to leave her to raise the kids herself

It may not be biologically his but the mistake happened to them both. They should absolutely seek money for the mistake but just leaving her with all the responsibility of raising the girl seems very wrong to me

I agree...

ArvTheGreat posted...
arv thinks they both made a choice and the lab messed up they should just give the kid up for adoption and move on with their lives if thats the case

Its still biologically her child, AFAIK...

SunWuKung420 posted...
He is a scumbag.

I also agree...
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SunWuKung420
09/12/19 10:09:14 AM
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It really says a lot about a person when they defend the guy.
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Lokarin
09/12/19 10:18:01 AM
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Fierce_Deity_08
09/12/19 10:41:19 AM
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SunWuKung420 posted...
It really says a lot about a person when they defend the guy.

Exactly. Hes an asshole!
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MICHALECOLE
09/12/19 11:02:07 AM
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Cmon fertility lab, you had one job to do
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party_animal07
09/12/19 11:09:43 AM
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I could understand him being upset that it's not his biological child, but I couldn't imagine leaving my wife for it or expecting her to give up a child she gave birth to.
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Runner_style
09/12/19 11:12:06 AM
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Rex_Banner posted...


It was her decision to keep the child. His complaint could have been resolved if she gave the child up, although it'd likely be hard for the wife because she at least birthed the child and, I'm assuming because it wasn't mentioned otherwise, was likely her biological daughter.


That would make him an even bigger dick than simply walking away from the relationship. It's neither of their fault for what happened, and I can't see any real justification in him telling her to get rid of the baby. She's honestly better off without him if that's how he acted.
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sodium-chloride
09/12/19 11:14:26 AM
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Lol at people who think the guy is in the right for divorcing. That's just a dick move.
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Mead
09/12/19 1:11:48 PM
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Is there any level of depravity that Zeus wont defend?

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EvilMegas
09/12/19 1:28:08 PM
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The fact that this was a factor at all. Is still horrible.
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HornedLion
09/12/19 1:37:49 PM
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Yellow posted...
It looks like she fucked Minecraft Steve.


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Rex_Banner
09/12/19 2:15:55 PM
#22:


Zangulus posted...
So all in all, Duckbear is full of shit once again and completely lying and this website won't remove his bullshit "journalism" as usual.


jfc, that's worse than his usual distortions.

EvilMegas posted...
The fact that this was a factor at all. Is still horrible.


What's horrible is how you choose to spin that inconvenient fact to fit your stupid narrative.
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zebatov
09/12/19 2:23:23 PM
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Understandable.
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EvilMegas
09/12/19 3:09:31 PM
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Rex_Banner posted...
What's horrible is how you choose to spin that inconvenient fact to fit your stupid narrative.

What are you even talking about?
Stop random using buzzwords.
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PKMNsony
09/12/19 3:22:27 PM
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Somewhere in the middle. I don't blame him for not wanting to raise someone else's child, divorcing for that reason (assuming it is in fact the clinic's mistake) irks me a little.

This does not make him an evil asshole like some people are claiming though. He's just a guy.
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Rex_Banner
09/12/19 6:13:37 PM
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EvilMegas posted...
Rex_Banner posted...
What's horrible is how you choose to spin that inconvenient fact to fit your stupid narrative.

What are you even talking about?
Stop random using buzzwords.


The fact that you're still looping back to your original argument where you comically played the race card -- which had nothing to do with the story in the first place other than leading to the discovery -- despite the fact that he actually treats the kid as his own and apparently also the allegations that the wife might have had an affair.
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Kimbos_Egg
09/12/19 6:38:34 PM
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Yeah i'm not raising another mans child unless i fucking adopt.
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LinkPizza
09/12/19 8:14:52 PM
#29:


Rex_Banner posted...
EvilMegas posted...
Rex_Banner posted...
What's horrible is how you choose to spin that inconvenient fact to fit your stupid narrative.

What are you even talking about?
Stop random using buzzwords.


The fact that you're still looping back to your original argument where you comically played the race card -- which had nothing to do with the story in the first place other than leading to the discovery -- despite the fact that he actually treats the kid as his own and apparently also the allegations that the wife might have had an affair.

Am I missing something? When did he play the race card?
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Gamerguymass
09/12/19 8:39:05 PM
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Why the hell is he still raising the girl that isn't his if he thinks his wife cheated on him?
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Mead
09/12/19 8:43:11 PM
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Rex_Banner posted...
The fact that you're still looping back to your original argument where you comically played the race card -- which had nothing to do with the story in the first place other than leading to the discovery -- despite the fact that he actually treats the kid as his own and apparently also the allegations that the wife might have had an affair.


Can we have one topic where you arent spewing your usual hate

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wwinterj25
09/12/19 9:18:00 PM
#32:


mrduckbear posted...
A White New Jersey Couple's family are ripped apart after they give birth to an ASIAN BABY due to a mishap at a FERTILITY clinic and the woman's Husband DIVORCED her because he could not raise a child that was NOT HIS!!


Seems fair to me. He doesn't want to bring up another mans kid. Doesn't matter if it's his wife's fault or not the fact still remains she had another mans kid.
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wwinterj25
09/12/19 9:24:55 PM
#34:


Zangulus posted...
That isn't actually what happened.


She didn't have another mans kid?
He didn't want to divorce her due this?

Edit:

Zangulus posted...
He's still raising her, and it was only one factor in their divorce:


Now I understand. Seems odd that he's using this as a factor is his divorce yet still helping bring her up.
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LinkPizza
09/12/19 9:29:28 PM
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wwinterj25 posted...
Zangulus posted...
That isn't actually what happened.


She didn't have another mans kid?
He didn't want to divorce her due this?

She did. But all we know is that it may have been the hospital may have used the wrong semen or something. While you are correct in that she had another mans kid, you make it sound like its definitely her fault or that she cheated. If the hospital was in the wrong, I think its kind of a shitty move on his part. Considering he does have another kid with her, as well...
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Mead
09/12/19 9:29:56 PM
#36:


wwinterj25 posted...
Seems fair to me. He doesn't want to bring up another mans kid. Doesn't matter if it's his wife's fault or not the fact still remains she had another mans kid.


It does matter in my opinion

The kid still needs a dad. He couldnt step up?

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wwinterj25
09/12/19 9:31:31 PM
#37:


Mead posted...
It does matter in my opinion


Kinda does though. He wants his own kid.

Mead posted...
The kid still needs a dad. He couldnt step up?


Plenty of kids need a dad and a mother. Should I suddenly go and adopt them all? I think not!
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dedbus
09/12/19 9:32:21 PM
#38:


It sucks that only female postpartum depression is acknowledged and supported.
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Mead
09/12/19 9:32:59 PM
#39:


Yes you need to adopt all of them right now

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wwinterj25
09/12/19 9:34:20 PM
#40:


LinkPizza posted...
While you are correct in that she had another mans kid, you make it sound like its definitely her fault or that she cheated.


Not really. I'm well aware the mix up isn't her fault. Doesn't mean he should stick by her regardless.

Mead posted...
Yes you need to adopt all of them right now


Ergh.
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LinkPizza
09/12/19 9:57:52 PM
#41:


wwinterj25 posted...
Mead posted...
It does matter in my opinion


Kinda does though. He wants his own kid.

Well, he does have his own. And with her. They had a kid together, AFAIK...

wwinterj25 posted...
LinkPizza posted...
While you are correct in that she had another mans kid, you make it sound like its definitely her fault or that she cheated.


Not really. I'm well aware the mix up isn't her fault. Doesn't mean he should stick by her regardless.

Then I guess he didnt care about the marriage. Marriage vows mention sticking through the storms with your partner when bad things happen. So, yeah, he probably should stick by her. Not to mention, if not for her, for his son. Though, its mentioned that they may have been other issues. If thats the case, then fine. But not for this issue. Its just kind of a dick move. And its not like they couldnt try for another that is his.

Also, does the article mention why they couldnt have like normal sex? I may have missed that...
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wwinterj25
09/12/19 10:23:58 PM
#42:


LinkPizza posted...
Well, he does have his own. And with her. They had a kid together, AFAIK...


Yes. However this one isn't his.

LinkPizza posted...
Then I guess he didnt care about the marriage.


I mean they did get a divorce for reasons. Still just because he didn't want to bring up another mans kid wouldn't mean he doesn't care about the marriage. It would mean he simply doesn't want to bring up another mans kid. Although with that said it seems he's helped bring her up regardless so idk.
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Mead
09/12/19 10:30:11 PM
#43:


It may not have genetically been his kid, but as far as Im concerned she was still his kid.

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LinkPizza
09/12/19 10:30:39 PM
#44:


Mead posted...
It may not have genetically been his kid, but as far as Im concerned she was still his kid.

I would agree...
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wwinterj25
09/12/19 10:32:54 PM
#45:


Mead posted...
It may not have genetically been his kid, but as far as Im concerned she was still his kid.

Does not compute.

LinkPizza posted...
I would agree...

Yes you would.
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Mead
09/12/19 10:33:38 PM
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wwinterj25 posted...
Does not compute.


For you.

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wwinterj25
09/12/19 10:36:11 PM
#47:


Mead posted...
For you.


It's not his kid period. I'd imagine they both wanted a kid together hence doing this in the first place. Now she has a kid that's hers and he is helping bring up a kid that isn't his. He's actually the one that got screwed the most.
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LinkPizza
09/12/19 10:39:21 PM
#48:


wwinterj25 posted...
Mead posted...
For you.


It's not his kid period. I'd imagine they both wanted a kid together hence doing this in the first place. Now she has a kid that's hers and he is helping bring up a kid that isn't his.

He doesnt have to. He could still stay with her to help with his biological kid. And they could always try for another. If he wants to leave her, thats fine. He may have his reasons, too. Im just saying that if this is the reason he left her, I think his personality is kind of shitty. And I guess she lucked out... And could maybe find someone who respects the marriage vows and wont leave as soon as everything isnt perfect... If that is the reason he left, of course...
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Mead
09/12/19 10:40:34 PM
#49:


wwinterj25 posted...
It's not his kid period. I'd imagine they both wanted a kid together hence doing this in the first place. Now she has a kid that's hers and he is helping bring up a kid that isn't his. He's actually the one that got screwed the most.


Id argue that little girl is getting the worst of it considering the guy wouldnt step up and be a dad to a kid who needs one

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wwinterj25
09/12/19 10:44:39 PM
#50:


LinkPizza posted...
Im just saying that if this is the reason he left her, I think his personality is kind of shitty.


There was other factors. This was one of them though and that's understandable.

LinkPizza posted...
And could maybe find someone who respects the marriage vows and wont leave as soon as everything isnt perfect...


Someone keeping a kid that isn't your own when you want a kid of your own again is more than just a marriage being "not perfect". It's a pretty big choice.

Mead posted...
Id argue that little girl is getting the worst of it considering the guy wouldnt step up and be a dad to a kid who needs one


He is actually helping raise her though. Still even if he didn't I don't see how other peoples kids should be his responsibility.
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