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Damn_Underscore
04/17/18 7:38:37 PM
#51:


TC call 1-800-96-JERRY
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bobaban
04/17/18 7:39:07 PM
#52:


Ha you should have ended the relationship in your mind and then still use her to pick up other chicks. Women like men who are not single, because it shows that they are already worthy of a women.
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XxKrebsxX
04/17/18 7:39:36 PM
#53:


Dump the whore.
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Pepys Monster
04/17/18 7:42:48 PM
#54:


This is how cucks are born. Women want to open the relationship and the man is at a crossroad. Will he keep his dignity and leave, or will he stay and be cucked? The choice is yours.
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bulletproofvita
04/17/18 7:42:49 PM
#55:


Vermander posted...
Letron_James posted...
Dont

Unless shes down fo3 ffm threesums, and even then just keep.her as a pocket pussy


That is about how I mathematically view this.


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Banjo2553
04/17/18 7:43:15 PM
#56:


Lmao, if she wasn't fine with you fucking other chicks then dump her ass.
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butthole666
04/17/18 7:46:35 PM
#57:


Vermander posted...
Guess she has romantic feelings for her friend, but not sexual attraction.

So Ive gotta shut this down right?

Yeah that's like the exact opposite of how that usually goes lmao

"Poly" folks are just extreme narcissists like 9/10 times. Open relationships n doin the nasty w other ppl is one thing, but the multiple partners shit always just seems like a really selfish person showing their colors.
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butthole666
04/17/18 7:47:56 PM
#58:


Vermander posted...
This is straight up what I said to her:

I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.

This is also very selfish, though
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HydraSlayer82
04/17/18 7:48:59 PM
#59:


Sounds like she wants to fuck this other dude or already has.
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HotMaladorianAI
04/17/18 8:26:29 PM
#60:


butthole666 posted...
Vermander posted...
This is straight up what I said to her:

I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.

This is also very selfish, though


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lincoln002
04/17/18 8:34:57 PM
#61:


@Howl dropping serious knowledge in this thread
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legendarylemur
04/17/18 8:37:06 PM
#62:


butthole666 posted...
Vermander posted...
This is straight up what I said to her:

I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.

This is also very selfish, though

An ultimatum isn't selfish. It's more of a necessity in these kinds of situations
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BarneyBosco
04/17/18 8:43:43 PM
#63:


Letron_James posted...
Dont

Unless shes down fo3 ffm threesums, and even then just keep.her as a pocket pussy

This, don't throw away your shoes until you get a new pair.
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stoltenberg11
04/17/18 9:25:15 PM
#64:


so tc have yall talked anymore about it
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SSBBSB
04/17/18 9:30:25 PM
#65:


ABANDON SHIP!

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LittleRoyal
04/17/18 9:34:20 PM
#66:


Topics like these thst remind me of CEs disgusting view of women
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Polycosm
04/17/18 9:35:51 PM
#67:


Nope nope nope.

The only way the male partner doesn't get completely screwed in a deal like this is if you agree to swing together, never separate. And it's gotta be purely sexual; cut down any romantic feelings before they can fester.

I wouldn't entertain her suggestion if I were you. Not a chance. However, I also wouldn't necessarily end the relationship right away. Maybe she's being totally honest with you. I'd rather have a woman who asked, instead of one who cheated behind my back.
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Vegy
04/17/18 9:39:48 PM
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LinksLiege
04/17/18 9:41:51 PM
#69:


Polycosm posted...
I wouldn't entertain her suggestion if I were you. Not a chance. However, I also wouldn't necessarily end the relationship right away. Maybe she's being totally honest with you. I'd rather have a woman who asked, instead of one who cheated behind my back.

Yeah.

It's cute how literally asking before doing anything somehow turns into "She's getting blasted with dick left and right already man" by the throngs of forever-alone CEmen
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Nomadic View
04/17/18 9:42:47 PM
#70:


I want to know the text messages back and forth if you dont mind posting them.

How did this play out?
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Vermander
04/17/18 10:01:10 PM
#71:


Well, weve been talking. She wants me to read this article.
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stoltenberg11
04/17/18 10:04:02 PM
#72:


Vermander posted...
Well, weve been talking. She wants me to read this article.

oh man. an article? im sure its explaining how open relationships are healthier right?
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bulletproofvita
04/17/18 10:11:00 PM
#73:


Vermander posted...
Well, weve been talking. She wants me to read this article.

Ffs
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HotMaladorianAI
04/17/18 10:13:21 PM
#74:


LinksLiege posted...
Polycosm posted...
I wouldn't entertain her suggestion if I were you. Not a chance. However, I also wouldn't necessarily end the relationship right away. Maybe she's being totally honest with you. I'd rather have a woman who asked, instead of one who cheated behind my back.

Yeah.

It's cute how literally asking before doing anything somehow turns into "She's getting blasted with dick left and right already man" by the throngs of forever-alone CEmen


I mean, its a pretty good assumption.
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Nomadic View
04/17/18 10:14:31 PM
#75:


Im betting its either Vox or Buzzfeed.
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TheGoldenEel
04/17/18 10:18:55 PM
#76:


Lol this is still going on?

How many years have you been in this garbage relationship?

How many times have you broken up for good this time?

Come on dude have some self respect
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RchHomieQuanChi
04/17/18 10:19:29 PM
#77:


"I want an open relationship."
"Well, I guess that means I get to fuck other people, then."
"Err.....no, that isn't what I want."
"Well then adios!"
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Orthopox12
04/17/18 10:21:28 PM
#78:


LittleRoyal posted...
Topics like these thst remind me of CEs disgusting view of women

Do you really need a reminder? Either way what shes proposing is disgusting and wrong as well.
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Polycosm
04/17/18 10:25:09 PM
#79:


HotMaladorianAI posted...
LinksLiege posted...
Polycosm posted...
I wouldn't entertain her suggestion if I were you. Not a chance. However, I also wouldn't necessarily end the relationship right away. Maybe she's being totally honest with you. I'd rather have a woman who asked, instead of one who cheated behind my back.

Yeah.

It's cute how literally asking before doing anything somehow turns into "She's getting blasted with dick left and right already man" by the throngs of forever-alone CEmen

I mean, its a pretty good assumption.

If she's already cheating then why ask for permission now? Your assumption relies on this woman having a sudden epiphany, an abrupt change of heart, unexpected guilt, or something along those lines. It also relies on her and several men being able to keep this a secret for however long. That requires a larger leap of faith than simply taking her words at face value.
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IfGodCouldDie
04/17/18 10:26:51 PM
#80:


HotMaladorianAI posted...
butthole666 posted...
Vermander posted...
This is straight up what I said to her:

I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.

This is also very selfish, though


Facepalm

legendarylemur posted...
butthole666 posted...
Vermander posted...
This is straight up what I said to her:

I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.

This is also very selfish, though

An ultimatum isn't selfish. It's more of a necessity in these kinds of situations

He's not wrong though. To say you'd only be ok with ffm threesomes is selfish. If he were to be ok with all threesomes, ya know ffm/mmf threesomes at an equal amount than it would be fair. ffm threesomes are more geared towards a mans fantasies than a womans typically.
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Tadamoto42
04/17/18 10:28:41 PM
#81:


You should have done what this guy did:

ReMcGRE
blMSP78

Basically, girl asks for an open relationship, guy dumps her right there on the spot, and breaks all contact with her.
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Howl
04/17/18 10:29:03 PM
#82:


Polycosm posted...
HotMaladorianAI posted...
LinksLiege posted...
Polycosm posted...
I wouldn't entertain her suggestion if I were you. Not a chance. However, I also wouldn't necessarily end the relationship right away. Maybe she's being totally honest with you. I'd rather have a woman who asked, instead of one who cheated behind my back.

Yeah.

It's cute how literally asking before doing anything somehow turns into "She's getting blasted with dick left and right already man" by the throngs of forever-alone CEmen

I mean, its a pretty good assumption.

If she's already cheating then why ask for permission now? Your assumption relies on this woman having a sudden epiphany, an abrupt change of heart, unexpected guilt, or something along those lines. It also relies on her and several men being able to keep this a secret for however long. That requires a larger leap of faith than simply taking her words at face value.


Because people do things and don't necessarily feel guilty about it and then they ask the question just to see if you'd be ok with it after they already did it. If you are then there's no reason to keep hiding it. If you aren't they probably don't care because they've already gone through with it anyway.
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HotMaladorianAI
04/17/18 10:34:20 PM
#83:


Polycosm posted...
HotMaladorianAI posted...
LinksLiege posted...
Polycosm posted...
I wouldn't entertain her suggestion if I were you. Not a chance. However, I also wouldn't necessarily end the relationship right away. Maybe she's being totally honest with you. I'd rather have a woman who asked, instead of one who cheated behind my back.

Yeah.

It's cute how literally asking before doing anything somehow turns into "She's getting blasted with dick left and right already man" by the throngs of forever-alone CEmen

I mean, its a pretty good assumption.

If she's already cheating then why ask for permission now? Your assumption relies on this woman having a sudden epiphany, an abrupt change of heart, unexpected guilt, or something along those lines. It also relies on her and several men being able to keep this a secret for however long. That requires a larger leap of faith than simply taking her words at face value.


Women can keep cheating secret under wraps pretty well. And the other guy here isnt exactly gonna reach out and say, Hey dude, just fyi, Im fucking ya bitch.
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IfGodCouldDie
04/17/18 10:39:28 PM
#84:


Vermander posted...
Well, weve been talking. She wants me to read this article.

Link?
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langystar
04/17/18 10:39:50 PM
#85:


TheGoldenEel posted...
Lol this is still going on?

How many years have you been in this garbage relationship?

How many times have you broken up for good this time?

Come on dude have some self respect

Is this the same chick he was complaining about a year ago?
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Orthopox12
04/17/18 10:42:01 PM
#86:


Honestly man id listen to the guys saying to go for it until you find someone else worth while. Maybe get it in her ass a few times. But its def over.
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catboy0_0
04/17/18 10:45:57 PM
#87:


get outta there! abort!
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markconigliaro
04/17/18 10:45:58 PM
#88:


So many people in this topic don't know what an open relationship is. Hint, it's not banging who ever you want whenever you want (most of the time, that's very rare).

Some serious trust issues in here too.

LittleRoyal posted...
Topics like these thst remind me of CEs disgusting view of women


That too.
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Orthopox12
04/17/18 10:49:22 PM
#89:


markconigliaro posted...
So many people in this topic don't know what an open relationship is. Hint, it's not banging who ever you want whenever you want (most of the time, that's very rare).

Some serious trust issues in here too.

LittleRoyal posted...
Topics like these thst remind me of CEs disgusting view of women


That too.

How about you elaborate on your vague high road response? Im sure the TC could use your perspective as well.
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butthole666
04/17/18 10:51:25 PM
#90:


Tadamoto42 posted...
You should have done what this guy did:

ReMcGRE
blMSP78

Basically, girl asks for an open relationship, guy dumps her right there on the spot, and breaks all contact with her.

Nah that guy is a POS
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thronedfire2
04/17/18 10:51:30 PM
#91:


Polycosm posted...
HotMaladorianAI posted...
LinksLiege posted...
Polycosm posted...
I wouldn't entertain her suggestion if I were you. Not a chance. However, I also wouldn't necessarily end the relationship right away. Maybe she's being totally honest with you. I'd rather have a woman who asked, instead of one who cheated behind my back.

Yeah.

It's cute how literally asking before doing anything somehow turns into "She's getting blasted with dick left and right already man" by the throngs of forever-alone CEmen

I mean, its a pretty good assumption.

If she's already cheating then why ask for permission now? Your assumption relies on this woman having a sudden epiphany, an abrupt change of heart, unexpected guilt, or something along those lines. It also relies on her and several men being able to keep this a secret for however long. That requires a larger leap of faith than simply taking her words at face value.


because all she has to do is lie about the timeline and she's off the hook for cheating before the open relationship?
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Vermander
04/17/18 10:51:37 PM
#92:


IfGodCouldDie posted...
HotMaladorianAI posted...
butthole666 posted...
Vermander posted...
This is straight up what I said to her:

I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.

This is also very selfish, though


Facepalm

legendarylemur posted...
butthole666 posted...
Vermander posted...
This is straight up what I said to her:

I am not against threesomes with another woman, I am against you having a relationship with another man. Even if I say yes, I will cease to take our relationship seriously anymore, take the pass to bang other chicks (and lie about our open relationship to them) and then eventually leave you when I no longer care.

This is also very selfish, though

An ultimatum isn't selfish. It's more of a necessity in these kinds of situations

He's not wrong though. To say you'd only be ok with ffm threesomes is selfish. If he were to be ok with all threesomes, ya know ffm/mmf threesomes at an equal amount than it would be fair. ffm threesomes are more geared towards a mans fantasies than a womans typically.


I guess I should have explained, my girlfriend is bi, and has dated/slept with women.
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KillSocialism
04/17/18 10:53:44 PM
#93:


Vermander posted...
Guess she has romantic feelings for her friend, but not sexual attraction.

So Ive gotta shut this down right?

>romantic feelings for friend
>no sexual attraction

WHAT the fuck are you smoking dude?

Break up with her immediately. She doesn't respect you at all, and if you have kids with this thot, you will regret it.
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markconigliaro
04/17/18 11:01:56 PM
#94:


Orthopox12 posted...
markconigliaro posted...
So many people in this topic don't know what an open relationship is. Hint, it's not banging who ever you want whenever you want (most of the time, that's very rare).

Some serious trust issues in here too.

LittleRoyal posted...
Topics like these thst remind me of CEs disgusting view of women


That too.

How about you elaborate on your vague high road response? Im sure the TC could use your perspective as well.


Because I'm about to go to bed and didn't want to start a discussion now. But to put it simply, it's all about communication.There are rules in an open relationship, very, very strict rules. Some standard rules being only 1 partner, must be approved by the other party, all people communicate with each other so there's nothing going on behind backs (including all meetups), and there is still a primary couple and most time is spent with them, maybe even a limited amount of time with the other person. Yes there is still cheating in an open relationship. If your picking up a girl at a bar and using the excuse "it's not cheating, we have an open relationship!" then no, your wrong, that's cheating because the rules have been broken. Some people do have a free for all "don't ask don't tell" policy, but I don't understand that one at all, that fails very often.

And my comment about trust issues is all the people saying that bringing up the conversation is grounds for breaking up/she's already hooking up with someone. That just sounds like an unhealthy relationship.
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Howl
04/17/18 11:02:05 PM
#95:


markconigliaro posted...
So many people in this topic don't know what an open relationship is. Hint, it's not banging who ever you want whenever you want (most of the time, that's very rare).

Some serious trust issues in here too.

LittleRoyal posted...
Topics like these thst remind me of CEs disgusting view of women


That too.


Are you married with kids? I'm asking honestly because nothing I've said in this topic is remotely misogynistic or even close. Everything I've said is just good advice for anyone to listen to whether they are male or female.
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kinetika_
04/17/18 11:03:46 PM
#96:


Banjo2553 posted...
Lmao, if she wasn't fine with you fucking other chicks then dump her ass.


This, wtf. Too many cucks these days over the fear of being alone/single.
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KillSocialism
04/17/18 11:04:32 PM
#97:


butthole666 posted...
Tadamoto42 posted...
You should have done what this guy did:

ReMcGRE
blMSP78

Basically, girl asks for an open relationship, guy dumps her right there on the spot, and breaks all contact with her.

Nah that guy is a POS

Nah, that guy is a real fucking man.
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Aloner
04/17/18 11:09:08 PM
#98:


Wasn't TC's gf fat and abusive?
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Drunken_Idiot
04/17/18 11:11:09 PM
#99:


Vermander posted...
Well, weve been talking. She wants me to read this article.

Fucks sake man. The woman is asking you to read an article AFTER asking you for an open relationship? Dude, theres something wrong IN the relationship if shes asking to bang other dudes. She cant remain committed to you only. That means she doesnt value your relationship enough, or you enough, if she wants to be like that. Take the advice of everyone sane enough who has told you this already:

ABANDON SHIP WHILE YOU CAN.
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FightingGames
04/17/18 11:11:57 PM
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