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Zerocide 12/20/18 4:50:15 PM #101:	dave_is_slick posted... Zerocide posted... dave_is_slick posted... Zerocide posted... He's no longer gonna be my child though You and any "person" who thinks like you is a piece of shit. The same can be said for judgemental pricks like you. Least I know I'm not a piece of shit for abandoning a kid that had no hand in the betrayal. So fuck you, have a shit day. Fuck you too judgmental prick. :) Take your stupid virtual signaling elsewhere, that alone already makes you worse than a PoS. --- "Grand Upper!" - Axel Stone http://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=618079256 <cite>Zerocide posted [p:914459999] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote>He's no longer gonna be my child though</quote> You and any "person" who thinks like you is a piece of shit.</quote> The same can be said for judgemental pricks like you.</quote> Least I know I'm not a piece of shit for abandoning a kid that had no hand in the betrayal. So fuck you, have a shit day.</quote> Fuck you too judgmental prick. :) Take your stupid virtual signaling elsewhere, that alone already makes you worse than a PoS.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Esrac 12/20/18 4:51:10 PM #102:	Barber102 posted... Esrac posted... The Great Muta 22 posted... Esrac posted... I'm not worried about the judgement of people on the internet. I'd negatively judge men who let themselves be taken advantage of like that. I meant people in real life would likely judge you accordingly. No one is forcing you to raise the child or stay with the mother, just you can't be upset if people think abandoning a child that considers you it's father and cutting them out of your life is a shitty thing to do. I'm not worried about their judgement either. Especially if they're not in a situation where they have to make that decision after a wife's adultery and continued deceit and exploitation of her trusting husband. Ya fuck the kid who was also lied to and has an emotional connection to you right? Your a fucking piece of garbage who no one should reproduce with. If you want to blame someone, blame the mother who caused the situation. I'm not going to be shamed by some assholes who don't have time deal with it into cleaning up her mess. If you have so much compassion and empathy, you can take care of the kids that your wife has while she's out getting fucked by other men. --- http://steamcommunity.com/id/Esrac/wishlist/ <cite>Esrac posted [p:914460052] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Barber102 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Esrac posted...</cite> <quote><cite>The Great Muta 22 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Esrac posted...</cite> <quote>I'm not worried about the judgement of people on the internet. I'd negatively judge men who let themselves be taken advantage of like that. </quote> I meant people in real life would likely judge you accordingly. No one is forcing you to raise the child or stay with the mother, just you can't be upset if people think abandoning a child that considers you it's father and cutting them out of your life is a shitty thing to do.</quote> I'm not worried about their judgement either. Especially if they're not in a situation where they have to make that decision after a wife's adultery and continued deceit and exploitation of her trusting husband.</quote> Ya fuck the kid who was also lied to and has an emotional connection to you right? Your a fucking piece of garbage who no one should reproduce with.</quote> If you want to blame someone, blame the mother who caused the situation. I'm not going to be shamed by some assholes who don't have time deal with it into cleaning up her mess. If you have so much compassion and empathy, you can take care of the kids that your wife has while she's out getting fucked by other men.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darmik 12/20/18 4:51:36 PM #103:	If you find out not long after birth then yeah sure. I can get ditching the kid. But man I don't know how someone could be so cold to a kid they raised for years. --- Kind Regards, Darmik <cite>Darmik posted [p:914460078] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote>If you find out not long after birth then yeah sure. I can get ditching the kid. But man I don't know how someone could be so cold to a kid they raised for years.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Thaddeus_J_Pibb 12/20/18 4:51:50 PM #104:	If you don't get a paternity test, I don't care how solid you think your relationship is, you're a goddam idiot. "She'd never cheat on me!" Said every guy who's been cucked ever --- When little boys don't get 8 hours of sleep, their glands emit a pleasant berry smell that attracts pedophiles. <cite>Thaddeus_J_Pibb posted [p:914460087] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote>If you don't get a paternity test, I don't care how solid you think your relationship is, you're a goddam idiot. "She'd never cheat on me!" Said every guy who's been cucked ever</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Barber102 12/20/18 4:54:16 PM #105:	Zerocide posted... dave_is_slick posted... Zerocide posted... dave_is_slick posted... Zerocide posted... He's no longer gonna be my child though You and any "person" who thinks like you is a piece of shit. The same can be said for judgemental pricks like you. Least I know I'm not a piece of shit for abandoning a kid that had no hand in the betrayal. So fuck you, have a shit day. Fuck you too judgmental prick. :) Take your stupid virtual signaling elsewhere You basically are saying that kid is worthless because your dna doesnt match up. Chances are you never loved that kid anyway and stuck in its life becsuse it was more convenient than paying support payments. Your willing to walk out on a kid who loved you as a father, spent years with in your life. Your an asshole. People who call you that are not being judgemental theyre just telling you the truth. --- Fire and blood. <cite>Barber102 posted [p:914460196] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote>He's no longer gonna be my child though</quote> You and any "person" who thinks like you is a piece of shit.</quote> The same can be said for judgemental pricks like you.</quote> Least I know I'm not a piece of shit for abandoning a kid that had no hand in the betrayal. So fuck you, have a shit day.</quote> Fuck you too judgmental prick. :) Take your stupid virtual signaling elsewhere</quote> You basically are saying that kid is worthless because your dna doesnt match up. Chances are you never loved that kid anyway and stuck in its life becsuse it was more convenient than paying support payments. Your willing to walk out on a kid who loved you as a father, spent years with in your life. Your an asshole. People who call you that are not being judgemental theyre just telling you the truth.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dave_is_slick 12/20/18 4:54:18 PM #106:	Zerocide posted... dave_is_slick posted... Zerocide posted... dave_is_slick posted... Zerocide posted... He's no longer gonna be my child though You and any "person" who thinks like you is a piece of shit. The same can be said for judgemental pricks like you. Least I know I'm not a piece of shit for abandoning a kid that had no hand in the betrayal. So fuck you, have a shit day. Fuck you too judgmental prick. :) Take your stupid virtual signaling elsewhere, that alone already makes you worse than a PoS. Can't be worse than abandoning a kid because you're a spiteful piece of shit. --- The most relaxing version of Aquatic Ambiance I've ever heard: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bl61y1XM7sM <cite>dave_is_slick posted [p:914460201] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote>He's no longer gonna be my child though</quote> You and any "person" who thinks like you is a piece of shit.</quote> The same can be said for judgemental pricks like you.</quote> Least I know I'm not a piece of shit for abandoning a kid that had no hand in the betrayal. So fuck you, have a shit day.</quote> Fuck you too judgmental prick. :) Take your stupid virtual signaling elsewhere, that alone already makes you worse than a PoS.</quote> Can't be worse than abandoning a kid because you're a spiteful piece of shit.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Alexanaxela 12/20/18 4:56:58 PM #107:	Zerocide posted... Alexanaxela posted... "my wife cheated on me and knowingly lied to me about my child being mine every day for years, and now that's all I think about when I see my child" "suck it up you spiteful piece of shit you're as bad as the wife." Pretty much. i fix'd it to make it more accurate :3 --- Tomorrow will be the most beautiful day of Raymond K. Hessel's life. His breakfast will taste better than any meal you and I have ever tasted. <cite>Alexanaxela posted [p:914460332] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Alexanaxela posted...</cite> <quote>"my wife cheated on me and knowingly lied to me about my child being mine every day for years, and now that's all I think about when I see my child" "suck it up you spiteful piece of shit you're as bad as the wife."</quote> Pretty much.</quote> i fix'd it to make it more accurate :3</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zerocide 12/20/18 4:57:00 PM #108:	dave_is_slick posted... Zerocide posted... dave_is_slick posted... Zerocide posted... dave_is_slick posted... Zerocide posted... He's no longer gonna be my child though You and any "person" who thinks like you is a piece of shit. The same can be said for judgemental pricks like you. Least I know I'm not a piece of shit for abandoning a kid that had no hand in the betrayal. So fuck you, have a shit day. Fuck you too judgmental prick. :) Take your stupid virtual signaling elsewhere, that alone already makes you worse than a PoS. Can't be worse than abandoning a kid because you're a spiteful piece of shit. Except it is shithead. The rage you putting out per post says alot about you while judging me. --- "Grand Upper!" - Axel Stone http://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=618079256 <cite>Zerocide posted [p:914460334] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote>He's no longer gonna be my child though</quote> You and any "person" who thinks like you is a piece of shit.</quote> The same can be said for judgemental pricks like you.</quote> Least I know I'm not a piece of shit for abandoning a kid that had no hand in the betrayal. So fuck you, have a shit day.</quote> Fuck you too judgmental prick. :) Take your stupid virtual signaling elsewhere, that alone already makes you worse than a PoS.</quote> Can't be worse than abandoning a kid because you're a spiteful piece of shit.</quote> Except it is shithead. The rage you putting out per post says alot about you while judging me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
glitteringfairy 12/20/18 4:59:39 PM #109:	I see many moderations in zeroes and Dave's futures --- "How come you can believe in God but not Bigfoot?" V-E-G-Y https://imgur.com/AqR3aeX https://imgur.com/vvuUXpp https://imgur.com/r9xK2NR <cite>glitteringfairy posted [p:914460462] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote>I see many moderations in zeroes and Dave's futures</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Barber102 12/20/18 5:00:18 PM #110:	Anyone who supports abandoning a child they raised because the wife was a piece of shit should go get a vasectomy now and never have kids because chances are they would abandon the kid even if it was theirs biologically. --- Fire and blood. <cite>Barber102 posted [p:914460489] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote>Anyone who supports abandoning a child they raised because the wife was a piece of shit should go get a vasectomy now and never have kids because chances are they would abandon the kid even if it was theirs biologically.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dave_is_slick 12/20/18 5:00:53 PM #111:	Zerocide posted... dave_is_slick posted... Zerocide posted... dave_is_slick posted... Zerocide posted... dave_is_slick posted... Zerocide posted... He's no longer gonna be my child though You and any "person" who thinks like you is a piece of shit. The same can be said for judgemental pricks like you. Least I know I'm not a piece of shit for abandoning a kid that had no hand in the betrayal. So fuck you, have a shit day. Fuck you too judgmental prick. :) Take your stupid virtual signaling elsewhere, that alone already makes you worse than a PoS. Can't be worse than abandoning a kid because you're a spiteful piece of shit. Except it is shithead. The rage you putting out per post says alot about you while judging me. Oh no, you're mad that you and people like you are being called for what you are! --- The most relaxing version of Aquatic Ambiance I've ever heard: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bl61y1XM7sM <cite>dave_is_slick posted [p:914460518] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote>He's no longer gonna be my child though</quote> You and any "person" who thinks like you is a piece of shit.</quote> The same can be said for judgemental pricks like you.</quote> Least I know I'm not a piece of shit for abandoning a kid that had no hand in the betrayal. So fuck you, have a shit day.</quote> Fuck you too judgmental prick. :) Take your stupid virtual signaling elsewhere, that alone already makes you worse than a PoS.</quote> Can't be worse than abandoning a kid because you're a spiteful piece of shit.</quote> Except it is shithead. The rage you putting out per post says alot about you while judging me.</quote> Oh no, you're mad that you and people like you are being called for what you are!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
K181 12/20/18 5:01:13 PM #112:	My oldest kids are seven and I love them to death. If I found out that my wife somehow faked the paternity test and DNA test and I wasn't the biological father, I would be furious at her but they'd still be my kids and I'd still be their dad. --- Irregardless, for all intensive purposes, I could care less. <cite>K181 posted [p:914460536] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote>My oldest kids are seven and I love them to death. If I found out that my wife somehow faked the paternity test and DNA test and I wasn't the biological father, I would be furious at her but they'd still be my kids and I'd still be their dad.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dave_is_slick 12/20/18 5:01:45 PM #113:	glitteringfairy posted... I see many moderations in zeroes and Dave's futures Have I ever cared? --- The most relaxing version of Aquatic Ambiance I've ever heard: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bl61y1XM7sM <cite>dave_is_slick posted [p:914460577] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>glitteringfairy posted...</cite> <quote>I see many moderations in zeroes and Dave's futures</quote> Have I ever cared?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darmik 12/20/18 5:02:05 PM #114:	I think maybe the people who are saying they'd ditch the kid don't have kids or young relatives or something? Like in this situation you're not talking about some hypothetical. You'd be talking about a kid you have raised since they were a baby. Who you should already love and care for. Of course it would hurt. But this kid who you love didn't do anything wrong. I don't get how someone could have an affair and have a secret love child. But I also don't get how someone could completely disregard their child even if this betrayal was found out. Being betrayed doesn't shut down your feelings for your family and it also doesn't mean you get an out for being a father who raised a son or daughter. --- Kind Regards, Darmik <cite>Darmik posted [p:914460593] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote>I think maybe the people who are saying they'd ditch the kid don't have kids or young relatives or something? Like in this situation you're not talking about some hypothetical. You'd be talking about a kid you have raised since they were a baby. Who you should already love and care for. Of course it would hurt. But this kid who you love didn't do anything wrong. I don't get how someone could have an affair and have a secret love child. But I also don't get how someone could completely disregard their child even if this betrayal was found out. Being betrayed doesn't shut down your feelings for your family and it also doesn't mean you get an out for being a father who raised a son or daughter.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
s0nicfan 12/20/18 5:03:43 PM #115:	How would people feel about the man in this situation being able to take the biological father to court for child payments? If he's gotta continue to raise a child he knows it isn't him, it would at least be fair for the actual biological father to have to chip in for the kid's college fund or something. --- "History Is Much Like An Endless Waltz. The Three Beats Of War, Peace And Revolution Continue On Forever." - Gundam Wing: Endless Waltz <cite>s0nicfan posted [p:914460673] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote>How would people feel about the man in this situation being able to take the biological father to court for child payments? If he's gotta continue to raise a child he knows it isn't him, it would at least be fair for the actual biological father to have to chip in for the kid's college fund or something.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zerocide 12/20/18 5:04:14 PM #116:	@dave_is_slick Not really no lol. You're the one who got tilted and resorted to shitposting. You're just some randomass donning your cape thinking everything you say is law. --- "Grand Upper!" - Axel Stone http://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=618079256 <cite>Zerocide posted [p:914460698] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote>@dave_is_slick Not really no lol. You're the one who got tilted and resorted to shitposting. You're just some randomass donning your cape thinking everything you say is law.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
glitteringfairy 12/20/18 5:05:08 PM #117:	dave_is_slick posted... glitteringfairy posted... I see many moderations in zeroes and Dave's futures Have I ever cared? The hero we need --- "How come you can believe in God but not Bigfoot?" V-E-G-Y https://imgur.com/AqR3aeX https://imgur.com/vvuUXpp https://imgur.com/r9xK2NR <cite>glitteringfairy posted [p:914460736] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>glitteringfairy posted...</cite> <quote>I see many moderations in zeroes and Dave's futures</quote> Have I ever cared?</quote> The hero we need</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
dave_is_slick 12/20/18 5:05:32 PM #118:	Zerocide posted... @dave_is_slickDave Not really no lol. You're the one who got tilted and resorted to shitposting. You're just some randomass donning your cape thinking everything you say is law. crying intensifies --- The most relaxing version of Aquatic Ambiance I've ever heard: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bl61y1XM7sM <cite>dave_is_slick posted [p:914460756] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote>@dave_is_slickDave Not really no lol. You're the one who got tilted and resorted to shitposting. You're just some randomass donning your cape thinking everything you say is law.</quote> crying intensifies</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Zerocide 12/20/18 5:06:18 PM #119:	dave_is_slick posted... Zerocide posted... @dave_is_slickDave Not really no lol. You're the one who got tilted and resorted to shitposting. You're just some randomass donning your cape thinking everything you say is law. crying intensifies Hands Dave some tissues. There there buddy, everything will be alright. --- "Grand Upper!" - Axel Stone http://steamcommunity.com/sharedfiles/filedetails/?id=618079256 <cite>Zerocide posted [p:914460793] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>dave_is_slick posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Zerocide posted...</cite> <quote>@dave_is_slickDave Not really no lol. You're the one who got tilted and resorted to shitposting. You're just some randomass donning your cape thinking everything you say is law.</quote> crying intensifies</quote> Hands Dave some tissues. There there buddy, everything will be alright.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darmik 12/20/18 5:07:15 PM #120:	s0nicfan posted... How would people feel about the man in this situation being able to take the biological father to court for child payments? If he's gotta continue to raise a child he knows it isn't him, it would at least be fair for the actual biological father to have to chip in for the kid's college fund or something. Fine. --- Kind Regards, Darmik <cite>Darmik posted [p:914460829] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>s0nicfan posted...</cite> <quote>How would people feel about the man in this situation being able to take the biological father to court for child payments? If he's gotta continue to raise a child he knows it isn't him, it would at least be fair for the actual biological father to have to chip in for the kid's college fund or something.</quote> Fine.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
andel 12/20/18 5:18:46 PM #121:	this kind of situation isnt any different than a longtime step parent who is in a kids life for a long time becoming absent if they get divorced. it is a shit situation but there is no optimal situation in a scenario like this --- I am thinking about just walking into the river now that Megaupload is gone and condoms are in porn.-Fubonis <cite>andel posted [p:914461391] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote>this kind of situation isnt any different than a longtime step parent who is in a kids life for a long time becoming absent if they get divorced. it is a shit situation but there is no optimal situation in a scenario like this</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Esrac 12/20/18 5:48:12 PM #122:	Darmik posted... I think maybe the people who are saying they'd ditch the kid don't have kids or young relatives or something? Like in this situation you're not talking about some hypothetical. You'd be talking about a kid you have raised since they were a baby. Who you should already love and care for. Of course it would hurt. But this kid who you love didn't do anything wrong. I don't get how someone could have an affair and have a secret love child. But I also don't get how someone could completely disregard their child even if this betrayal was found out. Being betrayed doesn't shut down your feelings for your family and it also doesn't mean you get an out for being a father who raised a son or daughter. I have two kids with my wife right now that are, as far as I know, are mine. If it came out that she had conceived one or both of them secretly while cheating on me, I don't think I could ever acknowledge them as my children again. That well would be successfully poisoned by the betrayal and decepion. It would be heartbreaking, but it's an unfortunate reality. --- http://steamcommunity.com/id/Esrac/wishlist/ <cite>Esrac posted [p:914462841] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote>I think maybe the people who are saying they'd ditch the kid don't have kids or young relatives or something? Like in this situation you're not talking about some hypothetical. You'd be talking about a kid you have raised since they were a baby. Who you should already love and care for. Of course it would hurt. But this kid who you love didn't do anything wrong. I don't get how someone could have an affair and have a secret love child. But I also don't get how someone could completely disregard their child even if this betrayal was found out. Being betrayed doesn't shut down your feelings for your family and it also doesn't mean you get an out for being a father who raised a son or daughter.</quote> I have two kids with my wife right now that are, as far as I know, are mine. If it came out that she had conceived one or both of them secretly while cheating on me, I don't think I could ever acknowledge them as my children again. That well would be successfully poisoned by the betrayal and decepion. It would be heartbreaking, but it's an unfortunate reality.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darmik 12/20/18 5:49:58 PM #123:	Esrac posted... Darmik posted... I think maybe the people who are saying they'd ditch the kid don't have kids or young relatives or something? Like in this situation you're not talking about some hypothetical. You'd be talking about a kid you have raised since they were a baby. Who you should already love and care for. Of course it would hurt. But this kid who you love didn't do anything wrong. I don't get how someone could have an affair and have a secret love child. But I also don't get how someone could completely disregard their child even if this betrayal was found out. Being betrayed doesn't shut down your feelings for your family and it also doesn't mean you get an out for being a father who raised a son or daughter. I have two kids with my wife right now that are, as far as I know, are mine. If it came out that she had conceived one or both of them secretly while cheating on me, I don't think I could ever acknowledge them as my children again. That well would be successfully poisoned by the betrayal and decepion. It would be heartbreaking, but it's an unfortunate reality. I just don't get it. Surely you love them by this point. Likewise if you found out you weren't your Dads kid you'd be fine if he didn't acknowledge you as his son anymore? --- Kind Regards, Darmik <cite>Darmik posted [p:914462910] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Esrac posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote>I think maybe the people who are saying they'd ditch the kid don't have kids or young relatives or something? Like in this situation you're not talking about some hypothetical. You'd be talking about a kid you have raised since they were a baby. Who you should already love and care for. Of course it would hurt. But this kid who you love didn't do anything wrong. I don't get how someone could have an affair and have a secret love child. But I also don't get how someone could completely disregard their child even if this betrayal was found out. Being betrayed doesn't shut down your feelings for your family and it also doesn't mean you get an out for being a father who raised a son or daughter.</quote> I have two kids with my wife right now that are, as far as I know, are mine. If it came out that she had conceived one or both of them secretly while cheating on me, I don't think I could ever acknowledge them as my children again. That well would be successfully poisoned by the betrayal and decepion. It would be heartbreaking, but it's an unfortunate reality.</quote> I just don't get it. Surely you love them by this point. Likewise if you found out you weren't your Dads kid you'd be fine if he didn't acknowledge you as his son anymore?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Esrac 12/20/18 6:03:50 PM #124:	Darmik posted... Esrac posted... Darmik posted... I think maybe the people who are saying they'd ditch the kid don't have kids or young relatives or something? Like in this situation you're not talking about some hypothetical. You'd be talking about a kid you have raised since they were a baby. Who you should already love and care for. Of course it would hurt. But this kid who you love didn't do anything wrong. I don't get how someone could have an affair and have a secret love child. But I also don't get how someone could completely disregard their child even if this betrayal was found out. Being betrayed doesn't shut down your feelings for your family and it also doesn't mean you get an out for being a father who raised a son or daughter. I have two kids with my wife right now that are, as far as I know, are mine. If it came out that she had conceived one or both of them secretly while cheating on me, I don't think I could ever acknowledge them as my children again. That well would be successfully poisoned by the betrayal and decepion. It would be heartbreaking, but it's an unfortunate reality. I just don't get it. Surely you love them by this point. Likewise if you found out you weren't your Dads kid you'd be fine if he didn't acknowledge you as his son anymore? Sure. I love them. Which is why I said it'd be heartbreaking. But it is what it is. If they were the product of my wife's betrayal, I don't think I'd be able to look at them as mine anymore. I think the betrayal would poison everything and I would be bitter and resentful. I don't know if saying I'd be fine with my father no longer acknowledging me as his son if it came to light that I were a product of my mother's hypothetical infidelity, but I think I would understand. But considering my mother left my father when I was very young and he was barely involved afterward, I don't think it would be as devastating for me as you'd like to imagine. --- http://steamcommunity.com/id/Esrac/wishlist/ <cite>Esrac posted [p:914463667] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Esrac posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote>I think maybe the people who are saying they'd ditch the kid don't have kids or young relatives or something? Like in this situation you're not talking about some hypothetical. You'd be talking about a kid you have raised since they were a baby. Who you should already love and care for. Of course it would hurt. But this kid who you love didn't do anything wrong. I don't get how someone could have an affair and have a secret love child. But I also don't get how someone could completely disregard their child even if this betrayal was found out. Being betrayed doesn't shut down your feelings for your family and it also doesn't mean you get an out for being a father who raised a son or daughter.</quote> I have two kids with my wife right now that are, as far as I know, are mine. If it came out that she had conceived one or both of them secretly while cheating on me, I don't think I could ever acknowledge them as my children again. That well would be successfully poisoned by the betrayal and decepion. It would be heartbreaking, but it's an unfortunate reality.</quote> I just don't get it. Surely you love them by this point. Likewise if you found out you weren't your Dads kid you'd be fine if he didn't acknowledge you as his son anymore?</quote> Sure. I love them. Which is why I said it'd be heartbreaking. But it is what it is. If they were the product of my wife's betrayal, I don't think I'd be able to look at them as mine anymore. I think the betrayal would poison everything and I would be bitter and resentful. I don't know if saying I'd be fine with my father no longer acknowledging me as his son if it came to light that I were a product of my mother's hypothetical infidelity, but I think I would understand. But considering my mother left my father when I was very young and he was barely involved afterward, I don't think it would be as devastating for me as you'd like to imagine.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Darmik 12/20/18 6:06:23 PM #125:	Esrac posted... I don't know if saying I'd be fine with my father no longer acknowledging me as his son if it came to light that I were a product of my mother's hypothetical infidelity, but I think I would understand. But considering my mother left my father when I was very young and he was barely involved afterward, I don't think it would be as devastating for me as you'd like to imagine. Maybe this is related to how you feel. My parents were together until my Mum passed away. --- Kind Regards, Darmik <cite>Darmik posted [p:914463785] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Esrac posted...</cite> <quote>I don't know if saying I'd be fine with my father no longer acknowledging me as his son if it came to light that I were a product of my mother's hypothetical infidelity, but I think I would understand. But considering my mother left my father when I was very young and he was barely involved afterward, I don't think it would be as devastating for me as you'd like to imagine.</quote> Maybe this is related to how you feel. My parents were together until my Mum passed away.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dragonblade01 12/20/18 6:12:23 PM #126:	It's such a messed up situation with so many parties involved, I couldn't judge someone for whatever decision they made if they found out their child wasn't actually theirs. Well, except for homicide. I'd judge them for that. <cite>Dragonblade01 posted [p:914464090] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote>It's such a messed up situation with so many parties involved, I couldn't judge someone for whatever decision they made if they found out their child wasn't actually theirs. Well, except for homicide. I'd judge them for that.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Alexanaxela 12/20/18 6:20:52 PM #127:	Dragonblade01 posted... It's such a messed up situation with so many parties involved, I couldn't judge someone for whatever decision they made if they found out their child wasn't actually theirs. Well, except for homicide. I'd judge them for that. this is how I feel. While I personally wouldn't just up and leave in said situation, I understand that the man should have the choice to do that as he too is an innocent bystander that did nothing. So it just seems weird that some people would seem to hate the man just as much if not moreso than the mother who's fault the entire thing is --- Tomorrow will be the most beautiful day of Raymond K. Hessel's life. His breakfast will taste better than any meal you and I have ever tasted. <cite>Alexanaxela posted [p:914464512] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Dragonblade01 posted...</cite> <quote>It's such a messed up situation with so many parties involved, I couldn't judge someone for whatever decision they made if they found out their child wasn't actually theirs. Well, except for homicide. I'd judge them for that.</quote> this is how I feel. While I personally wouldn't just up and leave in said situation, I understand that the man should have the choice to do that as he too is an innocent bystander that did nothing. So it just seems weird that some people would seem to hate the man just as much if not moreso than the mother who's fault the entire thing is</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
E32005 12/20/18 6:25:35 PM #128:	That one religious mom in the story is a horrible bitch Literally disowning your daughter cuz she called you out on your sin Hope she rots in hell --- https://i.imgtc.com/IR4XrBA.gif https://i.imgtc.com/7X1rBRv.gif <cite>E32005 posted [p:914464763] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote>That one religious mom in the story is a horrible bitch Literally disowning your daughter cuz she called you out on your sin Hope she rots in hell</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EdgeMaster 12/20/18 6:29:06 PM #129:	Alexanaxela posted... Dragonblade01 posted... It's such a messed up situation with so many parties involved, I couldn't judge someone for whatever decision they made if they found out their child wasn't actually theirs. Well, except for homicide. I'd judge them for that. this is how I feel. While I personally wouldn't just up and leave in said situation, I understand that the man should have the choice to do that as he too is an innocent bystander that did nothing. So it just seems weird that some people would seem to hate the man just as much if not moreso than the mother who's fault the entire thing is Its shitty either way. To one person youre a deadbeat who left his family (lol) and responsibilities behind. To the next youre a spineless cuck whos wife cheats on him and doesnt have a spine to leave. --- If you don't have anything nice to say, say it on the internet. ****poster Extraordinaire <cite>EdgeMaster posted [p:914464949] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Alexanaxela posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Dragonblade01 posted...</cite> <quote>It's such a messed up situation with so many parties involved, I couldn't judge someone for whatever decision they made if they found out their child wasn't actually theirs. Well, except for homicide. I'd judge them for that.</quote> this is how I feel. While I personally wouldn't just up and leave in said situation, I understand that the man should have the choice to do that as he too is an innocent bystander that did nothing. So it just seems weird that some people would seem to hate the man just as much if not moreso than the mother who's fault the entire thing is</quote> Its shitty either way. To one person youre a deadbeat who left his family (lol) and responsibilities behind. To the next youre a spineless cuck whos wife cheats on him and doesnt have a spine to leave.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
WaterLink 12/20/18 6:31:08 PM #130:	https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XCfe7xAvbD8" data-time=" --- https://i.imgtc.com/3qqvvSR.png <cite>WaterLink posted [p:914465058] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote> https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XCfe7xAvbD8" data-time="</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Anteaterking 12/20/18 6:32:09 PM #131:	EdgeMaster posted... Its s*ty either way. To one person youre a deadbeat who left his family (lol) and responsibilities behind. To the next youre a spineless cuck whos wife cheats on him and doesnt have a spine to leave There's a third option where you divorce your wife and still keep your children in your life. --- http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b136/Anteaterking/scan00021.jpg http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b136/Anteaterking/scan00021.jpg <cite>Anteaterking posted [p:914465108] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>EdgeMaster posted...</cite> <quote>Its s*ty either way. To one person youre a deadbeat who left his family (lol) and responsibilities behind. To the next youre a spineless cuck whos wife cheats on him and doesnt have a spine to leave</quote> There's a third option where you divorce your wife and still keep your children in your life.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
thronedfire2 12/20/18 6:33:38 PM #132:	Anteaterking posted... EdgeMaster posted... Its s**ty either way. To one person youre a deadbeat who left his family (lol) and responsibilities behind. To the next youre a spineless cuck whos wife cheats on him and doesnt have a spine to leave There's a third option where you divorce your wife and still keep your children in your life. When theyre biologically related to her but not you? Good luck with that --- I could see you, but I couldn't hear you You were holding your hat in the breeze Turning away from me In this moment you were stolen...* <cite>thronedfire2 posted [p:914465165] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Anteaterking posted...</cite> <quote><cite>EdgeMaster posted...</cite> <quote>Its s***ty either way. To one person youre a deadbeat who left his family (lol) and responsibilities behind. To the next youre a spineless cuck whos wife cheats on him and doesnt have a spine to leave</quote> There's a third option where you divorce your wife and still keep your children in your life.</quote> When theyre biologically related to her but not you? Good luck with that</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Hulkasaurusrex 12/20/18 6:37:46 PM #133:	I think men should be able to sue big time when this happens for pain and suffering. <cite>Hulkasaurusrex posted [p:914465355] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote>I think men should be able to sue big time when this happens for pain and suffering.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
E32005 12/20/18 6:38:47 PM #134:	Hulkasaurusrex posted... I think men should be able to sue big time when this happens for pain and suffering. Courts dont care about men in marriage issues --- https://i.imgtc.com/IR4XrBA.gif https://i.imgtc.com/7X1rBRv.gif <cite>E32005 posted [p:914465404] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Hulkasaurusrex posted...</cite> <quote>I think men should be able to sue big time when this happens for pain and suffering.</quote> Courts dont care about men in marriage issues</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Anteaterking 12/20/18 6:39:34 PM #135:	thronedfire2 posted... When theyre biologically related to her but not you? Good luck with that Good luck with what? I'm not saying "acquire sole custody". --- http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b136/Anteaterking/scan00021.jpg http://i18.photobucket.com/albums/b136/Anteaterking/scan00021.jpg <cite>Anteaterking posted [p:914465440] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>thronedfire2 posted...</cite> <quote>When theyre biologically related to her but not you? Good luck with that</quote> Good luck with what? I'm not saying "acquire sole custody".</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EdgeMaster 12/20/18 6:45:35 PM #136:	Anteaterking posted... EdgeMaster posted... Its s*ty either way. To one person youre a deadbeat who left his family (lol) and responsibilities behind. To the next youre a spineless cuck whos wife cheats on him and doesnt have a spine to leave There's a third option where you divorce your wife and still keep your children in your life. Hahahah, nah. No, thats not a third option. Like mentioned goodluck keeping the kids without being biologically related. You have a snowballs chance in hell. Its already hard enough to get custody of kids that are related to you. Not to mention why would you want a kid that isnt yours? Lol Wasnt a serious question. That doesnt even come into play unless you can get custody lol. --- If you don't have anything nice to say, say it on the internet. poster Extraordinaire <cite>EdgeMaster posted [p:914465690] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Anteaterking posted...</cite> <quote><cite>EdgeMaster posted...</cite> <quote>Its s*ty either way. To one person youre a deadbeat who left his family (lol) and responsibilities behind. To the next youre a spineless cuck whos wife cheats on him and doesnt have a spine to leave</quote> There's a third option where you divorce your wife and still keep your children in your life.</quote> Hahahah, nah. No, thats not a third option. Like mentioned goodluck keeping the kids without being biologically related. You have a snowballs chance in hell. Its already hard enough to get custody of kids that are related to you. Not to mention why would you want a kid that isnt yours? Lol Wasnt a serious question. That doesnt even come into play unless you can get custody lol.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Esrac 12/20/18 7:06:54 PM #137:	Darmik posted... Esrac posted... I don't know if saying I'd be fine with my father no longer acknowledging me as his son if it came to light that I were a product of my mother's hypothetical infidelity, but I think I would understand. But considering my mother left my father when I was very young and he was barely involved afterward, I don't think it would be as devastating for me as you'd like to imagine. Maybe this is related to how you feel. My parents were together until my Mum passed away. Maybe, since upbringing does have a big impact on how we turn out as people. My mother left my father out of the blue when I was 6 or 7 and after that we'd see him maybe a couple times a year. And my mother wasn't very motherly, attentive, or supportive, so it's not like we had a close knit family by any standard. Now, I'm 32 and my father and I are on relatively good terms, but I wouldn't say that we are close. We talk on the phone maybe once a month or two. We see each other in person two or three times a year, maybe. --- http://steamcommunity.com/id/Esrac/wishlist/ <cite>Esrac posted [p:914466630] in Apparently... [t:77320047]...</cite> <quote><cite>Darmik posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Esrac posted...</cite> <quote>I don't know if saying I'd be fine with my father no longer acknowledging me as his son if it came to light that I were a product of my mother's hypothetical infidelity, but I think I would understand. But considering my mother left my father when I was very young and he was barely involved afterward, I don't think it would be as devastating for me as you'd like to imagine.</quote> Maybe this is related to how you feel. My parents were together until my Mum passed away.</quote> Maybe, since upbringing does have a big impact on how we turn out as people. My mother left my father out of the blue when I was 6 or 7 and after that we'd see him maybe a couple times a year. And my mother wasn't very motherly, attentive, or supportive, so it's not like we had a close knit family by any standard. Now, I'm 32 and my father and I are on relatively good terms, but I wouldn't say that we are close. We talk on the phone maybe once a month or two. We see each other in person two or three times a year, maybe.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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