Poll of the Day > New Jersey Man DIVORCES His Wife after she gave BIRTH to an ASIAN GIRL!!!

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LinkPizza 09/12/19 10:47:14 PM #51:	wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... Im just saying that if this is the reason he left her, I think his personality is kind of shitty. There was other factors. This was one of them though and that's understandable. LinkPizza posted... And could maybe find someone who respects the marriage vows and wont leave as soon as everything isnt perfect... Someone keeping a kid that isn't your own when you want a kid of your own again is more than just a marriage being "not perfect". It's a pretty big choice. No. Its not that far. You were trying to have a kid, the hospital made a mistake. You already have one kid with them, and can always try for another. And just treat the kid as your own. Its not really that big a deal. If it was cheating, thats different. If its just a mistake at a hospital, and you still loved the kid when you thought it was yours, just continue on the same way. Its makes it sound like he wants to leave because things arent perfect... If that was the reason... But I think Zangs article said there were other things... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:927363317] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>Im just saying that if this is the reason he left her, I think his personality is kind of shitty. </quote> There was other factors. This was one of them though and that's understandable. LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>And could maybe find someone who respects the marriage vows and wont leave as soon as everything isnt perfect...</quote> Someone keeping a kid that isn't your own when you want a kid of your own again is more than just a marriage being "not perfect". It's a pretty big choice.</quote> No. Its not that far. You were trying to have a kid, the hospital made a mistake. You already have one kid with them, and can always try for another. And just treat the kid as your own. Its not really that big a deal. If it was cheating, thats different. If its just a mistake at a hospital, and you still loved the kid when you thought it was yours, just continue on the same way. Its makes it sound like he wants to leave because things arent perfect... If that was the reason... But I think Zangs article said there were other things...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/12/19 10:50:01 PM #52:	LinkPizza posted... You already have one kid with them, and can always try for another. Yet she has a kid that isn't his. LinkPizza posted... Its not really that big a deal. Of course it is. He wants another kid of his own. She's got another kid of her own but he hasn't. It's that simple. LinkPizza posted... Its sounds like he wants to leave because things arent perfect... Divorces happen for many reasons. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:927363433] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>You already have one kid with them, and can always try for another.</quote> Yet she has a kid that isn't his. LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>Its not really that big a deal. </quote> Of course it is. He wants another kid of his own. She's got another kid of her own but he hasn't. It's that simple. LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>Its sounds like he wants to leave because things arent perfect...</quote> Divorces happen for many reasons.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/12/19 10:53:16 PM #53:	wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... You already have one kid with them, and can always try for another. Yet she has a kid that isn't his. And? wwinterj25 posted... Of course it is. He wants another kid of his own. She's got another kid of her own but he hasn't. It's that simple. Its not as they can still try for another... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:927363572] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>You already have one kid with them, and can always try for another.</quote> Yet she has a kid that isn't his.</quote> And? wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Of course it is. He wants another kid of his own. She's got another kid of her own but he hasn't. It's that simple. </quote> Its not as they can still try for another...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/12/19 10:56:41 PM #54:	LinkPizza posted... Its not as they can still try for another... As I said he wanted his own kid and not other peoples. Being able to try for another is irrelevant as they got divorced so their marriage clearly isn't working for reasons. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:927363737] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>Its not as they can still try for another...</quote> As I said he wanted his own kid and not other peoples. Being able to try for another is irrelevant as they got divorced so their marriage clearly isn't working for reasons.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/12/19 10:58:53 PM #55:	wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... Its not as they can still try for another... As I said he wanted his own kid and not other peoples. Being able to try for another is irrelevant as they got divorced so their marriage clearly isn't working for reasons. Yeah. I understand that. I dont underatand your kid argument is all. I was saying that if this was the reason, they could still try for another thats his. And for all we know, he may not be able to have his own. They were at a fertility clinic... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:927363838] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>Its not as they can still try for another...</quote> As I said he wanted his own kid and not other peoples. Being able to try for another is irrelevant as they got divorced so their marriage clearly isn't working for reasons.</quote> Yeah. I understand that. I dont underatand your kid argument is all. I was saying that if this was the reason, they could still try for another thats his. And for all we know, he may not be able to have his own. They were at a fertility clinic...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/12/19 11:01:50 PM #56:	LinkPizza posted... I dont underatand your kid argument is all. You don't understand why someone who wants their own kid wouldn't want to bring up another persons kid? I see. I'd have thought that was clear enough. I am baffled why Ducky claims that's one of the issues when the guy actually is helping bring said kid up anyway though. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:927363958] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote> I dont underatand your kid argument is all.</quote> You don't understand why someone who wants their own kid wouldn't want to bring up another persons kid? I see. I'd have thought that was clear enough. I am baffled why Ducky claims that's one of the issues when the guy actually is helping bring said kid up anyway though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/12/19 11:07:13 PM #57:	wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... I dont underatand your kid argument is all. You don't understand why someone who wants their own kid wouldn't want to bring up another persons kid? I see. I'd have thought that was clear enough. I am baffled why Ducky claims that's one of the issues when the guy actually is helping bring said kid up anyway though. What I dont understand is why someone would leave someone because of a failtnof neither of them dealing with a kid that hes loved like his own, and could just raise as his own. Especially when he does have a biological kid and could most likely have another. It doesnt matter now because there could be other reasons for the divorce. I was saying that if it was the only reason, then I wouldnt Understand it. And he would be kind of a shitty person for doing it. And its not clear as MANY people raise kids that arent theirs. So no, its not clear. I dont see how you really think it is. Especially since he could do it alongside kids that are biologically his. --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:927364161] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote> I dont underatand your kid argument is all.</quote> You don't understand why someone who wants their own kid wouldn't want to bring up another persons kid? I see. I'd have thought that was clear enough. I am baffled why Ducky claims that's one of the issues when the guy actually is helping bring said kid up anyway though.</quote> What I dont understand is why someone would leave someone because of a failtnof neither of them dealing with a kid that hes loved like his own, and could just raise as his own. Especially when he does have a biological kid and could most likely have another. It doesnt matter now because there could be other reasons for the divorce. I was saying that if it was the only reason, then I wouldnt Understand it. And he would be kind of a shitty person for doing it. And its not clear as MANY people raise kids that arent theirs. So no, its not clear. I dont see how you really think it is. Especially since he could do it alongside kids that are biologically his.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/12/19 11:19:02 PM #58:	LinkPizza posted... I was saying that if it was the only reason, then I wouldnt Understand it. And he would be kind of a shitty person for doing it. Even if that was the only reason I'd find it understandable. They would just mean he wants to bring up his own kids. I don't see how that is being a terrible person. LinkPizza posted... And its not clear as MANY people raise kids that arent theirs. So no, its not clear. I dont see how you really think it is. Especially since he could do it alongside kids that are biologically his. Well you wouldn't. When folk go a fertility clinic like in this case this means they want their own kid. It's really not complicated and this isn't the same as getting with someone who has kids. You're basically saying he should bring up another mans kid or he's a arsehole and I'm bemused why you think that. It's not his responsibility at all. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:927364703] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote> I was saying that if it was the only reason, then I wouldnt Understand it. And he would be kind of a shitty person for doing it.</quote> Even if that was the only reason I'd find it understandable. They would just mean he wants to bring up his own kids. I don't see how that is being a terrible person. LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>And its not clear as MANY people raise kids that arent theirs. So no, its not clear. I dont see how you really think it is. Especially since he could do it alongside kids that are biologically his.</quote> Well you wouldn't. When folk go a fertility clinic like in this case this means they want their own kid. It's really not complicated and this isn't the same as getting with someone who has kids. You're basically saying he should bring up another mans kid or he's a arsehole and I'm bemused why you think that. It's not his responsibility at all.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/12/19 11:22:51 PM #59:	It different, but I guess well just have to agree to disagree. Ill never see things your way. I still think exactly what I said. I dont understand how youre seeing things. I would still think hes a kind of a shitty guy if that was the only reason. And I dont see how raising someone elses kid with your kids is a big deal. And why a hospital mistake would be grounds for divorce... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:927364857] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>It different, but I guess well just have to agree to disagree. Ill never see things your way. I still think exactly what I said. I dont understand how youre seeing things. I would still think hes a kind of a shitty guy if that was the only reason. And I dont see how raising someone elses kid with your kids is a big deal. And why a hospital mistake would be grounds for divorce...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/12/19 11:24:07 PM #60:	LinkPizza posted... Ill never see things your way. Obviously. LinkPizza posted... And I dont see how raising someone elses kid with your kids is a big deal. Again not a surprise. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:927364913] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote> Ill never see things your way. </quote> Obviously. LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>And I dont see how raising someone elses kid with your kids is a big deal.</quote> Again not a surprise.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/12/19 11:28:57 PM #61:	wwinterj25 posted... LinkPizza posted... Ill never see things your way. Obviously. LinkPizza posted... And I dont see how raising someone elses kid with your kids is a big deal. Again not a surprise. You make it sound like a bad thing that I think humans should be able to live together after something bad happens. Or that I understand that people can care for others children... But whatever... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:927365116] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote> Ill never see things your way. </quote> Obviously. LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>And I dont see how raising someone elses kid with your kids is a big deal.</quote> Again not a surprise.</quote> You make it sound like a bad thing that I think humans should be able to live together after something bad happens. Or that I understand that people can care for others children... But whatever...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 09/12/19 11:51:03 PM #62:	And I dont see how raising someone elses kid with your kids is a big deal. It really isnt. --- More malicious than mischievous <cite>Mead posted [p:927365991] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote><quote>And I dont see how raising someone elses kid with your kids is a big deal.</quote> It really isnt. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EvilMegas 09/13/19 7:24:51 AM #63:	LinkPizza posted... Rex_Banner posted... EvilMegas posted... Rex_Banner posted... What's horrible is how you choose to spin that inconvenient fact to fit your stupid narrative. What are you even talking about? Stop random using buzzwords. The fact that you're still looping back to your original argument where you comically played the race card -- which had nothing to do with the story in the first place other than leading to the discovery -- despite the fact that he actually treats the kid as his own and apparently also the allegations that the wife might have had an affair. Am I missing something? When did he play the race card? I gave up. I'm not about to have an argument over something as trivial as him not understanding how to be a human. --- Official King of Black People https://imgur.com/Zk3VS3o http://imgur.com/a/UeQiE https://imgur.com/aSnCUuI <cite>EvilMegas posted [p:927374936] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>Rex_Banner posted...</cite> <quote>EvilMegas posted...</cite> <quote>Rex_Banner posted...</cite> <quote>What's horrible is how you choose to spin that inconvenient fact to fit your stupid narrative.</quote> What are you even talking about? Stop random using buzzwords.</quote> The fact that you're still looping back to your original argument where you comically played the race card -- which had nothing to do with the story in the first place other than leading to the discovery -- despite the fact that he actually treats the kid as his own and apparently also the allegations that the wife might have had an affair.</quote> Am I missing something? When did he play the race card?</quote> I gave up. I'm not about to have an argument over something as trivial as him not understanding how to be a human.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/13/19 1:46:56 PM #64:	LinkPizza posted... You make it sound like a bad thing that I think humans should be able to live together after something bad happens. Sounds like you're reaching with that one. LinkPizza posted... Or that I understand that people can care for others children... But whatever... Again obviously you understand. You're with a bloke who has kids. Nothing wrong with that. However if someone wants their own kid and have gone to a fertility clinic to make that happen then chances are they won't settle for another persons kid. if they wanted that then adoption would have been their choice. This mix up happened so he is left with a kid that isn't his. Mead posted... It really isnt. Depends what you want. This guy wanted his own. So yeah it is. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:927388028] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>You make it sound like a bad thing that I think humans should be able to live together after something bad happens.</quote> Sounds like you're reaching with that one. LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>Or that I understand that people can care for others children... But whatever...</quote> Again obviously you understand. You're with a bloke who has kids. Nothing wrong with that. However if someone wants their own kid and have gone to a fertility clinic to make that happen then chances are they won't settle for another persons kid. if they wanted that then adoption would have been their choice. This mix up happened so he is left with a kid that isn't his. Mead posted...</cite> <quote>It really isnt.</quote> Depends what you want. This guy wanted his own. So yeah it is.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LinkPizza 09/13/19 3:58:45 PM #65:	wwinterj25 posted... Again obviously you understand. You're with a bloke who has kids. Nothing wrong with that. However if someone wants their own kid and have gone to a fertility clinic to make that happen then chances are they won't settle for another persons kid. if they wanted that then adoption would have been their choice. This mix up happened so he is left with a kid that isn't his. But you make it sounds like he doesn't have a kid with her already or can't try for another one. It's not like he has to end it because one of two (or one of three in they tried again) wasn't his. That's all. That's why I don't understand your side of the argument... --- Official King of Kings Switch FC: 7216-4417-4511 Add Me because I'll probably add you. I'm probably the LinkPizza you'll see around. <cite>LinkPizza posted [p:927393879] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Again obviously you understand. You're with a bloke who has kids. Nothing wrong with that. However if someone wants their own kid and have gone to a fertility clinic to make that happen then chances are they won't settle for another persons kid. if they wanted that then adoption would have been their choice. This mix up happened so he is left with a kid that isn't his.</quote> But you make it sounds like he doesn't have a kid with her already or can't try for another one. It's not like he has to end it because one of two (or one of three in they tried again) wasn't his. That's all. That's why I don't understand your side of the argument...</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 09/13/19 4:35:16 PM #66:	LinkPizza posted... wwinterj25 posted... Again obviously you understand. You're with a bloke who has kids. Nothing wrong with that. However if someone wants their own kid and have gone to a fertility clinic to make that happen then chances are they won't settle for another persons kid. if they wanted that then adoption would have been their choice. This mix up happened so he is left with a kid that isn't his. But you make it sounds like he doesn't have a kid with her already or can't try for another one. It's not like he has to end it because one of two (or one of three in they tried again) wasn't his. That's all. That's why I don't understand your side of the argument... You're arguing complex adult relationships with someone that's never had one. That's like discussing complex math theorems with a toddler. --- I'd rather die helping others survive than be all alone, UNSCATHED, after all others have fallen -DEC <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:927395619] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote>wwinterj25 posted...</cite> <quote>Again obviously you understand. You're with a bloke who has kids. Nothing wrong with that. However if someone wants their own kid and have gone to a fertility clinic to make that happen then chances are they won't settle for another persons kid. if they wanted that then adoption would have been their choice. This mix up happened so he is left with a kid that isn't his.</quote> But you make it sounds like he doesn't have a kid with her already or can't try for another one. It's not like he has to end it because one of two (or one of three in they tried again) wasn't his. That's all. That's why I don't understand your side of the argument...</quote> You're arguing complex adult relationships with someone that's never had one. That's like discussing complex math theorems with a toddler.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 09/14/19 1:24:19 PM #67:	LinkPizza posted... It's not like he has to end it because one of two (or one of three in they tried again) wasn't his. Kinda does though. Still by all accounts this doesn't seem like the main reason they split anyway. SunWuKung420 posted... You're arguing complex adult relationships with someone that's never had one. Neither have you, ok? --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:927429286] in New Jersey... [t:78006825]...</cite> <quote>LinkPizza posted...</cite> <quote> It's not like he has to end it because one of two (or one of three in they tried again) wasn't his.</quote> Kinda does though. Still by all accounts this doesn't seem like the main reason they split anyway. SunWuKung420 posted...</cite> <quote>You're arguing complex adult relationships with someone that's never had one. </quote> Neither have you, ok?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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Poll of the Day > New Jersey Man DIVORCES His Wife after she gave BIRTH to an ASIAN GIRL!!! (+) Yeah! (+)

Poll of the Day > New Jersey Man DIVORCES His Wife after she gave BIRTH to an ASIAN GIRL!!!