Poll of the Day > My ex-boyfriend gave me a hug before he left for work.

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AwesomeTurtwig 05/29/18 12:27:56 AM #51:	I'd give you a hug every morning, every night, every waking moment Jen! --- http://potders.com/sigs/1.gif My flash games: http://bit.ly/kO1BDd Rule free PotD: http://www.potders.com/forum/ <cite>AwesomeTurtwig posted [p:902159087] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>I'd give you a hug every morning, every night, every waking moment Jen!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 05/29/18 12:28:35 AM #52:	lol thanks Turtwig. I always appreciate your undying support and unconditional love. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:902159132] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>lol thanks Turtwig. I always appreciate your undying support and unconditional love.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
McSame_as_Bush 05/29/18 1:01:09 AM #53:	Jen0125 posted... I wonder what that means. Speculate for me, potd. It means he still cares about you but not necessarily more. I hugged my ex the other week when we got lunch, because I still care about her, even though we're both with different people. Unless you have no other options, you should probably not be living together. You'll both be able to think more clearly apart. A few years ago two of my roommates broke up right after we signed a lease. We had no spare bedroom or anything so they had to continue to share the same bed. Most awkward year ever. --- wanna ask but I just stare can I run my hands through your car wash hair <cite>McSame_as_Bush posted [p:902160409] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>I wonder what that means. Speculate for me, potd.</quote> It means he still cares about you but not necessarily more. I hugged my ex the other week when we got lunch, because I still care about her, even though we're both with different people. Unless you have no other options, you should probably not be living together. You'll both be able to think more clearly apart. A few years ago two of my roommates broke up right after we signed a lease. We had no spare bedroom or anything so they had to continue to share the same bed. Most awkward year ever.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
JixHedgehog 05/29/18 1:31:53 AM #54:	Jen0125 posted... It's not the time together. It's more to do with the alcoholism than the time. That's what I meant when I asked if you had been in a situation like this. Oh! With a problem/issue/habit? No. We were 2 very boring people, so yeah, I can not relate. McSame_as_Bush posted... You'll both be able to think more clearly apart. ^ This --- Not changing my sig until Nintendo announces the Switch XL 1/12/2017 <cite>JixHedgehog posted [p:902161403] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>It's not the time together. It's more to do with the alcoholism than the time. That's what I meant when I asked if you had been in a situation like this.</quote> Oh! With a problem/issue/habit? No. We were 2 very boring people, so yeah, I can not relate. <cite>McSame_as_Bush posted...</cite> <quote>You'll both be able to think more clearly apart.</quote> ^ This</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 05/29/18 1:33:24 AM #55:	We are sleeping in different bedrooms and living separate lives right now. I'm going to therapy and my meetings. He's working and spending a lot of time with his friends. So it's not like we're around each other 24/7. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:902161452] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>We are sleeping in different bedrooms and living separate lives right now. I'm going to therapy and my meetings. He's working and spending a lot of time with his friends. So it's not like we're around each other 24/7.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
McSame_as_Bush 05/29/18 3:34:40 AM #56:	Ah. --- wanna ask but I just stare can I run my hands through your car wash hair <cite>McSame_as_Bush posted [p:902164734] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>Ah.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wolfy42 05/29/18 3:55:16 AM #57:	It may not be that simple for him either. There are things about your relationship he probably liked and misses/missed once it was over. It's also highly likely that when you were in rehab he had time to himself and realized he was unhappy, hence him breaking up with you at that point. If he is a caring guy, he probably is scared of getting back into a relationship with you for fear of it not working and hurting you when it doesn't (or getting trapped in something he isn't happy with). Heck any of that could be happening but he doesn't even know it. Best bet is if you really want to be in a relationship with him, take it slow, just try and have fun/be happy around him as much as possible, and show him you have your life under control etc. I wouldn't make a big deal about him hugging you etc, and while you might want to eventually let him know your still open to getting together again (if you have not already), I wouldn't pressure him, even after a month. Let him get comfortable with living with you and see that you have control of your life and don't need him. If he feels safe, he is either going to want to start a relationship again, or he is going to want to eventually move out etc. Doesn't sound like he's working towards moving out, so I'd say he's at least open to getting back together. I'd suggest focusing on your own life for now, and honestly don't even know if being in a relationship right now is the best idea. Get your own life in order, boost your own self worth/self esteem etc, and once you feel confident in yourself, then consider being in a relationship. Might be better to just stay friends with him for now, at least for a month or two, and then if you both want to get back together, you will be centered in who you are, and your new life, and not in the middle of changing. Doesn't mean he can't be a good friend though, or hug you etc. I just think in such cases, unless your already in a commited relationship, it's best to focus on your self, and not need to worry about another persons feelings, or open yourself up to pain etc from a relationship. You can't control a relationship, but you can control yourself. --- "did you steal my f***in signature" Helly <cite>wolfy42 posted [p:902165189] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>It may not be that simple for him either. There are things about your relationship he probably liked and misses/missed once it was over. It's also highly likely that when you were in rehab he had time to himself and realized he was unhappy, hence him breaking up with you at that point. If he is a caring guy, he probably is scared of getting back into a relationship with you for fear of it not working and hurting you when it doesn't (or getting trapped in something he isn't happy with). Heck any of that could be happening but he doesn't even know it. Best bet is if you really want to be in a relationship with him, take it slow, just try and have fun/be happy around him as much as possible, and show him you have your life under control etc. I wouldn't make a big deal about him hugging you etc, and while you might want to eventually let him know your still open to getting together again (if you have not already), I wouldn't pressure him, even after a month. Let him get comfortable with living with you and see that you have control of your life and don't need him. If he feels safe, he is either going to want to start a relationship again, or he is going to want to eventually move out etc. Doesn't sound like he's working towards moving out, so I'd say he's at least open to getting back together. I'd suggest focusing on your own life for now, and honestly don't even know if being in a relationship right now is the best idea. Get your own life in order, boost your own self worth/self esteem etc, and once you feel confident in yourself, then consider being in a relationship. Might be better to just stay friends with him for now, at least for a month or two, and then if you both want to get back together, you will be centered in who you are, and your new life, and not in the middle of changing. Doesn't mean he can't be a good friend though, or hug you etc. I just think in such cases, unless your already in a commited relationship, it's best to focus on your self, and not need to worry about another persons feelings, or open yourself up to pain etc from a relationship. You can't control a relationship, but you can control yourself.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 05/29/18 9:41:23 AM #58:	The conversation I'm going to have in two weeks isn't one where he needs to decide if he wants to be back in a relationship with me right now. But I'm devoting too much headspace to this idea of a possible relationship right now and living together isn't helping. So I'm going to check in and decide whether we should continue to live together or not. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:902172858] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>The conversation I'm going to have in two weeks isn't one where he needs to decide if he wants to be back in a relationship with me right now. But I'm devoting too much headspace to this idea of a possible relationship right now and living together isn't helping. So I'm going to check in and decide whether we should continue to live together or not.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheCyborgNinja 05/29/18 11:07:46 AM #59:	Living with an ex seems like it'd be hard. I think not doing that or getting back together are probably the only options. --- "message parlor" ? do you mean the post office ? - SlayerX888 <cite>TheCyborgNinja posted [p:902176269] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>Living with an ex seems like it'd be hard. I think not doing that or getting back together are probably the only options.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/29/18 11:14:14 AM #60:	Jen0125 posted... But I'm devoting too much headspace to this idea of a possible relationship right now and living together isn't helping. So I'm going to check in and decide whether we should continue to live together or not. Sounds a good plan tbh. Of course you already know your road to recovery is much more import for you right now. --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:902176557] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>But I'm devoting too much headspace to this idea of a possible relationship right now and living together isn't helping. So I'm going to check in and decide whether we should continue to live together or not.</quote> Sounds a good plan tbh. Of course you already know your road to recovery is much more import for you right now.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Black_Crusher 05/29/18 11:21:29 AM #61:	green dragon posted... Or it could just be a hug between friends. I hug my friends sometimes Naw, he wants the d --- Wild West Action: The Outlaw, The Drunk, & The Whore! https://store.steampowered.com/app/853610/ <cite>Black_Crusher posted [p:902176882] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>green dragon posted...</cite> <quote>Or it could just be a hug between friends. I hug my friends sometimes</quote> Naw, he wants the d</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 05/29/18 11:42:07 AM #62:	He hugged me again when he got home from work while I was laying in bed. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:902177847] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>He hugged me again when he got home from work while I was laying in bed.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/29/18 12:03:22 PM #63:	Black_Crusher posted... he wants the d --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:902178852] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>Black_Crusher posted...</cite> <quote>he wants the d</quote></quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wolfy42 05/29/18 12:04:37 PM #64:	Jen0125 posted... He hugged me again when he got home from work while I was laying in bed. Hugging someone on the way to work etc is a friend thing to do. Hugging someone while they are laying in bed is not. I've hugged many friends before, but no friend has ever hugged me while I was laying in my bed lol. --- "did you steal my f***in signature" Helly <cite>wolfy42 posted [p:902178913] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>He hugged me again when he got home from work while I was laying in bed.</quote> Hugging someone on the way to work etc is a friend thing to do. Hugging someone while they are laying in bed is not. I've hugged many friends before, but no friend has ever hugged me while I was laying in my bed lol.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 05/29/18 12:55:34 PM #65:	Jen0125 posted... FinalFantasyVII posted... he wants to have non-committal sex with you. I'm not doing that. I have some self-respect now. Good. I think you should be careful because he may think his feelings are coming back but actually hes just missing the sex I mean Idk its just something thats I think COULD happen so be weary of that~ I think he has something he doesnt understand (maybe he just misses you somewhat even though you live together, maybe he misses the sex, maybe his feelings are coming back, or maybe he is past it so much that being platonic doesnt hurt its just natural) And I think he will be confused on which of those is happening and you guys have to navigate that yourselves basically. --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:902181622] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>FinalFantasyVII posted...</cite> <quote>he wants to have non-committal sex with you.</quote> I'm not doing that. I have some self-respect now.</quote> Good. I think you should be careful because he may think his feelings are coming back but actually hes just missing the sex I mean Idk its just something thats I think COULD happen so be weary of that~ I think he has something he doesnt understand (maybe he just misses you somewhat even though you live together, maybe he misses the sex, maybe his feelings are coming back, or maybe he is past it so much that being platonic doesnt hurt its just natural) And I think he will be confused on which of those is happening and you guys have to navigate that yourselves basically.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 05/29/18 12:55:56 PM #66:	wolfy42 posted... Jen0125 posted... He hugged me again when he got home from work while I was laying in bed. Hugging someone on the way to work etc is a friend thing to do. Hugging someone while they are laying in bed is not. I've hugged many friends before, but no friend has ever hugged me while I was laying in my bed lol. Well..I have done this a LOT --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:902181640] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>wolfy42 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>He hugged me again when he got home from work while I was laying in bed.</quote> Hugging someone on the way to work etc is a friend thing to do. Hugging someone while they are laying in bed is not. I've hugged many friends before, but no friend has ever hugged me while I was laying in my bed lol.</quote> Well..I have done this a LOT</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 05/29/18 1:04:09 PM #67:	LittleRoyal posted... wolfy42 posted... Jen0125 posted... He hugged me again when he got home from work while I was laying in bed. Hugging someone on the way to work etc is a friend thing to do. Hugging someone while they are laying in bed is not. I've hugged many friends before, but no friend has ever hugged me while I was laying in my bed lol. Well..I have done this a LOT You also said you're overly touchy with your friends. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:902182040] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>wolfy42 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>He hugged me again when he got home from work while I was laying in bed.</quote> Hugging someone on the way to work etc is a friend thing to do. Hugging someone while they are laying in bed is not. I've hugged many friends before, but no friend has ever hugged me while I was laying in my bed lol.</quote> Well..I have done this a LOT</quote> You also said you're overly touchy with your friends.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
LittleRoyal 05/29/18 1:04:41 PM #68:	Yeah I guess. Sorry. Didnt mean anything I gave a serious response to your topic a bit above that ^^ --- I-I really needed this~~ Why does everyone think I like girls? <cite>LittleRoyal posted [p:902182071] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>Yeah I guess. Sorry. Didnt mean anything I gave a serious response to your topic a bit above that ^^</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CarefreeDude 05/29/18 1:22:56 PM #69:	It just means he wanted to touch your boobs again. Or it means he still has some lingering feelings for you, and wanted to give you a hug despite moving on. Or it could just be out of habit. But it's still probably because he wanted to touch your boobs --- 3DS friend code: 5112-3770-6561 IGN: Chris Rock Safari: Pupitar, Rhydon, dwebble <cite>CarefreeDude posted [p:902183038] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>It just means he wanted to touch your boobs again. Or it means he still has some lingering feelings for you, and wanted to give you a hug despite moving on. Or it could just be out of habit. But it's still probably because he wanted to touch your boobs</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
FatalAccident 05/29/18 1:49:08 PM #70:	green dragon posted... He was cold, and just needed a quick spike of your body heat lool --- walks away <cite>FatalAccident posted [p:902184369] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>green dragon posted...</cite> <quote>He was cold, and just needed a quick spike of your body heat</quote> lool</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Mead 05/29/18 1:54:12 PM #71:	Bed hugs are romance hugs It is known --- If they drag you through the mud, it doesnt change whats in your blood <cite>Mead posted [p:902184667] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>Bed hugs are romance hugs It is known</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Katymac 05/29/18 2:16:30 PM #72:	Don't read into it. Go on about your buisness and let him do his. I can promise you if your both happy that is all that matters but you cant force love on yorself or him. --- Not everyone is lucky enough to understand how delicious it is to suffer. -K. Hepburn <cite>Katymac posted [p:902185987] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>Don't read into it. Go on about your buisness and let him do his. I can promise you if your both happy that is all that matters but you cant force love on yorself or him.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wolfy42 05/29/18 2:45:27 PM #73:	He could also be nervous you'll reject him at this point, since he may feel guilty about breaking up with you. I don't know him, and barely know you (like just internet know you lol), so it's pretty much impossible to give good advice, but I do think it's best to focus on yourself right now. It's great if you have a support system while going through this, but you don't want to complicate things more then necessary either. If he cares for you, I would suggest he just be there for you as a friend for a bit then slowly move into a relationship after you both have some time to regather yourselves. Makes it much harder that you are living together of course, in such cases you are almost forced to either grow closer, or farther apart. Does sound like he is making moves to grow closer which is good, but...even if you do want that, you might want to seriously sit down with him and talk about the most healthy way for you both to move forward. Honestly I know you seem ok with it right now, but is he ok with cutting seriously back on how much he drinks, or at least around you, for instance? I don't even know if he drinks but from the sound of the birthday get together the other day, it sounds like he does. He was supportive of you in that situation, but is he willing to support you long term. I only even suggest having the conversation as he seems to be moving towards a romantic relationship very fast (sorry but hugging you in bed is not a "friend" hug). Normally I'd say just let things settle down and revisit it all in a month or two, if he's not willing to wait that long, then it wasn't going to work anyway. It's crazy around where I live btw, I have like 8 friends who are desperate to date a woman who actually wants a relationship and not just casual/poly stuff. No clue if it's like that where you are, but there are probably tons of guys that would be very happy to be in a relationship with you and be supportive. Don't sell yourself short, and don't settle. This isn't all about what he wants or what will make him happy, you are just as important. --- "did you steal my f***in signature" Helly <cite>wolfy42 posted [p:902187806] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>He could also be nervous you'll reject him at this point, since he may feel guilty about breaking up with you. I don't know him, and barely know you (like just internet know you lol), so it's pretty much impossible to give good advice, but I do think it's best to focus on yourself right now. It's great if you have a support system while going through this, but you don't want to complicate things more then necessary either. If he cares for you, I would suggest he just be there for you as a friend for a bit then slowly move into a relationship after you both have some time to regather yourselves. Makes it much harder that you are living together of course, in such cases you are almost forced to either grow closer, or farther apart. Does sound like he is making moves to grow closer which is good, but...even if you do want that, you might want to seriously sit down with him and talk about the most healthy way for you both to move forward. Honestly I know you seem ok with it right now, but is he ok with cutting seriously back on how much he drinks, or at least around you, for instance? I don't even know if he drinks but from the sound of the birthday get together the other day, it sounds like he does. He was supportive of you in that situation, but is he willing to support you long term. I only even suggest having the conversation as he seems to be moving towards a romantic relationship very fast (sorry but hugging you in bed is not a "friend" hug). Normally I'd say just let things settle down and revisit it all in a month or two, if he's not willing to wait that long, then it wasn't going to work anyway. It's crazy around where I live btw, I have like 8 friends who are desperate to date a woman who actually wants a relationship and not just casual/poly stuff. No clue if it's like that where you are, but there are probably tons of guys that would be very happy to be in a relationship with you and be supportive. Don't sell yourself short, and don't settle. This isn't all about what he wants or what will make him happy, you are just as important.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 05/29/18 2:51:30 PM #74:	Yeah, I'm not really asking for all this advice. I'm going to do what feels right for me. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:902188172] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>Yeah, I'm not really asking for all this advice. I'm going to do what feels right for me.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wolfy42 05/29/18 2:52:55 PM #75:	Lol yeah sorry, I go into Mom mode too easy (Taking care of people my whole life makes it my natural mode). --- "did you steal my f***in signature" Helly <cite>wolfy42 posted [p:902188260] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>Lol yeah sorry, I go into Mom mode too easy (Taking care of people my whole life makes it my natural mode).</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 05/29/18 2:57:27 PM #76:	All of his socks were dirty and he was hoping you were horny. --- PSN - SunWuKung420 <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:902188528] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>All of his socks were dirty and he was hoping you were horny.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
magemaximus 05/29/18 3:04:11 PM #77:	could be trying to make you feeling better. Dudes dont like making women feel bad. --- You can't persuade fanboys. You'd be better off trying to convince a wall. ~CodeNamePlasmaSnake~ <cite>magemaximus posted [p:902188977] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>could be trying to make you feeling better. Dudes dont like making women feel bad.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 05/29/18 3:41:46 PM #78:	magemaximus posted... could be trying to make you feeling better. Dudes dont like making women feel bad. I don't feel bad though. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:902191229] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>magemaximus posted...</cite> <quote>could be trying to make you feeling better. Dudes dont like making women feel bad.</quote> I don't feel bad though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EvilMegas 05/29/18 4:17:53 PM #79:	He was sizing you up so he can eat you later, like a python. --- Official King of Black People https://imgur.com/Zk3VS3o http://imgur.com/a/UeQiE <cite>EvilMegas posted [p:902193347] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>He was sizing you up so he can eat you later, like a python.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/29/18 4:32:30 PM #80:	https://imgur.com/LqeBgfT --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:902194211] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>https://imgur.com/LqeBgfT</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Bugmeat 05/29/18 4:43:13 PM #81:	He probably farted and just wanted to pull you into the cloud. --- John Mellencamp said it best "Life goes on long after the thrill of living is gone." <cite>Bugmeat posted [p:902194796] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>He probably farted and just wanted to pull you into the cloud. </quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
TheCyborgNinja 05/29/18 4:45:55 PM #82:	LittleRoyal posted... Jen0125 posted... FinalFantasyVII posted... he wants to have non-committal sex with you. I'm not doing that. I have some self-respect now. Good. I think you should be careful because he may think his feelings are coming back but actually hes just missing the sex I mean Idk its just something thats I think COULD happen so be weary of that~ I think he has something he doesnt understand (maybe he just misses you somewhat even though you live together, maybe he misses the sex, maybe his feelings are coming back, or maybe he is past it so much that being platonic doesnt hurt its just natural) And I think he will be confused on which of those is happening and you guys have to navigate that yourselves basically. That makes sense. He likely feels things, including horniness. --- "message parlor" ? do you mean the post office ? - SlayerX888 <cite>TheCyborgNinja posted [p:902194934] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>LittleRoyal posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>FinalFantasyVII posted...</cite> <quote>he wants to have non-committal sex with you.</quote> I'm not doing that. I have some self-respect now.</quote> Good. I think you should be careful because he may think his feelings are coming back but actually hes just missing the sex I mean Idk its just something thats I think COULD happen so be weary of that~ I think he has something he doesnt understand (maybe he just misses you somewhat even though you live together, maybe he misses the sex, maybe his feelings are coming back, or maybe he is past it so much that being platonic doesnt hurt its just natural) And I think he will be confused on which of those is happening and you guys have to navigate that yourselves basically.</quote> That makes sense. He likely feels things, including horniness.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Dikitain 05/29/18 5:05:27 PM #83:	Haven't read the whole chain, but it was probably a "I care about you as a friend" hug, not a "I still want to be together" hug. I mean pretty much every break-up I had ended with a hug because while we didn't want to be together anymore, we still understood that we were both going to be heading into difficult times after being together for so long. Granted, I never had a "bad" breakup and I don't know your situation but I am just saying don't read too much into it. --- I am a senior software engineer. If you see me post here, I am tired of writing TPS reports. <cite>Dikitain posted [p:902196110] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>Haven't read the whole chain, but it was probably a "I care about you as a friend" hug, not a "I still want to be together" hug. I mean pretty much every break-up I had ended with a hug because while we didn't want to be together anymore, we still understood that we were both going to be heading into difficult times after being together for so long. Granted, I never had a "bad" breakup and I don't know your situation but I am just saying don't read too much into it.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 05/29/18 5:17:45 PM #84:	Our breakup wasn't bad. It's just confusing and complicated because of the situation and the conversation we had when I got home. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:902196868] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>Our breakup wasn't bad. It's just confusing and complicated because of the situation and the conversation we had when I got home.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
yutterh 05/29/18 5:22:12 PM #85:	Jen0125 posted... He hugged me again when he got home from work while I was laying in bed. He obviously misses you and loves you. Just like you love him still. When you truly love someone, you simply never stop loving them. Unless they do some crazy ass shit of course. I think the main thing is he is happy your getting yourself help and actively trying. Hes probably really happy for you and glad. Relationships are hard work and require a lot of trust. So just be patient and things may just natural fall back into place. --- i7-5820K 3.3GHz, Asus X99-DELUXE, Corsair H110i GTX, 850 EVO 1TB, EVGA GTX 970 4GB FTW ACX2.0, Corsair 760T, EVGA 850W, Orion Spark, Proteus Core, Benq BL3200PT <cite>yutterh posted [p:902197116] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>He hugged me again when he got home from work while I was laying in bed.</quote> He obviously misses you and loves you. Just like you love him still. When you truly love someone, you simply never stop loving them. Unless they do some crazy ass shit of course. I think the main thing is he is happy your getting yourself help and actively trying. Hes probably really happy for you and glad. Relationships are hard work and require a lot of trust. So just be patient and things may just natural fall back into place.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jiggy101011 05/29/18 5:50:32 PM #86:	Wow ive been away from potd for awhile. Wasnt aware you and the mexican broke it off. Sorry to hear Jen! Hope you and RC are still friends though. --- Gamertag: F1RE v2 PSN ID: F1REx Man got me a 9 and she sexy. <cite>Jiggy101011 posted [p:902198849] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>Wow ive been away from potd for awhile. Wasnt aware you and the mexican broke it off. Sorry to hear Jen! Hope you and RC are still friends though.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 05/29/18 5:58:59 PM #87:	Jiggy101011 posted... Wow ive been away from potd for awhile. Wasnt aware you and the mexican broke it off. Sorry to hear Jen! Hope you and RC are still friends though. RC disappeared from potd. --- PSN - SunWuKung420 <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:902199388] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jiggy101011 posted...</cite> <quote>Wow ive been away from potd for awhile. Wasnt aware you and the mexican broke it off. Sorry to hear Jen! Hope you and RC are still friends though.</quote> RC disappeared from potd.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 05/29/18 6:00:44 PM #88:	Jiggy101011 posted... Hope you and RC are still friends though. Of course, RC and I are bffes. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:902199491] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jiggy101011 posted...</cite> <quote>Hope you and RC are still friends though.</quote> Of course, RC and I are bffes.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Ferarri619 05/29/18 6:23:33 PM #89:	Cook him and make Ex BF burgers, then have a BBQ with PotD. I'll have mine with no relish, extra mayo, pickles, lettuce, tomato, onion and 2 slices of cheddar cheese. --- ~Nintendo 64. Get N or Get out. Coming Fall 1996~ <cite>Ferarri619 posted [p:902200797] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>Cook him and make Ex BF burgers, then have a BBQ with PotD. I'll have mine with no relish, extra mayo, pickles, lettuce, tomato, onion and 2 slices of cheddar cheese.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
wwinterj25 05/29/18 8:22:32 PM #90:	Bugmeat posted... He probably farted and just wanted to pull you into the cloud. Yeah I'll go with this too. SunWuKung420 posted... RC disappeared from potd. I knew something was very off with Jens topics lately. Now I know why! --- One who knows nothing can understand nothing. http://psnprofiles.com/wwinterj - https://imgur.com/kDysIcd <cite>wwinterj25 posted [p:902207608] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>Bugmeat posted...</cite> <quote>He probably farted and just wanted to pull you into the cloud. </quote> Yeah I'll go with this too. <cite>SunWuKung420 posted...</cite> <quote>RC disappeared from potd.</quote> I knew something was very off with Jens topics lately. Now I know why!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CarefreeDude 05/29/18 10:48:52 PM #91:	SunWuKung420 posted... Jiggy101011 posted... Wow ive been away from potd for awhile. Wasnt aware you and the mexican broke it off. Sorry to hear Jen! Hope you and RC are still friends though. RC disappeared from potd. Rc is taking a break from the internet to spend time with her fiance --- 3DS friend code: 5112-3770-6561 IGN: Chris Rock Safari: Pupitar, Rhydon, dwebble <cite>CarefreeDude posted [p:902217212] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>SunWuKung420 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Jiggy101011 posted...</cite> <quote>Wow ive been away from potd for awhile. Wasnt aware you and the mexican broke it off. Sorry to hear Jen! Hope you and RC are still friends though.</quote> RC disappeared from potd.</quote> Rc is taking a break from the internet to spend time with her fiance</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Blightzkrieg 05/29/18 10:54:34 PM #92:	CarefreeDude posted... SunWuKung420 posted... Jiggy101011 posted... Wow ive been away from potd for awhile. Wasnt aware you and the mexican broke it off. Sorry to hear Jen! Hope you and RC are still friends though. RC disappeared from potd. Rc is taking a break from the internet to spend time with her fiance When did she get engaged? --- https://imgur.com/WeQQNi7 <cite>Blightzkrieg posted [p:902217577] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>CarefreeDude posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SunWuKung420 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Jiggy101011 posted...</cite> <quote>Wow ive been away from potd for awhile. Wasnt aware you and the mexican broke it off. Sorry to hear Jen! Hope you and RC are still friends though.</quote> RC disappeared from potd.</quote> Rc is taking a break from the internet to spend time with her fiance</quote> When did she get engaged?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
EclairReturns 05/29/18 10:57:38 PM #93:	I thought she just broke up with some bloke, and went searching for other blokes or gals, or something. She couldn't have gotten engaged that fast, could she? --- Number XII: Larxene. The Organization's Savage Nymph. <cite>EclairReturns posted [p:902217775] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote>I thought she just broke up with some bloke, and went searching for other blokes or gals, or something. She couldn't have gotten engaged that fast, could she?</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 05/29/18 11:27:54 PM #94:	Jen0125 posted... When I got home he said he was confused and wanted to continue to live together to see if his feelings for me would come back. look i'm no relationship expert, but just hanging out to wait and see if he one day wakes up and falls in love with you again is not healthy. i understand this is probably the best living situation for you atm and i take no qualm with that, but please tell me you wouldn't consider getting back with him if he asked you. i get you may have been a dick to him prior to rehab, but that doesn't mean he's allowed to keep you on the hook and be a dick to you in return Blightzkrieg posted... CarefreeDude posted... SunWuKung420 posted... Jiggy101011 posted... Wow ive been away from potd for awhile. Wasnt aware you and the mexican broke it off. Sorry to hear Jen! Hope you and RC are still friends though. RC disappeared from potd. Rc is taking a break from the internet to spend time with her fiance When did she get engaged? We got engaged a few weeks ago. April 20th, to be precise. We couldn't be happier~! --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) 2018 NFLB Summersim (2-4): https://imgur.com/7cjNtgQ <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:902219530] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>When I got home he said he was confused and wanted to continue to live together to see if his feelings for me would come back.</quote> look i'm no relationship expert, but just hanging out to wait and see if he one day wakes up and falls in love with you again is not healthy. i understand this is probably the best living situation for you atm and i take no qualm with that, but please tell me you wouldn't consider getting back with him if he asked you. i get you may have been a dick to him prior to rehab, but that doesn't mean he's allowed to keep you on the hook and be a dick to you in return <cite>Blightzkrieg posted...</cite> <quote><cite>CarefreeDude posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SunWuKung420 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Jiggy101011 posted...</cite> <quote>Wow ive been away from potd for awhile. Wasnt aware you and the mexican broke it off. Sorry to hear Jen! Hope you and RC are still friends though.</quote> RC disappeared from potd.</quote> Rc is taking a break from the internet to spend time with her fiance</quote> When did she get engaged?</quote> We got engaged a few weeks ago. April 20th, to be precise. We couldn't be happier~!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Jen0125 05/29/18 11:32:32 PM #95:	Muffinz0rz posted... look i'm no relationship expert, but just hanging out to wait and see if he one day wakes up and falls in love with you again is not healthy. i understand this is probably the best living situation for you atm and i take no qualm with that, but please tell me you wouldn't consider getting back with him if he asked you. i get you may have been a dick to him prior to rehab, but that doesn't mean he's allowed to keep you on the hook and be a dick to you in return I definitely would get back together with him. I love him very much. He's got to heal just as much as I have and I need to be understanding of his struggle too. But I can't be on the hook forever. I can wait what I feel is a reasonable amount of time and then move on and we can remain friends. But I'm not going to wait an indefinite amount of time. Trust me, I've thought this through and I've talked about it in my group therapy. It's not something I'm taking lightly. --- https://imgur.com/4ihiyS2 "I am not gay! Can't you get that through your head? I am very much aroused at the site of a naked woman!" - Dan0429 <cite>Jen0125 posted [p:902219788] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>Muffinz0rz posted...</cite> <quote> look i'm no relationship expert, but just hanging out to wait and see if he one day wakes up and falls in love with you again is not healthy. i understand this is probably the best living situation for you atm and i take no qualm with that, but please tell me you wouldn't consider getting back with him if he asked you. i get you may have been a dick to him prior to rehab, but that doesn't mean he's allowed to keep you on the hook and be a dick to you in return </quote> I definitely would get back together with him. I love him very much. He's got to heal just as much as I have and I need to be understanding of his struggle too. But I can't be on the hook forever. I can wait what I feel is a reasonable amount of time and then move on and we can remain friends. But I'm not going to wait an indefinite amount of time. Trust me, I've thought this through and I've talked about it in my group therapy. It's not something I'm taking lightly.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
CarefreeDude 05/29/18 11:38:03 PM #96:	Blightzkrieg posted... CarefreeDude posted... SunWuKung420 posted... Jiggy101011 posted... Wow ive been away from potd for awhile. Wasnt aware you and the mexican broke it off. Sorry to hear Jen! Hope you and RC are still friends though. RC disappeared from potd. Rc is taking a break from the internet to spend time with her fiance When did she get engaged? A couple weeks ago --- 3DS friend code: 5112-3770-6561 IGN: Chris Rock Safari: Pupitar, Rhydon, dwebble <cite>CarefreeDude posted [p:902220084] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>Blightzkrieg posted...</cite> <quote><cite>CarefreeDude posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SunWuKung420 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Jiggy101011 posted...</cite> <quote>Wow ive been away from potd for awhile. Wasnt aware you and the mexican broke it off. Sorry to hear Jen! Hope you and RC are still friends though.</quote> RC disappeared from potd.</quote> Rc is taking a break from the internet to spend time with her fiance</quote> When did she get engaged?</quote> A couple weeks ago</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
SunWuKung420 05/30/18 7:38:03 AM #97:	Muffinz0rz posted... We got engaged a few weeks ago. April 20th, to be precise. We couldn't be happier~! @RCtheWSBC Congrats. Now we see that whole rc=jen was just a ploy to mask your relationship with muffins. --- PSN - SunWuKung420 <cite>SunWuKung420 posted [p:902234493] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>Muffinz0rz posted...</cite> <quote>We got engaged a few weeks ago. April 20th, to be precise. We couldn't be happier~!</quote> @RCtheWSBC Congrats. Now we see that whole rc=jen was just a ploy to mask your relationship with muffins.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Muffinz0rz 05/30/18 10:38:54 AM #98:	SunWuKung420 posted... Muffinz0rz posted... We got engaged a few weeks ago. April 20th, to be precise. We couldn't be happier~! RCtheWSBC Congrats. Now we see that whole rc=jen was just a ploy to mask your relationship with muffins. I needed a misdirection to throw people off the scent while we could see if what we had was real. Now that I know it is, there's no need for the charade! --- Not removing this until Pat Benatar is in Super Smash Bros. (Started 8/31/2010) 2018 NFLB Summersim (3-4): https://imgur.com/7cjNtgQ <cite>Muffinz0rz posted [p:902241627] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>SunWuKung420 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Muffinz0rz posted...</cite> <quote>We got engaged a few weeks ago. April 20th, to be precise. We couldn't be happier~!</quote> RCtheWSBC Congrats. Now we see that whole rc=jen was just a ploy to mask your relationship with muffins.</quote> I needed a misdirection to throw people off the scent while we could see if what we had was real. Now that I know it is, there's no need for the charade!</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
mastermix3000 05/30/18 10:44:49 AM #99:	CarefreeDude posted... SunWuKung420 posted... Jiggy101011 posted... Wow ive been away from potd for awhile. Wasnt aware you and the mexican broke it off. Sorry to hear Jen! Hope you and RC are still friends though. RC disappeared from potd. Rc is taking a break from the internet to spend time with her fiance lmfaoooooooooooooooo why are you doin her dirty like that --- https://imgur.com/SJYOqAO <cite>mastermix3000 posted [p:902241933] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>CarefreeDude posted...</cite> <quote><cite>SunWuKung420 posted...</cite> <quote><cite>Jiggy101011 posted...</cite> <quote>Wow ive been away from potd for awhile. Wasnt aware you and the mexican broke it off. Sorry to hear Jen! Hope you and RC are still friends though.</quote> RC disappeared from potd.</quote> Rc is taking a break from the internet to spend time with her fiance</quote> lmfaoooooooooooooooo why are you doin her dirty like that</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
Black_Crusher 05/30/18 1:51:24 PM #100:	Jen0125 posted... Our breakup wasn't bad. It's just confusing and complicated because of the situation and the conversation we had when I got home. Why are you guys still living together anyhow? That'll only cause problems, like this. --- Wild West Action: The Outlaw, The Drunk, & The Whore! https://store.steampowered.com/app/853610/ <cite>Black_Crusher posted [p:902252568] in My ex-boyf... [t:76652584]...</cite> <quote><cite>Jen0125 posted...</cite> <quote>Our breakup wasn't bad. It's just confusing and complicated because of the situation and the conversation we had when I got home.</quote> Why are you guys still living together anyhow? That'll only cause problems, like this.</quote> ... Copied to Clipboard!
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